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RaymondFantasy:
Reddit and Quora which is better?

Depending on what you want, Quora is more of question and answers/opinions from people who are knowledgeable in the field asked about.

Reddit is a social news platform with different communities for different interests.

humilitypays:
any married man with kids still fooling around with girls having indiscriminate sex is not reasonable. Something he has been having since teenage, some started massive fvcking of different ladies from high school, it will shock u to know that an average Nigerian man of 3yrs have fvcked more than 20 different ladies before he gets married, so what else is he looking for He should be retiring from that stressful exercise called sex and focusing on other issues of life that will prolong his stay here on earth.


Focusing on training his kids to be the best in the society, helping people overcome life challenges instead still wasting his time and energy on having sex every now and then.


Something must be wrong with the husband psychologically or mentally or hormonally. If the op is saying the truth, it is abnormal

This and your other comments made a fixed assumption that he's been having premarital sex which is just biased, so what's your assumption if he got married a virgin to make your conclusions balanced?

donnie:
Many times, but the most recent on my mind is when I left CE church last year. I later declared that I wasn't a Christian on Facebook because of some posts I made which were true but which Christians didn't like.

Of course many insulted and even called me false prophet. What shocked me was even those close to me, I found making snide remarks and calling me end time false Prophet. Even more stupid was one guy who's life I had turned around by YAH's grace. He was jumping around my timeline making stupid comments. I introduced him to someone who gave him almost all his major engineering jobs. He even lived in one of the man's houses for free, got married and had a child right in that house. I gave him jobs to do and still had more waiting for him. Well that was it, I had to change him. I even found someone so good that it made this fool look like an apprentice. Christianity actually makes many people stupid.

I don't know what really happened but I apologise on their behalf, please don't confuse Christ with Christianity, we may bear his name, but we certainly don't always live up to it and please do not judge Jesus Christ by the actions of the church but judge the actions of the church by Jesus Christ.

yomifowe:
Pastor Chris teaching at the recently concluded Global Day Of Prayer made this fact known to millions of participants who hooked up to the various online platform where the week-long program was broadcasted live, excerpts

"When is Jesus coming back? At the end of the church age, which is 2000 years. Something to keep in mind:

Jesus is coming back after 2 days, which is 2000 years from the day he ascended, and on the 3rd day, with is 3000th year, He is coming to reign on earth, and we will be with Him. So we are within the 2000 years, and we are living at the tail end or last days of the 2000 years.

Hosea 6:1-2 KJV*
*Come, and let us return unto the Lord : for he hath torn, and he will heal us; he hath smitten, and he will bind us up. After two days will he revive us: in the third day he will raise us up, and we shall live in his sight. Then shall we know, if we follow on to know the Lord : his going forth is prepared as the morning; and he shall come unto us as the rain, as the latter and former rain unto the earth.

2 Peter 3:8
But, beloved, be not ignorant of this one thing, that one day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day.


*1 Thessalonians 4:13-17 KJV*
*Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. According to the Lord’s word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.*

*1 Corinthians 15:51-56 KJV*
*Behold, I shew you a mystery; We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. For this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality. So when this corruptible shall have put on incorruption, and this mortal shall have put on immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying that is written, Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? The sting of death is sin; and the strength of sin is the law.*

In a twinkling of an eye, we will disappear. That's how fast it will be. Until we go, there won't be one world religion, government, etc. Until we leave, the antichrist won't show up.

The Rapture of the church is the first thing that we should be expecting right now the church has only "2 days" to be in this world" he said.

Matt 24: 34
Verily I say unto you, This generation shall not pass, till all these things be fulfilled.

So be prepared. The generation (100 years) commenced in 1928 when Israel became a nation. So technically, the rapture might take place on or around 2028, which is 28 years from now.

So brethren, if you're now born again, kindly give your life to Christ because there is no much time left.

Trying to predict when Jesus Christ is coming back is just.....smh.
Guy just stop trying to predict and focus only on God, doing his will, sharing the good news, because this post in my opinion is like trying to put a timestamp on the actions of an infinite Being who's not limited or within time as we are, which is like saying we limited beings can fathom and predict an infinite Being and thereby saying God is limited. So please be careful.
God bless you.

yanabasee:
I don't..... I have sex....


And I will make heaven.....


Having sex doesn't translate to evil..... infact, letting your conscience to fight you is the evil....



I live my life and I worship God the way that I know will please him.

This sounds a lot like selective doctrine that is popular nowadays, you choose the part of God's word that you like and willfully ignore the other parts. Just like most will be nonchalant about sin and say "God knows it's hard but his grace will cover me" which is like knowingly seeing the danger and running towards it. Do you feel that planning about having sex outside marriage and saying that God's grace will cover all will work?, Remember man sees appearances but God sees the heart so you can't deceive God.

Good Pleasure- You pay the price before you enjoy it. (Your patience, perseverance e.t.c)
Bad Pleasure- You pay the price after you enjoy it.

Magnoliaa:
Simply avoid them?

Should there be a how?

If you're both Christians and virgins, disciplined by the Spirit, I don't see how it should be an issue.

Though, a complete avoidance... of kissing,
hugging and the likes... are those sinful?

When does physical contact start becoming 'sinful?' When do you decide that?

There are a lot of question marks in your reply and I'm confused... My bad.

It's a razor-line pathway, there are times when your sexual desires are high and what used to be normal would seem erotic. Your mind when idle would feed on the brief moment of kissing your partner's lips or the feel, temperature and contour of your partner's body when both of you hugged. Remember in Matthew 5:28 when Jesus Christ talked about adultery committed when you lust after someone in your heart. So it's better not to give yourself reasons to fuel your lust as prevention is better than cure and I feel their passions can be unleashed after marriage .

mexican:
I just mean it as an hobby. Sometimes I just stare up at the sky and look at all those planets and stars! There's been a particularly bright one up in the sky but was unable to identify it.
I intend getting a telescope soon from Amazon.

It expands ones mind and lets one see things in a different way from most other people. It makes one realize that we are all just nothing compared to the vastness of space. Just my musing.

Keep lookin' up!

I also love viewing the stars, it's one of the reasons I want to move to a less populated area as artificial lights makes it hard to see the stars. Also planning on buying a telescope.

Citygal:
Op,
Do what? Ja ra e gba (set yourself free).

Don’t wait for an approval to leave your comfort zone before you do.

Your same parents will come to love you for taking the bull by the horn eventually.

I know what I’m saying cus I had same experience.

, that's true. The goals I want to attain is not possible through their own method ( I've studied their scenario and every fibre of my being screams no even after resigning myself to it sometimes.

Can you share your experience so I can learn from you. Thanks for your comment.

Ellipsoid:
If you're an adult, don't wait for your parents to a-okay your goals before you go after them yourself

Yeah..., Though it's not easy overcoming the fear that's been conditioned into you over the years and leaving your comfort zone but the water drunk from an oasis after walking through the scorching dry desert is always refreshing and that's what I have to do. Thanks for your comment.

Winneygirl:
You better venture out.
Your parents are working off of the limited information they have and being so tied down in being civil servants.

Yes I have to, it baffles me everytime they write off a certain business or idea due to difficulties or lack of governmental support. Nothing is easy and everything that's worth it is always hard to obtain, but giving up due to people's experiences is beyond me. As long as it's legit, you've done physical analysis and you got God on your side you don't have to give up before even starting. Wary, yes, but not scared. Thanks for your comment.

Connoisseur:
Your parents have had their chance, it's their turn right now.
Make the most of it.

Yeah it's my turn, opportunity met with preparation equals success. Thank you for your advice.

chival:
Venture out, take risks. Your ideas will either work or at the very least leave you with a satisfied conscience knowing you did all you could. No one is ever too young to start. If you keep waiting for approval, you may wake up one morning at 50 and find the years have flown from you, taking with them your dreams. Do not disrespect your parents however. Be firm, be bold, but be polite. I wish you the best.

True, the success rate of chances not taken is 0%. At least I'll be complete with doing what I have passion for. Thank you a lot for your comment.

Wheel of Time series (High Fantasy) (15 books) by Robert Jordan and finished by Brandon Sanderson due to Roberts death.

It's as good or better than Game of Thrones book series depending the individuals preference with the television series adaptation being produced by Sony Pictures and Amazon.

Houseofglam7:
Dear Avatar, you forgot to add .....’the fate of the world rests on the shoulders of a young man....his name.....******’ just to give it another twist
Just kidding.
I enjoyed your piece tho.
Uhm.....and,No, it ain’t wrong to wanna start your life all over again on your terms.
It’s never too late to take charge and just live your life.

Lol, thanks for taking your time to read this and comment. Halfway through I was like " WHERE IS THE VN OPTION I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE " . If you have more advice to give please give me ooooo.

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