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You have been scammed pele

Some women are going to marry unfortunate men unfortunately based on the comments from some idiots on this case.
Trying to excuse a murderer.
That was how some were crying and vilifying a woman that left her abuser at the airport, now this one brought her abuser and is now dead yet she is still the bad one.

Someone has been abusing her right from Naija, yet still brought him. She should have left that bastard back home.

Toluabigr8:
There is Yoruba adage that says " if a cheating wife did not kill her husband, she will definitely kill herself". Yorubas is too sensible

Are you crazy? Where did you see she cheated? Even cheating does not warrant being killed

But the children are not even with you.

You both have equal rights to those children, they are still tender and need their mum. You also have a right to seeing them. Best to go the court route if you can't settle amicably.
You both should not destroy your kids lives with your nonsense. You can co-parent with respect to each other while being divorced for the sake of the kids.

Northern Ireland nko. I hope they put this in place asap and the process efficient

There are lots of Doctors and nurses managing private hospital jobs and ready but these government will not bother recruiting to fill gaps but keep making silly noise about people that have japa.
They only care about spending millions on buying new cars for themselves and looting

Mtcheww

Dumbo
One poor woman will meet these fools and think they get man.

Silly

I always wonder too, a lot of things associated with being a woman comes with pain.

Who is this mumu

I don't understand. Back your baby and work nau or get a bouncing chair or swing and set the baby while you work. You are being unfair to him and still complaining of lacking attention from him

Happy married life

And that dangerous he goat will move on quickly to his next victim while the children she stayed for will be shared amongst family members who may or may not treat them well but at least she died a Mrs, good on her

This same nairaland we saw how a lady kissed and was extremely excited to see her husband and kids on arrival at the airport.
You get what you give out.
A reasonable woman will not dump a good man at the airport not after she has experienced and seen how lonely abroad can be.
Better single than with a toxic abusive spouse.

GUNITGuy:
yes the society is sick thats why i recommend she should run with her children and start life elsewhere were people are sane

Agree with you

GUNITGuy:
She better leave the country and take all her kids out she should get ready for a long hard battle both physical and spiritual that man would come out wether you like it or not he's going to be free isn't it Nigeria.....He had the money definitely they know how to manoeuvre the law in his favour you can see the bail condition he is able to pay ...
But as for the wife make she Japa for her own life
She's not just going face battle from him but his family his friends his church members even her own friends who supports her would soon start giving their pounds of flesh ....They would say why take it to police a matter they can handle ...No one would watch such a man go down without she having her fair share of battles....
She should better get ready wether know or in the future a serious vengeance is lurking for her mark it

For her to even report him shows she is a strong woman, the average married woman would rather see the poor girl as the enemy that wants to destroy her wonderful marriage. Our Society is too sick. She'll be fine.

Congratulations uncle wulebantu

skj1377:
All his 9 years in medical school wasted!. Women bringing down men steady. That was how a friend of mine spent nine months in a prison in Ghana while his case was still yet to be heard in court just because he slept with a 16yrs old lady. It was shameful for his wife in Nigeria as he could no longer run his family financially in Nigeria. Luckily for him he was granted bail and escaped to Nigeria. Men should exercise restraint. Deal with mature ladies only.

He brought himself down with lack of self control and dignity

God bless the wife for not covering up the man's atrocities against the niece. Some will cover up the he-goat to protect their yeye marriages. The reason some do these things is cos they know their wives as expected by 'our hypocritical society 'will cover them and it will be turned to 'family secret'. Some women even stay married to men sleeping with their daughters and they are aware.

Cheat if you wan cheat, don't destroy a minor's life placed in your care with your randiness.
We will see his fellow randy men defending him and insulting the wife for not ignoring evil.

skayT:
Hello Everyone!!

I urgently need your advice.

I'm currently in the UK on a dependant visa(tier 4), as my spouse is currently studying in the UK also.

I recently got two different job offers.

1) IT engineering job

2) Health care assistant job.

Please which one should I choose?

PS: I have got like 5 yrs experience in the IT field from Nigeria. But folks are saying I should go for the health care assistant job cuz of higher possibility of sponsorship from the health care assistant job.

Although the IT company didn't say anything about sponsorship. But upon researching on the gov.uk site, I found out that they are actually on the list of skill worker(A rating) sponsors.

IT engineering of course. Ask them to sponsor you.

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So what are we supposed to do for her now? She was not raped, not a minor or a Mongol. She should find work and fend for the result of their blissful relationship

Rubbish.

yolkman20:
Hello everyone,
Please I need advice.
I'm in a situation and i need advice on how to opt out.
So my uncle wife took advantage of my wife because of too much respect. (wifey bleeped up big time). We recently moved close to them because she's the one who helped us with COS. She recommended a cooking pot (salad master) as we needed to set up the house and kitchen, but i declined immediately after i heard the price (4200 pound DD payment for 4years for 5pcs set.)
During the chat, i discovered she'll get about 500quid referral and thats why she's desperate for us to buy it. The discussion happend about 3 other times and my response was no. My uncle got involved at a point and he also supported her wife because that's what they use too but i insisted. Then she turned to my wife and start to convince her but we'd already discussed and it was a NO.
Fast forward to a month after, my wife was in their house sleeping, she then woke her up only for her to see the pot has been supplied, and they were already cooking with it for her induction and to use it. In the prescense of the supplier, my wife tried telling her we've already discussed this many times and we were not interested but she cut her and told her since they were already cooking w

I got to know that day and i got mad at her, how can you let her lure you into a 4k financial engagement despite several discussions, she just dey cry and she was preggy....
Now, COS no get shift, there's no work in cardiff at all and all the load is on me. DD is 94quid per month and it's choking.

Here is my question, is there anything i can do to opt out legally? we're 6 months into the contract and it feels like forever, i dont mind losing 1k just to opt out, but i dont wanna do this no more... We can't afford with the all the bills and expenses we already have.

It's tiring...
I look forward to ya'lls suggestions

Sorry I don't have a good suggestion o. But that uncle's wife no too like you guys sha. That kind of unnecessary debt for such a long period. What kind of pot is so expensive, does it come with food? I hope you get it sorted cos it makes no sense

They should all start by bringing all their children back to Naija. All the ones studying and living abroad. Yeye

Are they done constructing it?

Maybe for people who entered through illegal route. 10-15 years to settle what? Same year you entered sef you can go back home for a visit if you so wish.
If you have your money for flight you can go to Naija as you wish, the only hindrance will be your job.

This old man should go and sit down.

You all should come and connect me to these jobs that pay at least 1 million Naira monthly o.

OP you are the one that wears the shoes and knows where it pinches. You decide if it is worth divorcing him. Whatever you do though don't get pregnant

DaddyCoool:
But men do it all the time. I understand though - it's very hard to perform the man's role all day and still be expected to enjoy being the woman to your "wife" husband in the bedroom!

Are men expected to do all the house chores, get pregnant, nurse and care for the children while providing for the home too?