₦airaland Forum

Golan007:
She's not Igbo.

She's only dressed up in attire that is connected with igbos.

By the way, Ja Rule may have been popular in the noughties but he's a jailbird who's been in various failed ventures in recent times.

Ogbeni calm down, you are developing high blood pressure very fast with hate, you mustn't comment on every thread that mentions Igbo, allow them to celebrate themselves. Haba Ogbeni Rauf

This is regular old news clear to everyone

For an Igbo man to hand over his business entirely under your care means that you are good and sincere in your job.
Congratulations to the family

I left a Govt job and joined private because of higher pay, when Covid-19 started we were placed on redundancy with no salary while my colleagues in FG were earning their full salary for more than 1 year without going to work.
I don't have to explain what I went through all those months when my savings ran out

I wanted to behave like this SIMPle man then I heard Pete Edochie (Ebubedike) asking me, are you out of your senses?
My SIMPlicity vanished and I came back to my senses!

Always confirm online transfer payments with your Bank App and not SMS alert.
If you are using Kpalasa or Akpo-Aza Nokia Torch light phone ensure you dial your bank code after confirming your account balance.

Never trust any stranger no matter their appearance, packaging or sweet sounding words.

AdvocateWriter:
Where are all the Ipobians bashing ondo state governor the other day?

Fake News: IPOBIANS never bashed Ondo because the appointee is a "Nwadiala" if you know what that means.

Buhari is getting busy for Za Oza room don't disturb him please.
Sai Baba

Patrioticman007:
Before the Balfour declaration precisely (1948) there was no state of Israel but jews living as refugees around the world. So just because they are killing Arabs in 21st century doesn't mean they won't go back to their state of slavery like they did during the Pharaohs time, for in this world na turn by turn, says law of Karma.

Lastly why do Christians have sympathy to their god killer ?, the Jews murdered him & set Barnabas a convicted criminal free.

Almighty Allah that freed South Africa from white occupation, will also free Palestine from Jewish occupation.

Same thing Fulanis are doing to Hausas but you all pretend as if it's just ordinary banditry

Baloranking:
Don't you ever quote my comment again? My comment was never directed to you or your family members

Comrade calm down, you are too harsh on the BBQ griller

dedonfranco:
I am from Abia state, I don't have Governor.

See your governor today, he is in Aso Villa seeking advice from a fellow failure

Sholaco:
Ignorant useless old man. No respect for the traditional rulers in their tribe

Ogbeni calm down, he is throwing shade at his old pal and didn't disrespect the stool

Faildinhos meeting themselves

Ayanwukoma:
you are a fool, I pray this gets to you one way or the other.
so you can physically see, that this has nothing to do with manipulations.

You are abusing an elder for voicing his opinion while you are accusing your father of cursing his children always.

What you have displayed above is enough for anyone to access your personality, your father deserves a bottle of beer for not pretending about the kind of kids he has

In another thread this boy give person daughter belle and said his parents were happy for him, the girls parents see him as a tout and bad mannered and he planned to inflict harm on them

We can see from these kids abusing their fathers on Nairaland while buying cars for their mums the damage that is being done to this generation with regards to their fathers, it means that they have given up on their fathers who may be quickly abandoned to die if he falls seriously ill and they won't miss him.

They would rather do Yahoo and use the money to celebrate their mothers instead of helping their fathers whom they don't know what he goes through to keep them alive till the age whence they are able to log on to Nairaland and rain abuses on them.
Men, this is no longer about redpill, plan for your future, we have raised very weak men and it seems every man is on his own now

I didn't o, it's not like I didn't work hard enough but the country is upside down, you can't even get a job or contract from either Govt or corporate easily if you are not highly connected.
Coming year I need to boost my connections aggressively

Phillipsburg:
This is not even about she liking the girl because she'll always take side with my dad. She'll say she doesn't want problem etc.


I'll only be able to know if I'll continue to marry the girl while dating now. I'm just still trying to understand this girl and sort out our differences!!



I'm angry at everything. I'm angry at him for messing with my mental health, for the pains he's putting us all through, for the lack of family care and support, for the emotional and verbal abuse everyday. And yet again, he's planning on going out to the girls family to show the same thing he always does at home to them. How will the girl see me afterwards? How will she ever agree to be my girlfriend? What influence will the girls mom think I'll have on her daughter?

This girl is part of your problem now because you are wrongly feeling that you have found the love you are missing at home.
From the tone of your voice, you are gradually imbibing toxicity, please my young brother calm down a bit.

Poverty and failures can make a man without fear of God to become toxic, that's why a lot of people have advised you to focus on your future and let that girl be for now.

What you need now is to move closer to God like Pastor Righteousness said above, you should find succour in Jesus and not that girl and keep on hold that relationship with the girl which is not approved by your father, he may be a drunkard but there's still something he is seeing as an elder that you don't know, prepare for your forthcoming NYSC deployment and use that period to define what you want in life and reduce your disobedience and toxicity to him over that girl, you have a future ahead of you.

Secondly, you put all the blame for the crisis on your father without seeing the role being played by your mum too who presents herself to you all as a victim, wise women will always weigh their words and actions if they sense resentment and frustrations from their husbands, she probably makes him feel less of a man by reminding him of his failures rather than praising and celebrating him for little successes.

Advice your mum to always question herself before responding or taking any action with regards to your father and to always see her husband as the head and representative of our Lord Jesus in that house as Christ is the head of the church, she should always ask herself, will Jesus be happy with what I am going to say or do?

Bro, relax, calm down and believe that greater things lay ahead, try to talk more calmly with your dad, ask him how his day went, ask him if you should get him water to drink or take his bath, discuss how you look forward to doing things that will make him happy, how you have decided to focus on your future than girlfriend, if you have little change buy Suya and eat with him and you will see changes even though your mum may accuse you of suddenly taking sides with him but don't mind, everything will be okay for all of you.
God bless!

BBNAIJA don end, the Mods should stop disturbing us abeg

michlins:
Your parents are probably poor and you their child is also poor but want to add the burden of wife to yourself.

Your parents are fighting tooth and nail to ensure you don't tow same line with them knowing how it will make you continue their violent marriage route but all you could make out from it is they're frustrating you.

First thing you need to do is to work hard and ensure that you're not poor. Own your own place and then we can advise you

You are correct, poverty and failures can make a man without fear of God to become toxic.

He needs to move closer to God like Pastor Righteousness said above He should find succour in Jesus and not that girl and keep on hold his relationship with the girl till he can stand on his feet after his forthcoming NYSC deployment.

Secondly, he fails to understand that his mum is also a contributor to the crisis, wise women will always weigh their words and actions if they sense resentment and frustrations from their husbands, she probably makes him feel less of a man by reminding him of his failures rather than praising and celebrating him for little successes.

CannibalTorment:
Stop commenting like Igbo member of boko haram

That Igbo man is a businessman, he is making money from what your Army gives to Boko Haram free of charge from your taxes.
Its still better than cutting off and selling a human head for a paltry N25k.

If it's like this, then Pantami will never enter France

This is why even Harvard has approved the Igbo apprenticeship program as a course to be studied.
These are youths that have undergone training as 'Nwaboy' for years under the tutelage of their Ogas and now require startup capital, come back in 5 years and you will see some of them rolling as the new Obi Cubana, E-Money or Rochas Okorocha before he became Governor

I don't want this story to make FP

Danbawa is typical Hausa name, the Fulanis are committing a silent genocide on the defenceless Hausas under the cover of Bandits but due to the Hausas suffering from Stockholm Syndrome they will still vote and support another Fulani against an Igbo or Yoruba if you hold Presidential election today because of sentiments.

People in the South don't understand that Hausas are victims of systemic ethnic cleansing, the only thing that can help the situation without sentiments is to put an Igbo in charge of national security and they will deal with the Bandits mercilessly without thinking twice and the Fulanis know this, thats why there is not a single South East person in Buhari's security apparatus

Can we hear the other side, it's possible the friend exposed her hidden affairs to her foreign based boyfriend and he developed affection towards her for watching his back, this is always a key reason.
Yes, we may call it betrayal but it also helps the man from falling into a trap.

He must eventually, even Kanye West had to buy a house across his wife street to enable their kids have easy access to both divorced parents.
Too many court cases for one person and the fight for custody will remain a huge distraction for FFK, he can't concentrate on building anything in his new party APC

The western media will always amplify accusations from the woman and downplay the man's side of the story, the damage it causes is that if the man is not strong willed he will look for a gun and shoot both the woman and himself

She wants to trend, who cares about whom she has slept with?
True repentance is the one you go to God in prayer genuinely without sensationalising it.
All these ones that will come out and claim they slept with Apostle Suleman and twenty reverend fathers are idiots, why don't they tell us about the Okada riders and Mr Biggs restaurant security guards they have also slept with?

He is appreciating the SIMPle man for paying the bills while letting his kids know who is truly their father.
I can also sense Okafors Law playing out here as his ex calmly records the event which implies that they are still smashing each other.

The man has also succeeded in reducing suspicion whenever he visits in his absence to 'see' his kids during school hours when the SIMPle (Bobo Nice) man is at work.

BESTScientist1:
M.

M is for Mammal

Zandena:
I can see that the comments section is deserted! Unlike when a northerner especially Muslim says this, the IPOB E-rats would have been spewing bigotry and poo!
Hypocrisy is indeed a disease

Repeated topic, he mentioned Zamfara gold not going to Federation account, that's what we expect Buhari to address

Tranquill:
There's no fear rather, you don't expect the people you insult and disrespect to make you president.

Show any tribe in Nigeria that insults and disparages other tribes like the Ibos do on a daily basis both offline and online and making nuisance of themselves.

You become president by building bridges and not otherwise.

Yes they need to build bridges like the endless second Niger bridge, same bridge Obasanjo built when SW was bashing the North over June 12 and didn't support their own.