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saphiere:
Why should we?
It shows desperation and low self-esteem

You'll remain in your father's house forever!

Are you better than beautiful Indian girls who usually pay their men's Bride price? All the NL evening newspapers without sense, always talking carelessly.

Goodlady:
Stfu!
There's nothing like evening newspapers.
The older the wine, the sweeter it is.
Just last Saturday, a 46yrs old woman got married to a 40yrs old man in Lugbe area, Abuja. Everyone ll get fulfillment at one time. Cos I reject your short, black and broke destiny no mean say I go tey before I marry or reach Age 90 like Sarah before I born.
All you boys here dissing women with your childish threads, na una Mama's bweast una dey drag like madman own. You all should get a life.

Lamentation of a broke frustrated evening newspaper!

Damn!

You go dey give Nigeria girl Money to open? I don't know what is wrong with you werey simps! How many times have we told you SIMPs to stop advising a Nigerian girl? Oga you're not her father! Stop playing the role of her parents.

The girl is using reverse psychology and mind games on you and you fell for it. E sure me die say na she dumped you after chopping your money

Damn! Naturally men are considered providers. So therefore if a man can provide for you, what makes you think he shouldn't provide for others to get what he wants? If you claim because he cheats you too wants to cheat, then Madam become a provider yourself and take care of yourself by yourself. Pay your bills, house rent, data sub and do everything yourself with your own money.

QUICK ONE

OP, A man can marry a poor girl from a poor home but a poor girl can't marry a poor guy, why is this so?

If you can answer this then you've gotten the answers as to why men cheat

Silentgroper:
Bro .. you sound like you would soon start a movement abt this ghosting stuff

😁😁😁

I do that alot bro and I can tell you it's devastating and Damn fun 😂 the girl go nearly run mad esp when she's already emotionally attached to you. Omo thousands of questions will Keep ringing of her head as to what she did wrong. The day you go mistakenly call her or chat her up, Omo she'll be the happiest person on earth. The thing is you can always chop her kpekus any day anytime twice on Tuesday evening. Ghosting is powerful aswear! The most important weapon a man has over a woman is ATTENTION!

Be the first to always ghost and dump girls, then relax and watch them do the chasing 😂 themselves

jeromestarks:
Take another look at the people the Op quoted and u will see that girls break down in the absence of attention. No lie there.
I am planning to send another girl to hospital very soon. I really want to destroy her life.
A man is also planning your death as we speak. Don't worry, it's just a matter of time.

Very soon, you will regret being a woman. Watch n see.

Attention is very powerful aswear. Withdrawal your attention and watch her go Gaga! Especially when she's already emotionally attached to you. I followed this principal years ago and The girl's elder sister called me and said if anything happens to her sister that she would look for me 😂. Werey said her sister has been crying since that day and her mood was so cold because I ghosted and withdrewed my ATTENTION. Thats the power of psychology!

jeromestarks:
E dey pain u baa 🤣.
Worthless piece of shit.

Back to the topic. Lack of attention makes ladies sick. I withdrew attention from a lady I was chasing for sometime.
The idiot went to her status to post " u want me to always be the first to chat u up bcus u're so cute. Me sef I cute die. No come use me learn celebrity lifestyle" 🤣
Weeks later, the idiot enter hospital. Even doctor no know waitin dey do her. Dem just advice her to take some time to rest well.
E pain the idiot.

Comrade

SmartPolician:
Why does the twitter management always allows these guys to perpetuate violence through their platform?

Elon musk is a very foolish man. For as long as you can pay for the verification badge, you're good to go. Post anything you like so long you keep renewing your verification badge. If it was Facebook, mark would have flagged down and deactivated that terrorist's account long time ago

Damn!

Prophet of doom and confusion everywhere! Was this not the same man who said obi will lose in election tribunal and that Tinubu will win? Whenever the werey receives credit alert from the drug lord he keeps misyarning dust.

Smartguyboy:
Many African dictator will start doing some military cleansing

One word "corruption"

Bobbiee:
Tinubu will get the fastest record of destroying both Nigeria and ECOWAS in the shortest time possible. What a dull failure, a representation of the people of the Sad Waste

Lemme tag them to this point.

Seunmsg leodeking Pandoraobi moh247 amongst others

Damn!

I don't know why I find this funny

The terrorist ekpa of a guy has grown wings. Sadly NK is now irrelevant, Ekpa knows this hence his audacity and boldness. Igbo leaders and Nigerian govt never ready to capture this terrorist, when they're serious they know exactly what to do

13sense:
I have one on my throat right now in my office. In fact, I dish her away. She couldnt believe her eyes.

When I speak to her on important matters, I could see the anger or hate on her face when she respond to me.

Ignoring or ghosting a girl naturally makes her to have resentment towards you. But in reality, she's craving to you. That's the power of psychology! Well played comrade. We're proud of you

Gadafii:
Op you are very right, being too needy and clingy to a girl will result in see finish.

Be a man of mystery, make it hard for her or anyone to figure you out, that allows drives them nut

The moment you are always at her Becks and call, you have lost it, you will be boring to her in a short while

Damn! So accurate!

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you honourable comrade. Belssed are you among all comrades

Damn!

Life isn't composition. Davido understands this hence his mature response to the werey dude who's obviously still struggling to eat 3 square meals a day.

Stedakudz:
The opposite of the bad boy traits that's my definition and there's nothing like he doesn't have a tendency of doing the opposite,in fact the firm,solid and unmovable mind is what makes hard,strong,bad guys end up with women who wreck their lives cos they keep fighting nature's love of which they're unconsciously getting attached,falling in love with that one woman that matches their chemistry,don't let it get too late before u understand this. Fear of being broken is what makes men hard and bad,know this and know peace.

We ain't fighting Dude. In one word, bad boys are consider bad and hot because they understand the power of ATTENTION. they know their attention is the greatest weapon they have over a woman.

Fear of being broken can never make a man hard sir. It can only make u to be wise in terms of spending and handling your financies. Read up Ubunja's threads for proper understanding.

CCIA:
GO0dHardDick is a bad boy.

A bad boy!
A baad boy!!
A very baaaaaad boy!!!

Become a bad boy and watch her chase after you. However understanding the concept and traits of what makes a guy "bad boy" is the real deal. ATTENTION is the most important of them. Most esp when she's already emotionally attached to you.

Stedakudz:
The opposite of what he does as a bad boy

Unfortunately he clearly has no tendency of doing the opposite, this is because his mind is firm, solid and unmovable unlike the good gentle Guy. So I asked again what's your definition of simp?

Adeoye11:
My girl made it clear that without money no love, then I had to start my ghost mode.
Or which kind explanation you want make I dey make for a woman!

Stop using the phase "my girl" . How you guys use the phrase surprises me.

Your beloved girlfriend is just like the average Nigerian girl who can be knack with money. Promise a girl money and watch her spread her legs wide open for you. Your beloved sweetheart made it clear that without money you can't access her honeypot, in this category, any guy ready to offer her money Will penetrate her defense. that is, she'll glady open it for him. inconclusion, you're dating a prostitute! An olosho who goes around trading her kpekus for the highest bidder. The choice is yours to either dump her or keep waiting in line

verifiablefacts:
She no gree mention the mental part again.

Honestly I waited to read the mental illness part and details of it, thinking the husband must have probably run mad by now. Noticed she didn't tell us how other guys chopped her kpekus those years while they both parted ways?

She came up with the mental illness part only to end up talking about lack of finance. Una wey still dey date Nigerian girls dey try, when there's money you're the sweetest thing ever, but become bankrupt or stop spending on her, she'll tagged you "a mad sick dude with severe mental illness"

BigDickProblems:
Kindly recommend a good phone for 170k

Pls no Tecno or Infinix. Thanks.

Add small money ontop and get iphone Xmas

talented321:
Werey'' calm down na, he never reach like that na.

Bro, you should have ignored the foool. Noticed how I deliberately ignored the e-diiot? She's a troll seeking for attention.

Rooneyx:
The guy na real MUGU and a MUMU. My dear chop him dry like okporoko

Unfortunately she can't do this. It is the guy that will suck her dry instead. You still don't understand the power of ghosting. Ghosting is powerful! It is emotionally devastating. I have ghosted lots of girls before so I know what I'm saying. Especially when she's already emotionally attached to you. U can't dry him so relax. You'll be the one feeling self pity and emotionally down for yourself! And you probably can't stop thinking about him. So drying him is out of the equation

MrsTwrite:
You must be a player and a bad boy.

It'll interst you to know that girls loves players alot. Players are naturally bad boys and girls love bad boys alot. Believe me when I tell you this because I am one. The most important trait that makes a bad boy hot is how he uses his ATTENTION.

Bad boys doesn't give a damn! They careless and Only show up when it's time to take the girl out and explore her fantasies! Meanwhile the other "good guy" is there calling, chatting and texting her everyday with "baby have you eaten" . Bad boys no get that time!

Stedakudz:
Una go just dey feel say bad boys get all the girls,don't give a Bleep and blabla,even d baddest boy has a woman he simps for. It's nature you can't escape it. Just hope u find a woman that matches ur chemistry,ur madness,ur ego and ur personality

What's your definition of simp?

Everyone knows showering a girl unnecessary attentions Boost her ego-meter and makes her feels ontop of the world.

However, reduced the attention and watch her do the Chase game herself! Just as SEX is the most powerful tool a woman has over a man, ATTENTION is the most powerful tool a man has over a woman. Lack of attention makes you instantly hot and valuable. Women love emotional mind games! They love being psychologically and emotionally hurt! This is what makes them cry!

blesskewe:
This happened to me of recent, he ghosted me for 3months.....
Just this week, he just came up
Wanting to continue the relationship

Without Explanation
Ntn

BreezyRita:
Happened to me last month. I'm still reeling from the effect.

chccho:
Same happened to me too last month, I was mentally sick for some weeks.
I still wonder what I did till today

NACE13:
My last 3 relationship/situationship I ghosted them all. I don't need to be told before I can read their intentions.
One tried it and came back to beg. I asked her, "If Bobo didn't break your heart, would you have thought about coming back?". She was all about the lies and shii- Telling me she was with another guy while thinking about me and it was obvious she wasn't over me, that's why the other Bobo broke things off with her.

The next one stood me up when I had already made plans for our dinner date. She didn't even call to apologize. I just deleted her number straight and cut communication. She called and called, sent me multiple texts. I just replied her with "I am busy, I'll talk to you later".

The one that just ended this year, I was noticing some funny tones and behaviours when we talk on phone. She hardly replied my texts, always telling me about guys wooing her just to fill her ego-meter and trying to make me feel jealous. I just shook my head and smiled to myself. I just went "Willy-Willy" mode on her. She got the message after calling me a few times and I was cold in my replies. Told me she missed me, wanna hear my voice and I was like "Oh, really? OK, you've heard it,are you OK now?".

I learnt to smell their BS from a mile away and take off before they even realise I'm gone. [[/b]They most times come back if they notice that you don't really give a damn.
I'm not a redpiller but I learnt a thing or two from Ubunja

At the bolded.

This is exactly why girls love bad boys alot. have said it several times here that girls love guys who don't care about them (calling to check up on her, chatting, texting etc). To an average Nigerian girl, she'll see those traits as signs of desperation and will definitely ignites her ego-meter. Girls prefers guys who doesn't give a damn about them! They prefer guys who can toy and break their hearts to piece! Guys who can make them cry! This is the power of psychology! Bad boys have those traits above and hence are highly being chased by girls. Those traits makes the bad boys instantly hot.

They prefer guys who are unavailable. This is because scarcity makes one valuable. It is better to ghost a girl than for to her "see you finish". Never allow a girl use the see finish game on you, it's devastating!

When a girl ghost a guy, be rest assured that she has another guy elsewhere she's into.

ATTENTION is the most powerful tool a man has over a woman! However, I Must salute Ubunja, a senior comrade on this forum. Respect to him!

BreezyRita:
Happened to me last month. I'm still reeling from the effect.

This is exactly why I tell guys to always be the first to ghost and dump a girl. Ghosting is awesome! Guys should learn this and use the ghosting game! It is psychologically powerful!

It makes the girls heart to completely skip, shattered and keep dreaming and waiting for your messages which will never come! It is the chasing game! Ghost her and watch her chase after you, directly and indirectly! It makes the man powerful!

Dear Men, just as SEX is the most powerful tool a woman has over a man, ATTENTION is the most powerful tool you have as a man over a woman. Use it wisely!

concho:
Currently ghosting my partner

Had bank issues and doesnt have access to funds this weekend. She was the first I told and didn't even bother to ask her for money since she is always claiming that she doesn't have.

Only for me to overheard her female friend on phone telling her “thanks my love, God should keep blessing you so you send me more “

She sent her money yesterday when we had non at home thinking I won't find out.

How sane guys still manages to date Nigerian girls is still a mystery to me till this day.

Dude, you better dump that stingy girl ASAP! Girls full everywhere. Dump that girl now

blesskewe:
This happened to me of recent, he ghosted me for 3months.....
Just this week, he just came up
Wanting to continue the relationship

Without Explanation
Ntn

Las las you'll still go back and he'll knack you. that's the power of ghosting. It's psychologically power! Only real men understands this. It's fun to ghost a girl and then return back to chop her kpekus. In fact, men who knows their Worth use the "ghosting game" alot, it makes a girl wonder what you're up to, where and what she did wrong etc! Girls love guys can't get easily. They love guys who can toy and break their hearts to piece. They love guys who can make them cry and make their hearts skips. This is why the ghosting mode is important. Scarcity makes ones valuable. Being available all time brings see finish.

Ghosting a girl makes one to avoid see finish. It is better to ghost her now and return back later to continue chopping her kpekus than for her to completely "see you finish". See finish no good. It brings disrespect. If girl don see guy finish nothing go ever make her allow that guy chop her kpekus again.

When a girl ghost a guy, be rest assured that she has since found a new guy who's chopping her kpekus and she's now dating him. 💯

blessingnenye:
Why do men withdraw after the chase?

Why do politicians stop campaigning after winning an election? Your guess is as good as mine