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Women are saying it's mostly the man's fault. Men are saying it's mostly the woman's fault. Both contribute to the breakdown of marriages no matter what. Even if there was disrespect or abuse by one partner, the other partner likely overlooked the red flags and that is the contribution they made. As long as you keep blaming the other gender, you'll never make progress. Own up to your own contributions

FreeStuffsNG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ND-h_Me3DpM?si=TzHY5MyicmwxIdim



https://www.timesofisrael.com/liveblog_entry/trump-on-iran-most-people-wouldve-given-up-by-now-so-i-credit-them-for-being-tough/

He still thinks he can bomb them to submission but good to see he's starting to understand the people he's fighting against. US can't win against Iran because Americans will never tolerate even a fraction of the amount of suffering Iranians can tolerate

Trump should just call it quits and go home

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God1000:
They should arrest and jail him, the butcher of tens of thousands of innocent people, the worst genocide in my lifetime


From ICC to amnesty international, these organizations are in a race to get him


Even the mayor of new York is after him

FYI 25% of the Palestinians killed were Hamas fighters. Stop painting it like they were all civilians

SeverusSnape:
Bunch of jokers. Let them arrest him let us see.

Fighting terrorism squarely is now a crime in the eyes of Amnesty International... those ones have even lost their credibility.

FYI 75% of the Palestinians they killed were civilians

Toolegit123:
Good day everyone.

There's this question I want to ask. Please can a woman choose a man whom she want to marry? Because there was a time I kept chasing my ex and she told me that I shouldn't pressure her,that shes the one who has the power to choose but I think she was wrong. From my own perspective so far,I think and believe it's a man who has the ability to choose the kind of woman he wants to settle down with and the time to do so.


So ,my brethren,what do you think about it ? Does a woman has the ability to choose the kind of man she wants to settle down with?

Both the man and the woman have the power to choose.

If the man chooses a woman but she doesn't choose him, he won't get her even if he chose her.

In the same way, if the woman chooses a man but he doesn't choose her, she won't get him even if she chose him.

The man and the woman need to choose each other.

Sonnobax15:

Omoh,the stories surrounding this dude's marriage are just too much.

But all in all, everyone knows what he/she wants and mustn't wait for another person to give him/her advice on how to live his/her life.

Personally,I've always known the dude to be the cruise type. While on it,he has equally been cashing out from the gullibility of his followers.

Person wey be urhobo man like myself . In as much as I'm against wicked and heartless women who see relationship as a way to escape the same poverty their own family couldn't emancipate her from, I'd still get married someday, especially to a lovely soul .

Lol. You want to get married someday? Wonders shall never end

Guys like you just keep bashing women anyhow but deep down you all want a woman to call your own. Smh

just2endowed:
yes in war no one is innocent. The mayor in that new yoke is a indirect sympathetizer to terrorist. Here is how. Few years back, his wife was a supporter of isis and terrorist. She adore them and support them online when she was young a bit. Down the line this mayor like her charisma and her stand for jihadist justice, they click and married. Going into politics, his wife renounce her former dealing with jihadist and claim she is now western. Deep inside this politicians he supported his wife

Yes, I know about his wife's support which is sickening. I won't say with absolute certainty that he shares the same views deep down but the fact that he didn't mention that 30% of those 70,000+ people killed in Gaza were Hamas members shows his bias. He did condemn the Hamas October 7 attack in a subsequent Q&A with news reporters but he still did damage earlier. The amount of people who viewed the video without mention that Hamas were among the 70,000+ killed got even more views. He made it sound like Israel only attacked civilians, 100% civilians, which is not true

MrEar:
Source: https://x.com/i/status/2080654696369308024

Ben Shapiro urges Trump to wage total war on Iran: "No one in America wants American casualties… We do understand that war does come along with casualties … we're willing to undergo those casualties in pursuit of an end and for a victory."

He says Americans would be fine with… pic.twitter.com/T7JHTxYtmB

— Chris Menahan 🇺🇸 (@infolibnews) July 23, 2026

Ben Shapiro should lead the way. Let him go and sacrifice his own life. Nonsense!!

Razzness:
Trump is in a very tight spot. He wants this war to end badly but doesn't seem to have many options.

His first option is to escalate further; bring down the full force of the US military on Iran, destroy Tehran and as much infrastructure as they can. But this is his most dangerous option because this war does not have popular support in the US, thousands of civilians will die, and it still does not guarantee Iran will capitulate. Perhaps even more worrying for him is that Iran has the capacity to wreak havoc in Abu Dhabi, Riyadh, Doha, Manama, Kuwait City and Muscat. These are very important allies of the US; they just can't afford to lose.

His second option is to send in ground troops to capture one or two islands. The problem is not capturing the Island but keeping it. The Iranians will happily let the troops land on the Island and start firing everything they have on them, meaning the US will suffer more casualties and it still doesn't guarantee the Iranians will capitulate.

His third option is to do a ceasefire. This will most likely be more humiliating for him than the MOU, because Iran will obviously not give up the Strait of Hormuz, and they will use delay tactics to kick the nuclear issue down the road.

His fourth option is to maintain the status quo. Sustained but restrained bombing of military targets and a naval blockade, hoping it will force Iran to come to the table. However, oil prices are now high and above; with the Houthis blockading the Bab-al-Mandab Strait, prices will likely continue to go up. So, this is not a sustainable strategy.

These are all bitter pills to swallow and Trump must swallow one.

Refreshing to see someone well informed here. Thank you

Poormanpikin:
If you're uninformed about world happenings, you should take the time to learn. I'm a Trump hater but I have to admit that on this, he's a badass. He took over Venezuelan oil early this year and the US companies are rapidly fixing the broken oil system. Now he intentionally launched attack on Iran because of their predictable move to close the Straight of Hormuz so that when oil cannot pass through there, other Asian and European allies and countries will begin to purchase from Venezuela which is under US control.

Do you think it's that easy? Venezuela oil can't solve the brewing economic crisis. Supply chains and so on have not been established. It will take years if not decades to put the infrastructure in place. There is a reason why Trump badly wants to open strait of hormuz

LagosG:
A bill is currently being passed in the US to merge the US Army and the IDF. This will essentially ensure the US fights all Israel's wars, illegal or otherwise. This is not conspiracy you can look it up. We're about to enter a timeline that is so dystopian we're not ready for

Yes I saw that

If you think Trump has a strategy, you don't know him enough. You will see what I mean. Don't worry

lightwind:
Says a Nigerian, a black man from a third world country .

Saying people from first world country doesn't have a strategy for war on Iran.

People who made almost everything you are using on your daily lives, from the phone on your hands to the interiors in your house, to the technologia things you see in the hospital you visits, to everything you uses today

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HeatSeeker:
Honestly, what was trump even thinking?!

The same mistake US presidents keep making. If only they tried to understand the kind of people they were dealing with. They are too arrogant

Guestmale:
No amount of money spent by America on this war can be compared with the lost both in terms of human and infrastructures Iran has suffered and will continue to suffer if they don't come to their senses and allow peace to reign in the strait of Hormuz and middle east in general

That is the problem. Trump can't understand that the kind of sense Iran has is different from the American style. They don't care about suffering

At this rate, US may have to launch a ground invasion which will be very expensive for US in terms of money and military lives. Very unnecessary war. This is what happens when you elect incompetent leaders.

Trump still cannot understand that Iran is willing to fight till their last drop of blood. Americans on the other hand won't tolerate even a fraction of that amount of suffering

Leepeak:
No he is not
Na God pikin he is above sins, he is above
Sins

Go and look for the videos of those kids who lost their limbs and say he's above sins. Smh heartlessness at its peak

MrEar:
Benjamin Netanyahu is a war criminal.

Benjamin Netanyahu is a war criminal. pic.twitter.com/YRezmW6YVx

— Mayor Zohran Kwame Mamdani (@NYCMayor) July 22, 2026

He should have mentioned that Hamas fighters were like 30% of those 73000 people

Flangelo12:
73 thoudand people is not beans.

The annoying part is he didn't mention that like 30% of those people were combatants and not civilians

just2endowed:
All of them are war criminals, eventhe mayor that support Hamas, hezbollah, boko haram and all them are war criminals.

Yes. If you call Israeli Defence Forces war criminals you should also call Hamas criminals

Kennatic:
It's never about who loves or likes you as a man. It's about who you love or like. A woman's love only truly means something when you feel the same way.

A man can easily be indifferent toward a woman he has no feelings for, but he'll naturally treat the woman he genuinely cares about differently.

For example, imagine a man who values his privacy. If a woman he doesn't like suddenly shows up at his doorstep unannounced just cos she loves him, he'll probably be annoyed and think,

"Why this babe go just show up for my doorstep, like when did this start?"

Now imagine it's the woman he truly loves. That same surprise visit instantly brightens his day because her presence is something he genuinely wants.

At the end of the day, a man's actions are usually driven by how he feels about the woman, not simply by how she feels about him. For her love to make any sense to him, he has to feel the same way.

Thank you. The first person to type something sensible here. Both are important. Having only one is not sustainable. She will either lose her love for you or you will lose you love for her. The love has to be mutual

Fiscus105:
If you married a lady that you love without being reciprocate the love back, you are heading for crisis in marriage, and if you married a lady that loves you, without you loving her back and inch, it's just as if, you housed your own gender at home.


Nevertheless, if I'm asked to choose only 1 between these two ladies, I would go for lady that loves me.

It's better to choose a lady who has both or you stay single till you find a lady who has both.

masterfactor:
The day the United States of America learn to mind her business. The world will be a better place.

The absolute truth. Imagine how many less wars and how many less lives lost their would have been in they did that! I worry for what will happen with Iran. They've bitten more than they can chew and they just won't admit it

US will just make the same mistakes Israel made

Razzness:
Lol! anytime I see this kind of news i just laugh. You see this war of attrition, is exactly the kind of war that plays in Iran's favor. They will drag the US through 5 miles of mud in this kind of war. Iran will burn the entire US gulf allies before they go down. This is a fact.

You see that Kharg Island Trump is ranting about, he will not know loss until he makes the mistake of sending ground troops.

When I even understood the US was not serious was when they burned 100-million-dollar aircrafts to rescue a downed pilot in Iran. So you wan follow pig fight but you dey fear to stain you white cloth. You never ready!