Romance › Re: 13-Year-Old Boy Woos Lady On Facebook, She Laments, Blames Mark Zuckerberg by Hadampson(m): 9:02pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Egoveen: Please I want to learn how to cancel comments the way you just did mine   Just follow this format. [s][/s]. Put the message you want to cancel in between the s enclosed in brackets |
Romance › Re: 13-Year-Old Boy Woos Lady On Facebook, She Laments, Blames Mark Zuckerberg by Hadampson(m): 8:38pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: Welcome To Algeria ! ( Pics ) by Hadampson(m): 8:07pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
@Algerian2 I'm anticipating the pictures of Annaba, Jijel and Djelfa  If you have pictures of the emboldened, please share... Merci d'avance |
Travel › Re: Welcome To Algeria ! ( Pics ) by Hadampson(m): 8:01pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Can't find the right adjective to describe this country... Keep the pictures rolling Algerian2  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Al-Shabab Attacks Joint US-Kenyan Military Base by Hadampson(m): 5:55pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
poseidon12: Are you serious or just being sarcastic? Saudi Arabia is the number one sponsor of terrorism around the world. Show me one proof and i will believe you. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Al-Shabab Attacks Joint US-Kenyan Military Base by Hadampson(m): 2:53pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
nototribalist: Guys why can't America bomb the real terrorist country like Saudi Arabia.
If you want to know why America doesn't like Iran go and watch Ben Affleck movie ARGO. Americans think 2020 warfare is about showing military ship and planes. That was what they thought until New York building was washed out.
I know the real terrorist in Aso Rock is happy with what America is doing to Iran, since that's where Shites moslems comes from. Boko Haram is Sunis, Alqueda is Sunis. Saudi Arabia is not a terrorist country. |
Romance › Reason Why Many Women Are Many On The Street Nowadays by Hadampson(op): 2:46pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Sex to a man is more than physical pleasure.
Sex is conquest, it is an achievement of a sort; it is the affirmation of manhood.
This may sound stupid and senseless to a woman but to a man it is not.
Withholding sex from a man makes you mysterious and strangely attractive.
A man likes to overcome a challenge and CONQUER.
Having sex with you is conquering you.
If he does so before marriage, he loses the passion to pursue and chase you further because you do not give him anymore challenge.
If you pressure him and he continues with the relationship, he does so with less enthusiasm and respect for you.
Delaying sex till marriage has its numerous benefits.
Apart from avoiding unwanted pregnancy, infections, syphilis and AIDS, you develop a very healthy self esteem.
Your face glows with pride and you help your man develop SELF CONTROL.
Women who give men sex in courtship do not know they are helping their men commit adultery in marriage.
You have trained him to always get sex improperly at the wrong time because you feel he cannot hold it.
So when you marry and are heavily pregnant or just deliver your baby please don't be angry if hubby runs after a mistress or caught making out with the maid.
Because you have already gotten him used to the system and cannot wait any longer.
The best place to be "conquered" is in marriage.
Saving sex till the wedding night makes the man sees you as a highly valuable jewel worth having and keeping.
This may not just be referring to virgins.
Even if you have had a terrible past, abortions or a child out of wedlock.
FORGET THE PAST and save sex for the wedding night.
Let the man know the past was a mistake but now you know better.
He may say why only him but let him know that only a fool makes mistake twice.
You are not going to CHEAPEN yourself before any man anymore.
If he accepts it fine, if not he is free to go.
You are not a sexual machine. Any man who will marry you must accept your person not just your private part.
You are not a intimacy gadget. You are a woman he needs to appreciate, love and value you with all due respect.
When you give your man sex on the wedding night, he has "conquered" you and there is a look of pride in his eyes.
That pride spread over to you and the result is a loving, trusting, peaceful and blissful marriage.
He no longer sees you as a cheap person. This is not a joke.
You are happy that your man owns you completely and he is happy to be the one in charge of you.
This is very crucial and basic in marriage.
It is the foundation for trust, faithfulness and commitment for life.
Learn to control your sexual urge and teach your man to control his as well.
There is time for everything under the sun.
The more you sell yourself cheap and quick, the more you will be bought cheap and depreciate in value quick.
You all know that cheap product doesn't last long on market. That's how your relationship might be.
Many women are many on the street today because they were so quick to give themselves cheap.
They are the cause of their very problems today.
The faster their backs were knocked on the bed, the faster their relationships were broken.
And lots of them complaining today that their days are changing into darkness.
Dear ladies, tell him to wait and have patient until the wedding night.
If he doesn't have patient, let him go.
For those of you who rushed yourself and now living with the pains, don't get frustrated.
God bless you all!!
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Travel › Re: Insomnia Thoughts - Should I Relocate Or Not? by Hadampson(m): 2:08pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
themaestro08: India has more than 18 million of its citizens in diaspora, to be specific 4.4m in US, more than 3m in UAE, same goes to other developed countries as well. Even the UK has more than 5m of its citizens living abroad as migrants.
Emigrate while you can, the country will be fixed when the people truly needs change.
Don't let patriotism blind you from seeing reality. Grab this opportunity while you can else you will regret your folly. Gbam... E.O.D  |
Travel › Re: Yankee To Naija: Thoughts And Experiences by Hadampson(m): 2:05pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: Yankee To Naija: Thoughts And Experiences by Hadampson(m): 2:03pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
MackyNaija: Sometimes, one just has to cut thru people's BS and keep posting...
For posts he doesn't get paid for? About his story and decisions he made?
They can call it whatever they like but the antagonism is annoying.  Very annoying boss  This is the reason why some nairalanders in diaspora have refused to create a new thread on their adventures |
Travel › Re: Yankee To Naija: Thoughts And Experiences by Hadampson(m): 1:58pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2: I joined retiree forums and I read up what people are doing. I posted a few links in posts above.
USA retirees has become such a booming business that many countries have carved out specific retiree based Visa class and some just created business visa that retirees are taking advantage of.
Practically most Asian and South American countries will offer good exchange rates.
Vietnam Thailand Cambodia South Korea to some extent Laos Costa Rica El Salvador
Just type retiree visa into Google.
Good luck. Thanks alot sir. I will search for it now  |
Travel › Re: Diary Of A Nigeria Student Living In Saint Petersburg, Russia. by Hadampson(m): 11:59am On Jan 04, 2020 |
@TochiPhotos
Sorry about whatever you are facing now. It's a phase and it would be gone soon
I want you to know that there is a dark cloud covering the great sun you are. After it lifts, you’ll be shining.”
Everything is going to be fine bro. Be happy |
Travel › Re: Yankee To Naija: Thoughts And Experiences by Hadampson(m): 11:03am On Jan 04, 2020 |
freecocoahubby: His children are in the custody of his 3x divorced wives who also collected his properties and funds in divorce court.. and that's why he had no choice but to return to Nigeria.
Moral of the story: never take the advice of anyone dumb enough to get married and divorced 3 times to three different women.. dude is on Nairaland preaching because he can no longer return to the states where he lost everything! OP has serious issues that he hasn't come to terms with yet. @EgunMogaji2 am I lying? Do you know him personally  |
Travel › Re: Yankee To Naija: Thoughts And Experiences by Hadampson(m): 10:56am On Jan 04, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2: At least I visited, some don't. I know people that are in the USA that hasn't seen Nigeria for 45 years. One even came to Ghana and had some of his extended family come to meet him there.
Don't judge my journey based on your own perspective. I told you how mine went. I think he is scared of the "non-existent" village people  |
Travel › Re: Yankee To Naija: Thoughts And Experiences by Hadampson(m): 10:47am On Jan 04, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2: I’m really having a blast Sir. I feel pity for those who see nothing good about Nigeria.
I’ll be off next week to Saki to see how they make local iron pots. I have an idea that it’ll make for a good planter.
Some are hoping that I’ll join them in badmouthing Nigeria but the devil is a liar. We have crummy leaders but for the most part the citizens are the best. The culture is a outstanding. I can’t wait to go to Lokoja and see Rivers Niger and Benue. Sir, be careful of hoodlums on your way to Saki. My younger brother almost got killed few months ago when he was going to army cantonment in Saki Nice thread BTW  |
Travel › Re: Yankee To Naija: Thoughts And Experiences by Hadampson(m): 10:38am On Jan 04, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2: Where did I say I was doing anything to help Nigerians? I’m not running a charity. But I’m sure the tens of millions I’ve individually pumped into the economy did not hurt Nigeria.
I came back to my dutiful home. I owe no explanation nor apology to anyone.
It’s much cheaper to retire to certain other countries than Nigeria for me.
You’re young still, so when you get to retirement age then you and I can have that conversation. Sir, can you list out the countries please? |
Travel › Re: Insomnia Thoughts - Should I Relocate Or Not? by Hadampson(m): 9:47am On Jan 04, 2020 |
AngelicBeing: Don't leave Nigeria, invest in Nigeria, pray and continue to pray for Nigeria, prayers is the solution to make Nigeria a better place, with your prayers and fasting, Nigeria will have good roads, health-care, power, good security, don't travel and be a slave or second class citizen in the Western world, it is better to invest and keep praying for Nigeria, prayers is the solution to end our problems, it is prayers that developed all the western world you are planning to go, start praying and fasting today, thank me later  Lol.. Boss, compliment of the season  |
Travel › Re: Insomnia Thoughts - Should I Relocate Or Not? by Hadampson(m): 9:29am On Jan 04, 2020 |
ahiboilandgas: but how come kalu is serving a 12 years sentence ..abi him no be elite Kalu is just unfortunate. He is neither the first elite to embezzle public fund nor will he be the last. |
Travel › Re: Insomnia Thoughts - Should I Relocate Or Not? by Hadampson(m): 9:17am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Ekpeitut: Hello my people,
I've had this strong desire to relocate out of naija given the harsh economic climate, the hopelessness, insecurity and other ills. (Note: I live comfortably and earn decent wage, had part of my education outside Nigeria, my job also allows me travel outside every once in a while)
I had started the relocation process but I keep stalling because of the following questions/ thoughts that keeps popping up in my mind;
1. If all the sane Nigerians flee Nigeria who then remains to fight for the soul of Nigeria (Some may say Nigeria isn't worth fighting for) sadly I agree but it's all we've got.
2. The country I intend relocating to have had their fair share challenges but somehow rose above them to create the utopia that now appeals to me. So what's stopping me from doing same in my Country ? ( One tree can't make a forest - that's my answer)
I just want to sample opinions. Please keep them coming. Loss of patriotism Bad leaders rulers Unproductive youths The only set of people that can make Nigeria a better place are our leaders rulers in Government. If they are ready, every other person will be ready. When you say, "dont misuse or embezzle any public fund in your care" and someone goes contrary to the directive and gets heavily punished, no one else would commit such offense i believe but unfortunately in Nigeria, Offenders don't get punished. So nobody cares when any goes wrong  This is the reason for the loss of patriotism in the minds of Nigerians. The country you are planning to relocate to have productive citizens, good leaders and a working system but these don't exist in Nigeria. We have youths who can do anything to see a celebrity but can't do the same if we are asked to fight for our country. We have people who are tribal bigots and are not ready to change for good. A country where tribalism thrives cannot develop. We need to be united before the country can move forward. Nigerians like to identify themselves with their tribes. If a Nigerian is prosecuted, the first thing an average Nigerian would check is the criminal full name to know if the person is yoruba, hausa or Igbo. This is completely absurd No matter our tribe, we are all Nigerian and we should learn to embrace ourselves and work together. Like Naijafutbol said, you can contribute your quota in cash or kind while in abroad |
Travel › Re: Insomnia Thoughts - Should I Relocate Or Not? by Hadampson(m): 8:39am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Ekpeitut: Hello my people,
1. If all the sane Nigerians flee Nigeria who then remains to fight for the soul of Nigeria (Some may say Nigeria isn't worth fighting for) sadly I agree but it's all we've got.
I just want to sample opinions. Please keep them coming. You are right. I have asked myself this question times without number but the truth is Nigeria is not ready yet. The country is not encouraging and that is the major reason why most Nigerians prefer to relocate to another country. What would drive a person so desperate to vacate where his roots lie in search of an experience elsewhere in the world  Understandably, the motives of lots of nigerians putting in immigration applications are diverse but the underlying factor is d stark disappointment in our system and a search for a plausible hope. Hope for good health care, good schools, adequate security, constant electricity, good roads and hope for our unborn children. GOD has blessed this nation with all the good natural resources of life that could make us compete with the great nations of the world yet we have chosen to move backward and not stagnant nor forward. Our leaders are so corrupt, judicial system is corrupt. Almost everybody is corrupt. I have always tried my best to correct people when they go wrong, enlighten them but they are far from changing their ways. Nigeria is a country where the rich and elite are above the law. A country where a man can loot over 30billion naira and he will be sentenced to 1yr in prison with an option of paying a fine #5,000,000 while a armed robber that steal #200,000 and be sentence to 20yrs in prison. INJUSTICE!!!!! That being said, I believe Nigeria would be great one day but not with this present generation  God bless Nigeria |
Travel › Re: Insomnia Thoughts - Should I Relocate Or Not? by Hadampson(m): 8:16am On Jan 04, 2020 |
[quote author=NaijaFutbol post=85481321]Nigeria needs a vision to believe in. The country is a collection of sections with different ideals of what progress means. Without unity of purpose, the country will remain backward. As you can see from the last set of elections, things cannot change because the side with more violence will always win. If you have a family, better go raise them in a sane country where meritocracy and competence comes before ethnicity, quota and religion. They will see doctors who didn’t “sort” to make it out of medical school and will not need to answer yes sir to one illiterate whose only qualification is being born in the same town as one military administrator. You can stay abroad and contribute your best in cash and kind. Be open to starting afresh and conquer any austere condition as you may not be able to live large for some time. Finally: If you voted for or supported Buhari at any point, may your efforts yield no result. You better stay here and enjoy your change.[/quote Lwkmd  |
Travel › Re: Entering USA Or Europe As A Married Man Or Single. Which Is Better? by Hadampson(m): 7:56am On Jan 04, 2020 |
womenareapes: the option i give is for those who have already married but still want to travel abroad 
I rather prefer traveling abroad single than to marry our apes women and bringing her to come live with you in abroad Mistake corrected. Nigerian women are not apes. Prost. |
Travel › Re: My Experience At A Restaurant In Canada by Hadampson(m): 10:44am On Jan 02, 2020 |
googi: In which country apart from African countries can you work with a foreign certificate?
You cannot work with British medical degree in the USA. Even within US you have to pass state exams except where there is reciprocity to practice law.
The point here is not foreign degree, it is about well qualified African Canadians or African Americans that finished at Ivy league universities and found themselves jobless at the end of recruitment process by employers. Can you understand how hard it is to counsel them?
You guys must stop using lucky tokens as an example of success abroad. Indeed, it is one of the point of contentions between Africans and African Americans. If they are well qualified, how could children of foreigners find professional jobs in positions their fathers and mothers died for? I'm sure of Germany. Some Nigerians emigrated to Germany through job seeker visa and got employed using certificates they got when they were in Nigeria. Also, i have seen some Nigerians who went to Canada through Express entry and got employed before they landed in the country with certificates they got in Nigeria. In the western world, if you want to get employed, you need to work harder than the natives. Study lucrative a course like IT, nursing, pharmacy etc, get the required skills, have good grades, build a good CV and see if you won't get job offers. |
Travel › Re: My Experience At A Restaurant In Canada by Hadampson(m): 1:35am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Vanhooijdonk: There will be a time you will fall into financial difficulty from losing your job or unexpected expenses suddenly come up and need help to pay rent/mortgage, car payment and other expenses. Majority of native Canadians and Nigerians live paycheck to paycheck in Canada. Nigerians are the only people you can rely on when you fall on hard times and your parents back home when you live in Canada. That is when you will realize your fellow Nigerian are some of the nicest people. A Nigerian will lend you money and may even ask you not to pay the balance if you borrow money. No Canadian will ever lend you money- it is every man/woman for himself in this society. Nigerians that passed their limits. The sensible NIGERIANS are not included. @2nd bolded... A Canadian has sent me some money even without asking for it. The way you people generalize hastily amaze me. Like i said in one of my previous posts, every country has the good and bad people. |
Travel › Re: My Experience At A Restaurant In Canada by Hadampson(m): 1:28am On Jan 02, 2020 |
googi: Nigerians, Naija, OmoNaija na God I take beg una. Return Nigeria to the land where milk and wara flow.
Make your land, your town or fillage a better place to live. If you are too young ask your parents about Nigeria.
There is nothing in Canada that you cannot enjoy in your village except vanities. Right now in Canada, black children cannot buy a house like their parents did 20 or 40 years ago. Hard to believe myself until I saw a study in Toronto Star. I posted it here months ago but nobody paid attention.
Do you believe that Lagosians used to take pride in the fact that if a stranger enters Lagos in the morning, before nightfall, he would be fed, clothed and given a place to sleep.
It could never happen in Canada. Even in those days Canada would give you good education, no matter where you live unlike United States. So, it was a place to raise children.
But they would not give you professional jobs. You stood a better chance in the States. Yet Canadians would tell you not to go there because they hate blacks in the US.
Nigerians, do not fool yourselves, Nigeria is the only country you have.
Hate it or leave it and jump from frying pan to fire. Some of you already experience that you cannot claim rights outside Nigeria.
Stop fooling and selling fantasy to others. Nigeria is the only place a man would order a Star and Esiewu for everybody. Not in Canada! You can't claim your rights in Nigeria too Canada do give professional jobs but you need to do some evaluations. You can't expect to work with a certificate from a third world country in a first world country. It's not acceptable and I'm sure you will agree with me on that. |
Travel › Re: Adventures Of Lionlee216 by Hadampson(m): 1:20am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Lionlee216 This is bbsharon thread on erin ijesa waterfall tour Click here |
Travel › Re: Adventures Of Lionlee216 by Hadampson(m): 1:17am On Jan 02, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: My Experience At A Restaurant In Canada by Hadampson(m): 12:53am On Jan 02, 2020 |
olendave: I have been hearing canada! canada! canada!
Who is that fellow that God want to use to take me to canada. pls show up now. Don't wait for somebody to take you there. Take a step  |
Travel › Re: My Experience At A Restaurant In Canada by Hadampson(m): 12:51am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Kvdag: Canada is the best country on earth. I can testify to it Maybe to you.  |
Travel › Re: My Experience At A Restaurant In Canada by Hadampson(m): 12:47am On Jan 02, 2020*. Modified: 10:25am On Jan 02, 2020 |
sircrabo: I really wish the world has good things to say about Nigeria and Nigerians the way people speak about canadians The hospitality NIGERIANS usually give the foreigners cannot be seen in any country in the world. Unfortunately, the media has propagated bad things about Nigeria which has made Nigeria seem like a war zone to most foreigners. No doubt, Nigeria is nothing to write home about but we can't turn blind eyes to the beautiful tourist attractions the country has. Here are some good reviews about Nigerians 
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Travel › Re: My Experience At A Restaurant In Canada by Hadampson(m): 12:36am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Gaba10: Canadian are the nicest people in the whole wide world. That's not true. You can't generalize based on what OP posted. Every country has the good and bad people. The problem we have is that we tend to see the whites as superior. Anything they do is good but if a black man should do the same, we can term it to something else. Let's change for good please. This is a new year. |
Family › Re: Share Your First Picture of The New Year by Hadampson(m): 11:33pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Make i join the trend 
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