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Please, where is bleble14? Where are you at?

fourfunmi:
Tuale to you all...
Yesterday was mega-stressfull for me; I couldn't even come online.
How are you all doing? I trust you all had a wonderful weekend!
@Toks2008, @udysweet, @vivaciousvivi, @bleble14, @halexito, @magneto, @op, @gidola....etc +@everyoneiforgottomention....I wish you all a wonderful week...

Same to you dear. How are you doing?

bleble14:
@halexito, welcome back, how are u, work and all, I miss sha ooOooo, have a lovly weekend

I'm fine jare. How are you doing too? Hope you're having a swell time?
And a nice hostess you were to Bisjosh. Like dat.
One more thing,..........try to remember to close your eyes before sleeping tonight. Lol

Bisjosh:
It seems the bond has been formed here
Making it hard for new peeps to join.

Hard to join? You're wrong beauty. You are highly welcome to our midst. I take it you're 30 plus?

Toks2008:
Ị bụ onye na-ede uri

Ehn?! Please, explain your 'shelf'. Lol

Erm...... Guys!? Have you shifted the thread to Benin Republic? Even Toks is part of this conspiracy? Or is it 'Frenchspiracy'?
Siamia come and see o! The thread has been stolen............

udysweet:
fourfunmi glad to know that.
nouvelle i jus saw ur mention on the diaries section,lool. so u learnt mbo from me? chai no go use am for oyinbo o,lol i. If it were naija,u can go in to any good nail place and come out wit nice lookin nails. talkin abt nails been a longtime i did one,maybe i'll try one soon.
bleble seems you re my colleague in beadmaking o but i am thinkin you into wireworks more right? nice one dear. halexito hows it goin?
pls oo i havent heard from Torqque7, pls reply lets know you are fine mbok
aight take care all,kisses

I'm fine sweetest sweet. Enjoy the weekend.

For those that still can't get it. This thread rocks!!!
This is a school of life. Where the teachers are also the students. Matured display of opinions, views and experiences, not forgetting the banters. I love you all guys!

For those that still can't get it. This thread rocks!!! This is a school of life. Where the teachers are also the students.

For those that still can't get it. This thread rocks!!! This is a school of life. Where the teachers are also the students.

missbronze:
Some ladies have always known what they want. Young or old.

Remember these ; when the desirable is not available, the available becomes the desirable.
And there is a big difference between KNOWING what you want and GETTING what you want.

bleble14:
Please where is my one and only Halexito, abeg tell am say I dey fine am oooooooooo

I don come! My one and only divine blessing! How u dey?

gratefulme40:
Plagiarism! (Lol...i never even see the write up sef. I just saw copy and paste and screamed plagiarism)
Abeg, reference it. Lol.
Good morning. Hope you are well.
Have a very beautuful day.

Plagia............. What?! Lol You ehn!

fourfunmi:
Going through your previous posts, I think I understand you.
Though it might seem like rambling, it actually makes a lot of sense.
Many of us are so careful that we start to become "too careful"....and tell me, what's the fun in being calculative?
No lady can take any man by fire by force(she can try but for how long?)We can only steer you guys towards 'a direction'....meaning...we also need you guys' help too.
Its true, we all know what we want....but we sometimes wonder why the whole qualities doesn't come in one package and many people wonder why what should be so easy seem so hard... It is especially hard for we that have a perfect, well-structured picture of what we want. Oga toks, there'll still be tiny winy doubts even when you make that choice...lol... Is this not a mistake? Am i not compromising? Am I settling for less?etc...
Do you fancy bungee jumping?? It involves no strategy; you simply jump!!!
Maybe you should start by telling us what is it you are on the look out for...that doesn't seem a tall order as you've said.
Goodmorning...

Hmm...... You're a very sensible lady. But it is a fact ;very hardly can you find the one with your exact criteria for marriage, sometimes what you 'want' may not be what you 'need', the one you think is perfect for you will always have some flaws which you may be blind to.
There is no perfect man or woman anywhere. We just must 'complement' each other. Be the sky, i"ll be the clouds. Be the air, I'll be your fire.
We must be compatible. You know, being strong when or where the other is weak.
All in all, everyone want good things for themselves. Hence, the criteria we set for ourselves. But we should be careful not to find yourself towing the line of selfishness. Because those criterias are what YOU WANT. Sometimes the one that meets your criteria will not even be into you! You don't meet HIS or HER OWN criteria!!
We really must be careful. We become wary, doubtful and a little fearful in choosing someone to settle down with because of past experiences we've had. We fear to make the mistake of choosing the wrong one.
For some people, the the happiest day of their life was their wedding day. The ONLY happy day they can remember in the marriage. It was a descension into misery, sadness and bitter regret.
Why am I saying these?
It is because we don't know anything for certain. You can't really say this is how it will end. We need guidance. We need God in our lives!
We can't afford to make mistakes again. Toks, please, don't just jump.
A wise man look before he leaps. And I know you're NOT a fool.
Good morning everyone! Love you all.

Good night everyone!

I closed my eyes in sleep.
But to you my heart is open.
Asleep or awake,
I dream of you.
All these years I've waited.
Waiting for you to come,
Waiting for you to call,
Keeping myself for you.
My thoughts everyday,
My dreams every night.
Everything for you.
Yet..................
I don't know who and where you are.
Dream one.
When will you come?
~alex

udysweet:
@Halexito,nice write up there,thumbs up. Sorry I ddnt see ur msg wen I wanted to sleep,lol. Na today o,so maybe I'll re read it wen I want to sleep tonite so it wwill apply,lol. Hope you're good?
@Toks2008,hi oga every gbobgo. Triple twale to the 8star General,commanding officer of the group,lol! I can see new faces,nice to have all of you here*hugs*

Cheerfully funny that's you!
I do write sometimes, but I found these somewhere. I love it and I decided to share it. I won't take credit for it. I just copy and paste, so we can all learn from it.
Sweet dreams to you.

Toks2008:
LOL!

Honestly hat i want in lady is not much at all and i wonder why its so difficult getting one...

Another annoying angle is that most ladies that i have as friends were met online and worse still 95% of them are not in Lagos and i so much detest long distance thing,

Ladies, got the gist? Toks is there for the taking. But only for the daring! Especially, Lagos ladies.

I’ve learned - that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I’ve learned - that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I’ve learned - that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.
I’ve learned - that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.
I’ve learned - that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I’ve learned - that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I’ve learned - that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I’ve learned - that it's either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I’ve learned - that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I’ve learned - that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I’ve learned - that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.
I’ve learned - that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I’ve learned - that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
I’ve learned - that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.
I’ve learned - that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t always biological.
I’ve learned - that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.
I’ve learned - that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I’ve learned - that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do . I’ve learned - that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I’ve learned - that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. By Omer B. Washington.

In 1923, nine of the wealthiest people in the world
met at Chicago's Edge Water Beach Hotel.
Their combined wealth, it is estimated, exceeded
the wealth of the government of the United States
at that time. These men certainly knew how to
make a living and accumulate wealth.
Attending the meeting were the following men:

1. The president of the largest steel company,
2. The president of the largest utility company,
3. The president of the largest gas company,
4. The president of the New York Stock Exchange,
5. The president of the Bank of International
Settlements,
6. The greatest wheat speculator,
7. The greatest bear on Wall Street,
8. The head of the World's greatest monopoly &
9. A member of President Harding's cabinet.

That's a pretty impressive line-up of people by
anyone's yardstick.
Yet, 25 years later, where were those nine
industrial giants? Let’s examine what happened to
them 25 years later.

1. The President of the then largest steel company
(Bethlehem Steel Corp), Charles M Schwab, lived
on borrowed capital for five years before he died
bankrupt.

2. The President of the then largest gas company,
Howard Hubson, went insane.

3. One of the greatest commodity traders (Wheat
Speculator), Arthur Cutten, died insolvent.

4. The then President of the New York Stock
Exchange, Richard Whitney, was sent to jail.

5. The member of the US President’s Cabinet (the
member of President Harding's cabinet), Albert Fall,
was pardoned from jail just to be able to go home
and die in peace.

6. The greatest “bear” on Wall Street, Jesse
Livermore committed suicide.

7. The President of the then world’s greatest
monopoly, Ivar Krueger, committed suicide.

8. The President of the Bank of International
Settlement, Leon Fraser, committed Suicide.

9. The president of the largest utility company,
Samuel Insull, died penniless.

What they forgot was how to "make" life while they
got busy making money! Money in itself is not
evil; it provides food for the hungry, medicine for
the sick, clothes for the needy. Money is only a
medium of exchange.

We need two kinds of education:
a) One that teaches us how to make a living and
b) One that teaches us how to live.
#And how to... love.#

Good morning to everyone. May the mercy of God locate us all today.

bleble14:
@toks2008 and halexito, I am a daughter of D Most Highh God, Created in His image and Likenness, so I cannot and will never be a mammy or pappy water cause I represent God and Light. @toks2008,Hope say I don make myself clear, U guys always put smile on my face any time I read ur post. Love U guys

Lol........... Pappy water?! You're surely a funny one. Lol!

bleble14:
@halexito, don't mind dat man(toks2008) he is looking for my trouble, hope ur nite was good. Take care

It was fine thanks. I hope yours was sweet? Pls, try to hide your trouble well. Because..........

udysweet:
Hahhahaha. Always been arnd on NL o,reading stories and all. Jus been silent on this thread tho. How u been dear. Aight am gonna stat commenting often again. Jus tot I shd allow others,post. Swtdrmds dear

Sweet dreams to the cheerful one.

missbronze:
Dont worry, that wish will turn to reality very soon.

Thanks jare

Toks2008:
Lovely pics but this even scares me more considering that background..are you sure you are not........

I'm sure you're not going to say mammy water! Lol. Blessing na joke o!

It's a lonely life. How I wish........... I wish.... .......

missbronze:
Chai,
Hahahahaha.
Bachelor's life no easy.

Lol! Was just being funny. Maybe that boredom will ease a little.

udysweet:
@ddshow
Loool,am right here bro. Just laying back a bit from commenting ni jare but am good tho. What's up with you? Happy sunday all

The sweetness is back.

fourfunmi:
Thank you sir but have you confirmed if its there or not?
Needful has been done

You're warmly welcome to the thread!

missbronze:
Happy Sunday to everyone.

Back from church and very very bored.


Abeg, who cook Sunday rice here?

Right on point. I got rice on the fire................... My God o!!! 30min past!!!! Didn't even light the stove!!

1. As you grow older, you realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones. . 2. Dream big, work hard, stay focused, and surround yourself with good people. . 3. If you're lucky enough to get a second chance at something, don't waste it. . 4. They ignore you now, but they'll need you later, that's just how it goes. . 5. Worrying is a waste of time. It doesn't change anything. It messes with your mind and steals your happiness. . 6. Be with someone who won’t stay mad at you, who can’t stand not talking to you, and who’s afraid of losing you. . 7. Never say goodbye when you still want to try. Never give up when you can still take it. Never say you don't love them when you can't let go.