Pafoma:
Guys! I need serious, real and honest contributions.. Thanks to all that will contribute.

I have a lady whom i am dating. I truly love and care about her but she has been with people that are in my circle and this disturbs me. She didnt used to be a straightforward and totally faithful person but i see that she is making efforts towards being completely honest and straightforward but still i dont have rest in my spirit about taking the decision to marry her.

I have observed she is soft with guys and is not firm, although i am aware it takes time for someone used to a particular pattern or lifestyle to adjus. I need help because breaking up with this lady will mean that i have to look for someone else to start the entire circle with again and who knows what if the new one also comes with even worse baggages.

My questions are these

1. What do you advice i do?
2. Who has been in similar situation where you fell in love with a lady your friends and circle have been with then married her? What was the experience like including things to look out for..
3. How can be sure i wont regret the decision to go forward?

Please feel free to ask me any question and i’ll answer if they are not sarcastic or jokes..

Thank you.

My exact situation right now, though not my circle of friends but I have known some of them and it's disturbing... She cheated on me with one time with one too and since then I believe she has changed as the family was involved...

I am confused cuz I can't start afresh again as I am ready now and secondly, going down with her is very confusing for me right now. Won't I regret it? That question keeps popping out all time.

DNA kwa? That's not even MJ, that is plastic surgery so tell the guy to rest

Temptee101:


Ritual things, for fortification purposes

Penaldo should be seriously squeezed and investigated

When the real GOAT, MESSI, is winning everything, why won't he go extra mile to be like him

Spits

So you sat down and you use your brain and hand to type this thrash?

Africa my Africa... It is well

Abdul05:
You coward! What are you afraid of?Or is prison not meant for beings?. Come out from your shell and be a Man.No country is safe (inclusive the western world) idiot!!!

Do I blame you for this your comment? Absolutely, I don't. Your name confirm it.


Binta should go ahead and relocate since nowhere is safe than Prison

ursullalinda:



Wetin man no go see.....So all this aboki's carrying radio up and down will be taxed.....hmmm.....very funny

I tire o... That they wanted to be taxing residential just the way LASG is taxing Car owners for car stereo...

No job, no light, no road, nothing from government, we struggle to create something for ourselves so we won't join "bad gang" still they won't allow us rest from tax this, tax that. Wetin Nigeria want from us? Untill we carry gun and start killing everyone before they will sit up?

Not all depression and frustration ends in suicide, some may take thousands of people before going...

Warning to Nigeria... Please thread with caution.

naptu2:


Now, since you now know that there is such a thing as radio/TV license, my advice is that you should investigate that notice to find out if it is genuine. 30,000 naira is a very high rate.

Local governments know that this is one of the few ways that they can get money from citizens and local government officials also know this, so you have to investigate and find out if this is the real rate or whether a local government official is trying to extort money from you.

Thank you so much for everything Sir and the time... I was away before....

I really appreciate...

From what I gathered, our competitor paid them so they want us to also pay.

I will personally visit and see how it goes.

Lastly, I will try to take it up to see how NASS can amend such nonsense...

Once again thank you so much and everyone that enlightened me on this.

Inside life

naptu2:


http://www.nigeria-law.org/ConstitutionOfTheFederalRepublicOfNigeria.htm

Okay... So I have to pay license for having a TV and watching Private channels on it in my shop?

naptu2:


According to the constitution local governments are responsible for collecting radio and television license fees. We inherited this practice from the British.

That's for having Radio/Television in my business place?

Everybody just dey view and pass. No comment...


Lalasticlala please help move this to gain wider audience as this is very serious and urgent.

Thank you

So my manager called me this morning that Revenue in Jos, Plateau State came to demand Tax for having TV and Radio in my shop (mind you, it's strictly for entertainment only)...

I have paid normal shop/office revenue and also Banner revenue...

What is Radio and Television Revenue?

Help us because this state won't stop milking business owners.

Check the demand notice attached.

UncleGist:

A Nigerian couple-to-be who are supporters of Arsenal FC rocked their team Jersey, went down their kneels to celebrate match in lovely pre-wedding photoshoot.

Gist from Gistmore
http://gistmore.com/arsenal-couple-kneels-down-to-celebrate-in-pre-wedding-pictures

Well I don't like Arsenal but I wish them the very best...

The lady is beautiful (very beautiful)... Congratulation guys... The man is a good shooter

Azmanaty:
I am tired of reading bad and shameful news here in this forum.

The mods should just pretend for a day and not send any of those kind of topics to the front page. If they do it, they don't die. Kai!

Nairaland traffic is built on bad news, trabalism, hatred and religious bashing...

So if they stop, you are indirectly asking the forum to die a natural death.

TheExecutioner:
Good God! You mean Omenka can't even tell from the woman's name that she's a Latina? I've always known these BMCs are a bunch of ignoramuses.

Thank you Sir.

Next when you want to engage him remember this... They are programmed and know nothing except Sai Baba

AutoReportNG:
Those bet 9ja guys and the guy selling data using same method from fb message all the time

Seun... I want to make a proposal, let every new account have a trial period of one month before they can be fully activated to post or comment.... You will agree that those guys spamming the forum are new accounts, when a new account is created, its under probation period of one month such that if such user goes against the rule, its ban or suspended, he knows he can't open a new one to try such and so he will be respectful, we will have a forum devoid of hate, spam and porn.

Let every new account be under probation of one month, once you break any rule, you are banned, so you know you can't misbehave, insult or spam the forum anyhow.

Please look this and I believe this is the best solution for the tribal attacks we having here


cc;
Seun
Lalasticlala

Thank you for this...

All other foreign sites, so many that I can't mentioned all have the same method but SEUN don't want to upgrade the site or work on it... Imagine to view image or video, you have to follow a link to blog and follow another one...

He just love the numbers, the traffic and nothing much

ihatebuhari:
you are a useless and lowlife animal you’ll die poor. I’m not supporting fraud but the authority that paraded him said “alleged”

Why are Nigerians so wicked and always happy when their fellow citizens is down why?

I live here in LA I can tell you there’s lot of evil here in America more than any country on earth but they censored their news they want you to see what they want you to.

A man killed lots of people with gun last year in the US but no American citizen pray for the man to be killed but they only blamed the government, and ask them to tighten gun law.

If authorities in Nigeria arrest people for fraud why can’t the citizen tell the government to fix the country, provide jobs for youth. If Nigeria government can provide steady power supply for Nigerians do you know how many jobs will be created directly and indirectly?

You that’s happy for mompha downfall let me put it to you that dude has enjoyed his life even if he die today he has achieved and he might be in heaven why you claiming to be holy might die tomorrow in the hand of sars or accident as a result of bad roads in Nigeria and still go to hell.


See let me tell you stop being happy when people are having bad time, you can never tell he might be innocent. Nobody is holy.


I’ll forever regret being a black woman.

Forever black people are cursed and you’ve just proved it more with your evil mindset and comment

I live what you wrote there but your moniker though

Omoslim26:


revolution is not done by mere words in revolution you cleanse the land off the ruling class that suppress the people even if it means blood will flow are you ready for that ? the only reasonable call that should make wave in this Failed state is to restructure this damned country to true federalism or split the damn thing at once
#restructurenoworsplittheunion

Thank you but I won't answer if we are ready or not on a forum... But what I can assure you is this is not PROTEST...

It's the poor family vs the rich (politicians) and the ruling class family....

Unfortunately, the poor has nothing to lose...

This is a wake up call...

Revolution is Loading..

The rich class (politicians) cannot divide us again with tribe and religion...

#1MillionYouthRevolutionMarch

36 Million Youth (1million from each state) will March same day, same time to their respective Government house and __________ do the needful.

Note: No one will be allowed to participate in a state other than his/her state.

The North is fully ready except some state in Central...

South, What are you waiting for?

#1MillionYouthRevolutionMarch

Seun
Lalasticlala
Ishilove and others...

Please what is the meaning of the two caption:

......Killed by Army
.....killed by people in Army Uniform

One on the front page other when you opened the post?

What are you guys hiding?

Ishilove:
You get to work in the morning and lay your head on your desk for at least 5 minutes. You're not praying; you're exhausted.

It's killing. Lagos is killing.

Glad I made the right decision in leaving that City...

Close from work 5pm, get home by 11pm... Sleep till 3am and start running around again...

What a city...


People will be seeing you as hardworking yet nothing to show for it

Good development

But...

I choose CHESS anyday and anytime... I don't play games of luck

I love the sleeve... Who can get it for me?


I love it not because Ronaldo wore it o...

But undoubtedly Ronaldo is the real G.O.A.T not the other Asun

Deathisfree:
I Live in an apartment, just me and my landlord . I noticed strange things when I travel,I don’t meet things the way I left them when I’m back

It’s a modern door so padlocks can’t be used ,no intruder can come in because it’s well fenced and gated.
I’m 100% sure he has my spare keys,I can’t be saying how I found out he has my keys cox he might be reading this as well.

Please what do I do. I feel my privacy is being tampered it.

You are finished... Come and meet me in the compound...

Yes, I am here reading this... Your other postyou slept with who?

Deathisfree for you...

Evidence below

ZikZikZik:
No vex oh..
But e be like I don see that first picture for Obituary Poster before

Local man is confuse on what to say... He just look and "waka pass"

ZikZikZik:
No vex oh..
But e be like I don see that first picture for Obituary Poster before

I didn't even download the app self... My boys did and sent it to me...

Kyrx:


I think you looks cool with those beards

Maybe you should grow some

Nah, I hate beards... I love it fresh

Face app me

Real Me

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Viralmula:


Really sad stuffs, have in my possession some really sad pictures from this incident, its one of the worst have seen the families living there had lot of kids all unaccounted for presently

And one school in my up will be busy jumping and matching everyday... I have warned them about vibration but they keep doing it....


Btw, where exactly in Jos this happened?