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elmagnifico411:
she's opened the door already, and you’re asking us if you should enter the place.. no oh, stay outside let rain beat that your small brain. Please help me collect her number.. Ozuor

I have collected her number today

Starboytwo:
Bro, you suppose don collect that number that very day you go meet them collect laptop...

finally I don collect her number today

KingDashx:
Any woman that's likes a man nowadays has as strong motive
Yall men be careful so you dont end up like burnt army boy.

this is exactly what happened to me when I was teacher in secondary school teaching maths, a group of ss2 girls came to me and started saying sir you are very handsome, sir you have pointed nose, pointed mouth and pink lips that every thing about me is pointed, one of them ask me if I married, I said no, they now told me to come marry one of them I ask them what did you that I will come and Mary you they started saying sir you have insulted us that they have gone far not because am seeing them with school uniform lo I ran.

Pupanchie:
For your peace of mind, just be yourself, do what you were instructed to tell or teach them but you won't always understand how woman set trap for one as this is just part of it, shalom

they will finish their program on Friday 10th

We have this group of nurses that came to my place of work for a program.

The first day that I saw them when I wanted to supervise them on ICT, I noticed two nurses looking at me and the other one was telling the other that two of you resemble, I pretend like I did not see them, but already I have liked the one she was telling we resemble each other and told myself that I will get her number tomorrow.

So the following day immediately I arrive at work I have not even seated down, just went straight to where they were sitting to collect laptop, her friend now asked me if am married which I said yes, she now told me that her friend said that she likes me, immediately, that one that said she likes me started saying is a lie! Is lie! Is lie!!! And they were smiling.

So, after this I didn't not collect her number again because I was thinking if I now ask her number she will be thinking is because of her friend told me she likes me.

Please, i need your advice should I go ahead to get her number or should I forget about her?

Remember I told them that am married. But I didn't tell them that am devoiced.

This is exactly what happened to me when I was teacher in a secondary school teaching maths, a group of ss2 girls came to me and started saying sir you are very handsome, sir you have pointed nose, pointed mouth and pink lips that every thing about me is pointed, one of them ask me if I married, I said no, they now told me to come marry one of them I ask them what did you that I will come and Mary you they started saying sir you have insulted us that they have gone far not because am seeing them with school uniform lo I ran.

CrownLands:
You are a good writer. Fiction can take you places

This is exactly what happened is not fiction or do you think such thing can't happen

JOACHINpedro:
Should this be an advice or regret of sexing an engaged woman?

engagement is not marriage

I saw a post were a man killed his girlfriend because she wanted to marry and decided to share my experience. A man can back from Cameroon, saw my lovely and caring girlfriend when she visited her sister, this man went through her sister to propose marriage to her and she finally accepted.

One day my girl visited me after nacking she asked me if am going to marry her, I told her that am not ready now but if she can wait for me no problem. She now open up to me that a man proposed to marry her sharp sharp and take her to Cameroon, but she has not accepted yet, because she just want to hear from me first, but I told her to go ahead and marry that am not ready. But the girl love me so much that she gave me date for final nacking.

She came on that day for the final nacking, after nacking she started crying that she is going to miss me but I gave her courage. She later followed her husband to Cameroon and that was the last I saw her until one day my sister told me that my ex girlfriend died in Cameroon while giving birth, they brought her corpse back to Nigeria for burial but I didn't go for the burial because I was so afraid to see her corpse.

So after the burial l saw her in dream, she was very happy when she saw me, she was screaming and calling my name trying to come and hug me but when I remembered that she is dead then I started begging her not to come close to me, then she stopped and went back with anger. She later turn back and started running and coming back to me again then have to ran away, immediately I woke up and started crying.

I later married her younger sister but the marriage was every day trouble to the extent that we are now separated.

Chai this thing happened to me. A man can back from Cameroon, saw my lovely and caring girlfriend when she visited her sister, this man went through her sister to propose marriage to her and she finally accepted.

One day my girl visited me after nacking she asked me if am going to marry her, I told her that am not ready now but if she can wait for me no problem. She now open up to me that a man proposed to marry her sharp sharp and take her to Cameroon, but she has not accepted yet, because she just want to hear from me first, but I told her to go ahead and marry that am not ready. But the girl love me so much that she gave me date for final nacking.

She came on that day for the final nacking, after nacking she started crying that she is going to miss me but I gave her courage. She later followed her husband to Cameroon and that was the last I saw her until one day my sister told me that my ex girlfriend died in Cameroon while giving birth, they brought her corpse to back to Nigeria for burial but I didn't go for the burial because I was so afraid to see her corpse.

So after the burial l saw her in dream, she was very happy when she saw me, she was screaming and calling my name trying to come and hug me but when I remembered that she is dead then I started begging her not to come close to me, then she stopped and went back with anger. She later turn back and started running and coming back to me again then have to ran away, immediately I woke up and started crying.

I later married her younger sister but the marriage was every day trouble to the extent that we are now separated.

Kaczynski:
it's not a bad thing to be child free


giving birth to a Child doesn't equal to be a responsible parent


lots of biological parents are abusive to their biological children



it's not a must to give birth , don't go through the trauma of pregnancy, better to adopt

please talk with sense, who will birth the one you want to adopt.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Nigerian Men Be Romantic

my wife told women afair that am not romantic when we went there on Tuesday for our marital issue

https://www.nairaland.com/8328922/just-coming-back-women-afair#133910832

She told them that am not romantic and they started laughing and told me to try and be romantic

LordBiden:
Hiv itself is fraud used by the west to sell their medications to Africans and make money while also depopulating the continent.

America itself should be the highest carriers if it where to be real because of their gay lifestyles and other immoral acts.

Go to clinic and see HIV patients

Update on https://www.nairaland.com/8324945/wife-went-women-afair#133843426

Just coming back from women afair my wife also came.

I told them all that happened how they fought me and broke my hand. One women their told my wife that from the way she is talking she is the cause of our marital problem, that she is not even supposed to be in marriage that she is not matured to be into marriage.

They told us to go and reconcile and come back after three weeks. That we don't even have any problem.

Ogeneigbo1:
I will advice you to honour their invitation with a lawyer , they might give you the custody of the kids if you present your case well. But I tell you the truth ,this fight is not worth it because the children will still go back or look for their mother when they are of age.

I know a man who fought and won his wife both in court and min of women affairs like this, but I tell now that the kids are gradually going back to their mother now that they are old enough.

So , best option for you is to separate in peace with her if that is your wish.

Do not prevent her from seeing her kids.

Your are right my friend won custody of his four boys in the customary court and now his is dead all the four boys have gone back to their mother. He died December last year from Hbp to kidney failure, so it didn't worth it, when he was in the hospital I visited him, he told me all he went through fighting for the custody of his boys and now they have gone back to their mother, that their mother is happy and laughing at him about his kidney problem.

GboyegaD:
Please honor the invitation (otherwise, it will be counted against you) and go with all evidence of violence against you as you explained in your other post.

okay I will definitely go thanks

Stevenbright:
Hope you took a snapshot of your broken figure and any other injury that you can use as evidence of their abuse against you? If yes, go and make you tell them you can't trust her and her family to take good care of the children as they are very violent.

Tell them the reason you are there is to tell them to help you take custody of your children.

yes I have the snapshot

Update on https://www.nairaland.com/8304810/want-arrest-wife-family

My wife went to women afair to report me. So I got invitation letter to come to women afair next week.

I don't think I will go there because am planning to go to court to seek for custody of my two boys. I don't want to be sending her money for my boys. Please what do you suggest should I go or not?

Onegai:
Well, it's only your side of the story we've heard so far and you certainly won't paint yourself as the Villian in it
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The minute you go to the Police station or court, your marriage is over. Is that what you want?

Think well.

Nobody has kidnapped anyone because you knew where she was and even went there. That's proof enough against that.

Yes, Grevious Bodily Harm has been committed. But again, what if they were defending themselves and can prove that you swung first? I'm just saying, lawyer fit argue all this.

Not sure why this matter escalated to violence over mere words like "give me the key to the room please". But again, this is your side of the story, bros. So we work with it.

Go and treat your hand in the hospital. Buy small Stout and eat catfish peppersoup tonight.

Perish all thought of vengeance and pride. Or you'll do and say stuff you'll regret.

Go to church and spend the New Year praying to Master Jesus.

Start reading Proverbs from Chapter 1 to the last Chapter. You'll need it, we all do, because we're all fools in the eyes of the Almighty

Buy a Tecno phone with a SIM and send it to your wife with a WRITTEN message: "please this is for me to use to speak to my children".

Make sure you call them twice a week and be a father.

As for your marriage, hmm. Again, why is your wife and sister-in-law getting so heated that things are escalating to violence?

We will discuss that at a later time. For now, let's cool down everywhere, stay calm. Okay?

After gotten married to her some one from their village told my sister that their family is very wicked, that I didn't ask before going there to marry, that any man that married in their family use to go through pain and sorrow. They mother did not marry she born all of them in her father's house with different male claiming that her father didn't have a male child so she don't need to marry. The first daughter had a broken marriage,the second daughter her husband ran away and left her with four children, the third daughter her husband left her here Nigeria went to malesia for over 15 years, she has no child for the guy she even did traditional wedding with the guy picture a year after he left to malesia thinking that the guy will come back for her, I told my wife what some one from their village told my sister that we should be prayerful that our own case is different but my wife don't even know how to pray.

I and my wife had issue and she packed some of my properties she bought with my money and left to her parents in my home town in Imo state. We from the same community some of her village people know me very well before I married her. After like three weeks I traveled down to the village to see my children on getting to my house I discovered that I forgot the key to my room in the city, but since my wife has her own key, I decided to trek to their house to collect her own key to enter inside. On getting their I told her I want to see my children but she said that I can't see my children I told her to give me her key that I forgot my own key but she told me she has lost the key which provoked me and I started shouting at her, immediately she and her sister start fighting me by picking an iron and hit it on my hand and one my right hand finger got broke even till now I can not do anything with it. My plan now is going to zone 9 Umuahia to arrest them for kidnapping my children and fighting me for coming to see my children. Please I need your advice on this and the amount am going to spend by bringing police from Umuahia to Imo state to arrest them or should I go to court direct? Remember they broke my hand and they must pay for it.

ComrDaprince:
WHAT HEALTH ISSUE

acid reflux my chest and back is so painful I can't even do anything am always uncomfortable and restless. I have gone through medical treatment for more than ten years no solution. Am tired.

I am currently having health challenge, which l have been thinking of resigning from my job due to this health issue. I have worked for five years in my company, can I apply for early retirement so that I can get some benefits to take care of my health?

Please I need your advice on this. I have worked for five years with my company but now I am having health challenge and because of this health issue I am planning to quit my job to go and face my health. Can I apply for early retirement due to health problem instead of resigning so that I can be given some benefits to take care of my health?

Walamide:
If you like it fine, if not tell her stop.
But know she's doing herself a lot of damage.

how

onumadu:
Find out what her sexual fantasies are.
You can never change a person's sexual fantasies, but you can advise them on them (if the fantasy is harmful).
You should have known these things BEFORE you married her.

she told me missionary

silvoclaira:
One question: Who buys the data she useses

she told me to download it on my phone

[quote author=suckmedownthere post=122843649]It's normal....... I have a couple of girlfriends who love sharing new porn videos to her friends on xender[/quote this is when we want to have sex, when we are naked she will ask me to put porn for her first

I don't know if it is normal. My wife like to watch porn before we have sex

With regard to my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/7404724/wife-chatt-ex-boyfriend#117925911

I have gone through my wife Facebook chatt when she was single and discovered that she had more than 20 body count and the ones that I don't even know. She visited this one after getting pregnant for and now I have asked her about it and she said yes she visited him bout they didn't have sex, she said the reason she visited him is that she was scaled that l may dump her with the pregnancy. Look at the chatt with the guy. Also see another chatt with another guy

EmahBoss:
Your wife, obviously does not love you. She could not even defend you before an ex,,, acting like she is proud to have you.... The Ex even accused her of not having changed.... That line means a lot as the ex obviously knows her more... He even called you a small boy and your wife is laughing? Guy you are a jew man, your wife don see you finish... You have cast and she has little respect or admiration for you....

Don't rush to divorce ooo, as you will likely end up with another retired woman.. Just know your worth before your wife and treat her accordingly.... Show her the messages and sleep with one eye open henceforth.


Nigerians don't have good women again... The poor and average women have so much body count, the rich and independent ones could come off as being rude and bossy... This is a hard one for men... Which will you go for?

She even told me that if not my kids she would have poison me.

Am so sad that my wife is calling me juu man

My npower payment status for April is showing failed transfer not successful. please what can i do to rectifer this