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Image123:
Aren't you in your "heaven" already? You can sin now without restraint. You can lie, cheat, be immoral, steal and all. Go on bro, it's your "turn".

Christians lie, cheat, are immoral, steal and all even though they believe in god.

The only difference is you feel you can "pray" yout sins away.

You, especially, are going to hell regardless 🫂

LordReed:
I wish I could take your advice. I am the kind of person that people easily trust, and I have always been in leadership positions, but my conscience won't let me undertake such a massive scale of deception. May be when I am older and a little more jaded, I would try it but right now I am enjoying my life free of religious bullshit.

Same here actually but the truth is, if you can play the game then you should.

Religion is easy money and besides, there is no heaven for being an atheist 🤷‍♂️

Tobdek:
I'm a student who's an undercover atheist. I'm always getting accosted by christian fellowships left, right and center on campus. As someone who hates any type of attention, most times, I pretend to be an unserious, non-churchgoing christian but that only seems to draw these people's attention to me.

Last semester, a guy invited me to church, service was scheduled for 7am, by 6:30am, this guy came to my room to wake me up! His face was literally the first thing I saw in the morning. It was so annoying. This is just one out of the many annoying things this guy and other "evangelists" have done to drag me to their church. I don't want to be known as an atheist for obvious reasons, yet, I want to ward off people like this guy and his ilk. I'd like to hear from other atheists.

Cc Lordreed
Epositive
Martinez39s
Hahn
Musicwriter
Seun

I would advice you to play along.

There is no need gaining religious enemies in this society of ours.

Go to church, be regular, become and usher and gradually work your way to the top and even become a pastor.

There are many perks to being able to control a multitude of people and you will be able to build a network of people willing to do the most just for you to "pray" for them.

I know of youth pastors who were getting free fuel during fuel scarcity, free transfers from their members and free kpekus from the church ladies.

Most people crave subjugation and if you can be in that position to manipulate and exploit them then you should grab the opportunity.

You really have nothing to lose.

For more guidance, you should read the "48 laws of power" by Robert Greene.

Was craving Fried eggs with Sausages and bread with honey and cold chocolate tea

😋

Smile4mee01:
I'm a single 39yr old Nigeria guy in diaspora trying to settle down and going to Nigeria to marry is not an option.

I'm an introvert who has been through some childhood trauma in my family and really fear marriage because of what I have seen and how bad it can be sometimes.

However, an old female friend and colleague of mine who we worked together in Nigeria and now in canada recently contacted me and she is also single and not had children. She is doing well for herself and now a citizen there while I'm not. A part of me is concerned about

1. Fertility : I desire children. However, can she have me healthy children @ 39. How many can she have? I discussed us trying for a child , she appears to want a.marriage first. But what gurantees do I have to have children.


Should I be concerned? I dont want to enter one chance.



Please I use God beg you, no insults just advice. Abeg. God bless you.

Run ooo.

Look for a younger woman.

EreluRoz:
My dad's driver son is right here in our house and he's the first child of his dad, he's totally different from the rest, he doesn't look like his dad neither does he look like his mum, there's no resemblance from both parents at all.

I stylishly dig up stories of how his mum was married because he's been driving my dad even before I was born and I was told she was already pregnant before the marriage ceremony was held and as at that time of their wedding, the woman lived in a different state, she just came and told him she was pregnant and that was how marriage happened .

I have watched this boy from head to toe so I can see at least one feature in resemblance but I didn't see anything, not even from the mom, he's just totally different. The other kids are ok, two share a striking resemblance with their dad while the last took after her mom but with some of the dad features, so are you thinking what I'm thinking?

Should I tell my dad my observation? What do you think?

Tell him. Don't mind the idiots supporting the potential cheating wife

iamoyindamola:
Na ikorodu you base?

Yeah. At the moment

armyofone:
Please where is that ? Which state?

Ikorodu, Lagos

armyofone:
The way you piled it up

Let me not talk so you don't send me away for eating the ata stew with the rice I brought

E be like shit abi? 😁😂

armyofone:
Where did you get your bread ?

I tried Nigeria bread and it was horrible. I heard they now use cassava.

Jendor at Odogunyan. The bread sweet die 😋

Home made amala with obe ata and ewedu 😋

Breakfast

MrPresident1:
A 'black' person who calls themselves atheist is essentially a criminal, nothing more, nothing less. A hardened criminal.

You're 'black' ( mentally devolved) and atheist? that's a completely feral ferocious wild 'person' right there

That's a very dangerous person right there before you, capable of indescribable evil

You don start 🙄

jaephoenix:
This is a sacrilege!
How can you make a Nairaland atheist roll call and forget HardMirror and Hahn!
OP that's an abomination that must be remedied by sacrificing to Flying Spaghetti Monster!
Anyway present sir!

😂😂

LalastiklaIa:
You create list of atheist and your lieutenant general Hardmirror no dey there? You left out major general Hahn too

Na real major general hahn 😂

Ahnii:
I do....But pap/custard is not my thing,I hardly take it.

I can stay years without taking it

Same here.

My wife is a big fan though and she had to force me to take it. The pap had been in the fridge for over 6 months

Ahnii:
Because pap enhances sleep and it's one meal I do all within my powers to steer the eff from.

Why? You don't like sleeping?

Eba and ogbono soup

Ahnii:
Fire !!!!

Straight sleeping to the core!

How you take know? The sleep was deep 😴

Akara and akamu

Eba and oha soup

Elsucre24:
I will be 31 this year. Omo the age is scaring me and I keep feeling like I’m not doing enough. I have a stable job in the private sector with a 400k monthly salary. But I still feel the impact of the economy badly. I keep asking myself, at what point will I start living the good live?
I feel stock sometimes because my job is very demanding and I almost do not have time to do other things, mind you I’m in the medical field and I work Mondays to Sundays most times but occasionally I have some Sundays to myself and sometimes a day off during the week. I can’t seem to be able to start a business as a side hustle cause most of the side hustles I can think will demand my presence at least for the first few months and I don’t really have that.
My girlfriend is pregnant, I really wanna keep it but she’s not ready, I’m not even sure I’m ready. The only way she can keep it is if I’m going to get married to her before the pregnancy starts showing and I’m as confused as hell cos I don’t know if I’m ready. She has always been vocal of her plans to japa.
Now that brings me to the idea of Japa too. I mean, I cannot deny that fact that I’m scared of the whole japa stuff cos I don’t know what to expect. Economy doesn’t even allow you save as much as you should. Everything’s just seems very scattered.

Pls I need adult minds to advise me on what I can do.
1. Do I start a business, what kinda business can I start with at least 2M that will not require my full presence?
2. Do I start to plan my japa through the study route and just face my fears
3. Should I insist on keeping the pregnancy and hope that things start making sense? This means I have to get married tho.

Thank y’all.

1. I would say since you are in the medical field, you can start by creating a blog and write on health topics. You can also start a YouTube channel, Twitter/Instagram account and do videos sharing knowledge about your field. Use apropos doctor as a reference point.

You can do these things during your break and you will enjoy doing them because it is related to your field and hopefully something you are already knowledgeable and passionate about.

With a blog/youtube channel etc, you can easily decide to reduce your workload when you start earning funds that manage your current income.

I can offer you personal consultation at a fee or you can search for free resources on YouTube and Google.

2. I think japa should be part of every reasonable Nigeria's plan. This country is not getting any better anytime soon. Face your fears.

3. You do not need the pregnancy. Have a wife and child complicates things and greatly affects income especially for people who work 9 - 5 not to mention people in your field.

You are not ready and neither is she. Let her abort it and you really need to be careful and not repeat such a mistake. Either abstain from sex altogether or always use protection.

Wish you all the best

Eskoba:
Sa

Pa

MrPresident1:
And I insist to you once again that you understand nothing.

Lol.

I like your consistency. It is not easy 😂😂😂😂

MrPresident1:
Because you don't understand anything

Name one problem Nigeria has that god solved last year.

Just ONE. I dey wait

MrPresident1:
Shey Nigerian upside down no tire you ni?

God has never been able to solve it 🤷‍♂️

MrPresident1, I thought you predicted the world would end many years ago and now here you are making predictions for a new year.

Peak fooling

😂😂

Hopefullandlord and hardmirror, come and see una friend

Walk away bro.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

UnfairLife7:
You're not in anyway better than any single person provided you're not feeding them. Who i am shouldn't be your concern

I am human and not a bitter sadist with bad energy

Konji dey worry you 😂😂😂

UnfairLife7:
let's assume you're married. Are you in anyway better than single guys or ladies?


some of you Nigerian men will never cease to amaze me

With that mentality, she will definitely die single.

You're a male feminist, right?

BABANGBALI:
Sey wahala go ever finish for this our bulaba country so? 😳😳😳

She will probably die single