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Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

We still dey wait... We need prayers in NFF

Great song... Tu baba too much!

Finally...its long overdue

Pretty woman

Mercy Johnson all the way

Tough question. Op answer the question first

@ Anomnity: you got a great point there. Its just sad that people in the congregation are brainwashed. They trust the preachers more than they trust God. Its a pity! The church is me and you and that's the body of christ and not the building or 'owners' of that building.

Great attacking player with so much self confidence. She reminds me of Mercy Akinde and Perpetual Nkwocha rolled up into one.

Definitely Azizat Oshoala

We beat the deadly Ebola virus, we sure will beat Lassa fever. Folks, pls remember proper hygiene at all times. Cover your food, and lock up your food stuff. Keep those rats bay

Sweet! What a wedding. I especially love the decorations. Money speaks!

We shall find out

Cute couple

The church is under attack and be careful with what this preachers ask you to do!

The rate at which Pastors are found sleeping around is alarming! From hotels now to maize farms next...in public toilets or what??

A South African pastor is seriously stepping on women, jumping full weight down in the name of removing demons...what next??

A church in Congo has its congregation eating grass and drinking petrol all in the name of healing...what next??

A Nigeria prophet is having people bath in one of the most infected sewages in Nigeria in the name of opening new doors...what next??

A pastor in North Carolina has his female congrigants getting to church braless and pantyless all in the name of purity...what next??

A Kenyan prophet has his followers omo clean the road for him before he uses it...what next??

A pastor in Miami tells his congregates that Jesus does not exist (but allows tithe and offerings)...what next??

Why are people trusting so much in other people praying for them?? Its time you took your bible, seat down and study revelation! No one can pray for you if you don't trust yourself to pray for yourself! The minute you start depending on "YOUR PASTOR" to pray for you is the minute you lose your connection with your creator...am I alarmed? Yes, concerned? Yes! The church is under attack, every time you pray, remember the church!

Is this going to work? But the pertinent question remains, as a country, are we there yet?

Hard luck

alabiyemmy:
7. People like you who instead of facing what they are in the bank to do, always looking around to see what everyone else is doing.

Hahahaha. They are always borrowing pen from me. After experiencing borrow without returning, I started going to the bank with two pens

This news just dey sweet me for body like sugar and honey. More news like this everyday will make this country sane.

1 - The Pen Borrowers: They are always in the bank, common pen they won't have. These people are dangerous, once you lend them the pen, you may find it difficult to identify them at a bank in Nigeria. Once someone tells you, "may I have your pen?" Believe me, that's the last time you will see that pen (except you are lucky).

2 - The "I Dey Your Back" Team: immediately they enter the bank, even before taking the slip (withdrawal or deposit) all they do is to know the last person and you hear them saying, I'm at your back. If care is not taken, about 8 people can tell you "I dey your back" then at the end of the day, they cause confusion (na me dey hin back, I don tell am I was here before blah blah)

3 - The No Protocol Team: this kind of people don't obey the 1st come 1st serve slogan! They're 'mouthed' in the bank! Immediately they come in, they just walk up to the cashier or manger, he asks them to sit down and within 5 minutes they've completed their transactions while you are still there looking like mumu for queue (daris God oooo).

4 - The Bank Door Rejects: These people will always have a problem with the bank door, then you see them removing their belts, car keys, mobile phones, etc and yet the machine keeps shouting "pls go back". Next time, come to the bank naked! Biko, hin go allow in...Lol

5 - The Slip Wasters: These kind of people can waste slip for Nigeria! To fill the withdrawal or deposit slip na JAMB questions, you see them canceling, tearing, squeezing and take another one. To write common 3780 Naira in words na problem. Even the so called undergraduates are found wanting in this scenerio...chai!!

6 - The People From Another Planet: These people usually behave like them no dey this world since 2 years! They will always be asking for today's date. Even after telling them the correct date, they will ask someone else again. I tire for this people oooooooo.....

Tell us other types...

Akinwunmi will be like,*in Crixus voice - Capua (Lagos), shall I begin?
Let the race start!

Great development. She is brave and strong willed- Remember that she survived the world trade centre terrorist bombing.

The resemblance is striking

Sorry bro.

It is better to cry inside an air-conditioned car than to cry on a bicycle. She's rich...she'd cope better

mesoade:
So apparently jesus didn't love us? . . It was because of his commitment to do the will of his father dat's why he died for us? . .no matter the commitment u hav,u can't die for som1 unless u love dat person so much

From your post, Love is not enough. It's important to have both

I don't believe in The Power of Love, I believe in The Power of commitment. I don't believe that Love moves mountains, I believe that mountains are moved by sheer commitment. The truth is, it is easy to love something but uncommitted to it, and in the end, lose it. But you can commit to what you don't love and never lose it, and often, end up loving it.

Practical example:

You do 36 courses in order for you to obtain a degree. You might find yourself loving only 10 of those courses, but your commitment to be a graduate is what will get you through the 26 that you don't love. And you find that after graduating, when you join the workforce, you actually love being a Geologist, working in some mine, when in varsity, you only loved 10 out of 36 courses you were doing to obtain your BSc qualification.

Equally, you can love someone very much, they may mean the world to you. But if you cannot commit to this person, if you are incapable of sticking to the principle of commitment where they're concerned, you will ultimately lose them, because no one, no matter how tolerant they may be, will accept being one of very many, particularly when there's no mutual agreement to include the many. So with all the love you have for it, you can still lose something, if you lack commitment.

So for me, the idea that Love conquers all, romantic though it may sound, is actually unrealistic. Commitment, not love, is what sustains things. You're more likely to enjoy the benefits of committing to what you initially didn't love, than loving what you initially and still can't commit to, because commitment might lead to love, whereas lack of commitment is guaranteed to result in losing that which you love.

But my man has both! I Love him and am committed to us!

100Cents:
Stop crying.

Did your boyfriend dump you ?

Actually, he's up there! Have you seen him?

I'm touched. See how far they've come. I wish them God's grace in their marriage. They will surely grow old together

Just like comparing pencils and crayons. Both have grown in their own unique way

stalyf:
Her shoes in the first picture though.
Is that an iPhone 6 in the second picture?
Her sense of fashion don't look Nigerian in my opinion. She is gradually starting some wild dress sense that other artists would pick up with time.

Last bullet: The way Tiwa Savage is getting front page recognition for the smallest affair, someone would soon say Seun has a secret affair with her just like with Tonto Dike some months back

Tiwa Savage is the new Tonto Dike on NL