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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 10:19am On Dec 10, 2015

Search for a good heart, but don't always search for a beautiful face, coz beautiful things are not always good. But good things are always beautiful.
-Anonymous

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:47am On Dec 09, 2015

GENERAL TIPS ON DATING:
.
1. You don't need to check his/her phone in
search for text messages from other guys/babes.
Stop spoiling your mind or giving yourself
hypertension unnecessarily.
.
2. Never you beg someone to love you. You don't
beg for love. You allow love to grow gradually. Do
things that will make the person develop love for
you gradually. Not by begging or shedding tears.
.
3. If your partner says he/she wants to quit the
relationship, allow him/her to go. Who told you
that there is no one like your partner? There are
many people who are better than your partner. A
better person will come into your life.
.
4. To avoid the pain of heart break, do not give the
whole of your heart, your body and your life to
someone when you fall in love with the person.
Human being cannot be trusted; they can break
your heart at any time.
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5. Being in love does not mean that you should
worship the person you are in love with. Respect
them but don't worship them
.
6. For the fact that you are in love with someone
does not mean that you should ignore and
disregard every other human being on earth except
your lover. That is cowardice.
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7. The number one person in your life must be
God and not your boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't allow
love turn you into a coward.
.
8. Do not Love with your heart alone. Use your
brain also.
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9. Heartbreak is not the end of the world. It may be
the open door to a happier life and a better
relationship with a new partner.
.
10. Do not be afraid of falling in love again after a
heartbreak. If a door did not close, a better door
will not open.
- Facebook.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:07am On Dec 08, 2015

Good morning everyone!

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:06am On Dec 08, 2015

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MARRIED COUPLE, this is worth reading.
My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love
him for his steady nature, and I love the warm
feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Three years of courtship and now, two years into
marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting
tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before,
has now transformed into the cause of all my
restlessness.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive
when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I
yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl
yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete
opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of
bringing romantic moments into our marriage has
disheartened me about love.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision,
that I wanted a divorce.
“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are
no reasons for everything in the world!” I
answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to
be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all
times. My feeling of disappointment only
increased, here was a man who can’t even express
his predicament, what else can I hope from him?
And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change
your mind?”
Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a
person’s personality, and I guess, I have started
losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I
slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can
answer and convince my heart, I will change my
mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face
of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that
picking the flower will cause your death, will you
do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your
answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by
listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and
saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting,
underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near
the front door, that goes…. My dear, “I would not
pick that flower for you, but please allow me to
explain the reasons further..” This first line was
already breaking my heart. I continued reading.
“When you use the computer you always mess up
the Software programs, and you cry in front of the
screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can
help to restore the programs. You always leave the
house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to
rush home to open the door for you. You love
traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I
have to save my eyes to show you the way. You
always have the cramps whenever your “good
friend” approaches every month, I have to save my
palms so that I can calm the cramps in your
tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will
be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my
mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your
boredom. You always stare at the computer, and
that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to
save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help
to clip your nails, and help to remove those
annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand
while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the
sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the
color of flowers, just like the color of the glow on
your young face… Thus, my dear, unless I am sure
that there is someone who loves you more than I
do… I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ”
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of
his handwriting… and as I continue on reading…
“Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if
you are satisfied, please open the front door for I
am standing outside bringing your favorite bread
and fresh milk… I rush to pull open the door, and
saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his
hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread….
Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me
as much as he does, and I have decided to leave
the flower alone…
That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by
love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one
tends to ignore the true love that lies in between
the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms, even very small and
cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could
be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and
romantic moments are only used and appear on
the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the
pillar of true love stands… and that’s our life…
Love, not words win arguments…
- Facebook.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 9:17am On Dec 05, 2015

siamia:
D happy saturday folks.
Hmmm...cold catch my ntwrk. Since ystdy, its been on the blink.
How's everyone this cold morning? Its a welcome change from the hot weather, though it comes with dust.
Milychocs, thanks for ur call. I battled the ntwrk shortly after. I'll do the needful today.
Halexito, I agree with toks2008. Compile all ur poetry for now. Ur truly gifted. Remember a nigerian woman wrote a bestseller in america some time ago. U shd explore this. Write to american and british publishing houses. Send them a chapter. That's how stars are born and destinies are made. For now, gather your soul stirring collection and keep them well. U are truly a picasso of our generation. U paint words that come alive. Ur artistic mastery of the pen is second to none. Kudos. Toks, thanks for pushing him in the right direction.
Have a lovely wkend, folks. Hope fuel and ntwrk stabilises soon.

That humble piece?! Siamia blew me away!
Hmm...... Thanks guys. It's an honor knowing you all. I appreciate your compliments.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:21pm On Dec 04, 2015

missbronze:
Everything is ok. We thank Jah. I trust you are good too.

I'm good. Thanks. So how is Abuja? What's cooking for Christmas?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:19pm On Dec 04, 2015

Toks2008:
You have a passion for poetry so explore it

Hmmm...... I was just writing my mind. Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 12:20pm On Dec 04, 2015

Hmm........ It is not all who cry that are really sad.
And not all who smile are joyful. Appearance and reality differs.
Many bravely face the world with smiles, while the heart is bitterly pouring painful tears.
Please, judge no one and try to be nice to people.
You never know what we're going through.......
You never know.......

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:21am On Dec 04, 2015

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----From Rags to Riches: Let Their Stories Inspire
You----
1. JAN KOUM
The founder and CEO of WhatsApp emigrated to
America from Ukraine when he was 16 years old,
initially living on food stamps. In February 2014,
Facebook announced its acquisition of WhatsApp
for $19billion. He is already $19 billion richer.
2. URSULA BURNS
Ursula Burns, the chairman and CEO of Xerox, was
raised by her mother in a New York social housing
project. Now she is the first African-American
woman to head a Fortune 500 company and
Forbes recently labelled her the 22nd most
powerful woman in the world.
3. SEAN CONNERY
Sean Connery joined the Royal Navy aged 16 and
worked as a bricklayer, coffin polisher and
lifeguard before becoming a famous actor.
4. OPRAH WINFREY
Oprah Winfrey was born into poverty and was
raped by a relative when she was just nine years
old. By 2003, she had become the first female
African-American billionaire.
5. JK ROWLING
JK Rowling was a single mother living on benefits
before she found success with the Harry Potter
series. She has said she was "as poor as it's
possible to be in this country". She is now
estimated to be worth at least $1billion.
6. SHANIA TWAIN
According to a biography, Shania Twain grew up in
poverty and started singing in bars when she was
just eight to try to help support her family. She is
thought to have earned more than $350million
since.
7. HOWARD SCHULTZ
Billionaire Howard Schultz was raised in a social
housing project in Brooklyn, New York, before
discovering and becoming CEO and chairman of
Starbucks.
8. DHIRUBHAI AMBANI
The popular story about one of India's most
successful businessmen is that he started with a
single rupee in his hand and ended up as patriarch
of the world's second-richest family. The company
he founded in 1966, Reliance Industries, now
employs 85,000 people and is estimated to
contribute around five per cent of the Indian
government's total tax revenues.
9. DO WON CHANG
In the early 1980s South Korean-born Chang
moved to California, where he and his wife opened
a clothes shop named Fashion 21. As the business
grew they changed the name to Forever 21. There
are currently more than 450 stores worldwide and
Chang's personal wealth is estimated at $
5.4billion.
10. RALPH LAUREN
Born to Jewish immigrants from Belarus, Ralph
Lauren grew up in the Bronx, New York. After
discovering his passion was designing clothes he
found work at a tie company but found his designs
continually rejected. "The world is not ready for
Ralph Lauren," the owner of the company once told
him. Ralph Lauren responded by founding his own
company, one that now employs 19,000 people
and has given him a personal fortune of $7billion.
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If these ones could make it, you too can. Never
allow your not-so-good background hide your
abilities and greatness. With hardwork,
perseverance, focus and faith in God, you can rise
above your limitations and make your mark on the
sands of time. The world is waiting to hear your
own story, are you ready for the big stage?
- Facebook.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:09am On Dec 04, 2015

Everything for the Golden bronze girl!

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:07am On Dec 04, 2015

missbronze:
Halexy love, i have been good. My phone choose to spoil this period. Thats why i have not been around. Howdy?

Anytin for your baby gal?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:05am On Dec 04, 2015

missbronze:
Halexy love, i have been good. My phone choose to spoil this period. Thats why i have not been around. Howdy?

Anytin for your baby gal?

Sorry about that. You were seriously missed. Hope you're good now? Work and all?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:10pm On Dec 03, 2015

missbronze:
Hello darlings, what's been cooking?

Gratefulme40, howdy? Thanks for cheecking on your gal.

How have you been, precious bronze girl?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 7:56am On Dec 03, 2015

Good morning everyone! Been a while!! How is everybody in the house?!!!

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 3:25pm On Nov 30, 2015

You will enjoy this piece, but don't just enjoy it,
apply it.
Happy reading...
"Marriage Software
This is what a guy wrote to a Systems Analyst -
(Marriage Software Div);
Dear Systems Analyst,
I am desperate for some help! I recently upgraded
my program from Girlfriend 7.0 to Wife 1.0 and
found that the new program began unexpected
Child Processing and also took up a lot of space
and valuable resources.
This wasn't mentioned in the product brochure. In
addition Wife 1.0 installs itself into all other
programs and launches during systems
initialization and then it monitors all other system
activities.
Applications such as "Boys' Night out 2.5" and
"Golf 5.3" no longer run, and crashes the system
whenever selected. Attempting to operate selected
"Soccer 6.3" always fails and "Shopping 7.1" runs
instead. I cannot seem to keep Wife 1.0 in the
background whilst attempting to run any of my
favorite applications. Be it online or offline.
I am thinking of going back to "Girlfriend 7.0", but
uninstall doesn't work on this program. Can you
please help?
.... The Systems Analyst replied:
Dear Customer,
This is a very common problem resulting from a
basic misunderstanding of the functions of the
Wife 1.0 program. Many customers upgrade from
Girlfriend 7.0 to Wife 1.0 thinking that Wife 1.0 is
merely a UTILITY AND ENTERTAINMENT
PROGRAM. Actually, Wife 1.0 is an OPERATING
SYSTEM designed by its Creator to run everything
on your current platform.
You are unlikely to be able to purge Wife 1.0 and
still convert back to Girlfriend 7.0, as Wife 1.0 was
not designed to do this and it is impossible to
uninstall, delete or purge the program files from
the System once it is installed.
Some people have tried to install Girlfriend 8.0 or
Wife 2.0 but have ended up with even more
problems. (See manual under Alimony/Child
Support and Solicitors' Fees).
Having Wife 1.0 installed, I recommend you keep it
Installed and deal with the difficulties as best as
you can. When any faults or problems occur,
whatever you think has caused them, you must
run the.........
C:\ APOLOGIZE\ FORGIVE ME.EXE Program and
avoid attempting to use the *Esc-Key for it will
freeze the entire system.
It may be necessary to run C:\ APOLOGIZE\
FORGIVE ME.EXE a number of times, and
eventually hope that the operating system will
return to normal.
Wife 1.0, although a very high maintenance
programme, can be very rewarding.
To get the most out of it, consider buying
additional Software such as "Flowers 2.0" and
"Chocolates 5.0" or "HUGS\ KISSES 600.0" or
"TENDERNESS\ UNDERSTANDING 1000.0" or even
Eating Out Without the Kids 7.2.1" (if Child
processing has already started).
DO NOT under any circumstances install
"Secretary 2.1" (Short Skirt Version) or "One
Nightstand 3.2" (Any Mood Version), as this is not
a supported Application for Wife 1.0 and the
system will almost certainly CRASH.
BEST WISHES!
Yours,"
Systems Analyst
Anonymous

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 10:28am On Nov 28, 2015

Don't depend too much on anyone in the world. Because even your shadow leaves you when you're in the darkness.
People may hurt you, but God will heal you.
- Anonymous

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 10:24am On Nov 28, 2015

[walks in........] It's so silent in here. Hello! Anybody home?! Hello?! Guess I gotta come back.
Whew! So silent like silence.... [tip toeing out]

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 7:47pm On Nov 26, 2015

Missing! Missing!! Missing!!
A customized treasure has gone missing.
A beautiful, sweet gold-studded pankere belonging to Her Excellency Queen Siamia of 30plus&single Kingdom is missing. Anybody with any informa's'ion as to the whereabouts of the pankere should please report to missbronze the disciplinarian or Toks the eminent grammatical magician. Be a good Samaritan.
You will be entitled to 30 strokes of the very sweet cane if you're the lucky one. Chairs!........ Erm.... I mean cheers.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 5:29pm On Nov 26, 2015

Hello everyone! How has the day been? Hope it wasn't too stressful? Many times I look at people going to and fro, up and down. Every day hustling, hustling and hustling. Hmm.... May the almighty father bless our hustles.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 8:30pm On Nov 24, 2015

MYMINDER:
I never said you were not OK; no need to go there. I am not building a thread; I am contributing to one. Maybe when you make these two adjustments then you may have a softer stance when you look at the bigger picture

I doubt whether you will see msbronze comment to me as dismissive because it came from someone likely on your good side. If you put my moniker attached to the same words, you may have already dived in to have a go at me. Human beings, nothing changes...

My point is this standoff has very little to do with the content of my contribution thus far and a lot more to with a negative view of the content provider and whatever he stands for or doesn't stand for.

It's just MY MIND

Attack you personally? No! I only responded to your post here. Because I don't agree with SOME of your ideas and methods, does that mean that I'm against you personally?
Prof, we warmly welcome intelligent and enlightening posts here. But if you're one of those guys who always think those who disagree with some their 'intellectual' views are against them personally.
Then I think you should try to keep YOUR MIND to yourself.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 4:49pm On Nov 24, 2015

MYMINDER:
People perceive what they want to perceive. That's why people react differently to the same stimuli.

I neither seek acceptance nor rejection from males or females on this thread. I say what I believe needs to be said; how people decide to react or perceive my content is 100% outside of my control and I will not lose sleep over it.

I have no agenda whatsoever: udysweet said I am here to make trouble (wrong) or you that is now linking this to showing off. People will always think what they want to think; I am not going to dwell on it. Live and let live.

I have spoken MY MIND as always

Best wishes

You're trying to build this thread the way YOU THINK it should be. You sound all wise to me. Let us be. We're OK.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 4:35pm On Nov 24, 2015

Hi, everyone! Long time!!

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 4:07pm On Nov 24, 2015

fourfunmi:
Omg! I am so sorry @viviciousvivi , Kindly accept my heartfelt sympathy. I've still got my parents but about 3months ago I lost 2 people very dear to me. I wept for weeks, I was broken, shattered and lost my will to continue. Gradually I started to get out of it, through the help of many around me who tried many times to knock sense into my head...it was like a vortex sucking me in. My dear I know how you feel and may God comfort you and heal your heart. You'll be in my prayers.

@udysweet... Pele...welcome to my world...I get those mad headaches constantly now; infact, every week. Try to reduce your phone/computer use, rest your eyes, keep your lights dim/off...that's what I do. Ndo my sister.

@Toks2008....awayu?? I remember reading something something about politics. Abeg when should I come and submit my proposal? How was the weekend bro?

@ddshow...refreshing weekend right? Hope you are very (not fairly) okay! Fingerscrossed plus looking forward to the actualization of the beautiful plan you are working on.

@halexito....very soon you won't be as single as the sun anymore...remember how gloomy the day is without the sun; we all need the sun. You have so much love to give; don't worry 'Miss Deserving' is on her way.

@magneto...your write up is lovely. I did a little soul searching too fter reading it. God bless you for the lovely piece. Truly, we attract who we are and are also responsible for that. We should try to imbibe those virtues and characteristics we look out for in ourselves so we can attract same.

@everyone.... I hope y'all had a lovely weekend...I wish everybody a lovely week ahead...

Hmm....you're a darling! Orderly and blunt!

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 11:05pm On Nov 21, 2015

Toks2008:
It is with a heavy heart that i bring to you all the passing on to glory of the mum of viviaciousvivi who is one of us here.

MAY HER GENTLE SOUL REST IN THE BOSSOM OF GOD...

Take heart dear and we all pray that God grants you and every member of the family the fortitude to bear her exit from this earth.

AMEN

Eyah! Sorry. My heart felt condolences.
May the almighty God give you the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 5:05pm On Nov 21, 2015

missbronze:
fine dear.
How your weekend paroles?

Shebi that aunty don come for weekend? .

Aunty?! Lol. Not that kind of injury @ all. I'm sadly as single as the sun in the sky.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 11:39am On Nov 21, 2015

This is a sane thread for matured minds. The real goal is to hook up with the opposite sex. It's a platform for 30 years plus people to mingle.
But since we can't see one another physically or close enough to really get to know one another. We engage in general conversations through which you might know someone of like mind. Through chats on both trivial and important topics we get to know some people's intellect.
I don't know about us guys. But ladies on this thread should be careful. There are surely wolves in sheep's clothing on the thread. Ready to take advantage of the unwary. I believe no lady on this thread planned to still be single at over 30yrs of age. Something must have happened.
I believe they are rightly being careful. No time for mistakes again please. You can't just start hooking up anyhow. It's a choice that can make or mar our lifetimes.
So as Toks always says, upload your pictures male and female folks. Let's know who you really are. Enough playing around in ghost mode!
Let's hook up and mingle with sense.
No blind leaps please!

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 11:06am On Nov 21, 2015

missbronze:
No. but, works in a hospital.

Aww.....night tinz. How was your night @work? Me bronze of a girl?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 9:58pm On Nov 20, 2015

Melsan:
@halexito,you are sighted

Got me! Are you using a binoculars? I dey bench tonight, got injury.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 11:42pm On Nov 19, 2015

magneto:
Oh my fair maiden of a thousand beauty, ur name indeed signifies who u are. U are "the WILL of GOD" for a very handsome and lucky gentleman whose world is currently incomplete, awaiting ur wholesome impact.
Virtuos woman with myriad skills...works with her hands and loves to the hilt. There's a calm strength in the set of ur brow, and luscious lips glisten with pleasures untold.
Sleep well dear charming princess. Do not fret about d sweltering heat nor d uncertainty of d times of our lives. For ur great destiny has been written in d stars, and accordingly it must surely come to pass!

Erm.........magneto Shakespeare...... Or magneto Tolkien?

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 12:00am On Nov 18, 2015

Sparkles003:
Hello House
A friend of made a statement that no man can be in a sex free fully committed relationship
in this world of today and he won't indulge in it outside the relationship.
Is it that the world is so corrupt that no sex no commitment.
HOW TRUE

Such men are really scarce. But they are not out of existence. Call me a fool. But I really would love to be such a man for a worthy woman. A treasure above price... Hmm.......

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 11:53pm On Nov 17, 2015

MhizRonny:
ladies only pls 7A8C32F4

'Ladies only ' are you a toilet?

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 1:42pm On Nov 17, 2015

ddshow:
Baba, don't let me fight you o! Udysweet is my love, Siamia is my honey....don't trespass abeg.

How's your day been?

We'd like you to share your experience too. How has it been? Has it been fulfiling? Is there something you'd done differently?

Greetings to everyone who's kept the thread alive and also the ghost readers....you've been so awesome.

Awesomely blessed! Running 'Dshow' with honeyed love and lovely honey. You're 'polygamicious' lol

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