₦airaland Forum

ireneidiva:
Stop going about experimenting with/without condoms. How can you even comfortably sleep with a lady without protecting yourself? Are you a kid? Your sense should tell you that any lady that insists on sex without condoms has an ulterior motive. Last bullet- abstinence will protect you from these 'evil' ladies. Duh

Well, I'm yet to come across a woman who insists of using condoms unless she's a prostitute.

You didn't comment on the "other" issue about my friend though or have you suddenly invented "selective commentary" to compliment "selective reading"?

Btw, I'm now married and safe from those "evil" ladies

This guy understands, unlike most bleachers, that you have to be white from the inside first. Whiteylicious fans take note

eminentme:
then ban her from visiting. You're a man, u remember?

Don't spoil that girls runs.

He's her maga.

Friendzone level: Infinito

Too long.

Yorubas own Lagos, Ibos run it.

Case closed

Now that he has won, all ibo people who bought life jackets can go and return them and ask for a refund.

Nice uniforms

I have this business associate. Last year, he told me he was getting married and even invited me to the wedding that was supposed to happen in Delta state. He did tell me she was pregnant and as a good guy that he was he decided to marry her and finally settle down. Fast forward to some months back, I was chatting with him on bbm and I asked him about his "wife" and he told me she was fine.

Concidentally, the next day I was on the Island running businesss when I met him going to the bank. He told me to follow him since I had finished all my transactions. Then I asked him again, "how's your wife?" And I got the shocker of my life, they weren't married. Here's the story: apparently, just about a week to the wedding, his fiance's ex came with some elders to meet him and explained to him that he, the ex, is actually the owner of the pregnancy and since he is not interested in getting married to the lady and he doesn't want his child to grow up with someone else or even exist he came to tell my friend the truth.

After enough consultations with some elders, he took his time and told his wife-to-be that they should go on 3 days fasting. After the first day he told her that the spirit of God revealed to him that there was something she was hiding from him(yes, he'll make a good pastor) and after enough pushing she eventually confessed. Apparently she still had the fear of God in her. In her confession she said she and her ex had a one nighter when he travelled for business. Obviously the wedding was cancelled and till today he has been unable to explain why he cancelled the wedding to his parents because they really loved the girl and sent money to her when they discovered she was pregnant.

Believe it or not, this same lady got married to someone else this year and again she was "pregnant" for the guy.

I have had a similar experience, my ex and I were doing it raw but since I was applying the withdrawal method, she decided to lie that she was pregnant barely 2 weeks into the relationship(she don see mugu). I told her no problem and a week later she was on her period. She later claimed she "made a mistake". Needless to say the relationship ended.

The funny thing is these ladies will suddenly flare up when you suggest or attempt to use a condom. Is this the new trend? Since these ladies have nothing to offer that will convince the guy to marry them they have to use these tactics. OR probably, they are in love with the guy but feel he needs a little bit of "convincing" because he feels he isn't ready yet.

Guys share your experiences. Ladies, give us your reasons.

This thread must be dedicated to the "suffering and smiling movement"

Gmajor:
This is the kind of curiosity that runs the world and brings about innovativeness , sadly this type of curiosity is lacking in lot of Nigerians

You can always start by taking a trip to sambisa forest to take pics of BH instead of talking trash with your free mb. Keme

Sorry. Didn't mean to double post

Anomnity:
I greatly marvel at so called christians on this forum.So there is not found a christian here that knowing God has:
1. Delivered you from Alcohol Addiction
2. Saved you from smoking
3. Redeemed you from sexual immorality
4. Delivered you from incurable sicknesses
5. Helped you to escape death in accident where others certainly die.
6. Recieved countless miraculous answers to prayers.
7. Saved you from drug addiction.
8. Shielded you from deadly attacks from occultic boss,relative, native doctor,powerful witch.
9. Helped you overcome irresposible behaviour or bad habit.
10. Enabled you defeat fighting and quarrelling and wickedness.
11. Countless other interventions.
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So none among the christians commenting so far or are yet to comment have had a definite intervention from God? I deeply marvel!!!

Not as marvelledd as I am. Apparently, we have shallow minded christians here OR the religion is bogus

PastorAIO:
Why are you so desperate to score a point? Where did I say it was the ONLY benefit?

Since you've failed to give a single "personal" benefit you've gained from your religion its safe to say you've gained nothing.

PastorAIO:
Personally it has made me dance, it has made me feel many pleasurable feelings inside me. Is that enough?

Yes, that's enough. Although, since the only benefit are from "worldly" songs, I wonder why some people are criticizing Korede Bello.

hazyfm:
The most useless VP in Nigeria's history

You're wrong. He's the most useless VP ever in the history of the world

PastorAIO:
Personally it has made me dance, it has made me feel many pleasurable feelings inside me. Is that enough?

Well, if that is all your religion has done for you then its enough. Thanks for your contribution

mumumugu:
Religion made me mugu

religion made me mumu

I'm sure this will benefit anyone who wants to be as mumu/mugu as you. Keep it up

Hiswordxray:
The benefits I have gotten from Christ is huge. It is beyond what any book could contain. Ever since I know God a lot had change in my life.
I use to be this confused person but now a lot of things have become clear to me. I enjoy each day with my beautiful Lord, spend a lot of fun time engross in the search of the unsearchable one, and looking forward to a glorious future.

Cool. Could you elaborate a bit more please. There are a lot of people who would gain from a more indepth explanation. Thank you for your comment

PastorAIO:
How much more personal than enjoying great music? Just because I share the benefit with other people doesn't mean its not personal.

Hmmm. Bros, it won't hurt if you just say what effect it has on you personally. If Ray Charles was commenting himself, that would have been a different issue

GboyegaD:
It is too early to conclude that she fled because of the incoming retired general. At least, they are not denying nothing was done to improve the health facility nationwide as such, she had to go treat herself at the expense of the nation.

One would think these people could be humane enough to use the money they've already stolen to treat themselves abroad. Nigeria has too many serial looters

She might have as well said "I wish you were gay so we could chill together everytime"

PastorAIO:
Many musicians and artists get to work and develop their craft because they belong to a church wherein they are nurtured. In fact a significant amount of popular music we all enjoy today is a product of Church activities. Soul music from Ray Charles until the present day has been derived directly from gospel music honed in churches.

Very true but I know I specified about "personal" benefits

You didn't answer any of his questions. He asked direct questions and its only fair if you answer them directly

bushdoc9919:
That's true....sad really.



Good...



Misreading scripture....are we?

Everybody practiced slavery back then.What God was doing here was prescribing laws for the treatment of slaves.
Besides, slaves were subject to the laws of Israel....and a Jew could be punished for harming a slave...but let's go on.




First, you are misreading the whole purpose of the verse.According to the article Slavery on the Christian Think tank website....this may refer to marriage...not slavery.Plus...there are verses stating that the lass is not to be mistreated.



Well...this refers to intimacy contact....not other forms of contact.



The altar is centrally located....at the tabernacle.Plus...the neighbours were likely to be Jews.And anyways....Christ's sacrifice negates such.



Can you work for 24/7 without dropping? NEXT!



Shellfish do accumulate all sorts of pollutants....and anyway....God no longer judges us by the Law....



You think that God ain't merciful?



Ah well....you go ahead! (We are not under law).



Some American footies are now made of synthetics. What's the issue.?





Well....Iam born again...and I still think you as a gay man are worthy of God's love.

The question is.....are you ready to please God..? Not the homophobes or the people who like gays.....God?

Are you willing to trust God even if it is irrational.

I know....I may not be gay...but I have lots of desires for the opposite sex.Yet God gave me these desires....and says I can only have one wife.Isn't fair to me....but I have to trust God somehow that he means best.

And anyway.....this life isn't all there is.

Apologies to anyone I may have hurt. Christianity is a difficult and unreasonable religion.....but then again....it commands us to believe that God loves us.....even when it does not seem so.

May modify this post....my internet connection is iffy.

Nice write up. I actually read everything.

The problem is I still don't understand the point of the thread. Are we supposed to continue mis yarning or not?

Rilwayne001:
Senseless post.

seun should come and close this thread abegg

Yes, I agree. Before this guy gets mad and blows everywhere up

Following. I need this badly

iPrevail:
They chosed wisely.

Don't mind the op and his type. After they were trained, fed and educated by European governments, he expects them to be suddenly patriotic like those people would have ever achieved such feat if they were based in Africa with our backwardness and talent destruction tendencies

Seun doesn't want his site to get blown up, that's why

1. Will you give me a bj?
2. Is your puyyi clean enough to be eaten?
3. Why don't we just have a 69 first?
4. Do you like anal?
5. Can your friend join us?

There is always so much war between atheists, christians and muslims on this forum. Everyone feels their belief is right while the other is wrong. However, I personally feel that irrespective of one's religion and the issues surrounding it there is usually a personal benefit that comes along with. This thread is to discuss only the POSITIVE sides of our beliefs or religion with the hope that this will aid us understand better what every religion/belief has to offer and therefore make us more lenient towards each other's beliefs.

I'll go first. I'd say I'm non-religious and still on and off on the existence of God and of his responsibility towards us. That's a topic for another day. However, since I stopped following religion I've realised that most of the challenges that I find myself facing are either as a result of my own decisions or actions and simply because there's no possibility of life being always sweet and not because of some witch or wizard or "bad belle" in my village or community who is trying as much as possible to bring me down. As a result, I'm more concious of my actions and the feeling of responsibilty has been greatly increased. I no longer feel enmity towards people because I now understand that generally people are selfish and in most cases think of only themselves which is natural. With this understanding, its easier for me to deal with people and protect my interests because I can understand that they are only fighting for their own interests.

Also, I'm able to love and feel empathic towards everyone because I don't belong to a religion and since I can't take sides with anyone I can relate with every being just because that person is a human being and not because of the person's religious affiliation, tribe, etc. Being free from religious barriers has also helped me to see beyond racial, tribalistic or idealistic perspectives and I now see people for what they really are.

Kindly share the benefits your religion has had in your life.