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Toks2008:
Udisweet this your dp dey make me imagine things o..those lips though.hmmm

Lol! So you noticed too. It's like a model lips. You know, the type you use to advertise beautiful lips!

misspicy:
Kilode iwo bobo yi,oni mi fe,ode je ki okurin to setan ri mi...hian,dakun ma ba parol mi je ni bi o,lol....

Good morning sir

Good morning, are you based in Akure?

Toks2008:
A certaiin lady called me yesterday,though i have never seen her post here but you all need to see how she really made me melt inside with her deep words of wisdom.

Though many people have called regarding this issue but she was the very first person to really point out how gentlemanly i was that i have actually apologized before asking for one from siamia but she guess she chose to look away.

Udisweet is another lady who has made me realize that its not worth it and believe it or not,im a lover and never a fighter.

Sis siama,i write once again,im deeply sorry for using that word autocratic as i honestly never imagined it will hurt you.

Nevertheless,without any form of bitterness,i want to state that you need not bother apologizing.

As for Melish wow you really have terrible guts.ti iya nla ba gbeni so le,ke ke ke a ma bo ori eni meaning if a big insult belittles one,smaller insults will come to fall.

I still find it difficult that asides your dellusion that im ddshow and wongnumber,you have the propensity to insult me at will...hmmm considering the fact that if i got a woman pregnant 20years ago i should have your age as a child.

You barged into this thread despite d fact that you are just 20,you started making repeated post despite warnings and you even took it to another level by insulting me.

melish you have just destroyed yourself with this single act and if you can read this i will advice you tender an apology to me and every person on this thread because an insult on one is an insult to all.

In offline mode it will not be out of place to place a curse on you but i will justy let it pass.

Lastly i want to make it clear that no one is too special and no one is indisposable except God.

I do not hold any grugde against anyone and at this junction do not expect any apology from siamia but lets just act as if nothing happened.

I have great passion for writing,communicating and socializing and i will not jettison thiss.

Life is too sweet and short for bickerings.I am a lover and not a fighter and once again thank you all and expecially the people that called me asking that i let this pass..GOD bless you all.

Gbam! That's Toks2008!! Maturity per excellence. Welcome back!!! YOU WERE MISSED.

Kimoni:
Not 30, not single but I stumbled on this thread and started following it. And I started praying to witness the marriages that will crop up form here...until the fights started

So I wanted to type something, until I read the above.

Toks2008 and Siamia - pls listen to the voice of reason. We learn everyday. Halexito has done a very good job in mediating and many agree with him including my humble self. I really can't wait for the success stories from this beautiful thread. Pls, you two should not pour sand sand into people's garri o. Who knows if you were both created for a time like this? The job of the Master must be completed o



***bia Alex Zito, be putting spacing small small for your write up biko, u wan injure my eyes

Lol. Sorry my brother. I feel you.

Freeze! Everyone!!
Stop this chicken fight will you?
Now on a serious note, good morning everyone. I think it's time to calm down frayed nerves here. Toks2008, you're a great man, intelligent and enlightened. Kudos to you for your work on this thread from the inception. You're the best.
But you threw the first punch in this issue. You called the Op 'autocratic'. I'm sure you know that is NOT a compliment. Rules are rules. It has been 30yrs and above from the beginning of this thread. Most agreed to this. If you advised, that those of younger years should be allowed too and Siamia refused. I don't think that made her an autocratic Op. 30yrs and above are supposed to be people of matured minds and disposition. You want to come on this thread, bare your mind to others WITHOUT being insulted and made fun of. Those of younger years are so great in number on nairaland that if you allow them, I tell you this thread WILL SURELY be taken over by them. And the purpose will be defeated. Even without being allowed many are already commenting by the sidelines. Read some of their comments and see for yourself. Toks2008, I respect you. But you disappointed me by 'THREATENING' not to comment again until apologized to. You made it sound like you're the 'soul' of this thread. No! You're not!! You are a mighty pillar. One of several pillars. Let one fall and others will rise in its place. You can't post, quote and comment on your own post all alone. Same thing with Siamia. Please, let us learn to be humble in all what will do. And to let go whenever our 'humble' advice is not being taken. It's an advice, you either take it or you leave it.
Siamia, my Op, you need to learn to keep your cool whenever you're being criticized or "attacked". You're the head. You should expect some criticism. You called Toks2008 a "bully" which is very wrong. Two wrongs doesn't make a right you know. Being the head, you're the manager of the people on the thread. So you should not take offense at some things that will be said to you. In fact, you should expect it sometimes so you will be prepared for it. Please, let's go back to the Genesis and start our friendship again.
Toks2008, I apologize on behalf of Siamia. Please forgive and forget. Siamia, my darling Op, I apologize on behalf of Toks2008. Please forgive and forget. I think that should settle everything, abi?
Lastly, everyone, the last time I checked, you only find "angels" in heaven. We're all human right? Phew! Long post. I don try.
Love you guys............... Forever......

Toks2008:
Good to know.

Why i asked is this.

Many ladies single at ripe age have no business being single.Please note that i wrote "many" not all and this is because ladies subconsciously seek for a made dude.

If you ask ladies these days to state their desire mate they wil be fast to say GOD fearing and visionary but there remains one more silent desire which is "gainfully employed" or "rich"

Yes it is understandable that a man going into marriage must at least have a regular source of income but how many guys in their 30s today have a job or a business that guarantees regular income?

This is why many ladies are still single,the guys who seem to be rich with regular income play about with many ladies as these ladies scrabble to be with them and unfortunately this set of guys are not many.

So hypothetically speaking,out of a 100 ladies,80 want a rich guy or one with good regular paid job and out of 100 guys, 20 have good jobs or are rich so this 80 ladies scrabble for the 20guys leaving the remaining 80 and then this 20guys realize how ladies flock around them and tend to use these 80 ladies as they like feeling like kings so the never ending crazy circle continues.

If ladies can love a man whether he is still struggling or without a regular paid job and they help him in prayers,trust me, we will have lesser number of over aged unmarried ladies.

My humble submission.

Hmm....... Thumbs up Toks2008! You're the best!!

Toks2008:
I tell guys to avoid cheating on their wives but if they must,let them do it farrraway from her.

Its one thing to cheat on your wife with great caution and another to xheat with impunity.

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Hmm........but a cheat is always a cheat. And nothing good will ever come out of it. When you cheat, you have betrayed a trust. It is wicked. Because you inflict deep pain on the other person. You make them look like fools. Love is only beautiful and real when it's in truthfulness and simple honesty. There are many reasons why people cheat. Like getting your own back on the other person. But two wrongs NEVER make a right. Instead of cheating, just walk away from the relationship. Cheating is the "norm" now in the world. And it's hard to imagine someone not cheating. But even if the whole world is doing it. If it is never right, then it is wrong. Your partner may "pretend" not to mind. But believe me, you've shattered something in their lives and they hide or live with the pain, some for the rest of their lives. Some will recover but some never will. Let the whole world continue walking on their heads if it pleases them. I'm staying on my feet. I will always try with my life never to betray you. Though I don't know yet who the "you" is anyway.

fairlyisabel:
why should you talk about people in that manner? That's very wrong. Why not talk to her directly than saying it the way you just did. Too bad.

Hey! Take it easy!! I never meant to ruffle any ones feathers. I'm so sorry if you're offended. Just me been blunt. Sorry. But....

Toks2008:
This your darling is an unserious 20year old lady who comes here to write theory and i actually teased her to know if she was really ready to settle down as she has turned mario on this thread.But when she made her response i just concluded that she is even more confused than i think.

Says she is not ready to marry till she is 25 and even more annoying is her stands that she can never marry any man she meets online so please ask her why did she come here to give us theoretic advice? let her go and give the offline people who she may end up with.Iranu

@Toks2008, she mentioned some points I agree with. No harm in that. But judging from her last post, I think she's arrogant and very immature. She believed she'd seen and READ about EVERYTHING.
So she believes she's an authority to give advice AND NOT TAKE. A very big mistake. If you're reading this Melish, you've still got a whole lot to learn.

Melish:
Twenty year olds marry every day all over the world so no be tory...


I'm here cause I'm really passionate about this matter..many a time ladies are pulling things the wrong way expecting things to turn out right.... I'm here to tell ladies where they're missing it so as to readjust and get to the promised land ... I've had little experience myself but have learned extensively in this area both from people's experiences and from other materials .. So that I won't waste my time in relationships and end up devastated at the end due to ignorance of the facts ...

Melish! You are a darling!! Wow!!!

Good morning everyone! I bless this day for us all!!

I Love your comments Toks2008 really enlightening and matured. Sihom, love the blunt and matured way you clearly express yourself. You're the bomb guys! Glad I joined.

Hi, everyone! I'm Alex,male, will be 33 this Dec. Single and searching [not for network! Lol], Akure, Ondo State. I take love serious. I don't play around. Just treat me the same way I treat you. Nice meeting you guys!

Anything you do people must talk. This like throwing bones to the dogs. Barcanista and others don grab am. Keep gnawing

Taylor86:
wor-wor man

likes of OBJ

if not for money and fame

chicks dey suffer ooo

I pity you my guy. You are knowingly or unknowingly insulting God who created this men. Abi na dem create themselves?

No hating pls. I am proudly a Yoruba guy. Despite our differences I love d other tribes too. We Yoruba are accommodating, loving , intelligent n peaceful. I love d creativity of my Igbo brothers. They can create almost anything! D north' s problems are just greed for power n control, violent in nature n not so creative in mind n action like d southern areas. But I love d average Hausa man's simplicity. The average Hausa is contented with a little but d leading elites from there are of a vicious breed. I just wish for a fair constitution for dis country where every region will use the bulk of their own resources to develop at their own pace. We are currently running an unfair constitution. I love d memory of Rashidi Yekini, Tijani Babangida n the legendary Austin J.J. Okocha!

Atlantian:
What do we expect from the ugliest set of politicians in the history of planet earth. Look at Oshiomole, if you push him into a fish pond, I swear to God all the fishes will die, instantly. Even the one called Liar Mohammed, he looks like something that a Ugandan Elephant vomited. I am not talking about Tinubu at all, Tinubu's teeth defies the laws of Ariel and Kleen combined, even TB Joshua's holywater will not be able to remove dirt from Tinubu's teeth. We should not talk about Amaechi - the Harry Potter clown, he was handsome when in PDP, as soon as he joined the All Nigeria People Congress, sorry All Progressive COnfidence, he becomes half-mad.

Today's PDP is the best Party in Nigeria and I do not think we will wait till 2019 to take the power back from these illiterate amateurs.

That you support PDP showed in ur comment. All what you did was just personality attack. who created those people the way they are? No be God? I don't know what u stand to gain from this my brother. Be reasonable ,who knows what tomorrow may bring for you too? Just address d issue on ground stop unknowingly drawing God's anger on itself.

Taylor86:
Is Tinubu not regretting it today

the evil men do lives with them

every hand or groups of hands that conspired my darling GEJ's failure will never achieve their ambition

GEj we're sorry

Why d curse now? Be careful. Curses boomerang you know

The way some people insult their elders is quite alarming just because they av access to vibe online. I pity our generation. You can always comment but must you be so abusive to someone as old or even older dan ur pa?