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It was child abuse sorry I meant Corper abuse

Yes, we dated for 4 years as students, proposed to her after my NYSC when I secured a job, met her family, discussed my intention and they felt we are not on the same level (full of themselves), later they even claimed that they went to investigate my family in our village and they were told that mental illness runs in our lineage.
They convinced her to abandon our marriage plans which she did instead of fighting for us, I asked her to refund part of the bulk money I gave to her for the marriage preparation which she later did because I wanted a proper closure to the relationship, felt really humiliated, locked myself inside and cried, washed my face and told myself it was time to move on.

Deleted her contact from my phone, never scooped around her social media handles, put aside all our pictures together under a locker and didn't worry myself about her anymore.

Started another relationship with a lady I was close to as friends who was very passionate about me but I didn't look at her because I was faithful to my ex.

Suddenly from the blues, my ex elder sister called me after some months that she has been erratic, cursing everyone for making her to abandon the love of her life and that the family has agreed to our plans for marriage.

Later she called me asking for forgiveness and that it was an Uncle of mine who told her family that mental illness runs in our family because he felt I was marrying into a prominent family and to a girl who works in a big establishment while his own children are scattered.

I simply told her I have moved on and wasn't gonna look back and had already started marriage plans with the lady I mentioned earlier and I even invited her to the superlative wedding we were planning in an exquisite location then.
I used the opportunity to tell her that I am wiser now as I go for only ladies who stand by their men because I am afraid if I show any signs of madness (as my uncle told her family) instead of taking me to a psychiatrist hospital, she will rather take me to a market square so that the madness will become permanent.

Today we are both married to different people and talk freely on general topics anytime she calls me, but I totally avoid making any reference to our 4 years failed relationship to avoid Okafors Law.

MangekyoAlt:
Read my first statement before you insult me. That guy said it woould be a suicide for russia to fight NATO. Re-read, you'll notice where I said it would instead be "Russia + NATO" since they both have the capabilities to destroy each other.

Russia could nuke Poland, and other EU countries without nuclear weapons and go conventional with USA, France etc and other with nuclear weapons.

That is why I said, if anything would happen, then MAD is assured

Many of them don't even know the meaning of MAD because they have never heard it on CNN.
You knew about MAD when it comes to direct conflict between NATO and Russia from reading wide with open mind

franksam2009:
bro it will be a disaster for all sides, most European countries will not survive it,, trust me NATO will not push Russia to the extent of starting a war, they are avoiding Russia like plague, the highest they can do is sanction the Russians

No need wasting your time arguing with ignorant kids who get all their news from CNN on international matters

generalwo:
..... So u mean, Russia will deliver nuclear weapons to nato and its allies and they will fold their arms and be looking abi I thought you're intelligent.... So if u get gun to fight, person come your house dey shoot..... U go sit down inside house dey wait make bullet come meet you abi Yes Russia has nuclear weapons.... But so does the USA and all of nato member countries...... The odds are not in favor of Russia at all

Your reasoning on this issue is just too shallow, somebody mentioned earlier that any direct conflict between Russia and NATO will lead MAD, get the meaning MAD before you argue ignorantly further

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Ok Russia under Putin annexed Crimea from Ukraine and heaven no fall. Currently there are thousands of Russians troops on Ukrainian border and heaven no fall. You people must come to understand that Russia is a super power with deadly nuclear weapons and bombs.

You get time to argue with kids who spend their time watching CNN and calling it real news

Fani Kayode is waiting to give his own testimony too (

Because they officially claim to be NBM does not mean they have no connection to the deadly blackaxe, Aiye and other cult groups

Imagine seizing the passport of a man who got perpetual injunction against prosecution through the influence of his wife in the supreme Court. Now they are going to pay him N2m for their stupidity, they should ask the supreme Court to review itself on that injunction which looks like Justice Idris handing over Imo State Govt house to Hope Uzodinma

Covid is now endemic and not a pandemic, my friend is currently recovering and isolated himself, he is being treated with acute malaria medication, he is fine now and awaiting his negative test.
Scientists have said we are all likely to get Covid just the same way we are likely to get malaria

Alex don finish with Anambra state election and Dr Godwin Maduka, now he is back to business.
This one is Miss Come Early, next one will be Miss Come Late and another one will be Miss Come Tomorrow

One thing I have come to notice is that whenever a South Easterner wins a competition, he will ensure that he maximizes the opportunity long after the competition.

I remember when KC and Presh won Star Music talent hunt several years ago, KC has remained relevant by diversifying into different genres of music and his brother E-Money took advantage of KC success and popularity to become a player in several industries by establishing networks with big boys in Lagos, today the guy don blow.

Ebuka us still anchoring Big Brother Naija years after he emerged as winner.
White money is growing bigger by the day despite some people claiming he doesn't have talent, we didn't see this in several previous winners.

I think the Igbos see every opportunity as business to be exploited to the fullest and they support their own which tends to bring jealousy and envy from others who are supposed to copy some of their good attributes to make life better.

We can see that from the many negative comments about the Igbos on Nairaland which is a microcosm of Nigeria.

Congratulations Padre

If you don't allow Tinubu to run he will turn against Nigeria again, he is a political opportunist.

3rdavefarms:
I even like your post , but please bear it mind, America is no joke country , they hold the world power seriously , Russia is just flexing too much , when the America is ready Notte they don’t forgive they can turn the whole Russia into a grave city


As for Notth Korea over fed kiddwaya president hummmm ordinary Grade 2 combat academy soldiers will finish him up

Go and read about Korean war which is technically still ongoing because no armistice or peace treaty have been signed by the warring parties

Yankiss:
Putin should be careful not to turn the villain of the world. Hitler the foremost German Nationalist steeped himself in infamy forever by mindless territorial quests which plunged the world into a terrific second world war. Putin has admirers today but will turn out worse than Hitler on the pages of history if he doesn't reign in on his expansionist lusts. My take.

Keep quiet, you don't know much about international politics you CNN fan

Yusuf is now a district head while BMC are here singing his praise for free

Chloraseptic:
Yeah that's how democracy works.

Biden can't just order his people to fire missiles without soliciting the go ahead of some Congress members or whatever even though he has the highest power and final decision..Even the citizen's opinion is respected to a certain point in democracy. I mean did Nigeria government not yeild to the citizen's demand to end SARS??

I don't seem to understand the system of government Russia is runs by but it doesn't seem to me like a democracy...

Watching CNN has messed up this one brain

She doesn't want her secrets on public.
Love her or hate her Tonto Dike says the truth and is always ready to defend whatever she says with more evidence that's where she is different from Kemi Olunloyo who adds Jara to her investigative stories.

There will never be a book written by any elder in the North to expose how they stood by their criminal Cop and covered him from being indicted by FBI.

I saw how some Southerners were jubilating that Invictus Obinwanne will be in jail till 2028 as if it's not the same scam that Abba Kyari is being shielded from.

While Abike Dabiri was delaying and praise singing Buhari, an innocent Nigerian lady died in an Ivory coast jail, meanwhile the girl accused by Islams Holy Land of being a drug pusher was freed after intervention by the highest level and rewarded with recruitment into NDLEA.

Meanwhile, Police have not also told us that his salary as CP has been suspended, meaning that he is still earning salary from Federal coffers as of today

Semaj77:
They actually don't need us , they'll survive well without Africa

Small pikin trying to make a point, stop watching CNN

Hashabiah:
I don't know why African nations keep degrading our status when in truth the west needs us more than we need them . They know that placing a travel ban will stop and probably diminish their supply of raw materials need for their economic growth,hence they've decided change position by saying they are "lifting the ban " as if that would make us feel like they're helping our situation. Nonsense

They also know that China, Russia, India, Turkey are desperately looking forward to fill any void created by the West.
African leaders are not utilising the powers we have over this neo imperialists who think Africa can be treated as they wish.
Nobody actually cares about travel ban, they have exposed themselves already as unreliable allies

This exposure has shown Nigerians that the age long belief that Yoruba politicians can never be trusted is true. They have always portrayed Igbos as the problem of Nigeria when in reality Igbos will always keep to their side of any agreement without going behind to hubnub with your enemies.

I can see several Tinubu Urchins frantically trying to kill this story on Page 1, but it's late already

I can feel the heavy Afonjarised painment on this bitter truth. Breeze don blow, we don see fowl yansh.
People in the South South have seen what Yorubas did to destroy the Government of their son Jonathan creating the current atmosphere of fear, poverty and rancour across the country

The are taking action and not pretending that all is well. Kudos to the community

Treat it like you would to your sister.
She will have to sign an undertaking that she will stay indoors for one month and read verses of the Bible or Koran and listen to good messages regarding living a pious lifestyle.
She will be without her phone for the period to reduce contact with those deceiving her into the worthless behaviour.
There will be a caveat that the family will stop sponsorship of her education and send her to her parents to go and learn a trade if it happens again.
Don't do anything physical to her

Leverage2021:
Kabiru

No be Yoruba Muslim name be that

95% of ritualists dealing with human parts in Nigeria are Yoruba Muslims

Hood rats, the problem with black community in America. Imagine the kind of children the pregnant one and the one with a baby will raise.
Those children will also grow up without father as they are all likely to be single mothers

Zico5:
I thought polygamy is not practise in Igbo land because of high dowry fee. Is it that the man married those women free of charge or he enchanted their parents. Wonder shall never end. But I don't understand the issue of burying him with car. Maybe someone can explain better.

That's just a myth.
Igbos are not restricted too much about how they live their lives.

Oooh! What a SIMPle man, his parents will be regretting having him as son

People with critical illness are taken to Enugu Ezike for traditional medicine and many come back recovering even when modern medicine has given up on the patient.
We need to appreciate what we have, despite its technological advances, the Chinese people have not abandoned their traditional medicine which leads to poaching in Africa as some of the ingredients requires elephant and Hippopotamus tusks smuggled out of the continent

yanabasee2:
The people selling alcohol drinks there... should relocate to states that's giving consent to it ...


Kano is an Islamic state and it's under islamic rulings.... Reasons there is Sharia functioning there and hisbah as well...


If you're rejected, don't force yourself to stay.... Leave!

Why not advocate for your Yoruba Muslim area in Oshogbo to be declared as Islamic state, you are crying more than Kano people