Romance › Re: Those People That Carry Hookup Girls(advice) by harmargedon: 8:27pm On Nov 22, 2024 |
Sirchiboy: . So this girl is fake and manipulative e be like say dem born you yesterday. Even if you give they girl 20mill, you'll see her knacking your neighbour for 5k |
Crime › Re: Man Catches His Staff Stealing Fish To Make Pepper Soup (photos/video) by harmargedon: 8:25pm On Nov 22, 2024 |
press9jatv: na too much hunger in his life Dey caused this stealing now 🙂🙂🙂 not really, even if the guy is paid 500k monthly he'd still steal. It's a habit, let's not brand everything as hardship. What stops him from asking from his boss if he was truly hungry? |
Politics › Re: Prominent Nigerians to honour mother of former NDDC official by harmargedon: 12:30pm On Nov 22, 2024 |
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Islam › Re: What's The Minimum Requirement For An Islamic Marriage (nikah)? by harmargedon: 11:12am On Nov 22, 2024 |
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Islam › Re: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by harmargedon: 11:12am On Nov 22, 2024 |
Rashduct4luv: It is not permissible for you to force your Christian wife – if you do marry her as a Christian – to become Muslim.
Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “There is no compulsion in religion. Verily, the Right Path has become distinct from the wrong path. Whoever disbelieves in Taghut [falsehood, false gods] and believes in Allah, then he has grasped the most trustworthy handhold that will never break. And Allah is All-Hearer, All-Knower.” [Al-Baqarah 2:256]
Ibn Kathir said: “Allah says: “There is no compulsion in religion ” meaning: do not force anyone to enter Islam, for it is obvious and clear, and its proof and evidence are apparent. There is no need to force anyone to enter it, rather whomever Allah guides to Islam and opens his heart to it and illuminates his insight will enter it with conviction; but whoever Allah makes blind in his heart and seals his hearing and insight will not benefit from being compelled to enter the religion by force. They said that the reason for the revelation of this verse was concerning some people among the Ansar, even though this ruling is general.” (Tasfieer Ibn Kathir, 1/311)
Why a Muslim man should not marry a Kitaabi lady? Although we say that it is permissible for a Muslim male to marry a chaste Jewish or Christian lady, and we do not doubt that there is a clear text concerning that, nevertheless we do not think that a Muslim should marry a kitaabi woman (a woman of the people of the Book), for several reasons:
1 – One of the conditions of marriage to a kitaabi woman is that she should be chaste, but there are very few chaste women to be found in those environments.
2 – One of the conditions of marriage to a kitaabi woman is that the Muslim man should be in charge of the family. But what happens nowadays in that those who marry women from kaafir countries marry them under their laws, and there is a great deal of injustice in their systems. They do not recognize a Muslim’s authority over his wife and children, and if the wife gets angry with her husband she will destroy his household and take the children away, with the support of the laws of her land and with the help of their embassies in most countries. It is no secret that the Muslim countries have no power to resist the pressure of those countries and their embassies.
3 – The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) encouraged us to look for Muslim wives who are religiously committed. If a woman is Muslim but is not religiously committed and of good character, then the Muslim is not encouraged to marry her, because marriage is not simply the matter of physical enjoyment only, rather it is the matter of Allah’s rights and the spouse’s rights, and preserving his household, his honour and his wealth, and bringing up his children. How can a man who marries a kitaabi woman be certain that his sons and daughters will be raised according to Islam when he is leaving them in the hands of this mother who does not believe in Allah and associates others with Him?
Hence even though we say that it is permissible to marry a kitaabi woman, it is not encouraged and we do not advise it, because of the negative consequences that result from that. The wise Muslim should choose the best woman to bear his children and think in the long term about his children and their religious upbringing. He should not let his desire or worldly interests or transient outward beauty blind him to reality; true beauty is the beauty of religious commitment and good morals.
He should realize that if he forsakes these type of women for the sake of that which is better for his religious commitment and that of his children, Allah will compensate him with something better, because “Whoever gives up something for the sake of Allah, Allah will compensate him with something better than that, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) told us, the one who speaks the truth and does not speak of his own whims and desires. Allah is the source of strength and the One Who guides to the Straight Path.
Note that a Muslim female is forbidden to marry a non-Muslim! And Allah knows best. I feel really sorry for you guys 😁😁😁😁😂😂😂, see what religion has done to we poor Africans. Wetin pig do una😁😁😁😁😁😁 |
Politics › Re: Simon Ekpa Will Be Extradited To Nigeria To Face Charges by harmargedon: 7:18am On Nov 22, 2024 |
Biodun556:

The dots in a circle I'm from the dot, but I love this. 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁, I can't wait to see his face few days after he's in Nigeria. |
Politics › Re: Hardship: Nigerians Waiting To Kick Tinubu Out Of Aso Rock – Bode George by harmargedon: 7:17am On Nov 22, 2024 |
givedemwotowoto: Nigerians in the SS, SE, SW, NW, NE, and NC can’t wait  I don't support Tinubu, but the old man will win again. Nigerians aren't ready. When the time comes you'll see the tribalistic strategy they'll use to divide Nigeria as usual |
Politics › Re: National Assembly Passes Bill For Life Imprisonment For Drug Traffickers by harmargedon: 7:15am On Nov 22, 2024 |
Zionmdde: I support this. Whoever is involved in painting this country black internationally and making it difficult for honest people to japa should spend the rest of his life in prison these same people take hard drugs, I guess the rules don't apply to their dealers |
Food › Re: “if You Are Still Giving Your Children Noodles To School, Stop It” - Lady(vid) by harmargedon: 7:13am On Nov 22, 2024 |
trium: I know you are not but I will ask you a question. Since you are an independent baby, did we have noodles in Nigeria in the 70s, which I assume was the period you were younger? Did your mom give you noodles? we had noodles in US🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 |
Food › Re: “if You Are Still Giving Your Children Noodles To School, Stop It” - Lady(vid) by harmargedon: 8:54pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
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Food › Re: “if You Are Still Giving Your Children Noodles To School, Stop It” - Lady(vid) by harmargedon: 8:41pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
Flangelo12: Do you understand the difference?
Noodles are simply made of pasta.
Instant noodles however, have accompanying them, sachets full of MSG and other unfriendly ingredients which should NOT be fed to little kids regularly. Do you even know what MSG stands for? |
Food › Re: “if You Are Still Giving Your Children Noodles To School, Stop It” - Lady(vid) by harmargedon: 8:37pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
trium: Be careful with this conclusion. For instance, not every American food is accepted in Europe. Asians have a different body system that may not be the same thing with us, this is why it is best to first eat the food around you before going outside.
Also, Indomie is not the most popular brand for Asians. Indomie is from Indonesia, it was never in Nigeria 30 years ago. remember 2 minute noodles? That one was so popular when it was introduced in the early 90s. Indomie's biggest market is Nigeria and it is not the most popular brand for Asians. There are other brands they are used to depending on the country they come from in Asia. We have had a situation where Ajinomoto, despite its ban is still used in the North. What is dangerous about the noodles? It is not the noodles itself but the ingredients and this is what nutritionists are concerened about. Noodles is made from wheat. The other thing they add, if you say we have not seen the effect, that is because you have had it for only 20 years. Parents never used to give their children noodles to eat as a staple in the past or as lunch . oga rest, a loot ate this while growing up, Nd we didn't see any side effect. |
Food › Re: “if You Are Still Giving Your Children Noodles To School, Stop It” - Lady(vid) by harmargedon: 8:35pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
Flangelo12: Noodles aren't bad.
Instant noodles - Indomie et al. contain a lot of MSG, salt and chemicals.
Certainly not what a child should be consuming at such regular and copious amounts. how many Chinese alhave died over the years from eating noodles? |
Food › Re: “if You Are Still Giving Your Children Noodles To School, Stop It” - Lady(vid) by harmargedon: 8:34pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
press9jatv: kindly make some enquiries on google. Google is your friend here oga shut up |
Politics › Re: Reps Reject Bill To Create 6-year Single Term For President, Governors by harmargedon: 8:26pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
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Travel › Re: Shock As Giant Whale Carcass Is Transported Through SA Streets - PICTURES by harmargedon: 12:13pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
eepeepook: Scenes like this make me proud to be human. The average human is a 5’8, 69 kg male. Somehow, he created equipment big enough to split mountains into smaller pieces — an act which would take nature thousands of years to accomplish. Look at the size of that behemoth. How many humans would it take to pull it from point A to B? One human being in a machine was able to drive it for possibly hours to a relocation spot. God? We are God. you must be less educated to think that splitting a mountain takes years for nature to achieve it. You believe you're God, but yet you all ran indoors when nature gave you a little virus to battle with. If nature wants to wipe of all human race, it takes seconds to achieve. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Transgender Congresswoman, Sarah Mcbride, Barred From Women's Restrooms by harmargedon: 8:26pm On Nov 20, 2024 |
Flangelo12: They want to dehumanise her.
It's OK.
At least Elon Musk as a trans child.
It would be dealt on her too. your mumu never do |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Sacks PTAD Boss Chioma Ejikeme, Appoints Tolu Odunaiya As Replacement by harmargedon: 1:18pm On Nov 20, 2024 |
DaddyCoool: What has being born in 1910 got to do? They killed him and Balewa and left Zik. Are you saying there has to be a "why" for Nigeria to have Police?? Why? make your research and tell me why? |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Sacks PTAD Boss Chioma Ejikeme, Appoints Tolu Odunaiya As Replacement by harmargedon: 1:14pm On Nov 20, 2024 |
DaddyCoool: They mean killing their leaders like Ahmadu Bello the northern soldiers were sent to kill the Igbo leaders and they failed, so who is to blame? |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by harmargedon: 1:48pm On Nov 19, 2024 |
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Romance › Re: Four Boys Banished For Life From Upper-Benin Over Alleged Gay Act (Photos) by harmargedon: 5:01pm On Nov 18, 2024 |
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Family › Re: I Need A Place To Stay In Lagos For A Few Months by harmargedon: 12:52pm On Nov 18, 2024 |
loveoris: Thanks. Please what area is this? Also is it a self-contained or a mini flat? we have in Lekki for one room for 800k per month, Abule Ado for 400k per month, we have in Fatoki for 700k, we have in Surulere for 1.5 per month, all for a room. And or Epe we have 1.5 for two bedroom. All well furnished. With free Wi-fi, some with breakfast, and washing machines. |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by harmargedon: 6:29am On Nov 18, 2024 |
Alfabest07: okay then, best luck on that, wanted to see if I could do you a deal favour if you had some good funds down. okay how much should I budget down. |
Family › Re: I Need A Place To Stay In Lagos For A Few Months by harmargedon: 7:44pm On Nov 17, 2024 |
loveoris: I need a serviced apartment or shared apartment in Lagos that I can rent for a month or two. The apartment should be conducive and affordable with monthly. The location should be anywhere easily accessible to the island, with good electricity. A self-contained or mini flat is preferable. Referrals will be greatly appreciated. Available, 500k per month. |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by harmargedon: 3:22pm On Nov 17, 2024 |
Alfabest07: I understand, but you sound like you don't have much or anything saved up yet for a laptop. Or do you? I plan on starting this month end |
Politics › Re: 'Friend Of Nigeria' - Tinubu Confers GCON Honour On Indian PM Modi (Video) by harmargedon: 3:17pm On Nov 17, 2024 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Becky Enenche: Paying Of Tithes Must Be Done Consistently Or Else by harmargedon: 2:29pm On Nov 17, 2024 |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by harmargedon: 11:04am On Nov 17, 2024 |
Abizz: I do not have access to the mail attached to my account. Swears. ok bro |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by harmargedon: 11:04am On Nov 17, 2024 |
Alfabest07: What you are begging God for fit be wetin he don give man the power to do, so tell me, what is it? I need a laptop badly, someone wants to take me on coding lesson, and his time with me here is not certain, he said he can travel back at anytime. Even if I try saving up, I would not be able to obtain the laptop and the lesson at the same time. |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by harmargedon: 8:06am On Nov 17, 2024 |
Abizz: Let's laugh at this person. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro please respond, I sent a request via email |
Fashion › Re: Nigeria’s Chidimma Adetshina Emerges Second At Miss Universe 2024 by harmargedon: 6:58am On Nov 17, 2024 |
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Crime › Re: Bobrisky Sues EFCC, N/Assembly, Demands ₦1.2 Billion, Addresses Leaked Audio by harmargedon: 5:45am On Nov 17, 2024 |
Enter Nigeria first, the werey go soon deny am |