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[quote author=_Queenisha link=topic=174453.msg2839319#msg2839319 date=1222117014]have you now relinquished the title of the stronger sex?
tell us now let's give you skirt and blouse to wear.
You people can't have it both ways.
You can't tell us to submit and submit our paychecks too.
na lie
It's either you are the man or you ain't
that's the way God made it[/quote]I am always in support of THE MAN IS THE HEAD.
However, we do get some trifling feminists coming here once in a while to hurl total tosh.
It's an opportunity to stuff this down their gullets and see the difference once and for all that MEN rule the roost.

rampagain:
ok,get u now
anyways i keep saying it,im not a feminist and will never be one not in this life or in any other life

Thank You.

rampagain:
 they were placed on top isnt it?isnt it why they call them the head of d family?

seriously if d guy was not putting all his family burden on her no problem but this one hes already doing it,she should find her square root abeg

women r d fragile ones arent there?we don't need too much loads

a man builds and invites a woman into his home to help him continue building

its not d other way round

Honestly, i understand where you are coming from. . . .
I was just stuffing ma comments in the throats of those that preach sex equality on this forum.
If women can act like freeloaders, i see no reason men cannot follow suit.

Aston Villa and Man City would rip Bayern Munich apart and thatz official.
Comparing the Premiership to any other league in Europe is a waste of time.
The English league is head n shoulders above Bundesliga, Serie A and La Liga.
England is the MECCA of football.

rampagain:
if he likes let him go marry from d desert,nobody forced him,he went wt his two left legs,so wats my own?

Would u even take a look at this thread if a man posted his gurlfriend relies on him for her financial needs??
I guess thats no news. . . . . . It's a natural phenomenom.
Afterall, men are supposed to spend, innit??

fyneboi:
Guys do you care to know the kind of guys your  girlfriend has dated and how many guys she

has dated and slept with before you met her?  And if you know, would you judge her for that?

No!!!!!!

Digging her past is purely academic.
Every Naija babe had sex only ONCE and was raped!!!
Take it on the chin and move on. . . . .

[quote author=_Queenisha link=topic=174453.msg2839224#msg2839224 date=1222115823]lookie here, my little sis
If any man comes trekking towards you with no employment.
Cast him out like a demon
Tell him I sent you
na love you go chop?[/quote]You women are hypocrites.
Yet, u expect men to go to Naija and marry a jobless, illiterate nymphet from the village.
Bring the babe to the States, polish her up, pay for her fees in school and ease her into a good job.
Meanwhile, y'all cannot do the same. . . . . .So much for sex equality.
The babe should GET ON with it and stop whimpering.

Cristalz:
@H

Lol He said he was joking na

I was joking too.

[quote author=_Queenisha link=topic=174453.msg2839192#msg2839192 date=1222115372]come o
where does this unemployed lover live?
In his mother's house?
at 31?
Lord have mercy![/quote]50% of Naija boys stay in their mother's house till they get married.
The women are worse. . . . .None of em moves out until marriage UNLESS they happen to be working far away from their family.
Blame it on the economy, abeg.

presido1:
Indirectly calling him a sheep or he eats the same food with sheep.
What an insult Hannibal pele.

Look at this village boy.
Shepherd's pie is like a meat pie baked in a crust of mashed taters!!!!
So should i assume u eat dog food when u give ur food to ur local bingo??

Cristalz:
Which crib

MY crib!!!
Is the shepherd's pie done??

ninelives:
my girlfriend's sister just arrived from the states after finshing her college education. i wont lie she is drop dead gorgeous. nt that ma girlfriend isnt, but d girl insists on making midnite calls with me, wanting to see me almost everyday,says stuffs like i miss talking to u, and all that. i don't know wot shes up to, she mite jst be the free minded type, and might mean no harm,bt woteva shes doin is getting to me. am lustin after her, i think she knows and she hasnt stop. but my girlfriend and i have come a long way. her mum even knows me. am in dip shit. i can't tell ma girlfriend because she might get mad at me for even thinkin of such, and i can't tell d gurl because i don't know wots on her mind. does anybody have a solution for me? plsssssssssss i don't want to be disgraced.

Disgraced?? There's nuthing to be ashamed about.
Take the opportunity and hope for the best.
Good luck.

tkb417:
Yep. i can't wait to see him play. Even Gill was quoted to have said he'll probably might be SAFs best signing. I think him and Zaki were the best players of the ANC. Zaki is proving hes no flash in the pan in Wigan. I pray Manucho comes out flying too.

Manucho is better than Zaki.

where is Cristalz today?

She is in ma crib.

tkb417:
so whats the 4-1-1 with Manucho?
he seems to be another Saha in the making

He broke his metatarsal. . . . . .
It normally takes 12 weeks(4 months). . . . . He should be fully ready to start a game by September ending.
OT fans are so eager to see him play cos most of them saw his brilliant display in Ghana 2008.

[quote author=_Queenisha link=topic=174453.msg2838617#msg2838617 date=1222105831]She logged off before answering my simple question.
If the guy just recently lost his job,I don't think it's enough reason to dump him if he's a great guy.She must have benefited from his handouts too while he was working.
Women have this tendency to cry foul when the tables are turned meanwhile they'll have no problems chopping off the guy in his good times.
Hopefully you can also graciously accept it when you get dumped by the new boyfriend,should you lose your job.[/quote]I could french-kiss you for the highlighted statement.
That was brilliant.

!f the guy has never worked since you knew him,why complain now?
You obviously knew his financial situaton before accepting his hand of lovership
You got into the relationship with a 31 year old unemployed man,you can get out when you're no longer able to support him.
Personally I would not have dated an unemployed 31 year old man talk less of handing out money not just to him but his family also.
This guy is just a boyfriend,not even a fiancee.

The poster should hang in there and stop moaning.
It's either he met this dude jobless OR the dude lost his job in the course of their relationship.
Either way, i don't think this dude has done any wrong. This babe musta enjoyed some goodies from the guy in the past.
It's payback time.

tkb417:
Hannibal, i believe you
Carrick would have helped Berbas course on the field. All those long shorts to the poor guy wont get the best out of him
Six weeks is a long time and i hope Scholes will do brilliantly in his absence.
we need carrick back quickly

Carrick would be back in a fortnight.
6 weeks is just an exaggeration. . . . . Our players don't stay out that long unless he is SAHA or Eduardo
In his absence, Anderson and Hargreaves are our best option.

justkunmi:
Hannibal

Yeah, Carrick is under-valued. We need him as soon as ever,
He is very sublime and tricky. I saw the clips of the trashing we gave Roma and I was amazed at the show Carrick put up.
He is a class act. .
We need him, if not for anything, for Berba. .

He's the reason that our front men get good supply.
His ability to play balls which split open defences is phenomenal, and is one of the reasons why Ronnie was able to get so many goals last season.
Very composed on the ball, and always seems to have a "backup plan" in case his space is closed down very quickly.

tkb417:
God bless Carrick. he woulda done a lot if he was there.
what would you say about mikels performance on that day?
I pray the dude gets injured

Carrick is the most under-rated midfielder in England.
I think his absence in the team is really affecting our performance lately.
He keeps things simple but effective. He retains possession well and he's creative when he gets the ball in transition.

Carrick has fantastic passes, long and short and he is good defensively with brilliant interceptions,peach passes and positional play.
He comes to United when we had a midfield at the level of a mid table PL team and turns it into class (with help from Scholes of course). 2 PL titles and Champions League with him. 18 Million -BARGAIN

Ujujoan:
Hannibal
WHen I say it's evwerywhere, I don't mean everybody!! I mean its not that hard to fine. Beseides I still insist the guys's too expensive. And good sex's not enough reason to tie yourself down to an irresponsible guy.

You never know. . . . . .
Rich women shag their drivers, gardeners for good sex.

So he has a reason to be irresponsible,  thats okay, but not in her life. He should look for someone else to be irresponsible to. I don't think a hard working girl should take that from any man. Men hate gold diggers, why should a lady tolerate that in a man.

Men put up with this 9 times out of 10. . . . .Letz indulge this dude until he gets a job.
Everyone keep saying he should dump him ASAP. . . . What is to say the next geezer won't be worse??

you don't get it do you. The guy's not dome dued who's just out of job and is deperatelyv trying to meet up to his responsibility. This guy's a someone dating a girl young enough to be his baby sister and dosent think its wrong to milk her dry. He uses the 'wife' thing on her when he knows he'll probably not marry her. He thinks his needs should come first before hers. . . He dosent have any qualms about her spending extravagently on him and his family. C'mon give me a break!! The girl's better off without him.

You seem to know more about this guy than the OP. . . . .  
The poster said he used to have a job before he lost it. . . . . .It shows he can be responsible if he wants to.
I think the babe should work hard and use her connections to get this guy a job.
Why are we comfortable with jobless women but we go gung ho when a man is jobless?? I thunk we are in the era of sex equality.

tkb417:
is der anything SAF is going to do to that?
we unusually burn out in the second half. does it have anything to do with our fitness level?
i can remember it happened in the game against Chelsea in Moscow and now Liverpool and Chelseas game showed the same thing.

SAF really need to start working on that. if we know we are going to be burning out in the 2nd half, why don't we bury chances and sit back and soak as much pressure as we can. But in a case where we score just a goal and retire, then thats a very bad sign and SAF should do sumfn quickly

It's the mentality of the players. . . . . It's like they expect Chelsea to come out throwing everything at them.
If we had gotten the 2nd goal when we were on top of them, it woulda been VOILA!!!!
Much of the blame should go to the midfield players. . . .They get too edgy and they just lump the balls forward aimlessly.
I coulda shot Rooney, Fletcher and Hargreaves if i was at SB yesterday. . . . . .

Ujujoan:
Good sex is available everywhere and the guy's too damn expensive.

Says who??
If good sex is everywhere then i will find a dinosaur in Oshodi market.
Hell, infidelity would be reduced to the barest minimum if good sex is available to all and sundry.

He's obviously irresponsible, I don't need a prophet to tell me that. If he's making serious effort to get a job, he wont act so irresponsibly. C'mon, he's type can only be lazy. If you look properly, he'll be happy to live that way for the rest of his life. I still say she should walk

Granted, he is irresponsible.
In a country like Nigeria where things go pear-shaped far too often, i wouldn't blame him.
Are u saying this dude would be satisfied to being a parasite for the rest of his life?? I doubt that.
The OP should learn to be patient and HANG IN there.

tkb417:
Hannibal
yeah, RIO was superb and he really did well covering for Evans
We are getting back gradually and im hapi for that

We played well in the first half and SAT BACK as usual(Almost a carbon copy of Moscow).
Although, Blunder Sar's injury didn't help Fergie's tactical substitution.
I understand why he introduced O'Shea in the closing stages. . . . .Chelsea kept bringing in strikers.
Kalou, Drogba, Anelka in the same team prompted Fergie to add an extra defender to curtail their long balls.

tkb417:
Did you guys notice what Fletcher and Evra did on the field? omg. Evra with his lean body bodchecked the heavily built Bosingwa for our goal. As for me, Evra was our man of the match.

JS Park(work-rate)
Evra( consistency n bombing forward)
Rio(Stability and having the balls to call Mike Riley a shit referee).

I'D give it to Rio!!!

@hannibal
Jiggar wassup
Did you see that hapless holywood FC on parade over the weekend?
Please, i think we both need to create a thread on Holywood FC and week in week out analyse how stupendously insipid they are on the field of play.
How on earth can someone explain how they were 5 goals down before Borowski helped with some goals.

In fact, dayo should be banned from this blog
Dude needs a life support right now

I have already killed Dayokanu on saturday.
Klinsmann should be sacked. He is dud.

wassup with Boro tmr
i expect a whitewash

With the right combo of players, we should beat Boro.
Besides, can we just LOSE tomorrow so we can keep our eyes locked on the meaningful titles??
FA Cup, Premiership and UCL are the 3 BIG ONES.

justkunmi:
Remember Rio's one on one miss??

That was before JS Park's goal. . . . .
I can understand why Rio missed that chance. . . .He is a bloody defender.

Ujujoan:
He forces her to help him and his family.

He stops her from buying the things she needs because he thinks she should spend the money on him.

He’s not making any effort to improve his condition

He relies solely on her.

I think she should walk. Even if he gets bastardly rich tomorrow, the guy’s a weakling and its not good for a hardworking sister like her.

What about the GOOD SEX and the quality time the guy brings to the table??
Can her money buy that in the market?? How do u know the guy is not making any effort to improve his condition?
Should he go out there and steal??

justkunmi:
Carrick is out for a while. So he just has to make do with Scholes and Anderson, anytime Fergie decides to play him, that is. .

We play Boro at OT tomorrow.
I think the tension is off. Everyone can now enjoy the game.
Boro would be the springboard to our run. .

We have STRENGTH in depth.
Ferguson should be sticking to Owen Hargreaves n Anderson in the middle of the pack.
Their combo has worked wella for us in the past.

Especially Chelsea. They looked very very beatable.
Scolari is just still lucky. We'll see how he fares after the Dec/Jan games. .
Just sad we couldnt hold on for 10 minutes. .We coulda ended the record. .

We wasted the chance to beat Chelski in the FIRST HALF.
The trick to this kizzack is to score when u are dominating.
United's 2nd goal before half time woulda killed Chelsea's resistance. . . . .
JS Park missed a good chance just before half time and that was the turning point in the game.

joichi:
Hi nairalander,
Please i rily do nid help fast. The person i call my BOYFRIEND relies so much on me for his financial needs. I undastd that he might not have a job (while i do, one i jst got recently anyway) but he shld somtimes wear d pants in tis rtnship and not me. I do most of the spending and he sees no big deal in asking me for more. He's response would alwayz b "afterall u r my wife" wic i find very annoyn. The way i was brought up, men do the spending while ladies lend a helping hand. How i found myself saddled with him, i swear i do not knw.
DO I LOVE HIM  that i do not knw. But i undastd that money isn't everything. I can count on one "finger" how much he's spent on me. But me,  please don't ask!
Its not lik i buy d world 4 him, no! But when we r 2geda, he's alwayz broke & tells me that i shld b d one wit money since i work. I've tried explaining (albeit aggressively since i alwayz feel so MAD ) that i don't work in a bank's vault & i mak enough money jst 2 cater 4 my basic needs, he doesn't seem 2 care as much.
Weneva i go visitn his folks, i knw hw much i spend doin "big girl" or "inlaw"
Yet he's never spent a DIME on my people. NEVA even bought "coke" or even sweet 4 anyone in my hse. He claims he is FOREVA BROKE yet encourages me 2 spend on his family & on him.
Mayb he does feel somtin 4 me,  i wldn't doubt that, but somtimes i think datz d only reason he's wit me.
Guys alwayz feel that we ladies r wit them 4 d money even when they hardly spend a dime on u! I only console myself wit d fact that somtim in d future, he might b man enough 2 actually strike gold, but what happens if he doesn't eva? Wld i b indebted 2 a life of misery FOREVA?!
One tin i knw about him is that, financially, he is not mature at all.  By d way, i'm 24 while he is 31. i shld b grooming myself for the altar not 4 doom!
Please undastd my plight. i'm not looking 4 a ready made man. i wnt somone i can grow wit in all aspects of our lifes. But wit his financial attitude, i doubt if i can stand it. Mayb i didn't mention one little detail. HE IS RILY GUD IN BED 
LOL  mayb datz y i stil hang around i don't knw.
Ladies, u shld b in d best position to help out here. Shld i jst ditch him until i find another replacement or hope against hope that tins get beta in d nearest future, or jst enjoy d sex until i find another replacement?!
No yaps, snide talks or insensitive comments PLS!!!
If u don't hv any useful comments, kindly kip d unnecessary ones 2 yourself. My hrt is 2 heavy to take any insensitivities plssssssss.

He relies on u for financial needs?? So what??
Hang in there and hope his situation gets better.
What if he gets a good job tomorrow and things take shape?? 

justkunmi:
Le Chac. .
I'm not doubting Berba's abilities. He's good no doubt. .
When the game is not looking up, when things are not going as planned, the players need to improvise. Berba doesn't need to wait for things to be going well before he can show his stuff.
I know he'ld still come out though for us, but he needs to contribute to the game. .

Don't be in a haste, son!!
Our midfield failed him humongously. . . . .The defence and the midfield kept giving the ball away needlessly.
Besides, Dimitar has been involved in all the 2 goals we have scored since his arrival. . . .His shot was spilled by Cech for Park 2 score(remember??)
We need Carrick's vision and Anderson's crisp passes to enjoy Berbatov.

Exactly!
Its a league. Its still a stretch. Its good we've played arguably the toughest games in the season. Chelsea away, Liverpool away, Pompey away. .
Looking over to the next game. .

Things are looking good and we would enjoy this ride much more next year.
I would be chuffed to bits when the BIG 3 are taking turns to cop their defeats at Old Trafford next year.
Our home games would be against top teams and the away games would be against mediocre teams.
Clinching 3 points would be so easy and quick like the speed of light.

justkunmi:
@Hannibal
Yes, Berba's 2 games had been against 2 of the best teams in the EPL . .but that doesn't still stop you from making runs. .causing threats or even having mere intentions to.
The most annoying thing Berba did yesterday was at a launch at attack Ronado started. Ronaldo rounded Mikel in the middle, outran Lampard and was looking for options upfront. No one was available except Rooney who was also running to catch up, but he was wrongly positioned to receive a pass. Ronaldo had to chill to allow more bodies upfront, by that time, the Chelsea defence was crowded and he lost the ball.
After that incident I looked around for Berba and I saw him strolling across the field as if nothing was going on. .
The guy was acting very complacent. .
Yes he is good and all, but he needs to be more aggressive in his play. .

I thunk i told y'all this in the beginning that Berba is not an out n out striker(He does the same job Rooney/Tevez do).
Don't get me wrong. . . . He has his strength but unfortunately, United haven't really played to HIS strength.
Lets be honest, the midfield didn't help a lot with so many misplaced passes. . . . I cannot remember Hargo/Fletcher making a crisp pass to Berba.
He is not the player u lump balls to. . . .He is no Drogba. He wants a precise pass on the ground(Carrick's specialty).
To get the best of Berbatov, we must play to his strength.

Its still early days. . I know. But he should start showing signs of good things to come. .

Good draw newayz, but we coulda had 3 points easily!!
The bridge was sooo looking shaky yesterday. .

PROUDLY UNITED

Things would take shape in October.
By first week in November(going to the Emirates), a good result there should haul us back to the top spot.
From what i have seen at the Bridge, it's United's title by a country mile.

stillwater:
Why do you sound like the wolf in "little Red Riding Hood"?

Don't belabour the obvious, babes.
Jackal. . . .Wolf(It's the DOG FAMILY).

stillwater:
Queenisha says a man would love me anyways Bite me!!!

Queenisha is a woman. . . . .How would she know what a guy wants.
There's no man born of woman that will put up with a frigid woman
Are u kidding me?

If u need marital advice, speak to Hannibal.
I am creating a topic soon for maidens like u to bring ur questions.
Call me Agony Uncle Hannibal.

onyinye2:
WTF!!! Who said i was speaking of a man Mufasa? I was talking about women. . . . agadi nwoke.

Oooooooops, ma bad!!!

Talking about women. . . . . .Some men only want "virgins" because of the presumed innocence that surrounds the word "Virgin".
As soon as they enter the bedroom, he is not really looking forward to the bedroom activities.
Men want innocent/decent women on the outside and a tigress in the bedroom.

[quote author=_Queenisha link=topic=173975.msg2834686#msg2834686 date=1222047322]Oya you may go to the bunny ranch in Las vegas to pick a bride.
They can even do w=hile levitated 20 inches off the ground [/quote]I don't have to go that far. . . . .The Naija babes on this island are