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Cosmicwill:
I'm 28 and have a very high libido
My relationship with my ex ended early this year.

I have been single and my urge for sex distracts me so much.
I'm trying to get a lover but few of the kind of ladies I want don't seem to like me back.

I don't want go for just any lady as I look forward to having a serious relationship that can lead to marriage.

Please I need your advise.
Note: Please don't recommend hookup/brothel or masturbation as my high urge for sex can't be satisfied with any of these.

Incase you want to advise I should forget women now and focus on making money I already know that but I function better with a partner as I don't get distracted by this libido thing when in a relationship.

Thank you

Smellymouth:
Igwe Henry, I hope Rochas Okorostatue have not seen you because if he set his eyes on you, something historical will happen in your life.

Jupxter:
Now you're talking my sister.Kick the guy's butt out. But don't get your hopes up with the sonographer. They are programmed that all female patients are somehow, trust me. Good luck finding true love once again, take it easy my dear, you'll be fine. Bless

Jupxter:
Okay, after you chyke the guy create thread nah. I be want deactivate quick before, but i go follow you, make i know how far. You just sabi the word Saducee today? Na wetin you go scan self, tell me abeg

Jupxter:
lol @ Saducee, you got nothing on me baby, you could have left before you saw a shiny thing nah. Dont waste your time, Kolework ! Find another guy, fair enough, you don't go jumping mountain top to mountain top, you've gotta pass through the valleys, get some understanding dearie. I hate you not, just telling you as it is.

Jupxter:
Elder sister, valid @ There are some ladies who find it hard to leave an abusive relationship until someonelse comes along their paths to give them the strength and will power to leave. And then it is now she sees something shiny, we should fear God oh. Men are humans with blood in their veins too oh.



Stop bragging @ Who leaves after exhausting all modes of making bf change to a better person, if he doesn't change and am still miserable? I don waka.IF GOD HAS GIVING YOU SOMETHING WONDERFUL IT'S GOOD, HOW DID YOU FEEL WHEN BAD GUYS LEFT YOU FOR UNWARRANTED REASONS?YES WE ALL SHOULD BE IN GOOD RELATIONS BUT NOT AT THE SIGHT OF THE NEXT FLASHY THING, IT'S LUST IN HER EYES. WHEN SHE WAS OPENING LEG FOR THE GUY, SHE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THERE WILL BE POINTS WHERE IT WOULD HIT A LOW.



YOU'RE PROMOTING PROMISCUITY BABE, EVEN RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE NOT SO PERFECT CAN BE WORKED ON TO BECOME BETTER...EVER THOUGHT OF THIS? IF BONDS WERE FORMED AND BOTH PARTIES INVESTED QUALITATIVELY YOU THINK SHE'LL BE GIVING THIS HEAD SHE'S GIVING HERE?

Jupxter:
E pain you joor...

Jupxter:
1. Tell us why you remained in the relationship despite the ill treatment from your present all this while

2. Why did the love suddenly port? Do you know what emotional/love bond is at all?

3. Why is it now you met a new guy you recall that you were been treated badly and need something better

4. What's the proof the sonographer won't treat you worse?

Learn the propagate your relationships sweetie. I'm sure the guy didn't point gun in your head to stay before now.

You only included the he's abusing part to get validation for your cheating soul. You can go ahead and disgrace yourself.

alexialin:
Now you are talking!

My dear, you have my blessings.. Carry go!

Life is all about risk.. No need dying in silence..

Call him tonight Biko.


But remember u need to break off with your bf.. Very important.

Jupxter:
I gave counsel this way before, that was about 15 years ago. It's unfair. Human beings should be treated nicely,since you're wise and i'm dumb, why didn't she leave until now, mind telling me, if you can convince me this one isn't a time-waster,cheat and gold-digger then i'll deactivate this account

alexialin:
You can call it whatever you like.

But if I can remember correctly, if one is not happy in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, they both have the right to opt out of it. As long as one or both of them are miserable dating each other. She's not married to her guy for Christ sakes.

My dear op, don't waste time jare.

Bounce the bf. Let him be with a lady that can give him back tit for tat , all he's doing to u.


Life is that simple.

Jupxter:
Now you're trolling him. Jezuz. You're gold-digging dear

alexialin:
Perfect! That's a good sign.

Then call him again and ask if u can call his number anytime late at night?
If he says yes ? Then it means, he's not married.
Which is also good.

Then one fateful night , when u are lightheaded, in a good mood. Call him up at night and just talk about the day's activities but make sure your voice is sexy and soft

Inbetween ask him personal questions, without bn direct.

Like? I bet a cute guy like you, should have a gf? And if u say no? I will be shocked, then chuckle softly while he tries to give u an explanation.
So from there, if he's interested in you, he will ask same.

Tell him the truth but don't say u are in love with him o, even though it's obvious..

Anyways both of u, take it from there and be flirty on phone but remember make your voice seductive and innocent.
It works all the time

But there is no guarantee this relationship will last long. So don't build castles in the air about him.

If it does fine, if it doesn't? Simply enjoy the moment and end up becoming best of friends.. If you can.

Anyways It's 50-50.

Best of luck.

Jupxter:
Please risk it. It's worth it. Please otherwise you'll regret not taking your chances


By the way sonographers exude one romantic feeling and calmness like that. Trust me, i also fell in love with one this year, but naa, didn't bother....

Jupxter:
You said so, not me Why be in a relationship when you don't expect the best, and won't give your best? Are you jinxed?

NwaAmaikpe:



You are the worst kind of cheat there is,
Your kind is the reason why no man should shortchange himself by being in a monogamous relationship.
Your type crushes on her fiance's dad.

You went for a scan last year (you were in a relationship at the time)...yet you were lusting on another man.
I'm certain it's your present boyfriend that even paid the expenses of the said scan.

The only reason your relationship does not seem to be working is because you have become distracted and are rationalizing why your insatiable lust is justified.

Therapists advice people out of relationships to take their time before going into new relationships to avoid same mistakes, but you want to jump out of the BRT because you saw a newer LAGBUS not even caring to know if it is headed your direction.

Well,
You are a cheap, confused twàt who does not deserve the man who is putting up with you.
Trust me, the sonographer does not need to scan your heart to know you are already throwing yourself at him.

I pray he eventually gets to plug-and-play with you, and when he is done; trust me, he will discard you before even discarding the condom. Am not a cheat. I just felt like crying for this comment. Is it wrong to Fall in love?

Jupxter:
This guy, you and your thought-life sha..

This is 100% TRUE = DISTRACTIONS WITH LADIES IN RELATIONSHIPS ( IT MEANS SHE WAS CHEATING EVEN BEFORE THE SONOGRAPHER CAME UP, AND NOT THAT SHE WAS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE THE MAN WAS BAD, BUT BECAUSE SHE WAS DISTRACTED AND WASN'T GIVING HER BEST )

The only reason your relationship does not seem to be working is because you have become distracted and are rationalizing why your insatiable lust is justified.

Amakavula:
Op don't listen to them. it's alright to fall in love with who ever. you could start by chatting him up , but don't give away anything just get to know him and see if he feels the same. And leave that abusive relationship Biko, it's not by force.

alexialin:
When next u at the scanning place, smile while u say hi, ask him, how's today's work? Then chip in one or two funny jokes, when he laughs then quickly say hmm, u have a nice smile. That's cool. Most times am bored with work and I think u will be a good chat buddy. Can I have your number? Are u on whatsapp? Then smile again.

Trust me, he will give u his number.
Then pronto, thats an opening to getting close to him and know if he feels same like you do him. With constant chats, u will get to know if hes in love with u or not. And if he's not dating anyone. And if he's not in love with u, just accept fate and take him as a friend. Don't mind anyone saying u are cheap. You ain't married yet and your bf is unbearable.

So my dear, do the needful.

You can breakup with bf sef. Just pull out already! What are u waiting for?

If I were in your shoes, I would have broken up since! I can't be in an abusive relationship. Not for anything in this world. I can't deal Abeg.

So take the bulls by the horn jare, and collect his number!