₦airaland Forum

fineboynl:
I have been wondering why does my stew don't turn out well no matter how I tried the reason is that I use too much tomato paste due to due to tomoto cost during buhari administration.

This Xmas I just decide to use full tomotos and eliminates impurities like tomato paste. And the stew turns out great 👍. So it was clear the tomato paste products have been the curprit all those while.

The problem now is that how would one cook a pot full of stew with pure tomatoes on a normal day? now that a painter of tomatoes is above 5k.

Whenever you use tomato paste, make sure you use crayfish. It will help eliminate the bad taste

I give am belle 😎

jojothaiv:
My immediate brother.

Sorry to hear bro. This life sha 😔

jojothaiv:
I hope he's back home soonest.

Reminds me of Tayo, who went missing on the 26th December, 2006 and up till now, we only hang on straw of hopes but to be honest with myself, I've let go of the past...

Who is Tayo?

Noodles + Sausages + fried eggs

HardMirror:
thanks my chairman. Hahaha. True economy is funny. But don't worry all that is sorted too. 😉

As a boss 😎

Congratulations bro.

Twins in this economy 🥵

HardMirror:
I am now a proud father of a Set of twins. A boy and a girl, perfect combo.

Remember I am an atheist, so no need to say any prayers if you want to congratulate me. God did not do it. Good things happens to everyone and anyone not just people who believe in a god. And bad things can happen to everyone and anyone even if you believe in a god.
2023 has been my best year. A job that pays me in $$$$, A wife that is a jewel and a set of twins. What more can I ask for.
The best women are the ones who don't make noise online. Love you plenty plenty my lovely baby.

Cc lordreed hahn hopefullandlord seun make una come rejoice with me

oxiide22:
I never chop good food since APC hold sway.


Look at what I eat

0211206511
Gtbank

Shine12
Sir Rontolo

Hahn

I no too guide but I sent you 1k.

Just manage am

Wifey's first attempt at cooking wanche(Ghana rice)

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!


That's why am avoiding most companies begging me with huge amount to be their ambassador, their credibility is more important to me than the millions am being offered



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q27magJz5UM?si=Nl03jde441qKPUZQ

You are airforce1 should collab

Kharol1234:
only you?

Nah. Me and wifey

Bring your spoons 😋

SeriouslySense:
Revenge for not answering messages

I hope you will be in that same situation where you have to answer messages you cannot answer.

Common, are you that pikinish.

Not everyone has energy to be answering many messages, i remember when there was no phones, there was more peace, now you have to answer phone messages faa

And do you know how many other tasks, somone has to focus on, without needing distractions.

You misunderstood me.

The woman has been helping the op and his mom and now she has gone quiet.

The op has now forgotten when she was kind and nice and is even saying "I can now afford to send her money".

I was referring to the op.

He is now so quick to want to pay back her disrespect without considering that she might her own challenges and life to live while conveniently not putting her past good deeds into consideration

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

"Gratitude is a burden. Revenge gives pleasure"

richeeyo:
Some girls only aspire to be a wife and nothing more, they have no dream of theirs

They are not supposed to. Women were created for marriage

insidelife22:
Good morning Fellow brethren, I was born in a very religious family, when I was small I enjoyed attending church. I sometimes even slept in the church (back then it was allowed by our church).

In 2010 I went to stay with one of my aunts, she was Catholic, so I started attending Catholic Church with her. Then in 2014 I left and have been staying on my own since then.

To be honest I have not been to Church more than five times, the last time I went to church was in July 2018, don't know why but that's just it.

Going to church is a futile endeavor

OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

Focus on your husband and baby.

Do your best to raise your child with the love you never received.

Let all adults handle their own problems abeg

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

That's why married women should advocate for side chicks.

When the wife's kpekus is tired, the side chick.can take over.

omooba969:
Overload but quite inviting. Surely you guys would be sweating while leveling this mountain.

Thankfully Nepa gave us light so the ac cooled down our heads

Ogalanyaidi:
I have been married for a little under 2 years. During out courtship, my wife and I were very intimate. Later on, she became pregnant and we welcomed a child but since then, our sex live has never recovered till date. My wife is currently pregnant but the denial didn't start today.

She does everything possible to prevent us from having sex, from laying our child on our bed instead of the court to cleaning or watching movies in the lounge room whenever I am in the room, she will then reenter the bedroom when i am asleep. The last time, she said that I don't do enough to get her arose and that if I want sex I have to earn it. She suggested that I have to start in the morning by being nice to her so when it's night, I would have been able to get her arose.

I work an average of two shifts everyday, and sleep at home maybe 3 nights a week so I can pay our mortgage and other bills as she barely works due to having to look after our child.

Do DNA tests on your kids.

Get cctv installed in your house.

Don't let her know.

Thank me later

UselessBuharist:
Na 419….. if the lady stayed longer dem for ask her to bring money to clean the stones

Yeah, normal wash wash levels

Rice, spaghetti, dodo etc

Mac and fish

Jiji45:
I've been really sad lately because of how my life is going and I'll be 20 soon with nothing to show for it.
As a kid growing up, I was used to live the soft life until my family came back to Nigeria and things have been tough since then.
My major breakthrough was in 2021 when I made so much money from just holding digital currencies for 1 year and half. I tried venturing into the real world to invest and that's when I started crumbling. One of the best thing I remember doing with that money was seeing myself through school till I finished with very little support from family.
I've been the one holding my family financially as the first child ever since we lost my dad to an accident that same 2021.
Last year 2022 wasn't bad as I was just staying afloat with some kind hustle also trying to learn different digital skills, almost all my friends ventured into Yahoo so I distanced from them and they're big boys now, sometimes I wish I would have joined them.
This year is worst, I graduated this same year and I've been at home since then, doing literally nothing.
I have skills, I'm a technical writer, I'm a front-end developer planning to improve to full stack, I speak 2 international languages and have been able to get transcription gigs which I didn't even get paid well so I stopped, I've been trying and trying to get gigs since this year all to no avail. I've even lost count to what I've done to be honest.
I have never worked for somebody, not because I can't, in fact I use to work for my uncle as a data entry operator but it was fully remote and that was 2020 before he shut down operations. I'm a chronic introvert with anxiety but very hardworking I swear.
(Omorrr) the last 3 months when I saw things getting worse I decided to go out and look for jobs, the only one I saw available was teaching, lol and the pay they said is 25k. I couldn't even do cos by the time I calculated TP alone it was like 60%. I just continued staying home for real, at least I make well over 50k staying home pressing phone.
I just needed something that will be enough to take care of I and my family. The year is coming to an end and I don't even have any savings for the first time in 3 years, house rent is on the way. I don't have any addiction and I'm very economical with money too, Sometimes I feel suicidal because the pressure is getting too much.
I really want to plan my life all over again but I just feel like giving up.
I could go on and on with what's happening to me but it'll be very long.
I don't need sympathy from anyone, I just needed a platform to say it all out because who do I even want to tell this all to?
I'll appreciate some words of encouragement and some suggestions on what I could to help myself at this stage. I may be deactivating this account, been more comfortable as a guest.

Give up

Jayden001:
I saw wonders today. I had a good day at work and I cashed out well So I decided to visit my girl after work, offered her some money and she said NO. Not that it was small cos she didn't even know how much I was giving her. She just said no that she has nothing serious to do with cash at the moment and the money I gave her las week have not finished 😳😳
I was shocked, couldn't believe what I heard; a Nigerian lady turning down money??
At long last, she didn't collect it oo. She said whenever she has something serious that she needs my help she will then come and collect it.
Brethren, good girls still exist.

Give am belle 😒

ahnie:
No,he didn't,he buys from the west to resell.

Na West I dey and you can't buy it for that amount here

ahnie:
I ran into this man again,an ex naval officer that once sold 11 heads of ripe plantains to me for #500.

I remembered he telling me that he buys from the west to resell,and truly the kind gentle man sold this 38 heads of ripe plantains to me for 1k.

People were rushing him....he promised coming again tomorrow,and I m so gonna wait for him tomorrow to buy MORE



3rd pics....the baba agba seller that made my weekend soft

That guy steals that plantain.

Purchase from him like you are making a drug deal

This car has seen things

I've always loved the shape of the Toyota Avensis.

Chai. $2400 where are you?

Wallteck:
I have a very big phobia talking to crowd!! Today while I was presenting a project in front of the audience , I first started with a good introduction everybody dey feel my flows, suddenly I just stopped , all the thing in my head I forget it. Na only my heart Kon dey work, my soul left my body.

I was trembling in fear, my heart was beating more than normal, I end up fucking up the interview . they assisted me on the presentation, the thing really pain me, have always be running from talking to crowd, it finally catch up to me at old age!!!

Used me as a lesson, the problem you failed to address now will catch up with you later, No matter how run away from it.

My mood just spoil today.... it really pain me a lot!!! The funniest thing is that if I'm alone I will present it very well with British accent feeling like I'm on the top of the world😭😭😭😭

Everyone has stage fright 🤷‍♂️

Next time you're on stage, imagine everyone in the audience is naked 😉

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