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motionarena:
You never categorically mentioned working class girls in your post

Oga generally girls asked for transport money wether working class or not. It is their ideology. The level of entitlement mentality has eaten deep in them.

You talk about working class girls as though they're exempted and I just told you that na those working class girls dey bill pass. They'll rather diè than to spend their own money! So WTF are you saying again?

Oga an average Nigerian girl will rather diè than to spend her own money. Whether working class or not

Originalsly:
Girls are diplomatic. Did the friendship meet the level where you can ask her out for a date? If yes ... then you should know she will need transport fare. If no ... then she thinks you are very stupid to ask her out and she'll try to make you pay for being stupid. These are the girls that ask for tfare... and will only show up if it's to dinner ... may likely bring along a friend ... and order the most expensive dishes and wines.

Some guys get their ego bruised when babes do this .... and instead of simply moving on .... would jump on SM and be bitching. This transgender thing is no joke.... guys transgendering and don't even know.

Generally, a Nigerian girl doesn't need to be friends with you before she bills you or asked you to send her money for transport fare. Dude it's highly common among Nigerian girls.

How can a girl thinks a guy is very stupid for asking her out? I don't understand. Won't she get married? If she doesn't intend to get married let her sit her ass down in her father's house and grow old there. Let her outrightly keep rejecting men and making mockery of herself through collecting transport money.

Dude , gone are days when a guy asked a girl out and she'll come along with her fellow hungry entourage and her family members, let alone going to order expensive dishes, dude the moment a man discovers she's with an additional liability like herself, he dumps her ASAP and move on. So wetin u dey talk? Except of course you're talking about SIMP men

kakaaa77:
that is some serious advice you just drop' but the wig in their head will not let it pass through

Fact! 💯

diogo23:
See them here shameless people

Comrade you'll know a SIMP when you see them. Their comments is something else.

He is a SIMP and should be ignored

motionarena:
Mumu.
When u will be dating student, where do u want money to come from.

You will come online to start crying.
Find a working class girl to share bills with.

When I date girls in school I know what am going into.

Perhaps you misread the post!

Read the post carefully, this time around read it slowly for proper understanding. Na working class girls dey bills pass. Those ones will rather diè than to spend their own money. So WTF are you saying?

LarryCork:
brother are u sayin yor sister lak commmon sensse coz she nigerian?....is she lightskin sir? (no oofeinse)

Dude, I'm not the cause of your frustration

Sammy101111:
A broke girl is a devil casket .she will manipulate anyone to move ahead to survive instead of working . Because all I know is that woman way never see food chop no fit for relationship.So when you know this ladies Sapa Level you move on time before she decay you the man with Sapa

Aswear Comrade, Exactly my point!

A poor broke girl has no business being in a relationship let alone talking about marriage. If not, the guy go see shege pro Max because the werey go use billings kee the man.

MrBrownJay1:
bro, you cannot walk up to someone, try to get to know them and automatically expect that stranger to spend their own money to meet you (especially if they are not really interested in you). yes, some women may have the money and others may not....and thats ok. if you 1st wanna invite someone on a date them make sure you accommodate them and tell them exactly what you want from them etc.

so if you want her to pay for her own Tfare then tell her from the get go, and if she doesnt have/want to then so be it. no big deal!

Ok, so it is the guy that should spend his own money on the stranger? Dude I can bet my balls that girls must have eaten your money very well before. You don't need to tell a girl to pay her own transport fare. Common sense should tell her this.

Dude, it's a date for god's sake not an avenue for her to manipulate the guy and try to play smart. Haven't you seen situations where a (SIMP) guy sends a girl money for transport fare and the girl ended up blocking the guy thinking she's smart or has cashed out?

Omo bro, no need for the long write up, a Poor broke girl who cannot afford her own transport fare has NO business entering a relationship at all, let alone talking about marriage

Chioma4eva:
We are saying the same thing! Go after car owner girls like yourself and stop going for broke ass girls that can't afford even Uber. Let the rich date/marry the Rich and poor date/marry the poor. Don't come everytime crying Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that when you know the solution already. It's sickening.

Sadly we all know a poor broke ass Nigerian girl wishes and dreams to marry a rich man, whereby classifying a poor broke guy who's obviously in the same category as her as not her type and class. Isn't that stupidity?

Direct your message to your gender, those poor ass broke girls should stick to their kinds, not longing for a rich man Which they know it's impossible!

Chioma4eva:
Hmmm this is why it is important to always go for your class cos honestly wtf is all this.

I drive my car to a date, I expect you to also drive your own car to the date too, not begging and telling the guy you don't have transport money. So what class are you talking about? poor broke girls are quick to use the phrase class knowing fully well they're so poor and broke

MrBrownJay1:
bro, many women out there...
- have a job and are saving their money for better things than to spend it on every single men that wants to get to know them.
- have an income but, after taking care of their responsibilities, they have no extra money to frivolously spend.
- can seek to enter a r/ship without having to spend a dime (same with men)
- understand the "mechanic" of dating.... YOU approached her, YOU wanna get to know her, YOU invited her for a date, but now you expect this woman to spend extra money FOR YOU?! here is a clue, why dont you go hang out close to where she resides so that you dont make plans on other people's finances?

BTW it seems you dont understand the mechanic of dating: YOU invite someone, therefore you choose where to meet and YOU pay for it. if you want the babe to go dutch then YOU tell her beforehands. et voila!
if the babe says she has no extra money for transport then you can either A) send her a Uber (not money) to pick her up B) ask her how much is the bus from her place to meetup place OR C) ignore/disregard the babe.

So it's the guy that doesn't want to save his money? Ok the guy should be the one spending his money frivolously? So he doesn't have responsibilities?

Dude, if a girl cannot afford her own transport fare, let her forget about relationship let alone marriage. She should remain single in her father's house bro.

Any girl that asked for transport money is a useless girl - pastor Mrs okonkwo

UnfairLife7:
was your mother married a virgin? Go home and ask her and get back to me.

Seem you mistake all mothers as your mother who didn't marry as a virgin. Dude, those days in the 50s, 60, 70 and 80s respectively, women were highly decent and highly valuable because they were all virgins. My father married my mother when she was a pure virgin.

Dude, those days virginity was the pride of a woman. Don't mistake every mother as your mother who didn't marry as a virgin.

The op isn't a virgin, why couldn't those guys that destroyed her kpekus marry her? Instead she and her poverty stricken family planned and sucked the man dried until he has nothing left. E be like say ur brain wet

MrBrownJay1:
- so all women out there (that you are interested in) must have extra money to go around the city meeting guys that are interested IN HER?!
- so because you want to get to know someone, she must have transport money to meet you? aint you the one who wants to invite her? why dont you give her the money for bus fare, et voila?!
- life is about being REAL/HONEST and not pretend to be who you are not.... if a man decides he wants to meet you, then simply let him know that he should arrange for it himself as you are not buoyant to spend your hard earned cash on total strangers.

We ain't talking about Poor broke girls in this category. However a poor broke girl who cannot afford her own transport fare has no business entering a relationship let alone talking about marriage, because if she eventually does , she'll automatically become a parasite and a liability to the man.

Advice them to get a job and work not entering a relationship

Nlfpmod Seun

FP

calabardick:
Your greedy family has milk the young man dry as if he married a virgin and you're sounding as if you don't know what the problem is, please shift.

U dey mind the e-diot runz girl with her poverty stricken family? It's not as if she's a virgin to start with. I pity the young man for going into debts just to please a parasite who has been eaten by guys before

Ehinjuola:
My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they ask him for

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Despite the fact you know you're not a virgin, you still allowed your parents to trade you and extort that young man.

Madam, you and your parents sucked and extorted that young man till he went and borrowed just to satisfied you and your parents fatansies. (He is a foolish man for even borrowing). A real man will dump you the moment he is given an outrageous bills. Love my foot! Something Must be wrong with you. Madam are you a vírgin to start with?

Sooner or later he'll dump and throw you out and then request back for those money he wasted

Damn!

The saviour of Yoluba people have spoken. Asari is the new god in Yolubbaland currently. He is highly worshipped and relevance in Yolubbaland

Zigzagman:
OP, save yourself the embarrassment and stop dating students.

If she's a student, where do you expect her to get money to come on the date? Not with the current cost of transportation

Just take a listen to this conversation on who pays on the first date and hear what they have to say


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IhvLmz8F7NM

We ain't talking about students here bro, besides why would a female student be thinking of going into relationship when she's not financially stable?

Dude we're talking about working class ladies here who tells guys they don't have transport. That's beyond stupidity!

lordnkem000:
I still blame my fellow guys for this nonsense. When I was in Ghana briefly, I fell in love with their girls, they don't ask u for transport or etc, they even find it insulting u bringing up the topic, u have to insist before she takes it. But trust naija guys na, we like to be boss, to dey showoff and that's why our naija girls took advantage of it. Me here so, I'll never fu;ck a girl who doesn't have financial independence. As for dating, if u won't marry u, then I won't date u at all, I don grow pass that level now. So, u have to be disciplined and financially upright to be my woman. Am not poor, I am just broke and u my brokeness have expiry date

SIMP Nigeria guys always want to be bossy. They lack the liver to say NO to a girl's demand. Esp when she asked for transport fare. This is exactly why no one values Nigeria girls, they're generally seen as hook-up girls and oloshos.

We have said this over and over again that poor broke girls should be avoided like plague, hence they'll suck the man dry and continue looking for the next maga to chop. I spit on Nigeria girls

Nlfpmod Seun nlfpmod Justwise disguy farano

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illicit:
I don't do broke girls

Louder 📢🔊 honourable Conrade!!!

Puss360:
Lols wahala for who dey find fu:ck.... You want to fu:ck you no get money...

Who initiated the meeting?? If it's the guy, then he has to send transport and it must cover to and fro...

You tell babe, make Una meet...
She no get transport...
You no send transport...
Babe no come... She rest back...
Instead of you to rest, you say lai lai, you come online dey rant....

If no be fu:ck you dey find, why body come dey pepper you...

And you talented321, what do you mean by "Normal" in Ur post

Pretty sure you couldn't comprehend the post.

However, You ought to have told the guy you're a prostitute and a hook-up girl so he can prepare his mind ahead.

Babaken:
Imagine i inviting my old time friend a Lady I know her very well she's a working class lady whom I respect so much she's cook or sorts of stories that she don't have transportation when she know that if she comes there's no way I won't multiply her transportation by 4 or 5 .

As that one is not enough she call me 3 days after that she and her sister that's staying with her is admitted at the hospital that the money she's having is not enough I should send her some money for my mind I say see this one you don see ATM machine since then I haven't call or chat her again before she will tell me her house rent is expiring next week she already told me her television is not working haba.
Some ladies should try to package themselves small.

Sadly most Nigeria girls are guilty of this. They see men as their means of survival that they can prey and eat his money quickly.

This is why nobody values Nigeria girls

Xenry:
The man's duty is to protect and provide. If he decides to send her the transport money, why should that be a problem? After all, he was the one that asked for a date.

A girl who cannot provide her own transport fare have no business entering a relationship let alone talking about marriage.

Dear women,

Some of you lack sense. A young man says let's have a date, let's meet in a public place, you responded you don't have transport, Send me money to come and meet you. Are you not ashamed of yourself? Any girl that tells you she doesn't have transport, do the needful and avoid her like plague.

Women, the way you package yourself that's how they will carry you. A young man asked for a date and wishes to send you transport fare, asked him for what? Tell him not to embarrass you that you can transport yourself! By this you're letting him know you're not cheap. Only Poor broke and cheap girls without worth and value asked men for transport fare

Dexy4yah:
OP...you are 💯 right.

Comrade, Only SIMPs will disagree with this

Nlfpmod

How far boss?

Damn!

The girl na pure werey. She's an example of toxic girl. I can bet my balls she's a feminist. Highly pain, bitter and angry set of people

beerfraud:
he is now in Nigeria

Who cares if he's in Nigeria or not?

Dude Reno is highly irrelevant. Youba miscreants are the ones making him relevant

muykem:
That's our law as at today. I mean Nigeria law not Biafra law.

A court in Lagos gave this judgement and you're happy? Really?

What a huge joke! Who takes courts in Yoruba land serious

22o62021:
Sweet meet

Don't send her any 1k

Use your head before that olosho run you street