₦airaland Forum

Biodun556:
Aboki to the rescue.

And you want to compete with lagos

Is there water in lagos?
In Nigeria generally, is there water?

Everything nor be politics and play

Who get her number? I need am fast fast.

More grace to her

JAWBONE:
Where would the Nigerians in the US get Naira to transact with the Nigerian Embassy in US.
You people overestimate the importance of Nigeria.

Your Naira is a shit currency, even your leaders don't want to hold Naira.

Tinubu and his family own properties and assets in UK, France, US.
The Deputy Governor of Lagos has a US passport.

All these drama from EFCC and CBN is simply looking for someone else to blame when the problem is in front of them

Nigerian hate and shy away from the truth.

Chimarto:
You're stopping foreign missions from transacting in dollar and ordered your own foreign mission abroad to transact in naira violating the host country's policy? Our leaders have sense but they don't have wisdom.

Both sense and wisdom they don't have.

Officiallyrazz:
To commemorate its 25th anniversary, the iconic Nokia 3210 has made a comeback, delighting those nostalgic for simpler times.

HMD, the company behind Nokia phones, has reintroduced this "cultural icon" in response to increasing demand for less complicated devices to facilitate digital detoxes. The updated 3210 now boasts a two-megapixel camera, supports 4G calling, and retains the beloved classic game Snake, all available for £74.99.

Lars Silberbauer, HMD's chief marketing officer, remarked, "The Nokia 3210, a cultural icon, is back at the forefront of the global dumbphone trend as consumers seek to balance their screen time usage with a digital detox. The Nokia 3210 embodies simplicity, enabling consumers to be fully present. Forget dumbphone; this is 2024's fun phone."

Ben Wood, mobile phone expert and founder of the Mobile Phone Museum, reflected on the model's significance: "The original Nokia 3210 holds a special place in the hearts of many consumers as one of the best-selling mobile phones of all time. It's the perfect product to reimagine for the modern era given its strong heritage and iconic design."

If nor be 3310, e nor fit be like 3310

Lovechyld101:
Defeating the US and it propaganda is just easy let all country ditch the dollar as world trade currency and see the US crumble the debt alone they have would send them spiraling into recession

And adopt which currency exactly....naira or what?

chaseblack:
Its obvious who the aggressor is here but dimwits will be shouting . If USA are really Interested in the country's politics, why did they open their eyes and allow the coup take place when they have men in the country? Food for thought! USA care about their country only and as it should be, Niger should do what they think it's best for them but no one should come here and claim Russia to be the next best thing after sardine.

By the way, na here we go dey when Niger will regret their choice.

i gree with ur thought on this

jmoore:
Tinubu APC gangs in government are the one manipulating the fx.

They use propaganda to make dollar appear cheaper. Once they buy billions of dollars at cheaper price, they manipulate the price to go high so they can sell to make massive gains. And the cycle will keep repeating.

This has my thought and suspicion since, I agree with this because this people are highly treacherous and corrupt. The Naira issue has been acting funny

The man is a fool, a BIG fool

DeLaRue:
A lot of men have allowed things they read from unserious men on social media, usually from American rap and street culture adherents, to distort their views in such a damaging way.

What kind of love is it when you have to sit your future partner down and say you must each contribute N5m into a deposit account before marriage can happen.

That's a transactional relationship. How long can a marriage built on such faulty foundation last.

Where there is love, such thinking simply don't happen.

Just let the lady be. Your action was cold, nasty, inconsiderate, and hurtful.

I just hope this is fiction

I think the point is why would a babe be disturbing a man about marriage when she doesn't have any plan whatsoever, you just want a man to do everything for you, it doesn't make sense to me. So u nor get anything to contribute but u dey disturb person for marriage, because na man make e kill im self becos e wan marry. Even if I'm a billionaire she would contribute something, so she would understand the essence of hard work. You cannot just stay idle and just be eating, make good use of yourself as a woman.

If anything happens to the man you married to, the next you start seeing the woman sleeping around just to cater for her family. I like hard working women with SENSE......I don't need a woman's money but she must make good use of herself.

National anthem

Mitsurugi:
Bayern think say na Arsenal

Why substitute Kane for Choupa-Moting? Coach was already seeing final before the match was over against renowned UEFA come back kings. What if Real equalized won't Kane have been better as a PK taker?

Tuchel forgot that you never count your money when you're seating at the table. There'll be time enough to count it... when the deal is done.

All blame to Neuer.....very unprofessional mistake

I just hope you are the real father of those kids

Ezeama400:

this is strong

phorget:
If I talk now they will call me names, let me just keep quiet. I hope you all have taken your Bitter Obi this morning, it will help cure all yamayama and BATeria infections that has affected all your senses of reasoning.

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Hotzone:
Must be within the outskirts

There's nothing like outskirts, Abuja is Abuja, and Abuja is in Nigeria which is also a failed state.

They should just change their constitution and say "till putin dies" no need to dey do election

This economy would favor me n my family...

karimbenz:
I don't know what some men derive in fucking people's wives...very bad idea...the man is cursed already

Sincerely I don't know......some prefer it more.

onumadu:
You made some good points, but you still didn't give room for her humanity in the face of adversity - in this instance POVERTY.
Mehn... you are grossly underestimating what POVERTY can do, especially to a Nigerian woman's mind.
Not making excuses for her...
Ask yourself this simple question: How many poor Nigerian women can refuse significant amount of money, particularly these days of satanic hardship?
But I get your point (and have always been aware anyway) that a woman who has already made up her mind to screw another man cannot be stopped. She would find one excuse or another to accomplish her wish.
But it doesn't seem like that woman in the OP is one of such. She appears to have lost her mind temporarily due to hardship.
My 2 kobo opinion.

Your opinion is beyond 2 kobo, you are right, poverty can lead to alot, hunger nor be person mate...when it comes hard, alot can be done to stop it...probably that was her motivation and she now regrets her action.

onumadu:
I chose to respond to you firstly because you didn't insult me (like the rest of the brainless oafs here).
Secondly, I like how you premised your question on the concept of the golden rule (do unto others as you'll want others to do to you).

To the issue and my comment.
Please re-read my comment again because most of you missed the key premises of my views:

Premise #1: ALL humans are not infallible or without sin (including you). NOBODY CAN EVER SWEAR THAT THEY CAN'T SIN, one way or another. You may not commit adultery, but you may steal, cheat others, envy/covet others, kill others one way or another, etc.

Premise #2: She MUST confess NOW and return ALL the money. This way she ensures that the man has no remaining claims on her in any way. She would also be free of his blackmail.

Premise #3: This is a ONE TIME thing and not a habitual character issue. Her husband knows her as a NORMAL TRUSTWORTHY WOMAN (not a LovePeddler).

Premise #4: The man in question is a MATURE man (all mature men know that NOTHING can be guaranteed in life except death).
Mature persons understands that life is a deep dark thing, and only the light that comes from within can help one navigate it.
Deep stuff which I don't have time to elaborate on here...

Whatever I say here is EXACTLY WHAT I WOULD DO IF IT WERE ME.
But then again, I don't expect everyone to agree with me, after-all we are not all at the same levels of spiritual vibration.

The fact that the woman bothered to share her story and has been pained enough to seek help is enough validation that she REALLY hates what happened. Did she have to share anything here? NOPE.
As a matter of fact, most of the men ranting here calling me all sorts of names are the types that their women screw the whole town secretly, while they are here rapping rubbish.
Women who REALLY cheat (true whores) NEVER SHARE THEIR STORY. THEY OPERATE IN STEALTH MODE PERMANENTLY.
The OP doesn't seem to match that, because she is already willing to return the money she received.
Anyway, there you have it.
You are entitled to your view, and I mine.

Thanks for the reply, while i don't want to argument more, I am not trying to be judgemental or generalize, most women are very crafty and smart, she may have evisage what might come in the future, hance trying to plan for backup. Women would commit an act, tell u and still continue in the act, especially women that easily say the are SORRY, fear them. One of my major issue with her write up is "and one thing led to another" a married woman! A married woman would seat down in a man's house and allow one thing to lead to another, that means she wasn't defensive at all, meaning she likely wanted it.....you go to a man's house that you claimed has been asking you out for 5 years and he probably knows you are married, and you did not plan to be defensive, and the man did not rape you.....naaaahhhh, she probably regrets her action....but I don't think it was a mistake

RushManni:
I dey tell you.

Where I even gave up was where she stated "the man has been disturbing her for 5 years ....."

That line gave her out that it was deliberate. Imagine married woman saying such

Even gf sef to say that, means she's already falling for the person but looking for excuse

Na im married woman dey yarn o .....

Already giving public reason why "she has tried and needs accolades to have resisted for 5 years. Whole 5 years. So it's time to remove pant na for the man"

That's all about it. Dumb woman thinking she can deceive people.

Exactly, very annoying

RushManni:
Bro, you dey cap nonsense here especially at the part you stated that we are humans and aren't perfect, in this case.

Pleaseeee let's call a spade a spade.

U think she can return that money ? You're joking

Or you think they won't have sex again ?

Well, I leave you with that mirage you see as reality

Imperfection has limit

Just like a man using his child for rituallll and you say he is imperfect ?

Imperfection has limit

Some things are deliberately..... If a woman DOESN'T want to sleep with you, there is nothing you do that'll let her do that.

He didn't rape her

It was the same "one thing led to another..." ;DLol..... Abeg allow yourself to wake up; but that's if you really want.

Well said and well analyzed, reality should always be said.... not deceiving one's self......how can a married woman say one thing lead to the other and gbam....total rubbish

onumadu:
Firstly, understand that you are a human being, and human beings are not perfect (including the hypocrites here calling you all types of names and accusing you).
As a human being, you fell for hardship (that is why poverty is very dangerous).
Understand this and forgive yourself.
Secondly, tell your husband everything now. Return the man's money, too. ALL OF IT.
I presume you are married to a mature man (not a kid like those ranting here).
I also assume that you are telling the truth about this being a one time mistake and not your character flaw.
If your husband has always known you as a normal trustworthy woman, and he is not the deeply insecure type (BTW I warn women to never marry insecure man no matter what), he is likely to forgive and let bygone be bygone.
Just like Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, GO AND SIN NO MORE.

My question to you is, if you are a man and your wife tells you thus story, how would you react?

LibertyRep:
What or who's to blame this time around?

Sighs.

Blame everything blame able

LibertyRep:
What or who's to blame this time around?

Sighs.

Fintechs like Opay, palmpay etc.....very soon who to blame would finish.

EreluRoz:
The present problem Nigeria is facing started from when Jonathan lost his reelection, they did a lot of damages you can ever imagined before leaving office as part of their revenge, Buhari came and couldn't fix it but added to it and here we are today.

Don't just argue this with me

State the damages they did please, let's start from there

fx45:
Stop deceiving yourself. 99.9 of those protesters are Muslim migrants from the Middle East. They're not Americans. That is why they've been chanting "Death to America". The plan is to destroy America from within

oya na, u think even the terrorists don't like peace for themselves

Nazgul:
I can bet my broken screen abandoned android phone that not a single one of those cowards would travel down to yemen to claim that scholarship.

lol....they would be forming protest yet

Very dull man.....i don't know y stupidity reigns in the head of these APC ppl

Risingblue008:
This US is just overrated
Russians and china whr busy going into more engineering ans discovery
The US was busy debatin on abortion LGTQ or rubbish,sponsorin terrorism
See USA as of now cannot dear

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Even this turkiyie
Both in military and technology as at now
Even biden say that their structures are now ranked 13th in the world
Fighter jets dey crash up and down
Pass ukraine and russia combined 2geda
The only good thin about US is that
They will help u fullfill ur dream life if only u are ready
Everything is put in place over there

See this clown, the country with the highest military/security budget is debating about LGBT.....i laf u

Yet lagos is like refuse dump.....na only to advertise money una sabi......if that money truly enter lagos....d world go know.....dem nor dey tell blind man say rain dey fall...... nonsense