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Wow! thank you jamie, scaredsilent thank you also for not arguing further with him.

let's just go back to the issue at hand, aiit?

Scaredsilent: You sound fun by the way lol. I pray you get a girl too. i should probably put on mine 2 and get me some man lol

yeah buddy you should, always nice to express your feelings every chance you get

[quote author=][color=#000030]The only defence gay people spring on your face - Homophobic. But then again, they aren't the brightest people. How someone thinks I'm homophobic simply because I disagree with him and have a different opinion, is mind bogging. But then again, I remember some of them are just confused and desperately in need to belong. [/color][/quote]Im gay and homophobia isnt my defense, matter of fact, i don't have a 'defence'. Im not confused and definitely don't need to belong anywhere.

Scaredsilent: He might be gay... subconsciously ... They say majority of homophobic people are just repressed homosexuals...

If there's one thing i know, its a fact (which can be disproved as time goes on) that jamie isn't gay, neither is he over-the-edge homophobic. i have a pix of his babe on my phone, lol

[quote author=][color=#000030]Wonder how someone uses complicated and eventful in the same sentence. . . But really none of my business tho. I pray belgium defeats argentina. [/color][/quote]@bolded, c'mon Mr, you want to bring in your friends to damage this thread, you and i know its not the regular stúpid thread of the romance section. So please, I truly want argentina out of the mundial, but let's not do it on this thread, hmmm, thanks.

Scaredsilent: Thanks GSKing you just described my life though lol u guessed right . I would never know until I take a step forward. Are u in a relationship now?

Nope, im not, im currently using school and final exams as an excuse to dodge relationship, lol.

but deep down, my blueetooth connection is always active, silently searching for a girlfriend

[quote author=][color=#000030]I've always been of the opinion that people who claim to be gay are mostly confused people who don't understand themselves. . . But really, that's none of my business. [/color][/quote]Come here Mr Man, I've been following you since the days of sexkillz, and its always best to stand on the sidelines if you don't understand the topic of discussion. You have freedom of speech/posts anyway...

@on a serious note, what's with your obsession with frogs and tea bags?

And believe me, nobody has pushed people away more than me, i only do that out of fear/scared of something.

@op, in one of your threads, you said you're celibate. My thought was that you probably haven't given yourself that chance of expressing your feelings the way you want, to someone that's ready to listen. I thought maybe, you haven't been into any relationship, guess i was right.

You're scared of falling in love because relationships are being sexualized, this you know. If you're ready to walk into a relationship, have it at the back of your mind that you might not come out of it as celibate as you walked in.

To some, having same sex attraction doesn't make them gay, until intimacy, which is a wrong notion if you ask me.

As regards the case at hand, I think you're more than just the label, you're not just gay but scared to fall in love(or rather, scared of homosexual intimacy). If you want to enter into a relationship, you should go in with both eyes, head and heart open, be prepared for love, fights, breakups, makeups and séx.

beryl04: Classic Gsking!
Am feeling u sis,
Happy weekend to y'all-plus including but not limited to masonkz,cyrus Levi ,goshap and so on and so on!

Ps:am caving in to pressure, going to marry a wife next week.wish me luck.

I wish you too a fulfilled weekend.

@bolded, your joke isn't funny, well, goodluck if its really true. *sad face*

masonkz: Thank You, UN!!!


It's high time i start looking at relocating outta here. Damned country can't even protect its other citizens, not to now talk of the gay ones.

Lol, where dyu think you're going leaving everyone else?

*drags him by the tail and ties him up to the Nigerian map*

NairaMinted: .......To recognize gay marriages and then demonize those countries that do not.... Buckle up for the ride..

No part of the post talked about demonizing any country. The joy you (as a smaller authority) deprive your subjects would be granted them (by the supreme authority) with no holds barred. Life just continues.

lonngmann: I am not in a hurry..

You should be. Ask god to take your life lest you be contaminated with the sins of this world. Except you're scared everything you believe is false

cococandy: Ok.

So where you born atheist?
If not,how has it affected your relationship with your folks?
And what's your opinion about the origin of life?

No, I was born a christian, atleast, that's what the document says. I remember preferring tv over sunday service as a little girl. I initially quit going to church when I became conscious of my sexuality. No one drags anybody to church where i come from.
I'm 22 and my folks has little or no say over anything i do. My relationship with them is sheer indifference, maybe because they are religious, i can't say. Why would anybody want to tell me who and how to worship anything or anybody? or who and who not to sleep with? As far as i concerned, none of them has a say over my activities, i should have been consulted and asked whether i wanted to be religious or born gay!
My opinion about the origin of life? I know the universe originated from NOTHING. With each passing day, things spring out of nowhere, and someone says a supreme being designed these things? Pheeew!!!

cococandy: Ok. But you can refuse to answer if the question displeases you pls.

I've followed your posts for a while and it seems you're gay.
So I'd like to understand what the gay position on God's existence/non existence is.

Gay position? I don't care, if there's a straight position, personally, I just laugh it off as i just wonder why any sane person would do as a book says instead of doing as their heart tells them.

Are there gays who believe in God?

Too many of them do, I just wonder why they're wasting precious time serving someone on a supposed throne.

Do most gays fall out of belief because no orthodox religion supports it?

Religion supports it, if it doesn't, let it cry me a river. Its just orthodox worshippers paraphrasing books written thousands of years ago. If homosexuals fall out of belief, it should be because of intolerance, i guess. I don't live that kind of life, I grew up around christians, pagans and muslims, none managed to convince me of the existence of God, but each passing day, I'm told I'll burn in hell, is that supposed to put fear in me?

Personally,are you atheist because believers act uppity and judge you?

Don't be too sure. People almost avoid me because I'm ever ready to educate them on the benefits of atheism, they all see how productive my daily life is and wonder why god hasn't snatched my life away from me.

cococandy: Can I ask you a very personal question?

Freedom of speech/post @op

cococandy: Are you atheist?

A pure/unadulterated atheist.

Following and representing.

The world’s top level of government will now give equal benefits and recognition to its workers who are in same-sex relationships who have legally wed.
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https://www.gaystarnews.com/sites/default/files/imagecache/400xY/Ban_Ki_Moon.jpg
The United Nations has announced that it will extend equal benefits to its employees who have entered into same-sex unions in jurisdictions where they are legal.
Under the new policy staff who have married a same-sex spouse in a jurisdiction will receive the same benefits and recognition as those in heterosexual marriages regardless of whether same-sex marriage is legal in their country of citizenship.

UN Secretary-General Ban Ki Moon made the policy announcement yesterday, saying 'equality begins at home'.
'Human rights are at the core of the mission of the United Nations,' he said.
'I am proud to stand for greater equality for all staff, and I call on all members of our UN family to unite in rejecting homophobia as discrimination that can never be tolerated at our workplace.'

The United Nations LGBTI employee group UN-GLOBE welcomed the policy change, saying they hoped it will be recognized throughout the many arms and programs.
'With this new policy in place at the UN, I believe that the entire UN system will follow suit, if history is any guide. And if any agency, fund or programme still refuses to change, we will make sure they hear from us,' UN-GLOBE president Hyung Hak Nam said.
'This includes the UNJSPF, our pension fund. In fact, with this new policy in place at the UN, it is my hope that the pension fund will be under a lot of pressure to change its discriminatory policies towards staff. And we will be front and center advocating for change.'

However he said there was much more work to be done before all LGBTI UN employees were treated equally in all aspects of their relationship with their employer.
'We have to address homophobia and transphobia in the workplace,' he said.
'We have to make sure staff members' sons and daughters - our families, not only our partners - are recognized.'

www.gaystarnews.com/article/united-nations-will-now-recognize-gay-marriage040714

masonkz: It would take another century, for the Nigerian mind to develop.


smh@people thinking every unexplained happening has to be spiritual. No wonder the pastors are having a field day all over. I'm surprised they didn't call a pastor to cast and bind before burning the snakes.

True that. I shake my head when I see people attach religious sentiments to both simple and complex issues. Nigerians and Africans in general need total liberation and emancipation from mental slavery.
I just weep for a whole continent.

masonkz: Lol. Thirsty dude. He's not gay, so chill.





cos there was none in yours. still,

@bolded, was I mistaking him for someone else?

I got this from Hezron's diary... I thought it was one and the same person!!!

Re: Part Of Me. by Hezron Lorraine ( m):
11:50am On Dec 25 , 2013

Can you imagine these naughty boys I have as friends.They all went clubbing yesternite/this morn.I'm actually upset cause they came home wasted and very tipsy.As if that wasn't the height of it all,they brought strangers along with them,Gbolahan was with a chick I don't know,Miguel came home with one very hunky guy.It surprises me they found their roots to..my house.
I was on the balcony enjoying the fresh morning air after my run through the neighbourhood.*(Ran into some girl towards the end of my street with her dog.I chatted with her,very friendly,exchanged
numbers.)*.Next I knew was the gate was opened and the idiots drove in.They alighted from the car with the strangers,they were making noise,I couldn't really hear them or knew the condition they were in until they came closer to my view.None of them greeted good morning or merry christmas.The guy and the girl greeted me cause they saw a very.stern look on my face.
The irritating part was Gbola screaming in his drunken state talking to me:,'babes,I gotta go tear this kitten apart(grabs the girl by the a$$),this boy's on fire'.His partner in crime Miguel held the dude's hand and also irritatingly said,'come join us for a groupie (3some) and have some fun'.They were about making entrance into the house,I screamed on top of my voice,I don't want to see any of you today,get out of my sight.'Yes boss','Sure
man',they both replied.
It's christmas,so I got down to my kitchen and set out to cooking/baking.I decided to make Ofada rice with fried stew and meat.I was doing that with the aid of one of my guard,we've gotten so close that he tells me things about himself and he's also great
company too.I was about to start baking,when I heard a loud bang from upstairs.I told my other guard to help me check it out,came back,saw nothing.I went up myself,I checked the entire hallway and all rooms until I got to my mom's room and saw it was opened,I went in only to find Gbolahan and the chick going at it seriously without minding they fell down a statue in my mom's room.I was crazily mad,what in Jesus name made him enter my mother's room.I didn't care that they were both Unclad and in a compromising
position,I screamed the heavens and asked him,"Are you all Mad".I calmed down and ushered them out of the room Unclad,the idiots went to a room downstairs,all through the while I was in kitchen I could hear echoes and noise of wild e.rotic sex emanating from the room.
Miguel on the other hand sobered up and got his senses back and came to me apologising,he was pretty beat-up and was very sorry for their behaviour,I hugged him and told him sternly to never let the day repeat itself.The ever cautious and protective me asked him,'I hope you used protection'.He laughed and said,'they did nothing seeing the way I was upset,the dude was not happy about the appearance they portrayed to me.I went to
speak to him,he stood up to his feet,and apologised for any incovenience.The funny thing he said when I was leaving Miguel's room,'Please am not a slut'.I loved the way he defended his ego quickly,I said to him,'Don't Ask,Don't Tell,Not my business'.We
laughed and I invited them both to the kitchen to help out,men as they can be,both clueless about kitchen stuffs but I sweated their Bottom off.
An hour later,Gbolahan realised his mistakes and was more than sorry.I talked senses into him considering he has a girlfriend in long distance relationship.He may not change his man-whoring ways though,my words will keep stinging his heart.

I thought its the same miguel?

Please, you guys should kindly stop derailing this thread.

Thanks for your understanding.

Cyrus Levi: Haven't seen Hezron online either,Miguel did say he's busy being an overprotective father to his two boys.Must be a whole lot of stress.

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Me and kids, I'd flog them upside down till they mama returns

@bolded, I hate that, I will never ever screw my kids up, if and only if I ever decide to have or noture any. The African parenting style, arrgghhh!

Its not news to me, I have a friend in school, 26 years old, she has bed-wetted twice in four years, I never cared about it, I don't think its an issue too. Read it online, adults bed-wet too.

Cyrus Levi: GSKing,Where is Miguel?

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I couldn't help but save his picture.He's such a cutie.

prolly in hezron's safe care, i love his spanish/portuguese, the ones i read o

Aren't we friends yet? I'm cool with only people that are nice to me

Cyrus Levi: GSKing,awaiting you.

I'm here baby, whatsup?

traware: I watched Bisi Alimi on Al-jazeera English a few months ago.He comes across as a very intelligent person and also very handsome.All I know is,all gays in the world are my brothers and sisters.I ain't gat no time for hate.Who doesn't want to be Tom Ford?

My brother. It's people like you that go places, tour the world and live a happy life.

Way to go.

My friend's gf! Shiiit, that girl is sexy! But, I know I'll only admire from afar, nothing more.

And my spaghetti, that food sweet die. kudos to myself, I dey learn small small

@op, what exactly do you want to hear/read from forumites? This is too boring for me to handle, shiiiiiiiiit!

I am still alive and fine and very much comfortable with my sexuality and you or anyone can't do a single thing about it.

Pheeewwww! On a serious note @op, why do you occupy your brain with hate? How can so much crap come from one person?

Enough of these insults on my thread! Where are the moderators of this forum?