Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 12:57pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Strika22: You just have to start thinking less of what people may say. Start believing in yourself thanks....I will |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 8:47pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Thanks for ur time...[quote author=Pancakeey post=94799919][/quote] |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 10:51am On Oct 10, 2020 |
She was indifferent ..I am worried she will get disgusted by inability to do it face to face quote author=solz007 post=94793209]
asking her out on social media ain't cool.. did she accept your offer?[/quote] |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 10:06am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Yes I do JayromLye: DO YOU MASTURBATE? 
Let's start from there. |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 10:00am On Oct 10, 2020 |
I just feel am not adequate even when people around me feel I am adequate....I am not bad looking and don't think It is about my financial status .it is a problem from within ..u get Fact1: Dis is simple ,ma nigga,,,,,,,,,,
International man would like to know what makes you loses yaa confidence,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,shey it is your appearance,,,,,,,,,,,,, financial status ,,,,,, etc
Imma help you if you tell me exactly what makes you loses yaa confidence  |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 9:58am On Oct 10, 2020 |
IYes , I am afraid .I am naturally friendly and can relate with people in general ..I don't know how to cope with rejection..this particular gal, we have gone out on three occasions yet haven't said anything in person ...I keep asking her out only on WhatsApp which will make me appear weak....still saw her yesterday and was just dere looking ... solz007: Oh! I get your point. are you scared of rejection or what's the problem?? cause you're already cool/friendly with her there's nothing to be scared of, just tell her how you feel even if it's jokingly.
an alternative with the way y'all been talking & chatting you can express how you feel via your actions by just acting like her Boyfriend. Do stuffs a Boyfriend will do for his girlfriend but don't be too nice & needy! instead she'll be the one asking you
what's up with us!? |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 9:47am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Thanks for this ...u r ryt ...I feel I am not just adequate or not the favoured type...I just feel am cursed or naturally unlucky .. Strika22: I do think you overthink issues, which in my opinion makes you feel less of yourself. The worst thing someone is gonna tell you for asking or trying something is NO. You need to start being less afraid from take some obvious steps in your life. Maybe you think, you are too ugly or don’t have enough money yet. Try Loving yourself over again, that will raise your confidence a little. |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 9:37am On Oct 10, 2020 |
I know how to initiate a convo ..my problem is finishing . Take for example , got a gal number and w chatted for so long , get to talk in real life and all. When it is now time for me to state my intentions clearly , won't be bold to do so. Going out with a lady and won't b able to tell her face to face how I feel. Instead, would rather go online to do so. .u get solz007: If it's girl matter just practice man.. just decide to talk to 2-3 girls in a day with the aim of getting their numbers. start with girls you find less attractive from there you Level Up!
I can relate to your story bro. I wish I can take this advice I'm giving sha |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 9:31am On Oct 10, 2020 |
The major problem is that I find it hard asking any lady I really like out in real time . I most often hide behind my keypad to do so ....not really happy about it ..it makes me feel less of a man ..in addition, l lack confidence in other aspects of life . I don't know how to face my fears Pancakeey: Okay most times confidence oozes from the outside.
So if you’re in your early 20’s and you lack self confidence maybe you feel there are people doing better than you or something.
I really don’t know.
Your story is too vague to draw a conclusion from |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 9:28am On Oct 10, 2020 |
The problem is that I find it hard asking any lady o really like out in real time . I most times hide behind my keypad to do so ....not really happy about it ..it makes me feel less of a man ..in addition, l lack confidence in other aspects of life . I don't know how to face my fears . Pancakeey: Okay most times confidence oozes from the outside.
So if you’re in your early 20’s and you lack self confidence maybe you feel there are people doing better than you or something.
I really don’t know.
Your story is too vague to draw a conclusion from |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 9:15am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Coming out to answer a question in front of a large audience ..it wasn't easy tho. MikeMicheal: This is not possible. If you have to take your time to think, think well. There must be something. I am asking this question because the solution you seek, revolves secretly around that.
I can give you useless motivational words like everyone else, but honestly it will only be a waste of time as usual. What works best is systematic and practical approach.
So, once again what is the boldest thing you have ever done? |
Romance › Re: Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 8:46am On Oct 10, 2020 |
MikeMicheal: To help you, what is the boldest thing you have done? I don't think I have done any |
Romance › Lack Of Self-confidence....I need help by greatagain17(op): 8:24am On Oct 10, 2020 |
I am a guy in my late 20s and lack self confidence in all aspect of my everyday life. It is really affecting me and I feel It is high time I sought for help. How do I overcome this shortcoming of mine . Advice needed . |
Celebrities › Re: Zlatan Ibile Prints His EFCC Mugshot On His T-Shirt by greatagain17(m): 4:54am On May 19, 2019 |
Dontripsy: MUGSHOT Description
A mug shot or mugshot is a photographic portrait of a person from the waist up, typically taken after a person is arrested.
This is not a mugshot. The OP is dull. |
Politics › Re: Governor Ayade In Taiwan For The Taiwan - Nigeria Investment Summit (Photos) by greatagain17(m): 12:35pm On May 14, 2019 |
It is not in all cases . we still have countries that maintain a pseudo relationship with both Taiwan and China even tho it is against the "One-China" policy. Acidosis: This is a LIE.
You cant form a bilateral relationship with China and Taiwan at the same time.
You are either for China (where Taiwan is considered a province) or for Taiwan (at the detriment of all relations with China). One of the rules of engagement with China is to de-recognize Taiwan as an independent nation.
Please get your facts right
https://punchng.com/nigeria-cuts-diplomatic-relations-taiwan/ |
Education › UTME 2019: Why We Won’t Release Results Now – JAMB by greatagain17(op): 2:32pm On May 05, 2019 |
The Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board, JAMB, has continued to explain why it is yet to release the result of the 2019 Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination, UTME. The unsual delay has created room for anxiety and suspicion among some Nigerians. Dr. Fabian Benjamin, JAMB spokesman, told The Sun on Saturday, that they appreciate the anxiety and concerns of candidates. He, however, requested that JAMB be allowed to do the necessary things before releasing the result. He said that though results were released pretty much earlier in 2017 and 2018, it was necessary for the board to improve on its credibility this time around. According to him, many candidates had in the past, escaped with illegitimate acts they perpetrated during the UTME exercise, but that won’t be allowed to continue. He said JAMB would take its time and scrutinise the outcome of the exercise to ensure that tertiary institutions are proud of whatever they get from JAMB. He added, “We are gatekeepers but the entire security system of the house could be compromised, if we refuse to keep the gate. “We would strictly follow the process so that we can get it right. We are less concerned about the time, but (more about) how well and credible (the results become); neither policy meeting nor admission will start this month. So, the delay will not affect any item on our timetable. “The UTME results are intact and nothing has happened to them. No server has crashed and no other major challenge. The 2019 UTME exercise recorded malpractices but they were not as bad as they used to be. “Even in previous examinations, there were malpractices but nobody noticed because of the way we handled them. We are not ashamed to admit that there are issues. But our pride is in getting it right. Once we get it right, it will serve as a message that it’s no longer business as usual. “Illegality had thrived in the society of over the years because people failed to follow issues to (their) logical conclusion. But we have decided to do otherwise, and we need the support of Nigerians to achieve that.” “Tertiary institutions who are our end users would also be proud of it. “Our target is that candidates that commit any offence should not go unpunished. At same time, we don’t want any innocent candidate to be punished unjustly.” https://dailypost.ng/2019/05/04/utme-2019-wont-release-results-now-jamb/amp/ |
Car Talk › Re: Ifeanyichukwu Hezekiah, Ugwu Stephen, Amalum Chikamso's Locally Made Car by greatagain17(m): 5:58pm On May 03, 2019 |
*TOY CAR Nokio1: Where is the car? |
Education › Re: JAMB May Cancel Half Of 2019 UTME Results In Some States Over Cheating — PT by greatagain17(m): 8:31am On May 03, 2019 |
cyberguy72: Jamb is just trying to cover up for their crashed database and now want to deny innocent students their right to re write their JAMB EXAMS.There were no results in many centers, many cbt centers systems crashed b4 and even after exams started.
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Romance › Re: Thailand’s King, Maha Vajiralongkorn Marries Suthida by greatagain17(m): 8:29am On May 03, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Thailand’s King, Maha Vajiralongkorn Marries Suthida by greatagain17(m): 8:25am On May 03, 2019 |
Same where ....especially with the word "bodyguard". I thought it was one of those gay marriages abroad atilla: Dunno why I thot he married a man. I had to read the article like three times to understand maybe I'm sleepy. Happy married life to them |
Celebrities › Re: Girl Contemplating Abortion Seeks Help From John Dumelo Over Pastor's Prophecy by greatagain17(m): 9:04am On Apr 30, 2019 |
True talk ...U r right ..well said! wirinet: Unreserved apology granted.
Being raped alone is psychologically traumatic, but being forced to give birth to a rapist child makes the situation worse. The baby will be a reminder of the rape for the rest of her life.
Forget the scare mongering, early term abortion done by a professional doctor is extremely safe. When I was in the world, my friends and I had lots of experience in that regard and non resulted in any complications. I had a friend that the girlfriend got pregnant practically every month. The girl is married today with children.
The problem is cost, abortion by a qualified gynecologist is quite expensive. I hear it is about 50k nowadays. The cases where complication arises is when the abortion is late like 4 months and above or it was done by quacks, chemists, nurses, etc.
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Celebrities › Re: Girl Contemplating Abortion Seeks Help From John Dumelo Over Pastor's Prophecy by greatagain17(m): 7:48am On Apr 30, 2019 |
I read the report and comprehended every bit of info in it. I only suggested two major options to her in my comment. Although , the first option best suit her condition, the other option is cool as it will minimize any complication post-abortion. Being emotionally and psychologically fit is relative . She can as well see a mental health specialist and a counsellor to tackle the depression. I have every right or freedom to interpret the OP post the way I like or feel. Saying I only read the headline and not the report itself is an act of 'e-agression' on your part. I deserve an unreserved apology from you, Wirinet wirinet: It seems you only read the headline and not the report itself. The report said someone forcefully had sex with her insinuating rape. The report also said " her current state left her in near-depression", unless you want her to commit suicide before you accept that she is not emotionally and psychologically prepared to have a baby. |
Celebrities › Re: Girl Contemplating Abortion Seeks Help From John Dumelo Over Pastor's Prophecy by greatagain17(m): 7:20am On Apr 30, 2019 |
Abortion is a sin yen yen yen .....terminate the pregnancy with a qualified doctor and sin no more dear ! She only had sex, she didn't commit murder. However , if you are emotionally and psychologically prepared to have the child, then no need for abortion . |
Celebrities › Re: Girl Contemplating Abortion Seeks Help From John Dumelo Over Pastor's Prophecy by greatagain17(m): 7:11am On Apr 30, 2019 |
teddyK: There is no justification for this..Abortion is a sin...She should please keep the baby, help will always come...
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Crime › Re: 3 Persons Killed By Cultists In Eneka Obio-Akpo In Rivers State (Graphic Photos) by greatagain17(m): 3:35pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
JudasNaCarrot: Proliferation of small arms fire, availability of cheap hard drugs, failed family values and upbringing, failure of government in provision of employment/enabling environment to do business are all responsible for the blood letting in Rivers and other parts of this country.
Until these factors are tackled holistically the future remains bleak as more and more youths will get involved in these killings and maiming.
A once peaceful State with a state capital dubbed "Garden City" have turned to "Killing City" due to mainly failed family values and upbringing.
Children born out of wedlock with little or no home discipline are everywhere especially Diobu and other water side areas selling cheap hard drugs and fire arms. Guns are rented or sold cheaply in these places.
Families, religious houses and the government should take up the full responsibility of re orientation of these youths. Except this is done, this cancer will spread to other parts of the country, by then it would be difficult to tackle.
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Nairaland General › Re: What's The Reason For The Increase In Alcohol Intake Among Youth Today? by greatagain17(m): 3:03pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
RonKenoly: Is it just my surrounding or are young chaps into getting high this days? I am on this table. I take alcohol on weekly basis. You r right. Youths getting high on alcohol is common these days . it is partly due to stress , unemployment, depression , e.t.c |
Romance › Re: Fellow Nairalanders You All Are Specially Invited To My Wedding by greatagain17(m): 12:09pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Congrats.. MrOfficer: My wedding comes up on the 27th of April, 2019 and everybody here is invited:
Rice and stew will be very plenty. Lalasticlala I have made special provision for your specialty
Dominique Freiburger R231
Omenka still dey here sef? He is invited too |
Travel › Re: Man And Fiancee Die In Car Accident Days To Wedding In Akwa Ibom by greatagain17(m): 11:24am On Apr 19, 2019 |
There is no sense in ur comment.... Death is inevitable. Whether u r spiritual or not. RIP the Couple Jessyjack: so so so sad......! this is why I always tell singles,when preparing for marriage, settle the spiritual aspect first before taking the preparation steps....... |
Family › Re: Bride Showers Praises On Her Mother And Prostrates For Her In Her Wedding Gown by greatagain17(m): 11:48am On Apr 13, 2019 |
BUSHHUNTER: Na only woman dey get all d praises abi?
wetin do their father?
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Sports › Re: Joseph Yobo Gives His Son A Birthday Shout Out On Live TV by greatagain17(m): 12:42pm On Apr 11, 2019 |
Korean accent  Ra88: It’s just that. I don’t understand Joseph Yobos accent. Which country accent him dey speak? |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Biggest Drug Dealers in Liberia, Nabbed with L$12m Worth of Heroine by greatagain17(m): 5:49pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
Henry Cheigwu and Christian OnhuwuMediaLife: Two Nigerian men have been arrested by officers of the Liberia Drugs Enforcement Agency (LDEA), with heroine worth 12 million Liberian dollars.
Henry Cheigwu and Christian Onhuwu, supply drugs to citizens in Gbarnga, commander of the LDEA in Bong County,Alex Tweh, said, following their arrest on Sunday.
“We received a tip off that the two Nigerian nationals have been dealing drugs in Gbarnga, Bong County, for the past ten years,” he said.
Upon the search of their business center, LDEA officers found plastic bags containing the drugs.
Source: https://www.mediahelm.com.ng/2019/04/nigerian-biggest-drug-dealers-in.html |
Crime › Re: Man’s Hands Chopped Off In Sokoto By Armed Men (Disturbing Photos) by greatagain17(m): 3:59pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
LMAO... M@sturbation is key! beatcoins: Hahahaha, walahi you are right! |