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April 29th/Grad Biochem....any birthday mate in the house?

@Op....infidelity!!!! Waooh,this is serious!! Lemme say this as I quote John Hagee...
"DO YOU WANNA SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE OR YOU WANNA LET GO"
People may advice and comment on and on,but.....IT BEGINS WITH YOU!!!

I'm sorry about your ordeals in this marriage,it's just your side of the story we've had though,but it's obvious you are a good Man. Lemme add this quickly which could be helpful.
1. Please don't give up on your marriage yet
2. Continue being the caring, responsible,humble and dedicated FATHER,just for the SAKE of your precious DAUGHTER.
3. Learn and try to close your eyes to ALL affairs in her business jurisdiction
4. Keep communicating with your wife NO matter what(response or not)
5 Buy relationship inspiring books to learn more about other people's experiences
6. Loving consult her parents or ANYONE she respects soo much for reconciliatory moves between you two
7. Consult a marriage counsellor with deep spiritual understanding(based on your religious views)
8. Keep praying and believing,not focusing on how God would resolve the crisis
9. Give your daughter more years to grow up to maturity a bit more,if your wife wouldn't change over time...QUIT abeg,so you don't die prematurely.

Snake bite on the butt!!! I refuse to believe!! Abeg send this thread somewhere else. But anyways,fidelity advice and message passed on

People can talk shaaaaa....#smh
Moi addictions are:
-Hearing God
-Chelsea Fc
-PES
-Writing

If married...our wife comes first,still single.....its your choice for the scale of preference...Mother,aunty...whatever!!!!

12.You start getting monosyllables as answers to explainable questions you ask her e.g Yes,No,Maybe,Fine,I'm Okay......Cut it off or you get Cut off eventually



Nice one OP

So easy to advice people when it comes to this thread!! Anyone ever came across distraught ladies that broke up because of this Genotype ish and they are living miserable "single" lives till date.....y'all feel sorry for them,I bet you.

Lord have mercy........dis analysis na wa oo

Good talk