pretydiva:
This event happened in my street this afternoon. I was in my room browsing with my phone when I heard people shouting outside. At first I didn't want to go out, but when the shouting increased I had to go outside to see what was happening.

My mom and I rushed outside to catch a glimpse of what was happening. At first we heard a guy tried to kidnap a girl in the church. Fortunately my mom saw the child's elder brother and she made inquiry to know if the guy was caught and the child rescued, that was when we heard the shocker of our life.

The brother told us that it wasn't a kidnapping case,but instead a fellow guy who also attend the same church with them was caught having carnal knowledge of his sister right inside the church. It was the proprietor of the school opposite the church that caught him in the act. The most annoying part was that the guy was releasing right inside the child when he was caught and he showed no sign of remorse. When the little child was interrogated, she said today wasn't the first time it started, that they even had s*x with her yesterday which was Sunday. I had to go very close to the church to catch a glimpse of the guy. I was indeed very shock when I saw the matured guy that defiled this little girl.

The child's parent were later alerted and the father came with some policemen and took the guy away. But before they left,one of the policemen asked the guy how many of them were involved. The guy confessed that it was his elder brother that started having carnal knowledge of the child before he followed suit. Him and his elder brother were later taking away.

Now my question here is who should be blamed. Is it the guy for having carnal knowledge of d child, or the child for not reporting such act to her mother,or the mother who wasn't so observant as to notice what was happening to her child?

hizaya61:


So hell na for old men and women?

xavier3:
Wow!!!

I know a thing or two about the OP in question and the situation of things.
Its too bad her side of the story is half true as there are looming issues which have been existing for years but never outrightly acknowledged.
I am tight with the hubby in question and to ridicule him publicly with half truths is so demeaning and far from acceptance of reality that I had to do this, since he is not a NLander. I am well aware this might cause a rift but the good-book says truth shall set you free.

She likes people to feel empathy and sympathy for her and my guess is why she tabled this matter to NL. Such a pity I saw this thread so late.

My thoughts on their recent problems:

Imagine a lady (OP) who leaves the man to plan their wedding (asides not contributing a naira to the millions spent) and on the D-day she didn't help out in anyway with any of the arrangement or anything, but is too busy looking pretty and fighting with her train over make-up and other issues (during pre & post trad event on same day / night). To the point that his laptop screen was broken by a girl in the bridal train and she can't say who broke it as she was too busy picking quarrels.

My wife had to be aggressive and take charge in yelling on the event planner who was nowhere to be found and coordinating the venue, if not, that wedding would never had taken place as everywhere was unorganised and not set as at 1 hour to the start time.
He looked ragged and so wornout. I also had to take charge to coordinate everything. At the end of it all, the wedding was glam but it was like a show-off to her frenemies while he didn't look like a groom. Like it was a very expensive party.

My friend was like a refugee, He took ill and lost his voice for 2 weeks after that day.
(Asides that as far as I'm aware, he told me that he told her to grab the bull by the horn and chip in a word to her people on the outrageous brideprice demand....like my wife did for me to lower hers...but she took it in negative light and felt he should pay it all and it was not her place to do so)

As far as I'm aware from talks with my padi, she very rarely does any chores (dishes, sweeping & cooking). Doing them will be like an occassion or if guests are expected or if its gone to yelling/name calling levels. All is mostly and majorly done by him and also has gone to the level of bedmatics compatibility issues, which I am not going to air here. He even does all the errand-runs like a slave in his own domain and she critics and checkmates every move he makes. Maybe its the pregz or the preg-hormones....he would say.

The problem all boils down to his frustration with her and she expecting him to tolerate her despite knowing those shortcomings all these years.
From what he said, he felt that the level of maturity and sense of responsibility would increase once that marital bridge was crossed (his mistake of course which also led him to mouthing off every now and then...which I disapprove of)

As far as I know her, I agree with certain character traits of her last post to this topic. As for the original post....well you be the judge from all you have read so far.
Cheers #Powerofsocialmedia

Again..Wow..smallworld

Missmona:

How

Missmona:

During a wedding reception; the groom was called upon to give his vote of thanks to his guests and this is what he came up with: 1. I want to first of all thank the Lord Almighty for creating my wife and to also thank the pastor and his wife for lending us their wedding rings. 2. Special appreciation to my landlord who lent us his car. 3. I am most grateful to my boss for... approving the loan I used for the wedding. 4. Big thanks to the committee of friends for the appeal fund they raised on my behalf. 5. Also to my brother's wife, thank you for lending us your wedding gown. 6. Am so grateful to the cake designer for the cake. I promised to return it tomorrow morning as agreed without cutting or eating out of it. 7. Special thanks to my friends who brought food from their homes to help me feed you all. Please for those who were served food good luck and for Those who didn't get any, well we will make it up to you during our child dedication ( hopefully next year). 8. Very big thanks to my parents for bringing the village cultural band to supply the music as well as entertain us all here, today. 9. Not forgetting the church marriage committee, thank you for persuading my wife to marry me. 10. Appreciation to the married men in the church for rushing me into this marriage. 11. The women are not left out, thanks a lot for teaching my wife how to dance. 12. To the youths, thank you for sweeping and decorating this venue with palm fronds. 13. I am also grateful to my teenage friends for helping with the Zobo drink 14. Appreciation to my co-tenants for contributing money for the cameraman 15. Well, I wish you all safe journey to your destination!
HAPPY SUNDAY GUYS

Missmona:

During a wedding reception; the groom was called upon to give his vote of thanks to his guests and this is what he came up with: 1. I want to first of all thank the Lord Almighty for creating my wife and to also thank the pastor and his wife for lending us their wedding rings. 2. Special appreciation to my landlord who lent us his car. 3. I am most grateful to my boss for... approving the loan I used for the wedding. 4. Big thanks to the committee of friends for the appeal fund they raised on my behalf. 5. Also to my brother's wife, thank you for lending us your wedding gown. 6. Am so grateful to the cake designer for the cake. I promised to return it tomorrow morning as agreed without cutting or eating out of it. 7. Special thanks to my friends who brought food from their homes to help me feed you all. Please for those who were served food good luck and for Those who didn't get any, well we will make it up to you during our child dedication ( hopefully next year). 8. Very big thanks to my parents for bringing the village cultural band to supply the music as well as entertain us all here, today. 9. Not forgetting the church marriage committee, thank you for persuading my wife to marry me. 10. Appreciation to the married men in the church for rushing me into this marriage. 11. The women are not left out, thanks a lot for teaching my wife how to dance. 12. To the youths, thank you for sweeping and decorating this venue with palm fronds. 13. I am also grateful to my teenage friends for helping with the Zobo drink 14. Appreciation to my co-tenants for contributing money for the cameraman 15. Well, I wish you all safe journey to your destination!

HAPPY SUNDAY GUYS

delishpot:


No. looking to be a guest. But you don take the guest position already. Let me move on.

ITbomb:
Bad photoshop

Justfollowit:


I am not Igbo by the way

And no one is dying for an Igno man's love. The OP's friend is dying to be engaged to a man she has been dating for a long time and according to her because her friend has what it takes to make a good wife and mother, there is no reason why the guy shouldnt propose to her except if he is considering her non-Anambran status.

hizaya61:
Safe journey straight to hell, help me greet baba Fela and sani abacha

delishpot:


Yes o.

Justfollowit:



If you have never met any good igbo man or woman in your entire life, then you need to reassess yourself.

delishpot:


Hahaha. Otondo

Sweetlemon:


Why not ask the guy? (guilty conscience)

franciscak:
Dear All,
Please I will require the contribution of experienced and affordable vendors for my upcoming wedding. Location: Amuwo Odofin. Invitees: 500 guests. Please send in your prices. Thanks

Sweetlemon:


Just look at this one. Who has mentioned hate on this thread now ehn? Why are you guys always living in fear of people hating you? Why the paranoia? What are you hiding in your cupboards?

Kingspin:
Are u sure ur a friendly and social type because thats what ibos love most.

Treasuredlove:

emmyjack2007:
D.P.O there should be sacked

zizle87:
Loooool... I remain one of the few ladies that have caused wahala in computer village but i have had sense since then Nd now become popular... First of all, if you want to buy a phone on the streets, make sure its someone you have patronised before and he owns a shop. If its a used fine, make sure he has a reciept.. Having said that, the same thing happened to me only that i did not buy a fake phone like your babe did. It was swapped after i paid for a locked phone that could never be unlocked. What did i do?... I strolled to comp villa with a guy who used to live on my street. I didnt go like i was looking for anyone. Luckily for me, i spotted the guy and pointed him out and d guy with me landed him back hand. That was how people gathered. The guy just held his trouser and started shouting " u sabi wetin u do, area father say make i bring u come". Of which the guy admitted knowing me. I tell u the fact boys contributed 23k on the spot just to prevent him from getting to area father. They begged me to forget the remaining 2k. When i remembered that i even bought d monkey viju milk and told him it was my last cash... Chai! I no gree... That was how we went to see the God father we knew nothing about and it was the boys that took us there not knowing we didnt know the way. The crowd just led us there. B4 we got in. Someone dropped the 2k for the guy but God father already knew we were around and asked us to leave the boy with him. We got outside and i could see the look on his friends faces... They did all they could to prevent him from getting there. Those boys fear that Godfather more than police. My advice. Do what i did. U and ur babe should go back and find him first. Leave police and take a thug. Bribe anyone 5k to snitch and produce the guy. God fathers place is across the road from the entrance near under bridge where juli pharmacy is.. As for ur babe, after this she go wise no worry. Goodluck

ernecy:
see wicked shide