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Hmm....... Nine months of great discomfort and
immense stress. Innumerable Sleepless nights for
her when you were very young or sick. Many times
of hunger so that you can eat. Many parental
sacrifices over the years so that you can smile.
You have come a long way. She'd suffered a lot all
for you.
So why should I ever make her know
sadness.........by hurting you? Why should I be a
source of pain and anguish to you and your love
ones?
Why should I play, lie and decieve you? Why
should I make you cry even if you made me cry?
Why shouldn't I make you smile even when there
is sadness in my own heart?
Hmm....... Why can't we be true friends watching
one another's back? Why take cheating and deceit
as normal?
Where has love gone? Where..............?
I only sincerely wish to be a true friend to you all.
I only want you to remember me and smile.
Have I been a good friend to you?
Have I failed you?
But be you male or female, far or near.
You're the only treasures I have.
You're my dearest.
And I love you to death.
I really do.
Good night friends.
- Alex |
Hmm....... Nine months of great discomfort and
immense stress. Innumerable Sleepless nights for
her when you were very young or sick. Many times
of hunger so that you can eat. Many parental
sacrifices over the years so that you can smile.
You have come a long way. She'd suffered a lot all
for you.
So why should I ever make her know
sadness.........by hurting you? Why should I be a
source of pain and anguish to you and your love
ones?
Why should I play, lie and decieve you? Why
should I make you cry even if you made me cry?
Why shouldn't I make you smile even when there
is sadness in my own heart?
Hmm....... Why can't we be true friends watching
one another's back? Why take cheating and deceit
as normal?
Where has love gone? Where..............?
I only sincerely wish to be a true friend to you all.
I only want you to remember me and smile.
Have I been a good friend to you?
Have I failed you?
But be you male or female, far or near.
You're the only treasures I have.
You're my dearest.
And I love you to death.
I really do.
Good night friends.
- Alex |
winner01:You're too much my brother. Just what I wanted to say! God owns all days. Forget about Mars, it's just a planet. Who do people celebrate on 25th of December? Mars?! We celebrate the birth of the son of God. So. Simple! |
Hmm........ No price is ever too low or too high to pay............for the one you truly love. |
Hello brother, I know you're confused and in deep pains because of the deep love you have for her. Whatever advice is given here, the decision is still yours to make. BECAUSE IT IS YOUR LIFE. It's obvious she's lost the trust you have in her. And trust is one of the pillars of any relationship. Do you want to marry someone you can't trust? The warning signs are right under your nose. Spiritual warnings and the physical ones you've seen with your korokoro eyes! The warnings are coming at this time for a reason, you're not yet married. Please, don't be the stubborn fly that follows the corpse to the grave. That woman is a sweetened poison. Don't because of the sweetness of your love foolishly take poison. Here is LIFE, here is DEATH. The choice is yours. But you have been warned. |
More THE TRAIN: At birth we boarded the train and met our parents, and we believe they will always travel by our side. As time goes by, other people will board the train; and they will be significant i.e. our siblings, friends, children, and even the love of your life. However, at some station our parents will step down from the train, leaving us on this journey alone. Others will step down over time and leave a permanent vacuum. Some, however, will go so unnoticed that we don't realize they vacated their seats. This train ride will be full of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. Success consists of having a good relationship with all passengers requiring that we give the best of ourselves. The mystery to everyone is: We do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. So, we must live in the best way, love, forgive, and offer the best of who we are. It is important to do this because when the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who will continue to travel on the train of life. I wish you a joyful journey. _copied. |
More Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end. There will be no more sunrises, no minutes, hours or days. All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else. Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance. It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed. Your grudges, resentments, frustrations and jealousies will finally disappear. So too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to do lists will expire. The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away. It won't matter where you came from or what side of the tracks you lived on at the end. It won't matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant. Even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant. So what will matter? How will the value of your days be measured? What will matter is not what you bought but what you built, not what you got but what you gave. What will matter is not your success but your significance. What will matter is not what you learned but what you taught. What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage, or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others to emulate your example. What will matter is not your competence but your character. What will matter is not how many people you knew, but how many will feel a lasting loss when you're gone. What will matter is not your memories but the memories that live in those who loved you. What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what. Living a life that matters doesn't happen by accident. It's not a matter of circumstance but of choice. Choose to live a life that matters. Live a life of love. |
ProfessorPeter:Prof? You well so? |
Faremisodeeq:Bro make SURE you read Mark 1 verse 11 and Luke 9 verse 34. Please, comment again.... . |
siamia:Good morning your Majesty. Compliment of the season to the Lovely Queen. I just thought we can learn a thing or two from the write ups. You never know who might need it. |
10 Dumbest Reasons to Marry in 2016 1. Family and/or societal pressure. Marriage is too personal to be decided by others. Be sure they won't be there if it turns out bad. You would be on your own. So be in charge of your game. In that way you have no regrets. 2. Pity for the other. Who does that anyway? You are no man's Jesus. Don't die for anyone. Don't marry trying to help out and don't get married to anyone who has pity for you. The beneficiary always end the slave or better still the slave master in rebellion. 3. Escape from sexual indiscipline. Who says? Marriage stops nothing. Things can only get worse. If you are sexually indiscrete then you are and marriage won't stop that. Straighten up first then go ahead. If your mate can't do without it be rest assure that he or she still won't even when you ate not there. Lol. 4. Gratitude. Thank you is always enough. Marriage is never a good compensation or show appreciation for whatever good anyone has done you. If its a favour that would require your hands in marriage, you should better not receive it. Worse of when the good is done to another like parents and you are the "thanksgiving offering". 5. Fear of hitting the edge. The edge is not that of a spear so don't kill yourself in fear. It may not be your turn yet but it would be soon. You just be right. It is better later that wrong I bet. 6. Escape from loneliness. Yes. Marriage is for companionship. That is so true when its right and so false if not. If you are lonely as a single person you could even be more lonely when you are married. O yes. Truth is marriage could be lonely on its own. If loneliness is the issue then what you need is less likely to be marriage and more likely inner bonding, at leas first. 7. Physical attraction. Hilarious isn't it? Yes its an important one but em em. Maybe you just must not over emphasize it. If it is all about that we all would have to divorce at one time or the other. Truth is people change and beauty fades. Love is the real deal please. (Oops...sorry my wife is beautiful. Very) 8. Promise keeping. Why would you promise to marry a person when you are not yet very sure? If you are not sure let him or her wait till you are. Baseline, never marry a person all because you already promised to. Even when mummy failed to buy us that candy we threw tantrums but moved on. Broken hearts mend. Be ready to break a promise not lives. Don't remain forever shackled with one promise made under some hormonal influence. 9. In search for freedom. Just marrying would not give you any form of lasting freedom. In fact you have to be triple sure that you are not on a jailbreak mission that leads into the dungeon. If anything could be a prison it is a marriage especially when its not the right one. Be careful. Financial freedom? Oh no! Wealth have wings and can fly away. Labour to be rich. Don't marry to be rich. 10. Win love Marriage would not create love. Love is what should power marriage. You won't love or be loved because you married a person. Love is not a reward for marrying someone. It is the reason to marry. This means, if you are not truly in love there is no point. Marrying him or her would not make you love either. The risk is not worth it. Well those are the 10 most stupid reasons you or a friend may want to get married. For these 10, NEVER please. Share this and enjoy this season. I wish you bliss in 2016. By Dr. Jerry K. Bankole |
udysweet:Sweetest sweet...... |
More Four Seasons of a Tree There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away. The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen. The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment. The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life. He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up. If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall. -FB |
More Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them – work, family, health, friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls – family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How? Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless. Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life. Don’t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us each together. Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings. Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, but also where you are going. Don’t forget that a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily. Don’t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way. - Coca Cola CEO Brian Dyson |
More A cruise ship met with an incident at sea, on the ship was a pair of couple, after having made their way to the lifeboat, they realized that there was only space for one person left. At this moment, the man pushed the woman behind him and jumped onto the lifeboat himself. The lady stood on the sinking ship and shouted one sentence to her husband. The teacher stopped and asked, "What do you think she shouted?" Most of the students excitedly answered, "I hate you! I was blind!" Now, the teacher noticed a boy who was silent throughout, she got him to answer and he replied, "Teacher, I believe she would have shouted - Take care of our child!" The teacher was surprised, asking "Have you heard this story before?" The boy shook his head, "Nope, but that was what my mum told my dad before she died to disease". The teacher lamented, "The answer is right". The cruise sunk, the man went home and brought up their daughter single-handedly. Many years later after the death of the man, their daughter found his diary while tidying his belongings. It turns out that when parents went onto the cruise ship, the mother was already diagnosed with a terminal illness. At the critical moment, the father rushed to the only chance of survival. He wrote in his diary, "How I wished to sink to the bottom of the ocean with you, but for the sake of our daughter, I can only let you lie forever below the sea alone". The story is finished, the class was silent. The teacher knows that the student has understood the moral of the story, that of the good and the evil in the world, there are many complications behind them which are hard to understand. Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first. Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money. Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility. Those who apologizes first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them. Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they see you as a true friend. Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart. One day, all of us will get separated from each other; we will miss our conversations of everything & nothing; the dreams that we had. Days will pass by, months, years, until this contact becomes rare.... One day our children will see our pictures and ask 'Who are these people?' And we will smile with invisible tears because a heart is touched with a strong word and you will say: 'IT WAS THEM THAT I HAD THE BEST DAYS OF MY LIFE WITH'. - FB |
More There was a king that had 10 wild dogs. He used them to torture and eat all ministers who made mistakes. One of the ministers once gave an opinion which was wrong, and which the king didn’t like at all. So the king ordered that the minister be thrown to the dogs. The minister said, “I served you 10 years, and you do this to me? Please give me 10 days before throwing me to those dogs!” The king agreed. In those 10 days the minister went to the guard that looks after the dogs and told him he would like to serve the dogs for the next 10 days. The guard was baffled but he agreed, and the minister started feeding the dogs, cleaning for them, washing them, and providing all sorts of comfort for them. When the 10 days were over, the king ordered that the minister be thrown to the dogs for his punishment. When he was thrown in, everyone was amazed to see the ravenous dogs only licking the feet of the minister! The king, baffled at what he saw, said: ”What has happened to my dogs?” The minister replied: "I served the dogs for 10 days, and they didn’t forget my service. Yet I served you for 10 years and you forgot all, at the first mistake!" The king realized his mistake and ordered the minister to go free. This message is a GIFT to all those who forget the GOOD in others as soon as a problem arises. Don’t wipe out the history that is filled with good because of a small incident you didn’t like. - FB |
Hello the house! How is everyone doing? |
Bademosi Aanu Omotayo DO YOU KNOW THIS ABOUT DATING It's NOT about being engaged, married, or in any relationship. It's about being secured, happy, safe, relieved, and feeling good....It's about having a peaceful state of mind. It's about sleeping at night without the fear of losing what you've got. It's about being yourself and not someone else. It's about feeling loved, happy, respected, understood and appreciated. It's all about the right person and the right time. • Sleeping alone is better than sharing your BED with someone who shares a BED with someone else when you're not around...! • Cheating doesn't mean you have to kiss, meet or have sex with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so your partner wont see them, you are already there. • 1. If a man is crazy about you, pray he doesn't get well, if he is getting well, know that another woman is giving him some tablets. •First love may not die, but true love can bury it. •If you still believe "LOVE IS BLIND" then i know for sure MARRIAGE WILL OPEN IT FOR YOU. •A woman's beautiful face attracts a flirt; A woman's beautiful heart attracts a lover; A woman's beautiful character attracts a man. •Don't fall in love because you are lonely, fall in love because you are ready. •A blessed garri is better than a cursed fried rice. A Godly Poor Man is far better than an Angry Rich Man in marriage. •I will rather have you stay in your father's house that you are sure of, than pack into a man's house you are not sure of. •Most men base their capacity of manhood and their abilities to fertilize ovaries and produce children. Any man can impregnates a woman. The real deal is HOW MANY MEN CAN BE THE FATHER TO THEIR CHILDREN, not promoters of ABORTION? •HOLY Wives don't just speak in tongues, they MANAGE their homes, make SUPER meals, raise GODLY kids, and bring out the KING in their man. •When you tend to your garden diligently you will be the one to reap the fruit of the vine thereof.... • You can say "sorry" a million times, say "I love you" as much as you want, say whatever you want, But if you're not going to prove that the things you say are true, then don't say anything at all. Because if you can't show it, your words don’t mean a thing. Don't lie in order to satisfy somebody for a moment, because the pain that you cause them in the future can last them for a lifetime. - Fb. |
Ode DanJos Agabi So the media now tells our sisters that beauty is in having a body shape like the lab-created models with projected breasts and buttocks, and smooth faces like the skin of a tilapia fish. And for the brother looking for a beautiful sister to marry, that's the criteria abi? Well the media is wrong. Sister, you May not have the smooth face and curvy body, but appreciate yourself as a creature of God. You may waste time, energy and resources in trying to look like someone you're not. If the source of beauty is temporary, such beauty is temporary. You don't need to hide your scars and spots behind makeup in order to feel accepted and appreciated because when you look at the mirror after bathing, that's reality. And if you don't like the real you, no one else will. God bless you |
gratefulme40:Hmm..... Wish I have wings like an angel........... |
ddshow:Love is beautiful. A big amen to your heart wishes, my brother. A big amen to the joy of your heart. |
missbronze:Haaaaa! Golden matchmaker!! Naughty you |
It feels so bad when a year is coming to any end
when you have not accomplished a quarter of your
plans. You can feel a void in your heart. You can
feel like you have no meaning to this world. You
can even think that maybe you were cursed to live
such a life of failed dreams and goals. But my
friend, today I am here to tell you that you aren't a
lone going through such a situation. Many people
out there are undergoing the same and they feel
bad about it but they are still holding on and they
have hope for the best. Meaning, you too don't
lose hope and don't give up on your life and
dreams. Just be encouraged. If you still have a gift
of life just be with hope that some day all your
plans and dreams will come true. Also keep
praying to God and trust Him to change your
situation anytime. You were not cursed and you
were not meant to live such a miserable life. You
were meant to be happy and to enjoy life like other
people. Your day will come soon. It might not be
today, tomorrow, next week, this month or next
month, but it will come. ~ Dr. Gero Albs |
missbronze:Painful. Please, take heart dear. I lost my beloved immediate elder sister during childbirth too. So I know how you must feel. We just have to let go of the past, treasure their memories and face the future. And let us make the most of our life here on earth positively. May we all live to a Happy old age. But death is inevitable for us all. Please, take heart golden girl. |
missbronze:Lol! Naughty you!! Golden girl!!! But you're very creative with this. |
siamia:Hmm.. So many beautiful sunsets you have seen. Many silvery moonlights you have witnessed. Memory of days far gone. Of a life not all a bed of roses. But you my brave amazon, You forge through it all. Hmm... Here is a treasure. A treasure without price. You are the light of many lives. The dream one of many hearts. The dearest secret wish of many souls. Dearest friend, I sadly have no gift to give you. But a part of my time, A part of my humble life I give to you. Hmm... How I wish I have the power dear Siamia, I would have written your name in the sky with the clouds for every eyes to see today. I would have made the breeze to whisper your name to every blessed ears. I would have taken away those secret fears And give you the secret wishes of your heart. Hmm..... Precious one, Silently open your heart, Close those beautiful eyes And make a wish. May your life never stops Whenever you breathe your last. Happy Birthday to you dearest one. HAPPY BIRTHDAY. - Alex |
udysweet:Thanks for the compliment sweet! Hmm.... How can I change who I am? |
Saw this and wish to share it with you guys. HUMOUR "Nigeria was never on top of the map when God said, 'Let there be light'." - Albert Einstein (1938) "Drinking 'garri' doesn't mean you're poor, but allowing it to swell before drinking is Poverty. - Isaac Newton (1842) "He who runs around looking for scissors to cut Indomie seasoning sachets is not yet hungry." - Adolf Hilter (1996) "It is only when you see a mosquito landing on your testicles that you realise that there are ways of solving problems without violence." - Aristotle (1762) "Only a courageous woman can fry a bunch of plantain without tasting any." - Queen Elizabeth (1945) "He who unwraps a sharwama before tasting it cannot keep a secret." - Abraham Lincoln (1864) "Any man that uses his teeth to cut 'shaki' from pepper-soup with his eyes wide open is not afraid of anything." - Martin Luther King Jnr (1900). "Anyone who thinks he has many enemies has never been with a mountain of fire member." - William Shakespeare (1788). "Anyone who graduated without experiencing strike probably has never been to Nigeria." - Lord Lugard (1904). "He who refuses to classify 'agege' bread and 'akara' as a type of sandwich is a racist." - Martin Luther king Jnr (1931). "Any man who drinks 'alomo' bitters without squeezing his face, is capable of murder." - Obasanjo(1999) "Anyone who puts stew on 'jollof' rice has trust issues." - Fela Kuti (1979) "Anyone that reads this without laughing, that person is looking for a job." - Akpos (2015) |
Ishilove:Lol. Toks you're under arrest. You've just killed Ishilove with your killing dimples. What have you to say? |
Toks2008:Lol! Beautiful decent ladies abound for here o! |
VenusBetty:Hmm... I won't call you hot Not because I don't think you're not. Softly beautiful Softly beautiful........ |
Do not fear those who fear God,
Just treasure them.
But fear God my friends.
And most importantly, be wary...
Be wary......do not be blinded.
Be wary of those who don't fear God.
They are the most dangerous. |


