₦airaland Forum

Daboomb:
So, that is how easy it is for Police women to assist strangers to "access" #800,000 loan?
Which bank is that because this tomorrow morning, l will let Police woman arrest me and then l will fall in love with her so she can help me to to "access #800,000 loan".

Yeeye-story.

But seriously, how can a man jus abandon his wife and children (who have done nothing wrong to him, at least from the story), and elope with another woman?

I just hope that the Policewoman will teach him some lessons later.
That would be KARMA singing ..pay-back is here.

the article says they are not married (Essien and Grace), rather they were cohabiting.. There is no Karma in that. All he needs is to take care of his children and (ex-girlfriend if necessary) until she re-marry and then his kids can be his sole responsibility.. Ladies should learn from this and stop forcing themselves or allowing themselves to be fooled into moving in with men that are not married to them.. FACT** ( grace was just a baby mama)**..

Fawklicant:
Your whole presentation about "wedded in church" is annoying. Where was it commanded that for a marriage to be blessed by God that it has to be in the church? Even when Jesus attended a wedding ceremony where he did his first miracle of turning water to shaqs, there was no mention of him bleshing or praying for their marriage. The singular most important act in a marriage to attract God's approval and blessings is the payment of dowry . Every other thing is jara. Do not let the doctrines of men pervade your thinking.

Well said brother. Permit me to mention that the concept of marriage by God and Jesus about a man leaving his father and mother and joining with his wife and the two becoming one was a product of the law (Gen 2:24) and if christ Jesus came to fulfil the law, why are u people now defining marriage with family concept, it is still the union of a man and his wife (2 people) they are not asking u about his family, if after consent and approval of parents which is the way of the people of God from old, then u cannot tell a converted man to forfeit anyone of his wives because he married then and they are not his concubines, so u are invariably telling the man to commit sin of negligence, second of all who will marry a divorcee with Children with that concept of until they re-marry cos from what I see, this is just a formal way of telling him to keep them as concubines (post marital affairs).. So that analogy is still wrong and cannot be backed up anywhere in the bible. Stay blessed my brother..

Pierohandsome:
Mat 19:4-6

The above scripture gave us a clear picture abt hw many partners should be involve in marriage. The above scripture clearly stated that it is between a man and a woman ,not women. It said they two shall become one ,not they 3 or they 4 shall become one flesh. If the bible says 1 and u married 2 or 3, must u wait for the bible to tell u to return them b4 u believe it is not right?
Whn u miss ur way u have to retrace it and not continuing in it. As far as the scripture is concerned the other 2 are not recognized by God because the bible made us to uNderstand that it is only meant for a man and a woman ,so the other 2 are jst in adulterous relationship as far as God is concerned.

get the logic, ''BEFORE BEING BORN AGAIN''. Now, what makes u to be so sure that the first one was married before God(wedded in d church). So if he seeked consent of the parents of the other two just like he did for the first one, and the three were not wedded but just performed traditional rites, and they are all married to him and have given him children, what right have u to ask the person to perform marriage restitution, what in heaven's name will make u say that? Or do u think the galatians and the ephisians and the corinthians that were told by paul and d apostles that baptism was just what dey needed to do to enter the sheep fold don't have multiple wives, why were dey not given marriage restitution as an option?? Remain blessed..

Statsocial:
"Give and it shall be given unto you"-Jesus Christ....

Most of these secular men give way above the Tithe as Alms therefore are entitled to financial blessings irrespective of their Faithlessness... They do not owe the Church anything as long as they aren't Christians and aren't being spiritually blessed by the Church.


Cornelius wasn't yet a believer and yet the Bible records that his Gifts to the poor spoke on his behalf to God.

Egypt Prospered even though Jehovah wasn't their God but the Children of Isreal can't use Egypt's prosperity as Argument to neglects God's commandment of Givings and Honour. Just as Isreal lived by a Unique Principle the followers of Christ must also do the same. When you compare yourself with unbelievers it means you aren't rooted in your Christ Identity-a man that is lost is lost whether poor or rich if you don't have Christ you are doomed.

Christians on the other have a responsibility to finance pastors Gal6:6 and also finance the activities of the Gospel.



I have seen my income triple from Tithing, I have seen the biggest breakthroughs from Alms to the poor also-So I believe if you want to give go ahead and give and be less concerned about terminology.

Any Christian is also welcome to give way above the Tithe both to Church and the Poor. Ministries must be funded, Pastors must be paid, Churches must be built and the poor must be fed. Find the soil that suits you and do both!

what do u now presume I call the normal offering people give in church and what are they used for? Remember, tithe is not for the church but for the pastors and priests, deutronomy encouraged tithing to the levites because dey were seen as poor people as dey work for the church and selflessly tend to d needs of the poor, bt u get pastors owning universities, hotels, private jets and still talk about tithes to people dey should be giving out money to, they are no longer poor, look for a poor brethen to feed ur tithe on and see what trippling of income and breakthrough and other blessings that comes with giving really is, love for God and love for ur neighbour was d only instruction Jesus gave us, why do u tink he had to tell the rich man to sell all he had and give it to the poor and not the priest, we really need to seek for God's guidance and wisdom to see that we owe it as a duty to help people we are better than in dis life and not to pay tithe, don't get me wrong, I am not a pastor, I am just stating the obvious, remain blessed brethen..

iamrealdeji:
whenever Nigerians start a trend,they follow it stupidly,that's why Africans are considered as apes,they don't think right and just follow any style they bring to them. many Christians are into this beard gang shit today but the same people would term people as terrorists if they see any bearded person in the last 5 years. how would anybody feel confident with these bushy beards? it makes them look like they just came back from prison or they just woke up from jungle. well,it covers flaws of guys though but leave beards to Alfas and Muslim clerics,it belongs to them and it looks great on them and their dressing. The day a guy came to my shop with this long beards,he thought he looked cool but I was scared of him and he looked very weird to me. don't get me wrong. I am an hairy person and can grow my beards this long even without all these treatments but I prefer to shave it all off to show my true face. during Ramadan I usually grow my beards long and it means I'm using it to serve my God ideally and not for any trendy stuff

have u been born when fight against Islamophobia was enacted ? If yes, u will know that it was from that concept that growing beard was encouraged around the globe to curtail that fear that strikes people when they see people with long beards and try to raise false alarm.. It started then and it is still trending now, so u have to know the reason behind any action u hope to criticize.. Remain blessed..

amprat:
people should please read the post and try to get the gist of what am saying :I haven't in anyway said he owes his siblings, maybe his mother if he so wishes, may I also inform all that I am married with kids, so is another of my siblings, another is working and earns more than 100k a month, only the last child is in university 400level,therefore my bone of contention is not we wallowing in poverty and needing his help for every and any lil thing, am just trying to understand his mindset, why promise things you won't fulfill, y call to check up on people when they mean nothing to you stay on your own Biko, why tell them you just moved into a duplex when you won't open the gate when they get there, why open your mouth to tell your own mother you Just took your wife to Dubai that she should have been the one but you changed your mind, why tag your siblings pix of you in different countries or celebrating birthday in an expensive restaurant with friends when you didn't invite your own nuclear family, the list is endless, knowing we were raised together with the same values and he turns out this way is what is confusing not how he chooses to spend his money.

my brother he is not normal, or maybe that is the price he paid for seeking for quick money, see that is antics as an advantage and a way God is trying to help keep ur lives safe, but be wary of the day he brings out sometin to give to u people, if it is possible, don't touch it, just hand them over to the people in need.. (homeless, beggars)

Reasonabledoubt:
He is not you father. He owes you guys nothing. If he decides to help your mum, it’s coz he wants to do so, not coz he has to.

It is the responsibility of a parent to train his/her children, so your mum did not do him or you guys a Favour by not remarrying, that was her decision.

She did her job, you people were not consulted before she decided to have you. So training you guys was not a privilege, it was her absolute responsibility.

Get your own life and stop looking at him for help, as you come this life, na so him too take come the life.

Some of you siblings expect that your older ones or the richer sibling will die for you. Make your own money. He has his own family to think of now, and besides you’re not the one working for his money, so stop feeling entitled.

Nigerians and their entitlement mentality.

u sound like u are the one being talked about here, u re a definition of an ingrate, and I'm very sure u are a Nigeria and u want to form European wey u neva meet before for ur life, how sure are u that Europeans don't help their parents and sibblings, or u don't read about all these footballers buying cars and houses for their parents and siblings, u re the son of ur father for a reason, u have to take responsibility of those under u, as they have no father (like he said) and I am not so sure u read the thread before commenting, if u have never being shown love in ur life, say it and we will help u. Being a saddist just doesn't pay.... Learn to be grateful....

wirinet:
A true believer of which God? Please explain to us which God Einstein believed in.

the God of Gen 1:1 (Elohim)....

jonbellion:
Oga albert einstein was an agnostic

Einstein believed in God, Isaac Newton didn't, stop confusing yourself

festwiz:
Wow, they all said this? and Albert Einstein on his death bed said

"F*!k you all, I ain't got time for this bullsh!t".

That's what he said i swear.

as a physicist, I put it to you that u are wrong, Albert Einstein was a true believer and a great scientist, he is our God father and he clearly consolidated science and religion.... What am I saying, He strongly believed in God..

KaBabs1:
And that's a bad thing? I disagree with you. She's just being blunt and telling the guy that she cannot reduce her standard of living and live in the suburbs. A man must be a man and must able to take care of his wife and kids. She is not aware of this man's plans at all and that is probably why she declined his proposal. My advice is the guy should tell the lady his plans. If she rejects him again then I guess she's not just into him.

tell urself the truth, will u marry a girl that earn 180k and spends 300k in shopping? Dis is marriage we are talking about not friendship. I agree with u on d part of she being blunt with the guy, and on that note, the guy should be blunt with himself and run as far as his legs can carry him cos, she must always live above her earnings and that is not good for business..

hamilton62:
Just because you have decided to do things the way it is stated and it doesn't mean that people with more zeal for providence don't exist...
Tithing is 10% but within you and a purpose can go on a ratio above... I don't pay 10% because it is too poor being that i want extra-ordinary grace for providence though i know the recommended is 10%...
We all can't do same and want or need same magnitude of providence.

how much do u normally give to a begger or a poor neighbor monthly?? When u put it in check u will do as God commands and then find infinite grace in helping people that cannot pay u back, stop being too zealous in God's commands, u owe ur excessive wealth to God and ur society, '' do something kind'' and see which one pours down more grace... I am with God on this arguement.. Not with freeze and definetly not with Suleman and any other man of God.. Stay blessed brethen..

CAPSLOCKED:

YOU KNOW MY PROBLEM WITH ALL OF YOU?
YOU THOROUGHLY BELIEVE THAT WITH "CHRIST" YOU HAVE GOT IT ALL FIGURED OUT.

WHAT IF YOU WERE BORN TO A FULANI FAMILY IN SOKOTO?
OR A HINDU FAMILY IN NEPAL?
OR A JEWISH FAMILY IN JERUSALEM?
OR A HARE KRISHNA WORSHIPPING FAMILY IN INDIA?
OR TO THE VIKINGS OF ICELAND?

YOU'D HAVE NEVER BEEN A CHRISTIAN.


I'M SORRY BUT YOUR "CHRIST" IS NOT THE ULTIMATE, AND YOU'RE A CHRISTIAN BECAUSE OF YOUR FAMILY. I'M SURE YOUR GREAT GRAND FATHERS'S GREAT GRAND FATHER AND HIS SIBLINGS WERE AMONG THE SLAVES WHO WERE CHAINED AND WHIPPED BY THE MISSIONARIES FROM SPAIN AND BRITAIN, AND FORCED TO ACCEPT JESUS.
A LOT OF THEM WERE KILLED IN THAT PROCESS, SOME WERE BURNT AT THE STAKES FOR BEING WITCHES OR BECAUSE THEY REJECTED CHRISTIANITY.
MEANWHILE.. THOSE WHITE MISSIONARIES SMUGGLED ALL THE GOLD AND PRECIOUS MATERIALS AND COMPENSATED THE BLACK MEN WITH BIBLES, "THE WORD OF GOD", AND WHISKEY.


AND I MUST ADD.... ALL YOUR PASTORS AND GENERAL OVERSEERS ARE ATHEISTS.
THE CHURCH IS ONLY THEIR BUSINESS CENTERS.

BYE.

hahahahahahahahahhaaha first of all he is not a pastor and am not a penticostal believer, when u meet someone that has genuienly encountered christ and not all dose gulible pastors, u will understand what am saying.. If u followed my text well, I told u he is a professor, he is a professor recognised in Nigeria and China in atmospheric physics, when u have an encounter of money wit a christian, that is when u will really know weda christ is in him or her..

iamJ:
i understand what she is saying sha, most girls become prostitutes like that, its annoying wen men keep coming and going, u decide to just collect money and forget abt love and like that, like that olosho amaka is born

Poca said its village girls but that is not true its everywhere, imagine men coming and leaving, they will talk love and still leave, if ur head no strong u will decide to be using them too, so nobody can hurt u again


Men are at fault abeg forget ur tori, una go disturb girl because of sex, no pity for her feelings, give her lies to chop


If she was loved will she be frustrated, girls suffer alot abeg dont blame her, liars, dogs and snakes shld be blamed

then don't agree to have sex my dear, what are u always even looking for in dating sites, give ur life a meaning in Christ and good tins will locate u, u met a guy he is ''fresh'' how do u even define human being as being fresh, and sex happened, u were just lusting after the guy simple, there is no two ways about that, if u are gulible, u will be used and if u re greedy u will be duped.. This is just the simple rule of life, SAY NO TO PROSTITUTION... This her reason is just the dumest I have read about gals going into prostitutions, u forget that these guys u say dis tins about where once nice to a lady that treated dem as thrash and he now starts going after ladies of that sort to deal with them and u fall a victim out of lust and gulibility and say is a reason for entering prostitution, my dear, even hell disagrees with u..

CAPSLOCKED:

THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TRUE CHRISTIANS AND FALSE CHRISTIANS IS "NOTHING".

THEY'RE ALL THE SAME HYPOCRITICAL, JUDGEMENTAL, "CHERRY-PICKING" PACK OF WOLVES IN SHEEP CLOTHING.

bro.. I was seeing it that way till I met a lecturer in my University days, he was and still is the most senior lecturer in my department in the person of Prof. T.C Chineke ( department of physics, Imo state university) when u encounter him, u will know that christ is really in people, if u are in south east and u are still having doubts about genuine christians, take a trip to Imo state university and ask for prof. T.C Chineke in the above said department. If u can have a chat with him for just 30 minutes, U will see what christian life is all about.. Just try.. And the same goes to any other person that is willing to clear dis doubts..

hopefulLandlord:
leave God the father to handle that, after all Jesus was born with no procreation

God also made it clear that he can raise stones to worship him if he wants

Say no to sex, Jesus didn't have sex, be like Jesus

what you lack is understanding,arguing blindly,there will not be another Jesus born in this world,he will only come again in glory,u are misquoting the scripture if u re saying no to sex after marriage,please understand the trend before u comment and stop embarrassing urself.

hopefulLandlord:
its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy

Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike

the question is having sex with your wife, it can never be proved a sin in any version or part of the bible and in any day of d week.. Even if u have strength u can do it before going to church and Immediately u come back from church,just wait and get married..

CDCEO001:
If you are not the father or mother of Kanu Nwankwo please shut up and wish him happy birthday.... You want to change his age abi?

Happy Birthday Papilo.

kanu nwankwo was 24 in that 1996 olympics,that i am sure was his football age,coming here now to say he is celebrating his 41st birthday,makes the whole story looks so absurd cos he should be atleast 46 in football age by now.. Do ur research and if u quote me.. U will loose ur senses by thunder and lightening

CDCEO001:
If you are not the father or mother of Kanu Nwankwo please shut up and wish him happy birthday.... You want to change his age abi?

Happy Birthday Papilo.

kanu nwankwo was 24 in that 1996 olympics,that i am sure was his football age,coming here now to say he is celebrating his 41st birthday,makes the whole story looks so absurd cos he should be atleast 46 in football age by now

LifeIsGuhd:
Sincerely, this rapper has no point...

Isnt fornication a sin? Address the topic and stop bringing the Bible into this.

Someone with valid point should speak up abeg.

God destroyed sodom with fire because of homosexuality,even animals without brains are not created gay

czarina:
I hear say na only 100k remain. Na true?

God has richly blessed this guy Efe and quote me anywhere he is still richer that all him fellow BBN contestants,he counts in millions every week.. He is a better hustler than all ur ancestors..

clefstone:
It is becoming a trend in many churches to refuse marriage to intending couples on account of pregnancy. It has become a common practice to undertake a pregnancy test before joining a couple in most of these churches. Those couple whose result come out as positive are then deprived from getting wedded. This practice is ungodly, unbiblical, unchristian and dangerous. I will highlight my points in the following paragraphs

The nature of God and the nature of man are distinct. One of God's nature is that of mercy, hence we frequently say GOD IS MERCIFUL. Now, a couple that get's pregnant before marriage have obviously committed the sin of fornication. However, if they have asked for forgiveness from God, who is merciful, who is man to deny them the privilege of a Christian marriage

THE SIN IS FORNICATION, NOT PREGNANCY. Now, let us look at it this way, couple A and couple B r seeking to get married. pregnancy test is done. couple A's result comes out as negative while couple B's comes out as positive. couple B is denied marriage while couple A is given the nod. Now, assuming that couple A has engaged in sex, it means that couple B is denied marriage, not because they committed fornication, but because they got pregnant. This leads to the question, is the sin pregnancy or the fornication that led to the pregnancy. Since the obvious answer is that the fornication is the sin, couples A and B ought to be disqualified. If this is done, I wonder how many couples will qualify for marriage. Reminds me of the psalmist who wrote, 'if you O Lord will mark our guilt, who will stand'. In this case, if you O lord will mark our sin, who will qualify for marriage.


THE DANGERS OF ABORTION.
Abortion is a grave sin synonymous with murder. The bible says 'thou shall not kill'. In the new testament, Christ said, 'woe unto those that will cause one of this little ones to sin. it will be better for a mill stone to be tied around his neck while he is cast to the sea'.
A direct result of insisting on a negative pregnancy test before marriage is that many young couples, for shame of being exposed and denied 'church wedding' abort their prenancies and wait for their results to come out as negative before presenting themselves for marriage. Some parents even take their children to abortion clinics just because of the stigma and shame. Until the emphasis is shifted from discouraging prenancy to discouraging premarital sex, such premeditated murder of unborn children will continue.

In summary, marriage is a union between a man and a woman, ordained by God. The same God is merciful and admonishes us not to judge. As christians we should therefore desist from using man's fallen nature to reason things of God such as marriage

i quite disagree with this post,this is a covenant between two lives,a man and a woman and with this said,a pregnant woman brings a third life into the covenant,if a man gets a woman pregnant,all he needs to do is to go to the woman's family and pay her bride price,remember this is what the bible demands from a man first and foremost,there was no place in d bible that wedding was made the ultimate sign of marriage,go and pay the bride price,take the woman u got pregnant to ur house,cather for her and after her delivery,u can then plan ur wedding. All this rush to go and wed with early pregnancy is just to reduce the shame of what two people agreed to enjoy in the first place,so in my own opinion,if u can't wait to wed before u start sleeping with ur partner,then wait till u deliver before u start planning ur wedding.. I rest my case

MadCow1:
Stupid question..


A personal successful business is second to nothing.

A Government job is for mentally lazy people who want a job where are guaranteed they will never get fired (thanks to the unions) and where when they retire, they will keep enjoying a meagre pension.


Sadly those people die pretty frustrated and with nothing to leave their next of kin.

i would like to know the personal businesses u have in mind,and going with the condition of the country,what makes you boldly think that all business men are better off than government workers.

handsomeclouds:
Dead on arrival.

Would be an arduous task for the company to win brand loyalist talk less of reclaiming market share.

The competition is stiffer than ever!

Aggressive marketing won't be the best bet in this time of recession.

The only way is to introduce something novel in their product.

Still waiting for Sagem, Bird, Ericsson, NEC, Siemens

i comot cap for u boss,u no be small person ooo

collinsVP:
Orlu and owerri can fall under one senatorial district.
So, i really want to be sure.

I'm from Enugu. And i know what happened in the case of Ekweremmadu and former governor chime.

orlu get and Owerri get,but Rochas is still a fraudster.. I worked in Imo state Government house as a civil guard and wen I tell u he is up to no good,he is truely up to no good.

ibkayee:
They're both at fault, however it's the man that made the vows, the sidechick is still shameless but doesn't owe the wife anything

it is a golden rule in d bible,'' do unto others what you will like others to do unto you''.. That is what we call Karma,when a shameless girl bleeps a married man for money and later repent or get married.. Ur husband must surely bleep someone.. Meaning u will share ur husband just as u shared other people's husbands with their wives.. Even if u marry a bishop

moshood521:
We dan hear

see them, pepper them gang.. Be happy with sometin good that is coming to ur neighbours way and God will make ur success story to double up.

Charlieeeboi:
she wants to.. I've asked her to keep it but she said she can't, I don't want to force her..I don't want her to say someday dat d reason she married me z cos of d baby she had for me

Is ur call bro,we must take responsibilities for our actions.. U either back off from the abortion talk and let her have d baby even if it means informing her parents,unless u have notin doing through which u can carter for the baby but even at that,abortion is murder u can choose to displease her or be a murderer,it is ur call bro,abybody giving u d name of any drug now that fertilization has taken place is a coniving murderer.. Do what is right to right ur wrong

Ezedon:
She should be jailed for life, for selling her own child

atleast she saved a life that she couldn't take care of,what will u make of someone that commits abortion,I don't tink u read dis article well cos if u did,i will still understand that all her hospital bills both antinatal and the likes were paid by the same sponsors.. Leave God to judge our deeds(chief justice)

Chanchit:
Its not even the cash alone, she can't cater for the baby and the woman can, its a fair deal on both side. Or how many people have they caught out of all the ones that abandon their baby to die on the road.

bless you,it is still better than Abortion,moses was sold out for free because of circumstances,why should dey arrest someone for saving a life?and the judges in nairaland will be busy wit dia jobs and be giving their gfs money for abortion and d gals in question will be carry heavy loads and doing hard works to get miscarriage.. It is still better than abortion atleast she sold it to couple in need of a baby and they surely can take care of the baby,dis is adoption if u ask me

justiniyke29:
Nt married,its just dat i have no probs with anybody's religion as lng as watever u serve doesnt harm me physically.

bless you bro,u re really matured in reasoning

Japhet04:
@ bolded


What impact has your existence made to the world if I may ask

Modified

How i wish Nigerians especially ladies would realize that religion is a scam and that one must not be a religious person to be morally upright

Relate with people based on their individual characteristics and not based on their religious views.

@poster i am sure if God ever existed and we were to stand before a jury panel to be judged in heaven, you will be given a one way ticket to hell

It is not about being Christian or not, it is all about being morally upright

God made all tins and saw that it was good,Religon likewise.. How did u even know tins that are MORALLY upright if U don't know God.. Law can always give u scenarios and circumstances that maketh a man's deed right in any way.. If U are an Atheist, is between u and what U believe.. I and my family will serve the living God and I will let him judge as it is solely in his power to do so.