Children have a wild imagination, she might just be making things up

Nigerians inhumanity to themselves. We will all still blame the government when the average Nigerian does more evil to themselves. What has warranted the hike in price now?

I am sure he was not their first victim, thankfully he was their last. Acquiring wealth from the death and cries of another human, wicked souls.

Let the poor woman go and go and marry those ones bugging you up and down for sex. Keep deceiving yourself and being in denial that you have erectile dysfunction which needs to be sorted for this marriage to work. I am sure you don't want her to start trying her 'tight' body with other men to see if they can keep erections with her. You can start from seeing a Dr, a urologist preferably so they can find out what the cause really is, could be related to your hypertension , avoid Viagra if you love your self

He is a loud mouth, yes but his interview is not what brought about UK's new moves on dependant visas. They have that mapped out already, this soliu elenugboro man was just unwise enough to fall into a trap set by the interviewer.
The UK makes loads of money from international students, they know not all the students even non-nigerians are coming to spend loads of money in their country just for a paper.

Pele OP. I dislike the idea of spouses using sex as a weapon, settle whatever the issue is causing hurt and have make up sex, when she said she was unhappy I hope you showed concern to try and find out why. Sex is beyond physical especially for women. But also not to call to check up on one's spouse that travelled even if there is a fight is somehow . It is well with you

Kobojunkie:
Women!

It is the same women. When they say women are the enemies of women. We need to do better

One will hear some women's stories and you wonder who are raising these yeye, egomaniac and wicked husbands. God bless the good husbands and wives out there

You don't have sense. Why did you contact her in the first place since you already moved on? Oniranu. Go and do what you planned to do

She is sick in the head

You are doing the renovation for your brother to benefit, know this and know peace. Since you leave all the rent to him, it makes sense for whatever money that comes from that to be used in fixing it. Unless you plan on starting to take a share of rent too after the renovation which you need to discuss and make clear to your brother and have a clear cut sharing formula for it ,cos he might think you have dashed him your share of your inheritance.

Won ti gbewa ni handicap

So he believes the d***k thinks for them in short. No self control follow the whims of the d**k, stronger gender

Mindlog:
Were they truly "happily married" while still in Nigeria?

The Nigerian environment tends to subsidize a lot of unhealthy marriages and then tagged a "happy marriage".

A lot of things need unlearning but some are stuck in their ways... one said it was emasculating doing the dishes.😆😆😆

That reminds me of a draft dissertation of a Nigerian Psychology postgraduate student, I read and it was really insightful as it focused on the breakdown in marital relationships of some Nigerian migrants to the UK as the focus.

The project detailed how the UK system hits hard on Nigerian husbands who are so high on control and submission as the UK system deflates these. The researcher also brought up the demystication of income which counters many threads here that advocates a man should not let his wife know how much his income is but here in the UK, the wife knows it before it even reaches the man's account and the system forces the couples to be more open about their finances and they are forced to make joint decisions as it forces accountable leadership on husbands as against the lordship status, they "enjoyed" in Nigeria ....d person write many, many for the dissertation.😆😆😆😆

God bless you.

This is shocking

DJ YK

How do you mistakenly impregnate a woman. Are you out of your senses?

It is well. Second position said he did not lose, third position sef dey one side saying he wants to reclaim mandate. Baba Bala bulu you do this one. Everyone go dey alright last last.

And they would have been happy when they gave birth to the he-goat. God abeg bless us with good children no matter the gender

Why would you want to look like cubana chief priest?

One of the problems sexually promiscuous sex partners bring onto their partners.
The rate at which cheating and being irresponsible is normalized even in marriages nowadays. Same virus causes cervical cancer.
Women who love themselves should try and get the vaccine and get it for their children as well, it is a bit expensive in Naija but better safe than sorry, many community peni*se and vag*nas everywhere now

tsdarkside:


kiki....funny part is they dont stay long toghether....
i was arguein with a igbo guy yesterday i told him that relationships between blacks and whites doesnt work,he called me foolish man....
kiki....after whites show you their real face you will run away yourself....
today he is with a black woman toghether with over 4 kids....

Black men respect themselves with white women cos they won't tolerate the nonsense our society expects black women to tolerate in marriage

People can be terrible it is when it is time to pay the mumu that was begging for money will turn to lion. I don't even know how to ask for money borrowed from me so I would rather give a token I can let go of. I have learnt over the years people are not trustworthy especially as regards money

dboY1123:
I lost my brother early last month and I have been unsettled and paranoid. He visited us a day before and he was healthy and hearty only for us to hear of his death the next day which was on Sunday.

He was admitted in the Hospital, on the bases that he was short of blood. He took 4/5 pants of blood and stayed 1/2 weeks before he was discharged and that only made him live for a month or so.

I want to know more about his death, exactly what happened. His wife is someone who didn't relate well with us (in laws) and she distanced my brother from us, while he objectively did as well.

This wife didn't visit my mum throughout her stay in the hospital for more than 3 months before my mum passed on a year ago. When I visited the hospital where my brother was rushed to being the same place he was admitted, they told me that he must have been bothered about somethings, and that the drugs he was given parts were hypertensive, that he stopped taking the drugs and all those excuses.

I was informed by the nurses that my brother has been suffering from insomnia, he hardly sleeps in nights and if he does, it's just few hours. All these things, the wife didn't tell us anything.

Now, I want to take the fight to her. I need her to tell me exactly what transpired, how did it happen! She's been in 40 days mandatory sit-at-home stuff and I can't wait to sit her ass down and interrogate her.

Should I get her arrested for questioning by the police?

Modified

Arrest her on what premise exactly?

Please take him to see a dermatologist not just any Dr, which Kain dandruff

sweetkev:
You've gone too far. Not nice.

People who like to insult women folk forget they also have female family members, it's good to remind them. It's suddenly offensive when their loved ones are involved

Fira09:

To your knowledge, what does hoe mean?

Cos with your comment, the 'hoe' I meant differs from yours.

Uncle whatever you meant by the hoe you said is what I mean too. Taink you

All this rave about fake news peddled by our women hating African kosongbo fake news peddlers

Fira09:
Marry your mother? Peter must be high on strange weed.

I rather have belief for my mom Instead of trusting a hoe(wife).

Your mama na pesin wife too (hoe), your daughters and sisters will be wives(hoes)

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feelin
Sorry for the long episode ..😀

You are already looking for a way to justify your actions by trying to shift the blame on your wife. Don't blame your wife for being a stupid man with no self control. Is she supposed to back you or tie you to her bag while going to church so your wandering d*CK will stay in place and know not to be lusting after her sister?

If you like destroy your family over the oloriburuku seducing you. That is is wearing whatever you see as sultry does not even mean she is trying to seduce you, it's your dirty mind talking. You are not as disciplined as you think you are.

If it is your wife lusting after one of your brothers I know you won't have this same energy, you will almost run mad.

Let your wife know you are not comfortable with the way her sister dresses around the house. And if possible she should get her own house to rent outside. Why should a grown woman be living with her sister's family?

I can remember such cases where people caught stealing were brought to the female hostels and anyone that wants to cane them is allowed to. Can't bear to watch it

Was she not the one they said 'snatched' someone else's husband?