₦airaland Forum

Yomieluv:
point of correction, the lady in question was forcing herself on me, we were dating before I got married, I never liked it, more reason I came here to seek way to end it..which I have done. Some women are just a bone in the neck.

I believe in fidelity, and holding the marriage institution sacred. Stop using my post to haunt me.. Nairaland is a place to seek advice,or help even for minute situations.

Am human, so am bound to temptations, and fall. What makes a man isn't the falling, but ability to retrace his steps..

Nobody holy pass, even your boo fit get boo..

Heeeeee, hold it! I'm not using your past to haunt you! You know me on this section very well, I don't do back and front, up and down with anyone. But I'm going to indulge you on this.

Yes, we know you're human, and no human is beyond temptation but once you know that you call fall, you should also know that another person can fall too, hence, you're not in the capacity to give such judgment you gave up there. You're claiming the girl is the one forcing herself on you, how are you sure it's not the ex of this man's wife that is forcing himself on her too?
You're claiming NL is for seeking advice, in your honest opinion, did you give the right advice knowing fully well that what you're advising the man to do is what your wife should have done to you.

You're advising someone to send his wife who has given the man 4wonderful kids away, just because he suspected her cheating, when you could not even stay faithful with your own wife for one year? Haba! Why are you people like this? Dishing out the advice you wouldn't want anyone to apply on you.

In summary, it's not in your capacity to give the op such an advice of sending his wife of many years away when it's even difficult for you to be faithful for one year.

You're an hypocrite!
Next time, on threads like this, keep quite and learn from it.


As for my boo, leave that one for me, but one thing is certain, I know who he is but does your wife know who you are

Peace!

Congratulations!


You people tried.
Wishing you many blissful years together!

Yomieluv:
no better to treat her than gather concrete evidence, then kick her azz out..

A cheating wife is dangerous, because women are emotional being, the ex can sway her to do the unthinkable.

Better be ready to count your loss when divorce sets in.

But a cheating husband like you is not dangerous



@op jare, you're the one I want to talk to.......
What do you think has gone wrong, because from your previous post, you people have 4 lovely kids together and I'm sure it couldn't be like that from the beginning, something must have gone wrong.

Why don't you confront her and let her know how you feel by that act of betrayal of hers and ask what she really want, whether she want to stay with you or the ex and mean every word that comes out of your mouth while speaking with her.

Waiting and playing dumb till when there's concrete evidence might be mere wasting of time, and what concrete evidence are you even waiting for with what already with you?

If after the discussion, it seems her mind is made up to leave you, then, please, free her. An unfaithful spouse is dangerously deadly.

May God help you.

Set of clueless and directionless people!

dhardline:
It's normal na.... But one day the youths will wake up 'maybe' and then slings will be used on all squadereres of our resources.

Is the governor himself not still a youth

Abeg, he don spoil youths' chances of occupying political position jare.

Why is he not using his masked security men today

But why was it banned first


Anyway, we're waiting, it's long overdue!

If this is true, then Nigerians will have something to be happy about for the first time in this year. This will help bring the price down.

Is there still election in any part of this country, no be selection dem dey do

No cause for alarm!


Anytime it happens, let the mother give him breastmilk if she's practising EB, if not, the baby can be given few drops of water.

The baby want to be eating more, so, he's naturally trying to expand his stomach (as we're told by our old mamas.)

May God console his parents



Sad,,may his soul rest in peace!

Thank God the reward of teachers is not only in heaven again.

I'm happy that teachers now enjoy their rewards while on earth as well in heaven.



Diligence pays!

Kudos, Governor Fayose!

Sad!

Life is indeed vanity!

May his soul rest in peace.


May God give his loved ones the fortitude to bear the loss.


Help, I declare to that his young child!

I'm happy for him.

Wishing him speedy recovery!

#Getwellsoon

I pray they're found intact!


Only God knows what their parents are going through now!

There is dignity in labour!


God bless her hustle!

God is really using TY Bello to answer Olajumoke's prayers!


Good one!

I'm happy for her!

dunkem21:
When you're paid to comment, na so e dey be

BrokenTV:
Leave that Sarki guy his own zombiesm is out of this world. Go through all his comments on this forum you will wonder if he was programmed to talk this way. I was thinking before may be he was a little kid that found his way with phone to browse on the net. But going through his profile it baffles me that a grown up could be reasoning the way he is reasoning.

BrokenTV:
Leave that Sarki guy his own zombiesm is out of this world. Go through all his comments on this forum you will wonder if he was programmed to talk this way. I was thinking before may be he was a little kid that found his way with phone to browse on the net. But going through his profile it baffles me that a grown up could be reasoning the way he is reasoning.

Exactly!

If he's not paid for all these his online posts, then, he's the most...............person in this country.

nerodenero:
If PDP diverted N4 billion, Oshobaba, how much have you diverted too? Your yansh go open if PDP wins!!!

Like PDP, APC. This news is only coming out because the election is around the corner.

Nigerian polithiefcians are worse than armed robbers.

You just spoke my mind, these politicians are our common and collective enemies. None of them is there to serve their people or the country but their pockets, interest and their kids.

Politicians= bunch of selfish, greedy and heartless set of evil people.

MONITZ:
Osho, na so? All these talks re too petty, anyway they know where they will still meet at the end of d day, it's just the masses that re hoodwinked.

I am not even seeing anyone worthy between the two main contenders to occupy the state house reason being that the Igbinideons r d one backing Iyamu, a claim that Iyamu hasn't denied, so that they can ve unfettered access to the state treasury once again and on the other hand Osho is campaigning like he is d one contesting,I don't even think he campaigned this hard wen he was seeking a second term some years ago.

His desperation to foist his puppet on the people of Edo state confirms the claim in some quarters that he is trying to cover his tracks well hence the need for Obaseki to take over from him because he thinks Obaseki won't rock the boat if he gets on the seat.

It was this same Osho who claimed that "Godfatherism" was dead nd buried in Edo state, I guess he is trying to "resurrect" it again.

Believing and fighting on behalf of all these politicians is just crazy and plain stupid of those who indulge in the act. .

Honestly!

Until we see those politicians as our common and collective enemies, we ain't moving forward in this country.

temptnow:
I heard my daughter complaining that her teacher have been eating one of her biscuit. she said whenever she help her open the biscuit instead of 4 piece she's been given 3. Until this morning I decided to buy her biscuit for school only to realize it's 3 inside the wrap. Buhari promised to feed our kids instead with his policies he is indirectly taking away the food from their mouth. I don't like this change, honestly.

And the biscuits are not only reduced in numbers, they're also reduced in size and quality.

God have mercy on us and our kids!

sarrki:
So buhari is the brand manager of that coy ?

Companies have reasons the brand, reduce or add to

their products not necessarily because they are not

making gain

Atimes to make it trendy & acceptable to consumers

Play opposition with reasoning

Can you please read what you typed up there again?
Are you naturally wicked and inhuman or you're just trying to justify what you're paid to do online

Be wise in your giving!

otukpo:
Was Buhari not supposed to go through that write up, correct it before delivering it?

Must he accept everything handed over to him for presentation?

Can't he make his own input?

We continue to blame every other person for the same one man"s mistake.

Even if he went through it, what could he do? Did Buhari himself knew that Obama made such speech in 200


Instead of him to take responsibility for his ineptitude,, he's sacking up and down.


A leader who cannot take responsibility for his mistakes is not worthy to have faithful followers.

I love the sincerity of this Bishop Kukah!



Enough of the blame game!

Nigerians voted for you to right the wrongdoings of the past administration not to blame them.

Nigerians are tired of your ineptitude, selective corruption fighting, nepotism and all sorts.


It's time to wake up, it's morning already.

I love the sincerity of this Bishop Kukah!



Enough of the blame game!

Nigerians voted for you to right the wrongdoings of the past administration not to blame them.

Nigerians are tired of your ineptitude, selective corruption fighting, nepotism and all sorts.


It's time to wake up, it's morning already.

iLife:
Good Day the good people of Nairaland, I have been part of you for many years now, but for privacy reason, I have opened this account to ask for your help/assistance.



I'm a young man who believe in hustling with dignity, and I'm willing to work when the Job is available, but as I write to you now, it has been the grace of God that I manage to get by, concrete and carrying of block work self is like looking for a gold mine.



I'm normally into fixing PVC Ceiling, Normal Ceiling, Logging, Painting and some wood work, but there have been no Job for some months now and I'm seriously broke. I'm currently learning how to Barb hair now.

Why I need your financial assistance, is to help me with whatever you can so that I can go into buying of cloths, deodorants and shoes, aftershaves, which I can put in a bag and sell moving from place to place to keep my mind engaged and to sustain me during this raining season when my kind of Jobs is scares.

Please If the above Jobs are available, I'm willing to do them and excellently too. Thanks

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You people no dey tire

In this tough time

Fear God o

Dandy1:
Thanks so much. It hurt more when I went home to get some stuffs in the baby room and saw all those things we bought in pairs. Cots, wardrobe,carriers, baby car seats, and the stroller which my baby just forced me to assemble the second one just yesterday evening. When she said she might give birth anytime soon.
For pregnant people I'd like to give this advice:
It turned out the baby had been dead for over 48 hours before today. For a set of monozygotic twins(sharing same sac),the doctors thought it's a miracle there were no complications. To think we still went for checkup on last week Monday when she felt pain overnight,where the doctor advised to opt for CS that it is safer as against what people think. Especially for multiple births. She said the babies were perfectly grown and were just waiting inside. That they will be fine if delivered right away. But my wife felt she could do it by herself. It's all good though we'll get over it. I'll start deleting those pictures from her phone and dispose of those double things we won't be needing so as to make it go away quick.

Didn't see this before my first post.

It is well

God will strengthen you and your wife to get over it as soon as possible!

Sweet bitter experience indeed!


Well, thank God for the boo you already have and be strong for the sake of your wife and boo.



Another twins will soon come, this is an experience, but next time, especially if it's twins like this or even singleton, you could have opted for CS if the labour is longer than necessary.
To give birth to one sef no easy not to talk of twins, especially after 7 hours of labour.
A stich in time saves nine.


Congratulations and take heart.


#mixedfeeling

Oh my god!

Sorry for your loss sir

Please help us to tell him that there's too much hardship in the land o, him and his members of his cabinet should do something positive about it o.