Bastard

Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

Did you respect yourself too? It was after she satisfied you you remembered you are a married man, yeye. You did not ask for advise before doing rubbish.

The way some people throw away their life's works for few minutes enjoyment that they can get from their partners. Mumu

thatsleepboy1:


Pure rubbish. Let them come to Oye Ekiti here and see pple older than 111. The oldest person in oye here is older than 111.

Is there any record to prove it? The issue we have is record keeping. Some 60-70 year olds cannot tell you exactly what day and year they were born talk more people supposedly over a 100 years.

Lucky indeed that old and still has his wits and senses.

Franzinni:
If you hear his side of the story you fit see the reason why .... You see the human beings we call women, you need extra caution with them because as they can be sweet and absolutely fantastic, they also can be pure evil.

But nothing fit make me vex for woman to say I wan kill am ... Knowing what I know now... I go just open new chapter of my life with new banis ( plural)

Are you ok?

Oniro

Who did the research? How many people do DNA tests in Naija to the extent of drawing such conclusion? The people who believe this bullocks are probably the bastards.

Never knew senators get that much for constituency projects, can any of them over the years point to a substantial project done in their constituencies. Naija was built only for thieving politicians and their friends and families.
They know most of the money at this point is borrowed yet still stealing it with reckless abandon and we expect progress

See his foolish followers, please come and pack them too.

Then don't. Like that guarantees long life as well. It will seem men die earlier than their wives because the average Naija man marries women years younger than they are and they form hard guy about their health and don't seek care till too late. They also have bad health behaviours, smoking drinking is more common amongst men.
Alot of women work to pay bills, do the house chores, go through the risk of pregnancy and child birth, and are expected by culture and society to do all the child care and we don't see them coming online every Eke market day to cry.
Do women a favour and stay single. Marriage is not for everyone

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They need to steal money again. 12 million Nigerians no one knows.

Be careful with your 2m sha. Scammers plenty. With this craze NMCN is doing since you still plan to japa, maybe you should do direct entry to study another course within the health field, radiography, med lab science, etc are nice courses and will give you a short into the global labor market.

The chicken is not chickening, I don't even know what the waffle looks like. Cook your own meals at home and stop wasting money

Afodot0022:
Good day nairalanders, top of the day to you all.

This topic is basically for the divorce men out there that are out of their marriage and living separately from their Ex wife and kids.





Now my bone of contention is, divorce men out there, how do you deal with the fact that you are obligated to pay child support and care and also foot school fees and medical of the kids that came out of the union despite the family being broken.

How do you cope with this when the custody of the kids are with your ex wife and knowing she was the one that betrayed you in the marriage by cheating on you, will you be comfortable still sending her money for your the kids are with her 247 and she can easily still the glory by making the kids believe she is the one doing the provision.

Pls divorce and separated men, how do you go through this turmoil and ways to navigate through to be sure you are on the right track.

You divorced your wife not the kids, why won't you continue to care for your children? You can ask for joint custody of the children so you can also feel how easy it is for her to be sorting child care.

You have been scammed pele

Some women are going to marry unfortunate men unfortunately based on the comments from some idiots on this case.
Trying to excuse a murderer.
That was how some were crying and vilifying a woman that left her abuser at the airport, now this one brought her abuser and is now dead yet she is still the bad one.

Someone has been abusing her right from Naija, yet still brought him. She should have left that bastard back home.

Toluabigr8:
There is Yoruba adage that says " if a cheating wife did not kill her husband, she will definitely kill herself". Yorubas is too sensible

Are you crazy? Where did you see she cheated? Even cheating does not warrant being killed

But the children are not even with you.

You both have equal rights to those children, they are still tender and need their mum. You also have a right to seeing them. Best to go the court route if you can't settle amicably.
You both should not destroy your kids lives with your nonsense. You can co-parent with respect to each other while being divorced for the sake of the kids.

Northern Ireland nko. I hope they put this in place asap and the process efficient

There are lots of Doctors and nurses managing private hospital jobs and ready but these government will not bother recruiting to fill gaps but keep making silly noise about people that have japa.
They only care about spending millions on buying new cars for themselves and looting

Mtcheww

Dumbo
One poor woman will meet these fools and think they get man.

Silly

I always wonder too, a lot of things associated with being a woman comes with pain.

Who is this mumu

I don't understand. Back your baby and work nau or get a bouncing chair or swing and set the baby while you work. You are being unfair to him and still complaining of lacking attention from him

Happy married life

And that dangerous he goat will move on quickly to his next victim while the children she stayed for will be shared amongst family members who may or may not treat them well but at least she died a Mrs, good on her

This same nairaland we saw how a lady kissed and was extremely excited to see her husband and kids on arrival at the airport.
You get what you give out.
A reasonable woman will not dump a good man at the airport not after she has experienced and seen how lonely abroad can be.
Better single than with a toxic abusive spouse.

GUNITGuy:

yes the society is sick thats why i recommend she should run with her children and start life elsewhere were people are sane

Agree with you