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Family / Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by gremp(m): 12:22pm On Sep 16, 2023
kkins25:


Domestic chores can be done in one to three hours. This idea of domestic chores draining all one's energy is really strange to me. Most of the day is spent doing nothing. children are even in School, so what work exactly are they talking of?

The wife has lost interest abeg. If anybidy should complain that sex is tasking, it should be men. unless, the wife is doing some reverse cow girl, which i doubt never hapoens..

If there's no medical condition involved, then the husband has ever right to kick her out. Women divorce men on the grounds of poor sexual performance, so why all of a sudden, the man is on the "selfish" side?

Acidosis, your arguments don't hold at all at all.

This is my reply to your statement and not OP's, as I want to answer some of your wondering.

Timing matters a lot, imagine being at work doing nothing for most of the day then a few hours before the close of work, your boss gives you a days worth of work that's needed to be done immediately.

She might be doing nothing for most of the day but as soon as the children come back work begins, taking care of the children, washing, cooking, homework and other things begins and those work doesn't stop until she sleeps because she also has to cook and take care of her husband when he gets back home. That's a lot of mental and physical juggling compressed into a few hours. So saying that domestic chores draining energy isn't surprising because of the amount of being taken care of.

Then she's expected to engage in another physical exercise that is sex. Saying that sex isn't physically tasking for women if they're not an active participant is strange to me. If that's the case then stories of women who faint during sex and those that have to use hot towel after sex to ease soreness and those that were r*ped to death are most likely false then.

I wonder if sex is enjoyable for OPs wife, since there's a possibility that he only focuses on getting his release. What would be the point of doing chores for hours then having to endure another internal physical chore instead of a physical release. Let's be honest most guys would be less interested in sex if the possibility of getting that release is little to none due to insensitivity or the only position they're allowed is cowgirl where she grinds on him to get her release and he's never allowed to thrust to get his.

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Family / Re: Genotype Has Kept Some Of Us Single by gremp(m): 5:23pm On Sep 01, 2023
Blake755:
Too sad but it still worth it
But i need answers oo if it's God who created first man and woman then how did ss genotype come into existence

The farther you are from the source, the more diluted the gene pool becomes, so the originals won't have any problems.

Most likely genetic mutation over millennia through exposure to less than ideal environments, examples like the fall of man from the garden(ideal environment) and post-flood conditions(the life expectancy was massively reduced) pop into mind.

Even the Israelites were warned against carnal relations within a family unit.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Luton (3 - 0) On 25th August 2023 by gremp(m): 2:49pm On Aug 25, 2023
tojahh:


Wetin him play wey him dey injure

Na Training injury.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Luton (3 - 0) On 25th August 2023 by gremp(m): 2:21pm On Aug 25, 2023
Team Availability News.

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Luton (3 - 0) On 25th August 2023 by gremp(m): 2:18pm On Aug 25, 2023
tojahh:
These ones wan still mess themselves up today again.

At least make Mudryk just get shot on target, we no need am to score

He is injured.
Family / Re: Women,don't Marry A Man Who Feels The Domestic Work Is For Women Alone. by gremp(m): 10:55am On Feb 07, 2023
leisuretym:
Op! You are a fool, don’t ask my why,
I pay school fee,
I pay house rent
I give monthly and weekly allowance for family upkeep
I use my energy to nack you to your satisfaction

You now want me to use the time I need to use to find money for the family to go and be cooking Abi?

If she can do all I’ve been doing, no issue, we can switch responsibilities

I see no reason to call OP a fool here.

This is the arrangement you and your spouse has chosen.

What you're doing is simply Division of Labour, you're shouldering all the financial responsibilities of the family which requires all your attention, so therefore the matters of running the home should be delegated to your spouse, you have clear roles.

OP doesn't mean you must clean the house by force, OP is only advising women not to marry men who only see them as a slave or who sees performing the bare survival necessity of humans (cooking) and proper hygiene(cleaning) as below their gender.

Same way I wouldn't advice men to marry women who only see them as an ATM, as that can cause mental and physical issues later on, possibly leading to an early death.
Romance / Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by gremp(m): 2:56pm On May 19, 2022
VictorUSA:
Hello @ll on nairaland in general and in romance section in particular, this thread is for virgins from 18 and above.

Are there virgins in the house?

Tell us your experiences as a virgin guy or lady.

Why do you decide to be a virgin?

Thanks as you share your experiences and any vital information.

Is it easy, Naahh.
Religion / Re: Is Saying "I Cover My ..... With The Blood Of Jesus" Correct? by gremp(m): 4:17pm On Jan 16, 2022
Happy Sunday
Religion / Re: Is Saying "I Cover My ..... With The Blood Of Jesus" Correct? by gremp(m): 3:00am On Nov 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
1. That statement is not entirely correct! Jesus Christ's body, and his blood were both shed in order that the New Agreement may be ratified. He have up His life that He may instead live in and through us here. undecided

The only permission He gave us where His body and blood are concerned were in the eating of his body and drinking of His blood. We were given no authority to wash ourselves in it, to wash our hands or cloths or anything else in it. undecided

So, those who "cover themselves in the Blood of Jesus " instead engage in pagan practices of spreading blood over objects or subjects as protection - the practice is antiChrist. undecided

2. First of all, Jesus Christ is not a Passover Lamb but let's attempt a comparison anyways.

* God never told the Israelites to cover themselves in the blood of the Passover lamb in Exodus 12. God instead asked them to instead smear the blood of the lamb on the door post, not on themselves - they were commanded not to eat or drink the blood of the lamb since the life of the lamb is in the blood.

* In Jesus Christ, Jesus Himself gave us His body to eat and His blood to drink promising us the new agreement (between God and individuals) along with eternal life when we obey Him.

There is little correlation between the two practices except they are both rituals ordered by God for different purposes. undecided

3. Those who do that which God has not commanded, is His name, do so against God. It is akin to adding laws to God's Law as given to us by Jesus Christ, the one who is God's New Covenant agreement in the Kingdom of God. No man has authority to add, change or remove commandments in God's Law to us. Those who do sin against God everything they do that. undecided

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and reaffirming what I said.

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Religion / Is Saying "I Cover My ..... With The Blood Of Jesus" Correct? by gremp(m): 12:24am On Nov 29, 2021
As Christians it's common place to hear to hear or say phrases like "I cover myself/my food/the road etc with the blood of Jesus".

I myself grew up hearing and saying that but recently, while watching a Q and A with Mike Winger on YouTube, a question about whether saying that phrase is right or wrong was asked and he said it's wrong, supporting his assertions with scriptural references and evidence.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Am7zc6wq9U

I didn't really accept what he said at first because this is what I grew up hearing and saying and someone all of a sudden is saying it's wrong, so I delved into the Bible to do my own research.

I found out that mostly when the blood of Jesus Christ is being spoken of in the New Testament, it's paired with salvation and how it's the sacrifice (John 3:16) that cleanses us and makes us acceptable before God.

So Blood of Jesus = Cleansing/Consecration for the specific purpose of our salvation.

Ephesians 1:7, Colossians 1:14, Hebrews 9:14, Hebrews 10:19, Hebrews 13:12, 1 Peter 1:19, 1 John 1:7
Not used for inanimate objects but for our(humans) redemption and salvation.

So where did the use of the "Blood of Jesus" for the food you want to eat, protection while traveling, for your pen/tv/car/etc when it's not working come from?

I remembered (and people I was discussing this with also gave this scenario) the instance of blood of the lamb used on the lintel above the door of the houses where the Israelites lived when they were in Egypt (Exodus 12) and since Jesus Christ is the Lamb(Revelations 5:6) and likened to a Lamb(1 Peter 1:19), and a lamb was used (Exodus 12) for protection, therefore the case for "I cover myself in the Blood of Jesus" being used is justified for when we need protection.......well....... that's just wrong.

Firstly, it was a one time command but was commemorated through the Passover Feast.

Secondly, where is "I cover..... With the blood of Jesus Christ" in the Bible??

-But God understands what I mean when I say the phrase
()But now you you're no more ignorant of the Blood of Jesus Christ and what it signifies, so why do you want to do what you're comfortable with and say "God will understand" rather than what God's will concerning that matter says?, Is it your will be done or His will be done?

-But what will we say when praying for protection, on our food etc.
() Is simply asking God for protection and for him to bless your food too weak or inadequate? Or he won't listen and answer your prayers because it doesn't have enough big words?, Is your faith and trust in him useless?

I hope I was able to pass this message across clearly and if you have contrary scriptural evidences, please do tell me and let's discuss them.

I sometimes do notice myself almost slipping and reverting to using that phrase the way I used to, just like when I stopped saying "Oh my God" everytime I'm surprised or exclaiming because it cheapens and doesn't honour the name of God which is hallowed, so it's a conscious effort by the grace of God.

Please do note
- I'm not disclaiming the communion.
- Do not take the scriptures out of context e.g. singling out a verse and making conclusions based on the singular verse, as some do when it comes to tithing and oppressing women by saying the scripture says "women should not speak" etc because if the Bible is taken out of context it'll contradict itself. Ask for God to give you understanding and read the whole book that contains the verse you're quoting to understand what it means.
- Be willing to learn more about God but be careful of false teachings, study the scripture, do not let any human being be the utmost authority rather let the Word be be first. 2 Peter 1:20, 1 Corinthians 14:26.

God bless you and may He continue to enlighten us.

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Family / Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by gremp(m): 11:22pm On Oct 25, 2021
LordReed:


According to the Bible the god's love is conditional or else why would he need to forgive you your sins.

God is love, but not the type the current culture teaches.

He loves us but he can't force us to accept his love.

Since his nature is holy and unblemished, nothing unholy can be in his presence and we because are in sin, we need something ( Jesus Christ and his sacrifice, believing in him, John 3:16 ) to make us acceptable in his presence, that's why the forgiveness of sin is required.

He loves us but not the sin itself, that's why a way was provided, Jesus Christ.

This article gives a quick in-depth explanation;

https://www.biblestudytools.com/bible-study/topical-studies/the-unconditional-love-of-god.html?amp
Business / Re: Should I Open A Domiciliary Account? Why? by gremp(m): 10:25am On Sep 21, 2021
Truth234:


NO

Okay thanks.
Business / Re: Should I Open A Domiciliary Account? Why? by gremp(m): 10:20am On Sep 21, 2021
Truth234:

Any more question? Ask me.



Does FCMB require referrals like other banks.
Family / Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by gremp(m): 4:54pm On Aug 11, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


I leave my fellow sisters to respond to you if they want to.

As for me I can't process this BS and give it an appropriate response.

Nonsense

BS??
So just because I have an opposing view and claim it's BS?? undecided

It doesn't take much to check online for the court cases depicting what I've said which are facts backing up my claims, if my claims are incorrect please do correct me appropriately instead of belittling the post.

Then again it's your choice.
Family / Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by gremp(m): 4:41pm On Aug 11, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


True,what annoys me is when people try to put feminism on the same pedestal with that silly movement for frustrated small boys.

Feminism is justified in so many way so what exactly justifies red pillism(if there is a word like that grin)
angry angry angry angry

Feminism should never be compared to red pillism (I say it again) feminism has had a lot of success and it is a just cause what has red pillism done other than make frustrated ugly small boys more useless and troubled one of their member always quotes me whenever he sees my comment and the boy is a troubled school dropout grin see the kind of people red pillism attracts(not looking down on anyone but I will drag him for dragging me)

People who dislike feminism dislike it because the feminism ideal popular today is one where women have the supposed authority of a man, with the responsibility of a child, doing whatever and making false accusations without repercussions and absolving themselves of all responsibility and if they're caught lying, the people who supported them just let it go or say "...what if she was saying the truth??, She's showing other women to be bold..." at the expense of the lives of others e.g. waving the r*pe banner after having s*x with someone who you consented to have s*X with at the time but regret it now.

There's nothing wrong with fighting for women representation and for their voices to be heard but when false accusations are being thrown around without men being abled to defend themselves without being seen as toxic for expressing their disagreement or opposing opinions, or seen as taking advantage of the patriarchy, it makes that brand of feminism detestable.

A woman can make an accusation of r*pe or assault against a man and it'll be taken as a fact with crowds rising up in solidarity without thorough investigation, the most popular recent case is that of Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, where he was falsely accused despite evidence contrary to the accusations. I've cases of men both young and old jailed for r*pe or ostracized from their family, friends and children just because the mothers told lies.

I'm not saying every case of r*pe is false or we should brush aside every claim, however, every claim should be thoroughly investigated because women who have actually been r*ped will have difficulty saying it to their partner because the term has been watered down and now means regretful s*x.

Some guys have seen these things happen to fellow guys and have seen what such accusations cause and the almost irreversible damages, opting to follow the easy path of treating every woman the same way without the supposed stress of judging them individually, since you might not know who's the wolf in sheep's clothing, and making the REDPILL movement toxic on which I'll also explain later.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 11:29pm On Jun 11, 2021
whitewizardry:
Please someone should recommend me high end games I can download for my Redmi note 10 pro. I don't have any game here except the follow come pubg mobile.
Thanks.

ARK: Survival Evolved, Grid Autosport.

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Family / Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by gremp(m): 10:55am On Jun 08, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Call it pained or whatever, I don't give a hoot. My point stands, the wives learnt it from their husbands, the men deserve it.

That is an objective statement you're making, so by that statement you're saying every married man whose wive cheats also cheats or cheated on her first??, Every married woman isn't capable of freewill and making choices which can result in choosing to cheat

That's just rejecting responsibility, I've seen cases of married women cheating without the husband ever cheating, does the husband deserve it??
Of course there are nitty-gritty details in most things e.g lack of initial desires, lower bedroom romance frequency e.t.c but that doesn't detract from the fact that a choice was made to cheat.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 4:46pm On May 07, 2021
melodyogonna:

Redmi note 10 pro

For people using this phone there's a good gcam port for you guys. Watch the video and check the links in the description.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHTmN0_7CIE
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 7:29pm On Apr 10, 2021
JasonSleek:
please show me your chrome flags setting. I need my tabs and menu at the bottom too.

It's called tab groups and I think it's enabled by default on the latest version of chrome because I remember seeing a tutorial on how to use it when I updated and opened chrome.

Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 11:30pm On Apr 09, 2021
Jemerson:


What are you trying to say?

grin
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 6:38pm On Apr 09, 2021
Emjace:
xiaomi normally adjust the 120hz to 60hz once a picture is static, and that's not a bad move
Moreover, xiaomi will definitely fix those issues
I have seen phones with green tint display that got fix through software update
That said, if my money is enough, I will still buy the redmi note 10 pro. If my unit has the issue, then I will be using it on 60hz until xiaomi fixes it

In this instance it's bad since the changing is erratic.

They most likely will.

Sure thing na, for the money it's hard to beat.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 6:31pm On Apr 09, 2021
gremp:
There has been reports of screen issues on the Redmi Note 10 series especially the pro version, some of the notable issues are flickering while the refresh rate is set to 120hz and color shifts.

There has been some minor tricks suggested by some people which helped a little bit or not at all for those experiencing those issues.

It's not been officially confirmed if those issues are caused by a bad batch of screens which will make it an hardware issue or a software issue.

There's been some evidence of the Refresh Rate being changed erratically when set to 120hz mode which might be due to the MIUI aggressive battery saving.

So it's recommended to wait it out and see if the next MIUI update for the Redmi Note 10 series will fix those issues before buying.

Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 6:24pm On Apr 09, 2021
saint2ace:



Source please..... Only then can we give u a listening ear

Redmi Note 10 subtopic under XDA forums.

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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 6:23pm On Apr 09, 2021
Etesam:
What is ur source of information?

The Redmi Note 10 subtopic under XDA forums.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 4:29pm On Apr 09, 2021
There has been reports of screen issues on the Redmi Note 10 series especially the pro version, some of the notable issues are flickering while the refresh rate is set to 120hz and color shifts.

There has been some minor tricks suggested by some people which helped a little bit or not at all for those experiencing those issues.

It's not been officially confirmed if those issues are caused by a bad batch of screens which will make it an hardware issue or a software issue.

There's been some evidence of the Refresh Rate being changed erratically when set to 120hz mode which might be due to the MIUI aggressive battery saving.

So it's recommended to wait it out and see if the next MIUI update for the Redmi Note 10 series will fix those issues before buying.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Hypocrisy Exposed! by gremp(m): 1:24pm On Apr 03, 2021
LegalRambles:

Hmm true tho

wink
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Hypocrisy Exposed! by gremp(m): 11:48am On Apr 03, 2021
LegalRambles:


For reference purposes sir

Sure of course, no ulterior motives wink

But it's good as you also posted the comment that I replied to so it won't be out of context since person was bashing Xiaomi for not having enough stock like Samsung (Who by his statement are not using 'Plastic Chips' grin ) while conveniently forgetting Samsung has their own In-house SoC(Exynos) which makes them have enough phone stock.

I currently use a Nokia 2.4 and I've never used a Xiaomi phone but I love great technology offered at a low price per performance so when I see someone claiming global truths based on prejudice, I sometimes cringe.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Hypocrisy Exposed! by gremp(m): 11:06am On Apr 03, 2021
LegalRambles what was your intent when quoting my statement?
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 10:53pm On Apr 02, 2021
Walkee:
you are obviously one of the phone brands worshipers here who believe it's their duty to worship and defend the particular phone they use. I'm typing this reply on a Redmi note 8 pro which I use as my second phone so in case you think I'm here to trash your lovely xiaomi. How many phones have they launched since January? How many can you get like how you get phones from normal companies? All the phones dealers on Nairaland, I haven't seen a single one of them list mi 11 as part of their product ordinary A52 that was launched few weeks ago is everywhere. I can't be searching nooks and cranny for a phone I'm going to pay for in order not to get scammed. I can't find something on physical store, jumia, aliexpress or Amazon and you are here arguing with me unnecessarily. The Samsung S series that are everywhere, are they using plastic chips? Xiaomi's problem is irresponsibility. They launch over 50 phones yet you can't get them to buy anywhere. They can conserve their resources and do the ones they can mass produce instead of trying to compete unnecessarily


No matter the amount of phones they release, they're not the ones making the SoC therefore they're bottlenecked as they can only work on what's given.

They also have different levels of phones which uses different SoC so it comes back to the supply of those SoC which they can do nothing about.

The pandemic is also a big factor but one might argue that it's not the same for the likes of iPhone and Samsung but one has to consider that iPhone has their own specialized chip produced by TMSC and Samsung produces the exclusive Exynos SoC which is used in some regional variants of their phones therefore making sure shortages of outside sources don't affect supply.

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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 12:52pm On Mar 26, 2021
I really don't understand what Realme was thinking when making the 8 series, if Xiaomi and Poco make their new phones available and always in stock then the Realme 8 series is D.O.A. .
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by gremp(m): 11:29am On Mar 26, 2021
LegalRambles:


What are you saying
For your information A52 5G has. A 120hz refresh rate and also a bigger chip(I'm not used to memorising it)
And that's for a little token higher than the standard price.
Mind you the back is not plastic but rubber
And it has IP rating let see how your 200 poco will fare if you go swimming

How is SD 750 5g better than SD 870 5g? Smh.

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