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HarlequinLekex:
Do you know this is not the next thing to do?

Newborn27:
I myself.....I don't understand..... I've got everything and every reason to be alone and have peace..... some said I have low self-esteem.... others said I'm charmed while few said I'm dumb.


But the fact is, I don't understand why I committed myself this much?

Maybe it's because I entered this institution as a teenager.... Maybe my mind ain't healthy or maybe I'm too churchy.... I'm stock .....I just hope I'd survive All this and write a triumphant story.

GboyegaD:
It is well. I guess the temptation never ends anyways although I am trying to think of what transpires at reception. Glad I skipped that because I wasn't ready for unnecessary dramas.

tonyson010:
well said lack of preparation, but I don't think marriages are crashing that much, as suggested by the OP.

GboyegaD:
Just curious, what are these pressures?

Natbrowny:
Doesnt work that way.

Ebubu:
they didn’t date properly

Corridon:
One of my guys recently separated from his wife of two months after spending millions during wedding.

Fiscus105:
Number one problem is that people wants to married and still wants to enjoy luxury freedom of single.
(Some guys married,yet still want to sleeping with different girls like single, meanwhile, no room available in his house to carry them to sex and to get hotel, it will take additional spending, before you know it will turn it to fight, and for girls, they married yet still want attention/chatting with exes, still dressing like harlot which can make them fall for another guys)you nailed it absolutely true

Number two problem is finances, marriage comes with whole lot of responsibilities.

(Money you spend during single, will now multiple and to carry on, it's big problem)

JustStupidity:
Yes because women don't have any other thing to offer apart from se.x

Tallesty1:
Kids are marrying kids and giving birth to kids, it will only get worse.

Sammy07:
Epeleeee, me to go listen to Don Moen, Micheal smith before I get married

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

Nonexisting1:
It's not about dating. I have seen people that dated 5yrs and their marriage still crashed. Men today marry for nyash and breast and women marry for comfort and to form for their friends with few marrying to escape their family's pressure and problems. I have said it, I can not marry in this world, maybe in the next. I have met so many women and I am yet to see one that knows the true meaning of marriage. Even me, I'm not ready for the bullshit. My father will always say that if a man is not ready to raise an infant ekuke dog, he should never talk about marriage and my mother will add that if a woman is not ready to be a mother to a grown idiot, she should never think of marriage.

Romanoff:
A lot of people don't know what marriage is about.

Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry.

Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about.

Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead.

I remember before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I admire.

These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples?

NotBeenPaid:

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Lust and peer pressure. Marriage is for matured minds.

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Nonexisting1:
Why wouldn't marriages crash when women go into them for what they can get and not what they will give. You can't withdraw money from back if you don't first make a deposit.

jude79:
But twice of two is four

okoroemeka:
I tire self,I wonder why men can think about and actually marry two,three,four wives,for what?only the one I have is a handful talking of 2,3,4,God forbid,that is why I fancy my chances with my sidechicks,their own problems are very small and easily manageable,I have had four kids from four different sidechicks so far in life but non of those kids will drag my property with my children,I simply love my sidechicks,they are expendable,easily disposable,no strings attached and discardable,I will choose chiamaka,mmeso or chioma over a second wife,I don't want to die before my time