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Romance › Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 11:54am On Apr 07, 2020

schumastic:
Am only concern about the part were you said you gave her 3k for both hair(1k) and transport(2k), and she collected it. Please stick with this one cus she doesn’t have wahala.

she is nice girl if she ask and I didn't give she will not be angry she will just be cool with it

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Romance › Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 6:58am On Apr 07, 2020

[quote author=Kranediggy post=88174442]Her telling you to call every day shows that she's probably single and is hiding nothing from anyone, because she can't have a guy and be risking receiving your call anytime. Honestly you made the sex part happen, I mean its 100% your fault. No guest room for your invitee check that (same bed). She's down for you, its left for you to not misuse this opportunity and use her. From now till September can send her wrong message, then you'll come here and be complaining to us that she has someone else. Body no be firewood o! The ball is in your court. [/quote you I should go for introduction before September

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Romance › Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 10:59pm On Apr 06, 2020

evil1:
That girl obviously likes u even before you asked her to visit you.
Oga stop wasting that girls time.
Calling everyday builds a relationship more stronger and keeps communication level in check.
There is nothing wrong dating an undergraduate butvif its marriage it's the wrong option.
But I can notice from your writeup that your a stingy guy hiding under pretence of conservation.

so you want me to parck all my money and give her without knowing her aim towards me

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Romance › Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 7:31pm On Apr 06, 2020

4reala:
Na wah to U o, no be u dey use her Firstly, U say you no want sex, U take style do aka gum form say transfer no work so DAT make she no collect ur money clean mouth, forgetting DAT na u dey invite her. Now she borrow money come, U find money impress her for chicken republic abi na shoprite. After una come back, girl say she wan sleep, U come see say opportunity come, u no see cushion or floor to lie down, u jump enter bed with her as ur john Thomas say make u no miss this opportunity.
U do all this finish, come they ask us wether she wan use u, just because she say she go like make u they holla her every day. Oga, na u they try to use her, because U don dey talk say u no trust her after u don chop her finish.

we even had sex before going out when we came back we did have sex again

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Romance › Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 6:48pm On Apr 06, 2020

Zabiboy:
Which level is she??
Infact....once u r dating a girl in the university, Never take it serious...until she convocates..
If you are looking for a wife, look somewhere else....

My 2 cents tho

GL

she will enter final year by September, i will wait till next year but I will go for introduction this year

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Romance › I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 5:39pm On Apr 06, 2020

I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.

One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.

I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.

When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex.

After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.

After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.

I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.

Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.

Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?

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Career › Re: 9 Jobs That Don’t Require A University Degree by goodman41: 12:04pm On Oct 09, 2019

Nnewi Anambra

Asapchris:
OK brother, and where do you live?

Career › Re: 9 Jobs That Don’t Require A University Degree by goodman41: 6:16pm On Oct 08, 2019

I have laptop to sale

Asapchris:
Proud to be a web designer... FE designer but my problems is that I lack tools. Computer precisely. But I know one day things will get better back.

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Education › Re: Do You Regret Your 2:2 by goodman41: 11:08am On Sep 26, 2019

Olhomes:
I'm a current undergraduate here in Nigeria, but almost a month from my final exams.
There's no magic that can make me achieve a 2:1 no matter what my grades are in this final exams.

To be honest, it hurts me a bit whenever I remember my GPA knowing that I could have done better.

I'm really curious,
Graduates in the house who graduated with 2:2, are there points where you feel like you actually regretted your GPA?

what matters is ur potentiality and what u can offer

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Romance › Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by goodman41: 8:39pm On Sep 22, 2019

Chi59:
I haven't been fortunate with guys.
My first attempt at a relationship failed woefully.
And so did the second, third and fourth.
It isnt entirely without a reason though.
I'm SS. I have been a Sickle cell advocate for many years. I don't shy away from talking about it on any level.

Apart from that fact, I'm beautiful, smart, funny, very lovely, outgoing (even as an ambivert). I poses a healthy level of empathy, self esteem and confidence.

Physically I'm tall, slim, moderately endowed. I have been told that I look healthier than some "healthy" people.
So I don't know, what am I lacking?
All the guys I've been in love with, for one flimsy reason or the other just disappear for no reason. Just like that.

Of course, I don't hide my genotype status, but then they seem cool with it. Months later, he disappears and leaves me heartbroken.

Now I find myself liking someone again (the fifth guy). We haven't gotten that close but I'm scared. Should I lie to him? What do I tell him?

pls be honest to him, but in case my genotype is AA so we can marry if ur interested just contact me

Career › Re: Why Do Entrepreneurs Talk Down On 9-5? by goodman41: 8:16pm On Sep 21, 2019

thariodamaniac:
Possible but it's easier to get more contracts with coding skills... Than the others... Not that computer networking professionals aren't hired but usually it's not easy to get when starting.....

In freelancing take off speed is very important

I can write html and css to develope web pages

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Career › Re: Why Do Entrepreneurs Talk Down On 9-5? by goodman41: 6:07am On Sep 21, 2019

thariodamaniac:
Web design using WordPress... Is quite thin for a niche... Though u may get jobs you are likely to hit a sales ceiling.... The internet is made up of websites beyond WordPress alone.... I will advise you learn basic web design and development first..... Computer repair is not a soft skill.... U won't be able to get clients computer for repairs since people prefer companies.... But u can create a course on it and sell... For those who want to learn...
Computer networking.... Must be remote work.. it depends on what you are doing... Are you testing the network or evaluating it....

But u need soft skills... Web design and development is okay ...
Computer networking and network security is also possible..

support and testing

Career › Re: Why Do Entrepreneurs Talk Down On 9-5? by goodman41: 12:50pm On Sep 20, 2019

thariodamaniac:
I have had a job and I have done freelancing.... And I will always choose my freelancing business over and over again even though it means applying for a contract Everytime

pls, can i make it with this skills on freelancing; website design using wordpress, computer repair, computer networking?

Romance › Re: I Don't Understand Girls by goodman41(op): 8:40pm On Aug 21, 2019*

victorian:
OK what's your number, type it here.

I will call.

Romance › Re: I Don't Understand Girls by goodman41(op): 8:24pm On Aug 21, 2019

I checked i didn't see the masage

victorian:
Sorry, just checked my mail nw.
I have replied.

Please check.

Romance › Re: Is It Possible For My Neighbors To Steal My Internet From Me? by goodman41: 5:59pm On Aug 20, 2019

Yes

ahahnow:
So I have to change it frequently?

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Romance › Re: Is It Possible For My Neighbors To Steal My Internet From Me? by goodman41: 9:13am On Aug 20, 2019

They can hack ur password

ahahnow:
I am wondering because I see them standing near my house to browse all the time but I cant prove they are stealing my data/internet/connection. I have changed my password, is it possible to gain access any other way?

Romance › Re: Pls Help I Found It Hard To Release Sperm Anytime I Had Sex by goodman41: 9:08am On Aug 20, 2019

U can't give out what u dont have, go and eat well

AizekB:
Indeed this life is a complete irony. others find it simple 2 do a particular job while others find it extremely hard 2 do the same job. I've read so many testimonies of women complaining how there man can nt last more than a minute, my own case is the reverse. I can make love 4 hours without even a sign of cumin. I know many men wil jump at this opportunity. Bt i beleive if u have a good conciense u wil understand how pathetic it looks like when ur wife is physicaly exhusted for she has experience her own pleasure and she want u 2 cum just 4 u 2 b releive. 4 d records, i've never tested any sex enhancing drug lets more of me taking it b4 sex. I can go like 2 to 3 days b4 i can release. I dont know weather there re pple wt same xperience here. Pls help a brother. 4 gv my gramatical tiawn cos am using an old generation phone dat i cant edit wt. Thanks

Romance › Re: I Don't Understand Girls by goodman41(op): 8:17am On Aug 20, 2019

U didn't see my masage?

victorian:
Thanks dear

Yes we can
Click on my pm, I will reply.
Good morning

Romance › Re: I Don't Understand Girls by goodman41(op): 6:33am On Aug 19, 2019

Baby i like ur understanding can we talk?

victorian:
I don't need time to wait for me. Its between me and my God.

I cant do what displeases my spirit , cos i want to marry .

Make marriage hold. Itself abeg. We live life once. I cant be fucvking men upanda to. Know who will end up marrying. Me..

Make such men stay one side biko, I don't need them.

I thank God, my God is taking good care of me. My purpose on earth is to live a peaceful ,purposeful and happy life inline with my Creator . Marriage does not necessarily bring those three things I mentioned, especially if one marries wrong. And there are so many wrong men out there. Jeez! And have had enough dose of such men.
This period of my life is filled with so much peace and free will to live and be a blessing to people. That's my main focus now sef. To touch lives. Make man carry his wahala go stay one place jare. I don't need their sex!

But thanks for your concern

I go dey alright

In fact I'm Alright sef!

But thanks

Romance › Re: Im Trying To Impress Her, But No Sex by goodman41: 8:47pm On Aug 18, 2019

How can take a girl out 3 times without her knowing my place, i took a girl out yesterday for the first time we first went to my house before i took her out but i did not touch her anyway.

ikh777:
why not establish a business for her? CLOTHES WILL FADE O....

anyway a prostitute is better for you o
since your only goal for being with her is SEX....

Romance › Re: I Don't Understand Girls by goodman41(op): 3:19pm On Aug 17, 2019

blissgregory:
Send her d money...she is jst testing u

i dont think so that she is testing me

Romance › I Don't Understand Girls by goodman41(op): 2:31pm On Aug 17, 2019

I got to know this girl through facebook, a 21 year old IMT student. After chatting like 3 month i invited her but she refused to come but asked me to come to Enugu to see her which i went on getting to Enugu i asked her to come to holy ghost catholic church compound to see me on hearing this she shouted "church kwa" i said yes maybe she wanted a hotel. I waited before she now came to holy ghost, we talked and liked each other when i wanted to go i gave her N1000 for her T fare back to her hostel but she refused that she don't need my money that she is the one that sopposed to entertain me. I was happy that i have found a wife, before i left she promised to visit me after her exams but after her exam she didn't come she keeps promising and failing one day she texted me that she needed N5k to make up with her house rent i laughed and texted her that i am disapointed from her for making me looke like a mugu/maga. Girls i cant understand u guys now am still looking for a good wife.

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Romance › Re: Did I Insult Her? by goodman41(op): 8:00am On May 06, 2018

FromZeroToHero:
this is the main reason why I Facebook relationship. it can be so annoying.

I got a coper through fb when i was serving, she was the one that sent me friend request and also invited me to her place, i spent 4 days with her she even wanted me to stay more bc we fell in love to each other. She wanted me to mary her but i was not ready then which she got married after passing out befor me bc she was in batch A and i was in C

Romance › Re: Did I Insult Her? by goodman41(op): 6:52am On May 06, 2018

Lonestar124:
Oga you're chatting with your fellow man....just iglor her and never replied her

Don't ask how i vouch that.

we are talking on phone na

Romance › Re: Did I Insult Her? by goodman41(op): 5:24am On May 06, 2018

biacan:
Looks she's into you and from the way things are it's obvious that she wants more than friendship........You should have just replied her better like I just want to know you better, and see you my angel that I've been crushing on for long.......things like this makes us look special but went and be complicating things for her almost sounding offensive which is not acceptable

so what do i do now?

Romance › Did I Insult Her? by goodman41(op): 5:06am On May 06, 2018*

There is this girl that sent me friend request on fb which i accepted her and she started chating me. Initially i was thinking she knew me but she didn't know me. The more we chat the more we like and baby each other. So, I invited her to another state i was residing which she accepted to come but on a condition that i will give her back any amount she spent as transport which i agreed and told her when she will be coming. After that she sent me text asking me what will i do to her if she comes, my mind was telling me that maybe she want us to go into sex chat how i am going to bleep her when she comes. But i needed a decent relationship with her bc am 35yr and needed to setle down with a decent girl so i try to iglor her question with another conversation but she still asked me again why do i want to see her i wanted to iglor this but i repplied her that i dont like the question that it looks childish to me and she got angry and repplied me "are you not a child?" and started sending nonsense stiker to me but i ve not repplied her till now. Pls did i insult her and how will i go back to our normal conversation?

Romance › Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by goodman41: 8:51am On Apr 07, 2018

LieDetector:
I asked this girl out sometime and she told me she has a boyfriend and that the boyfriend doesn't stay in town. I honorably withdrew my advances and she got annoyed because I stopped calling her. The few times I tried she refused picking out of anger.

She would call me with a different number just to hear my voice and then hang up upon me saying "hello".

To cut the long story short, we agreed to meet which we did and I noticed she's still playing hard to get. I don't know what to do at this point honestly.

Should I withdraw outrightly or should I still talk about us starting a relationship especially considering that I didn't bring up the ish in our recent meeting.

Help guys!

guy stop telling her about relationship just invite her to ur house and Bleep her that is all she want

Romance › Re: Finggering A Girl When She Was Sleeping And She Didn't Know by goodman41(op): 6:43pm On Apr 06, 2018

Kingsley10000:
is the girl a minor?

22 years

Romance › Re: Finggering A Girl When She Was Sleeping And She Didn't Know by goodman41(op): 2:25pm On Apr 06, 2018

DeadRat:
Waw!

You Are A Professional Rapist... You Raped her With Your Finger And She Didnt Know...

Sir You Are Talented I Swear... And May Thunder Rape YOU This Hot Afternoon wherever You Are

idiot havn't u done more than this

Romance › Re: Finggering A Girl When She Was Sleeping And She Didn't Know by goodman41(op): 2:22pm On Apr 06, 2018

BossLaifay:
If only you concentrated in school the way you concentrated on fingering we wouldn't be in this mess having to read your eye sore of a narration!
Pervert!

graduate engineer my dear i was high that day

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Romance › Finggering A Girl When She Was Sleeping And She Didn't Know by goodman41(op): 12:18pm On Apr 06, 2018

I went to my sister's house, met this fine and curvy girl, try to play love with her but all to no avail.
In the night it happend that we have to sleep in the same room, when she fell into deep sleep I pulled down her pant and started finggering her, the more i fingger her the more she get wet and oil like 30 minuits without her knowing what was going on, when I became too hot i wanted to insert my dick but there was no condom, so i tried to control my self, Besides her pussy was having an odour and too much wet. When i started sleeping she woke up and went to wee wee when she came back i try to romance her to see her reaction but she declined and move away from me, i be came confused if she didn't know all the finggering i have been performing on her. please girls is it possible to fingger a girl for like 1 hour without her knowing what is going on while she was sleeping?

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