Politics › FG Discovers Illegal Crude Oil Connection In Abia by gratefulheart(op): 8:58pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
FG Discovers Illegal Crude Oil Connection In Abia An oil theft situation assessment delegation deployed in the Niger Delta by President Bola Tinubu discovered an illegal oil connection on Saturday. From the illegal connection discovered at Owaza in Abia State, Nigeria loses an average of 7.2 million dollars monthly, the Nigerian National Petroleum Company Ltd. stated on Sunday. It added that clandestine refineries, illegal bunkering operations and environmental devastation the team saw collectively translated into severe economic losses for the nation. https://davidaafrica.com/2023/08/27/fg-discovers-illegal-crude-oil-connection-in-abia/
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Politics › Re: NIMC, World Bank To Provide Digital ID For 148 Million Nigerians By 2024 by gratefulheart(m): 3:59pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Nigeria tried doing this twice without success because of too many unnecessary interests. 1. I remember our company with a UK partner who has done the same thing for over 50 nations submitted proposal for the ID project and they didn't even invite us for presentation. Why? (unnecessary interests just as I said earlier). 2. Afterwards NIMC was set up and incompetent people has been managing the agency, I was captured in 2015 till now I am yet to get my ID and the same with many Nigerians. 3. Foreigners from Niger, Chad, Cameroon, Benin, Togo are now in possession of our IDs how? The system has been compromised. So I am supporting world bank on this either through loan or grant to take over the project. We need to activate our economy for rapid growth and it can't be done with having a GENUINE database which we have not able to do on our own for over 20years. nke001: What naija tech guys can do here, the govt is trumpeting it that world bank is the one to get us Id.
I presume, it is part of the the loan repayment deal. |
Family › Re: Should A Child Of This Age Be Sent On An Errand? by gratefulheart(m): 2:01pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
The depend on the environment. I did that before that age but the environment was peaceful and friendly not now that everywhere is scary. I remember I used to travel to other states to buy goods for my dad when I was less than age 15. You need to let him start developing muscles. You can send out and overshadow him with him knowing (follow him without his knowledge see whatever happening on his to/fro). As much as possible tell him not to entertain strangers or play with anyone on his way. Help him early with street credibility, before they teach him bad things outside. lawrenzoo: Good day, Nairaland families. I would appreciate it if mature and responsible families in the house could enlighten me on this. My son is only 7 years and 4 months old, and I allow him and his 5 year old sister to do minor chores such as making their beds when they wake up, sweeping their rooms to some extent, taking their plates to the kitchen after eating, and brushing their teeth at night. However, there is one thing I frown upon in the house, "Sending a young guy of his age on street errands," but I discovered that my wife finds it so easy to do so.
Most times my wife would want to get simple stuff like detergent and so, she calls him which i do stop from happening most times since i am of a personal opinion that it is rather too unsafe for him and he should not be sent on an errand alone until he is at least 10years old and above.
Please i want to know if I am simply the one overreacting and too overprotective OR a child of that age should not be sent on an errand? |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Accepts Joe Biden's Invitation To Discuss At UN General Assembly by gratefulheart(m): 10:00pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: FIFA Suspends Spanish Football Chief, Rubiales Over Kissing Scandal by gratefulheart(m): 8:37pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
They're having an affair. See the we she's holding him. southking92: Celebration taken too far,. Na der kind dey gv condition before dey admit you for der team |
Politics › Re: How Cold War In Lagos APC Caused Rejection Of Sanwo-olu’s Cabinet Nominees by gratefulheart(m): 1:07pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
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Autos › Re: Extremely Clean Naija Used 2005 Toyota Sienna LE - 2.9m - IBADAN by gratefulheart(m): 1:42am On Aug 26, 2023 |
When was it registered? Adedaniel123: Neatly used Clean and sharp engine Chilling Ac Good tyres and legs Good transmission Documents intact Baked on first body
Ibadan, Oyo State.
2.850m last price Non negotiable on inspection pls and pls no begging.
Call 09065411725 |
Autos › Re: Neat Reg 010 Toyota Corolla For Sale In Abuja by gratefulheart(m): 11:28pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Why was it painted? Dvyne777: Clean reg o10 Toyota Corolla for sale in abuja Painted on first body Everything sharp and working well Going for 3.6m firm Call or Whatsapp 08069934430 |
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Autos › Re: Neatly Used Toyota Corolla LE 2004 Model With Duty For Sale Going For #2.2m by gratefulheart(m): 9:44pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
When was it resgistered? IcentautoKD: Everything is working in good condition just fuel and drive
Price #2.2m
Locat is Kaduna
Contacts
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Properties › Re: Fenced Land For Sale by gratefulheart(m): 9:42pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
What's the sqm? Anticrime77: FOR SALE: 2 Plots of Land(Fenced with Gate) @ Adeoje Estate off Akala Road Oluyole Ibadan.
Price : 14million
For inquiry call or watsap 09151063927 |
Romance › Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by gratefulheart(m): 6:36pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
I have met many edi women and they're a sweet, loving and playful but they have anger problem. Now on your wife, she need help on the bitterness and anger issue if not you won't enjoy her and I doubt if she's enjoying you too. Marriage is for enjoyment even it difficulty and challenges that's the joy of marriage. You need help... You need to find her a good female counsellor to help out of it. I hope this is not from her past experiences? Help her to find help if not it will not only affect you it will also affect your children. May God direct and lead you aright. addmole: I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.
Anyway sha, lets move on...
5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.
Omo... The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.
I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.
I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.
ANOTHER PART OF HER: My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.
There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.
We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.
I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.
I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.
Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.
i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.
Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.
She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.
What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough. |
Autos › Re: Neat Reg 010 Toyota Corolla For Sale In Abuja by gratefulheart(m): 11:26pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Key or keyless? Leader or fabric seat? Any issue mechanical or transmission? Negotiable? Dvyne777: Reg o10 Toyota Corolla For sale in abuja Everything blessed Going for 3m firm Call or Whatsapp 08069934430 |
Autos › Re: Super Clean 2013 Ford Escape With Original Custom Duty by gratefulheart(m): 9:58pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
When was it registered? victorngada20: CONDITION: NEATLY USED MAKE: FORD MODEL: ESCAPE DUTY: YES YEAR: 2014 PRICE 4.5M LOCATION KADUNA
CALL OR WHATSAPP: 07065487061 |
Politics › Re: Ondo: Akeredolu’s Planned Return Sets Acting Gov In Panic Mode by gratefulheart(m): 8:17pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: True Or False : Men Don't Generally Like Women With Tattoos. by gratefulheart(m): 4:26pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
No matter how beautiful the woman may look or her character. That will be the end of the relationship. It's a total put off for me. I hate it with passion. Nelson21: I saw this on X today. Is it true or false? Also, to the married folks, if your wife suddenly gets a tattoo, how will you react? |
Properties › Re: N500K Electricity Bill Debt On Newly Purchased House. by gratefulheart(m): 4:23pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
1. Have a conversation with the owner first about your finding and them him he need to sort it out and see how it comes out. 2. Of it doesn't work and meeting the manager you should probably meet in the middle. NLchief: I made a terrible oversight of not checking electricity bills before purchasing a house. It just completely escaped my mind till after purchase.
I just found out there's electricity debts of 500k unpaid to IBEDC.
How do I handle this?
I know it will be difficult getting such a negligent previous owner to pay such bills.  |
Properties › Re: WATER PLANT MANAGEMENT IN NIGERIA by gratefulheart(m): 10:01am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Your location? Ayoduro: We have gathered experience over the years in this particular area of enterprise.
We start the process and stay with you to end!
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Politics › Re: Labour Party: Peter Obi Will Be President Before December by gratefulheart(m): 11:40pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Continue to deceive yourselves. Deceivers  ganisucks:
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Politics › Re: Roads Constructed Under Tinubu Will Last Minimum 6 Years – Umahi by gratefulheart(m): 11:35pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: What’s The Craziest Rumor You Have Ever Heard About Yourself? by gratefulheart(m): 10:47pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Na your entire family fire burnt alive today. Warl0ck: anu |
Romance › Re: What’s The Craziest Rumor You Have Ever Heard About Yourself? by gratefulheart(m): 6:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Chibok Girl, Mary Nkeki, To Marry Repentant Terrorist by gratefulheart(m): 6:33pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Add spices turmacs: This life is just boring |
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Autos › Re: Tokunbo 2005 Toyota Corolla For 4.3m Still Negotiable by gratefulheart(m): 5:18pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Show the interiors. Mide18: Just in 2005 toyota corolla newly cleared Engine top notch Ac chilling ice Gear super Interested buyer should call/whatsapp 08166092371 |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Got A Job 30k After Nysc. Your Advice Please by gratefulheart(m): 4:26pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Are you sure this is sustainable? Why not look for another in your vicinity that can save you TF. Please, go and learn a skill that you can monetize. IyaTola: From DM |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Wagner Leader Dressed In Combat Army Uniform Starts Recruitment In Africa by gratefulheart(m): 9:30am On Aug 22, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Tinubu, Ribadu Using Office For Personal Vendetta To Neglect North East- Group by gratefulheart(m): 9:25am On Aug 22, 2023 |
Your pain is yet to start, this is just the symptom. Mimiberry: An APC group, identified as Nigerian Proactive Group for Asiwaju, has accused the National Security Adviser (NSA) Nuhu Ribadu of using his office to pursue personal vendetta, saying the new administration is yet to constitute a security agenda.
While accusing the President Bola Tinubu-led administration of lopsidedness in the appointment heads of Nigerian security, the group in a release signed by the National Coordinator, Wasiu Oyebode Olakunle, wondered why most heads of security chiefs are from North West geopolitical zone.
According to Olakunle, apart from the Chief of Defence Staff, General Christopher Gwabin Musa who hails Zango Kataf, Kaduna State, Chief of Air Staff, Air Vice Marshal Hassan Bala Abubakar is also from North West, as well as the Director General DSS, Yusuf Magaji Bichi who hails from Bichi, Kano State, another North West region.
Continuing, he further noted that the Director General NIA, Ahmed Rufai Abubakar also hails from Katsina North West Nigeria, Minister of Defence, Mohammed Badaru Abubakar, Jigawa, North West Nigeria and the Minister of State for Defence, Bello Muhammad Mattawale, who hails from Zamfara North West Nigeria.
Listing Ribadu's perceived offences, the group said, "Putting in place his political structure ahead of 2027 poll amidst insecurity in the country.
"Turned to a journalist as well as a photo-journalist in the presidential villa most especially, when the president has visitors.
"Hosting and posting pictures with political groups and Kannywood stars in his office."
The group expressed concern that the Nigerian military is increasingly becoming demoralised, saying the bandits are now emboldened.
It called on the NSA and heads of defence, security, and intelligence agencies to be more proactive to secure every swathe of the Nigerian territory. |
Autos › Re: Distress Sale: Foreign Used 2011 Toyota Camry LE by gratefulheart(m): 9:21am On Aug 22, 2023 |
4M... DreCharles: Foreign used 2011 Toyota Camry
Buy and Drive status
Price: 4.7m (non negotiable)
Color was changed from white
Location: Ikotun
Call/WhatsApp 08061269689 |
Politics › Re: Ministers Designate Commence Documentation At OSGF (Pictures). by gratefulheart(m): 6:42pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Shuaibu Audu Prostrates Before President Tinubu by gratefulheart(m): 6:26pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
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