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Vivian16:
Help her please, humanity comes first before any other thing.

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Shut the f*ck up.

Humanity kill you there!!. There's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. Is that girl OP's wife? Are you OK? What is wrong with u Nigerian girls

You want the op to help a hoe who's probably still exploring and collecting dicks around, and someone who will still bring guys into the apartment to bang her pussy. You dey ment?. The OP should look after his own family and spend the money on his wife, his mother and his sisters. Stop being a liability and a parasite!!!

funkmrflexx:
As u don help ur whole family finish e good for u na.
Mugu.

You're the mugu and idiot one here. As in.. U get any sense at all? To beat you just dey hungry me now!!

If you you're looking for a woman to maintain. Look after your wife, mother and sisters. Stop being a f*cking simp! You're being foolish and stupid. Stop this!! You're not responsible in taking care of any girl, let alone renting an apartment for her, an apartment she'll still invite other guys over to come and bang her pussy. Oga, you're being stupid. the only women God created you to maintain are your wife, your mother, and sisters!

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siofra:
Nothing wrong with that. Especially if they are househusbands and as long as their wives don't degrade them but treat them as their equal.

I watched a video where a guy was a househusband and he was fulfilled and happy with it. His wife works and provides for him while he does the house chores. People insulted him in the comments but of course he didn't care.

You people cannot handle half of the shit you dish out to women.

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siofra:
You're very wrong.

You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.

Modified;

Why are you people attacking me like this

I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.

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Lalami3232:
All these childish stories sef!!! Since I no get anything to do at moment, make I analyze the first paragraph. You say you dey date a guy wey no get money and he dey poor, abi? Now the question is "do you have money ?"
If YES, then wetin you don do to help the guy? If NO, then you're a hypocrite because una be birds of a feather. When a guy is broke, una go quickly outline am for the world to see, and funny enough eeh, una no still get money.
How many men don come out to say "I dey date a girl wey dey poor" ? Una wey no dey get anything to offer aside toto and womb, but una go quick tag a guy broke. I no even get time read everything because your first line don spoil am. Next time, write like an adult so that we fit advise you like one.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, " if you fit manage meet a 9ja girl wey get sense, my brother marry her quickly because she's the last of her specie."

Louder!!!!

Increase the volume to the highest comrade!!

Zonefree:
Dear beloved OP, please always remember to put him in your prayers. God will see him through. He's going through alot. The stress and trauma of impregnating a Nigerian girl

He needs you now than before. Stand beside him, don't allow him go through this phase alone.


Shalom

At the bolded comrade. I swear down, dating a Nigerian girl is way too risky, let alone impregnating one.

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Iyaebe:
You are right with this statement, I’m very unbiased in my dealings,try to emulate me.

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Iyaebe:
Nigeria was almost collapsing and corruption was at its peak, everything was standstill. I’m not praising this government in any way,take note

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Iyaebe:
Be truthful to yourself for once,didn’t we all complained about his government and hoping for the better which we never got? You are one of Nigeria’s problems.Stop calling black a white

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Iyaebe:
You did sir,your government was woeful and buhari collapsed and buried it

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anoziechi:
please if you don't have anything to say...please keep quiet

What's this one saying? Are you okay?

He got another girl pregnant? So? What do you want us to do na? U said you have blocked him off? What advice are you looking for again?

anoziechi:
what is funny

So what do you want us to do na?

Favfables1:
Girls who want their boyfriend's to "maintain" them are just a bunch of broke, degenerate fellows with a very myopic & entitled mentality ...

Tweeeeh!!! ((Spits))

If you're broke, GET A JOB, NOT A BOYFRIEND!

Women will be shouting "strong and independent woman" upandan, then still go behind, begging for money from men, what a joke those fellows are ...

A girl enters a relationship today and she automatically becomes an orphan , what nonsense?!

And yet you want men to take you seriously? ...

Preach bro! Preach!!!!

Increase the volume to the highest comrade!! People at the back can't hear you!!

Palema007:
"Eni ti o na ma tele tutu a koko domi siwaju. "

"Meaning people wey won step on wet ground go first pour water for ground."

You dey show interest but you no wan spend, how I wan know you dey capable? Lol... In as much as I support financial independence, you have to still do some things as a Man

This your thread is DOA. No sense at all.

So a man should spend on you just because he is showing interest in you? Are you OK? What kind of entitlement mentality is this abeg? Apart from your over used pussy, what exactly will you offer that young man in the relationship?

At the bolded, Tell your father to do those things for you as a man because you're his responsibility.

You're not the responsibility of any man until you're married to him. In fact even when you're married to him, get a life for yourself. Or else you'll automatically become a liability and a parasite to him.

However, Dating is not an employment. You should not and must not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke. Get a job, not a boyfriend.

In response to the thread on FP title "Any man that won't pay bills is a joker".

Many men have become broke just because of the above statement, they want to impress a girl. Men are becoming broke because they play the role of husband too early. This is foolishness and plain stupidity.

I have said this over and over again. There's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. A man should not and must not foot the bills of any girl. If you're looking for a woman to maintain, look after your mother and sisters. Dating is not an employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke. Get a job, not a boyfriend.

Nigeria too dey make mouth.

Ghana go beat super eagles hands down!!!!

Prettygirl200:
Lol y should I be ashamed of myself when am self employed? Please go and hustle and stop lamenting, your broke mentality suffocates.

I don't chat with prostitutes.

Come, let today be the first and last time you'll ever quote me on nairaland again.

Prettygirl200:
look at him? Since u are not her father don't ask her for sex cux she is not your mother. Cowards everywhere!!

This clearly shows that Nigeria girls absolutely have nothing purposeful and meaningful to offer a man in a relationship apart from sex!

Are you trying to say that you're a prostitute who render sex services to men in exchange for money? What an idiot you are. You should be ashamed of yourself!

Prettygirl200:
kill u, and your entire family idoult. Since dating is not an employment den date and don't have sex den she will take care of herself without asking a broke guy like u money. If u are broke go and hustle and stop shouting entitlement mentality up and down. Werey!!!

what's stopping you from hustling and making your own money? Abi u no be human being? Did they cut your hands? It is certain that the only thing You can offer a man in a relationship is your pussy.

Are you trying to tell us that you're a prostitute who gives her body to guys in exchange for money? Olosho!!!!!!!

Dating is not employment. If you're broke, get a job. Not a boyfriend.

house10s2:
e dey pain this one

That idiot is pained and a frustrated teenager. She's just 18 Years old. She's a teenager and a small girl. I'll urge you to always ignore her on nairaland

house10s2:
get a job support him like he support u

else u are just a sexual vessel who is getting paid for sex n nothing else

cause wen ur period kicks in, u are simple another useless bag.

b proud of ur self for ones, stop this leeching liability mentality get ur hands working.

Fire on comrade. Increase the volume to the highest!!!!!

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Animegirl:
As a lady, I know all too well that many men out there believe some ridiculous shit about us ladies.

1. Women are more emotional and dramatic than men. Men have gotten the bad rap that we are overly emotional (nearly always blamed on hormones!) and can't lead under pressure. What’s ironic about this belief is that when a man slams the table with his hand or raises his voice, it’s somehow perceived as strong and powerful, not emotional. If a woman acted in the same manner, she would be perceived as “emotional” or “a piece of work.” 

2.Women don’t support other women. While I don’t think catty behavior between women in the workplace is as prevalent as people often make it out to be, there may sometimes be a grain of truth to it. Because many of us work in male-dominated organizations, there are fewer slots for women to get ahead and competition is fierce.

3.Most men think we want to see their big gbola. No woman ever wants random d*ick picture. Many men are guity of this. It won't generate a reply at any given time, if it's sent inconsequentially. You will be blocked and reported because no woman wants to see unwanted penis pictures.

4. She Asked For It? With the current prevalent rape-culture in society, I've been hearing a lot of 'she asked for it'. What does that even mean? If I am wearing something that's not to your liking or if I go out to party with boys, I asked to get sexually molested or raped? That's the most disturbing misconception I've come across.

5.Not all of us are Gold-diggers or useless. Some of us, have serious big dreams and we don't want to be dependent on someone else’s success or bank balance to get what we want. We want to have our own career and success too. Funny, how men still get intimidated by independent successful women. Truly, I say unto you "men are confuse set of beings".

6. If you use your vagina too much, it’ll get “loose.” No penis, toy, hand, or even baby will stretch your vagina permanently. It might adjust to accommodate what’s coming in (or, in the case of childbirth, out), but it’ll bounce back.

7. Once a woman clock 30, she is evening newspaper, pls what is the meaning of this?

Nigeria men stop the misconceptions/assumptions about women, we are not the cause of your frustrations.

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Absolute trash!!

OP, we're all know you're in sever pains, bitter and frustrated. The thing really pain you no be small

Adultswim:
I have dated (sexed) many single mothers but marriage is out of the question.

Nice one Comrade, you can bleep the hell out of them. But getting married to them must never be an option!!

dhameelare:
Nice write up op....

The evening newspaper feminists will not like dis

Ignore those stupid, broke and frustrated idiots parading themselves as feminist on nairaland. The commenter above your comment is a teenager. Make sure you ignore her!

Lafy: after telling you that I have 3 kids, you even stop calling, texting or coming to see me.

Man: it's just that I've been busy with work lately.

Lady: lies, u men hate responsibility, coz everytime I mention that I have 3 kids men disappear. You're all the same liars, cowards who are always running away from responsibility.

Man: there's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. Instead of blaming all men, why can't you deal with your baby daddies. Make them responsible and leave the rest of us alone, coz a man is supposed to be responsible for his own actions not somebody else's.

Every sane guy should learn from this man above and desist from any single mother. Guys you're not a second class option. In all you do let your sanity be with you.

idiagbo86:
My younger brother
My dad
My mum .
My other younger brother after an accident .
Death has really been unfair toward me.

As in? Almost all your family members are gone?