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darkenedrebel:
HaneefahAde,

Añti-spambot banned me and I can't reply your mention in that sect.

You can use YouTube downloader app to download it or the ss method, or better still just watch it online.

Sorry about the ban


Thanks for the help. I really appreciate. It's been nice discussing with you.

Why are you bothering her when you see her as ugly? Some people don't have low self esteem you know? You probably made it seem like you were doing her a favour by asking her out and she cld care less.

Thank you for the write up @ OP.

Animals, and we all keep shouting boko haram, are these animals any better. Imagine killing then dismembering a fellow human, some pple deserve to be fed to dogs. Waste of sperm and ovum.

prince3009:
Please what is the meaning of this nonsense you typed? Are you justifying their actions or condemning it?

He is simply trying to tell all the people who are eager to throw stones at Islam cos of some deluded idiots actions that what they did is not supported by Islam even if they claim to be doing it for Islam .

Is at least 5 ft7 too much to ask

tosyne2much:
Are you trying to forcefully make me compromise my decision?

Not my biz

darkenedrebel:
@bolded___really? Taking exams must be a walk in the park for you then.

Cramming sucks. Asides being for only short-term memory, it requires more energy and it's very stressful. But it helps in dying minute studying.



You can check when the ban would be lifted by clicking on your profile - it's usually at the bottom of the profile.

I've got a video for you...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3vlpQHJ09do

Lolz, people who almost have heart attacks from hearing feminism might not agree with you calling it trivial. I guess they use it as a past time. The black out and situation in Syria are being discussed. I haven't really come across threads on the peace talk though.

A walk in the park? It depends. I just love noting and understanding vital points then developing them in my own words and not having to quote someone else verbatim. I have some friends that are good with cramming though, they will even tell what page the info is, ask them back after a couple of hours, most of the information would have been forgotten.
Cramming is so not me, gives me headache especially when I have to do it over a short period with so much anxiety.

Yh, it states that a couple of hours, guessing 48-72 hours is still within that bracket.

Thank you so much for the video. Quite interesting and enlightening. I was trying to download it but couldn't.

I have always wondered why some black men feel the need to tell black women no one wants them or are the bottom of the food chain. They feel the need to degrade and put black women down. Is it due to a self hate being projected or what? I really need to ask google.

gloria34:
thank u joor. nigeria men just dont know how to appreciate what they have 4getting that we have both gud and bad girls everywhere. when my husband shouts at me, i just ignor or even say sorry just 4 peace to reign. a nigeria man will beat his wife up and she will end up apologising all in the name of marriage, he doesnt help out at home just becus he is a man yet at the end of the month, d wife will spend her salary to assist the home yet u have the ryt to compare them to white girls. which white girl will accept all these rubbish from u?

Don't mind them jare. Who cares who anyone wants to marry but the insults women receive is just too much, you would think they are saints themselves. Cos of some hungry ladies they met, they'll call all women Gold diggers, like it's silver some men dig and we don't have gold diggers in all Climes. Going through foreign forums, you would be surprised at how good some white men think of Black women- most esp those that have been in relationships wt them and few others claim not to act on their attraction cos they fear rejection, some also described their ladies as gold diggers. People never appreciate what they have, they prefer imagining a perfect life over the other fence not knowing what is really going on.

Afroconnect:
You dumb ugly girl...dem no dey count you join ladies.

You are the dumb one loser.

daretodiffer:
Quran says men are a degree above women

It did not say I cannot do certain things. I will damn well do whatever I want to. The last time I checked Khadijat, the wife of the prophet had political, social and political power. I will rather be dead than let stup.id things prevent me from achieving those goals.

When it comes to God, idi.ots are picky. They wouldn't preach that is against pre-marital sex for example however they will bring it up when we are talking about gender differences. I don't do hypocrites biko. You cannot behave like a saint this minute and act like a devil the next minute.


Demigoddess knows nada about feminism. Simple questions she cannot answer. Like I had mentioned, I don't do stupid. There arte many married and successful true feminists, people like Obama, Okonjo Iweala, Chimamanda Ngozi etc etc. The idiot probably realised that she can't achieve what they could so it is better to act dumb and find a man that does. She should not come here to cry when her husband throw her out of his home. Need I remind you that despite Iya Rashidi lack of education, she couldn't stay in a marriage with Baba Rashidi therefore I cannot be boothered by a man who thinks feminists are the problems of this society..


I do not see myself as a feminist because it is too cliché and some stupi.d women are going overboard with it however do I believe that I am entitled to be judged by what I have achieved and not with my gender? FVCKING YES


Maybe if the world was a better place and men do not take advantage of their power to make daft laws or propagate daft stereotypes, women might forgo the political aspect of this improvement. As it stands, I will never relent. I wouldn't want my girl child to be born into a country that might wake up one day and forbid women from doing certain jobs not because they are physically demanding but because it is not feminine enough (whatever that means ).

God bless you.

Bakare19:
hahaha... na fight. Don't worry, I see the disposition of men here as mere posturing. They are and will still go after Nigerian women all the way.

No be fight, it's just irritating. They talk like those foreigners are saints. They can't try most of the bullshit they try with Nigerian women with foreigners taking the Western women into view without having divorce papers slammed on their faces.

tosyne2much:
I wish I could marry a Nigerian lady just that I have already made up my mind that I prefer a foreign lady to Nigerian lady


*nobody should quote me*

Who cares ? But the thunder wey go fire you if you ask any Nigerian lady out henceforth is doing press up.

* I'm Haneefah not a nobody.

Afroconnect:
Big fat lie...most Naija ladies are too lazy,even to carry out their basic function of cooking,washing and cleaning be like big job for them-too much telemundo and movies they rather watch.

Speak for your sisters

dmexy33:
the ratio of men to women is 1:7.
for every one man there are7 women!

imagine if we go for foreign women who go marrying una lol #wastage

Ghana girls are even preferable to Nigeria women no need to go foreign.

I wonder where men get all these bullshit statistics, check the men to women ratio in Nigeria and even in the World and you'll see it's almost balanced there are even places where men are more than women.

Who go marry who? I'm trying so hard not to place a curse on you if you ever ask a Nigerian girl out or contemplate marrying one henceforth.

darkenedrebel:
They don't memorize 20 pages verbatim - just the key points. When you remember one key point, it would trigger your brain to recall all of the sub-points under it.
Can i go that far? I can memorize 50 pages in one week if the stakes are high - say for a very important exam.

Haven't you heard of Nelson Dellis & Idris Izābag? Google them - they are memory champs from USA & Sweden respectively that can memorize deck of cards in sequence just by glancing at them for only 1 minute.




You don't need HSAM. All you need is zest & hard work.

Kindly read on "Kim Peek" in your spare time.

I would post YouTube links that would be very helpful to you. I have to log out now, so expect the links next tomorrow latest.

Do me a favour, mention me here with your main account.

Oh, yeah. That's true. I can do that. It's dissimilar from cramming, I hate that, although some situations can call for it, but some people are so good with it.

No, I haven't heard of them but that's totally cool.


Alright , I'll look into that.

I'm afraid I can't do that now. I was banned for whatever reason, talk about being nice and non-confrontational all day and being banned as payback, not fair. I'll appreciate the posts on either accounts, not sure when they ban will be lifted. Thank you so much. Have a wonderful night.

jayhumble:
Well I can't speak for them, but definitely they would have a reason for preferring an old white woman to a young naija girl... Talk about the fear of naija girls...

Call a spade a spade, it is pure gold digging. Gold digging is common to both genders.
I don't subscribe to ladies placing their financial burdens on bfs, take hair allowance , cloth allowance and all from him but what really is the big deal about spending money on your woman when you have the money to? And the generalization is annoying, alot of Nigerian women don't do that

darkenedrebel:
Method of Loci is the same as Mind palace(Loci - plural for locus(place).
Where did you first hear about it? a movie? a book?



Something like that... except it's way fun - complex at first but with practise, it becomes easier than whistling Dixie.

The ancient Greek & Roman orators used the technique in memorizing public speeches of about 20 pages. To be a successful politician or orator back then, it was a taboo to read your speech off a paper, and so they used mind palaces to store voluminous data. Cicero wrote about the method in the Rhetorica Ad Herrenium.

I would have told you to check it out in the library, but Nigerian Libraries are almost as void as sulphuric content in Nigerian crude oil.

Really? Didn't know.


I think I read it in a novel while in Sec School, can't really remember, but I'm sure it was quite interesting.


Wow! 20 pages?! Can you go that far?

Lolz, I love that comparison. I'm interested in knowing more already. I can always read it online though. Can someone without HSAM and related stuffs try it out? I think I need it, I can forget things ehn, I can be holding something and still be busy searching for it, that is how bad. My friends would always wonder how I have good results. Or maybe my attention span is just low in some areas.

jayhumble:
What is this one talking about... What do you know about lara...

Lemme school u for a min so next time u learn to do ur research before talking thing u don't know... Google is ur best friend...

Lara (Nigerian name) is a mix breed of an Ethiopian man and a Nigerian woman. Her dad is from Ethiopia while her mom is from Nigeria, she was a model before working for Ethiopian Airline as air hostess till her mom introduced her to Oshomole's PA... I can school u on and on but I'll just save my points here...

She's a Nigerian blood and she's more Nigerian than Ethiopian

Get ur facts right... Why can't oshiomole try it with an American, Canadian, Australian or British girl. Shebi him get money and him be governor... Dem go first laugh am first before him sit right... Abeg shift make I see front

The Nigerian men marrying their grandma's mates are what exactly?

darkenedrebel:
Trust me, it could be. The brain is an attic, and when you cache so many irrelevancies and trivial information in it, it becomes very difficult to quickly retrieve vital info when you really need them.
Imagine remembering every street name you come across. With HSAM, it would take double effort to forget those insignificant & trifling data.

Have you ever heard of mind palaces or method of Loci?

Yeah, that is true. I can imagine.

Yes, I have heard of method of loci, not sure of mind palace though, does it also involve conjuring and noting an image wt a particular vital point?

O God! RIP to them.

darkenedrebel:
It's acronym for "Highly superior autobiographical memory".

It's both a blessing and a curse....

That's impressive. Not sure how that could ever be a curse though unless one is desperately trying to forget something.

darkenedrebel:
Not really, I only came across your other monicker once when I was surfing NL last week. I was only able put two and two together because I observed and not just saw.

Alright, cool. So what is HSAM?

adconline:
Naija woman is more likely to be vicious and vindictive at divorce proceedings than a foreign woman.. Divorced Naija woman is more spiteful than a foreign woman because she's used to it and has better conflict resolution skills than a Naija woman who has been raised to believe that the easiest to accumulate wealth is Thru marriage.

That is what you keep shoving down our throats. Blame your Society, you can't compare two people of different societal and cultural backgrounds and expect same things from them. Let's take for example women from the West won't take most of the bullshit men dish out to Nigerian women, before you say jack divorce papers are upon you which you might lose a good chunk of your wealth to depending on the law.

I don't know where you get your views from, alot of women are breadwinners, contribute to the family finances and are making their marks. Is it foreigners that are marrying the poor, struggling guys?, suffering through thick and thin with? Some women might opt to marry rich men, it's their choice afterall which I don't fault cos most men ain't grateful to the women that was with them through the hard times, once the story changes the next thing is to gather concubines or plan to marry other wives. Rather than appreciate her then, the thank you wld be emotional trauma. Nigerian men's true colour comes out with money.

Gold diggers can be male or female. They abound everywhere. If you want to get married while calling yourself the head of the family and not spend on your wife, don't get married .

Don't marry Nigerian ladies, all haters should ho marry foreign angels who'll take ur bullshit from u. What gets on my nerves is the generalization. Like men are saints. And the issue of women liking money is everywhere, who doesn't anyway. Why wld a man marry a white grandma if they ain't gold diggers too.

Lots of Nigerian women are financially stable and capable, they contribute to the family's finances and we have women who built their men up from scratch ( most are usually repaid with evil tho, when the money comes different mistresses start coming in) , yet we never hear about these from crybabies calling themselves men. Some that can't even afford their three square meals will also come and call all Nigerian women gold diggers. SMH.

darkenedrebel:
My guts never fail me.

Lolz, it's quite obvious.

darkenedrebel:
Are you HaneefāhRN?

Yes.

darkenedrebel:
You said it yourself, all men are egoistic.
We high-functioning sociopaths especially love to have fun with everything.



There was a coldblooded murder at a church wedding at San Fransisco last week. The total number of people that attended the wedding were 50 ,including the bride & bridegroom. The police in their investigations noticed an anomaly - only 49 people had their faces in all of the photographs taken at the wedding - meaning only one person did not have his or her face captured at all, possibly an uninvited guest who did not want to be detected. The police have declared that the individual whose photo was not in the total photographs taken on that day is the murderer but they have a little difficulty in identifying this person.

Tell me Esther, who is responsible for the murder?

I'm not Esther but the answer is obvious. I might be wrong though.

Can't stop laughing. Jesus statue indeed. Do they know how Jesus looks like or tht one na inspiration too?
Anyway, good business

shadowgwalker:
just like saying,'not all demons are bad'.

Evil nature is about the personality and not the religion. A 'christian' cud decide to form a group with a new doctrine with the aim of killing 'sinners'. Now, in this case many will say , 'all christians are terrorists'.

Religion is just there to carmouflag the true nature of many.

U totally made sense. Religion has nothing to do wt being inhumane, there are many psychos abt who take delight in killing pple they just need something to justify their madness, e.g. The anti-abortionists are Christians, they justified their actions with the Christian doctrine. One psycho can just conceive an idea, sell it out or brainwash gullible, ignorant, hate-filled pple who in turn propagate their insane ideologies, and sometimes these groups are hijacked by politics and the sponsors come in to strengthen them.
The problem isn't religion, it's some warped minds, animals in human skin.

Story story o, as if u didn't know what u're getting urself into. U knew he was married and accepted to be a 2nd wife, so why are u crying now? Or u want him to leave his first wife for u, cos u want him all to urself?