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Religion / Re: Bishop Nelson Destroys Fetish Item Tied To A Tree In A Bush In Imo. Photos by harriet412(f): 2:30pm On Aug 05, 2018
petsam11:
He is truly a pastor and also a Nollywood actor... No jokes! But what I can't decipher now is if this is a movie set in Imo State or if truly it's a real shrine... But he is a pastor and also an actor...
Sounds funny but true...
He is a good man! He doesn't talk too much on movie set/location and he is very responsible!


Lol, are u trying to be sarcastic or ...
Romance / Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by harriet412(f): 5:56pm On Aug 02, 2018
Professorcplus:
Actually, I can relate to your story @OP except that I don't show it even when I feel jealous. I am the type that stays in my hostel most times and usually goes to church on Sunday or may be to fellowship once a while. I only go out if the need arises and only makes few friends. Due to my life style, my roommate will make gist of me for not having any girl. All these didn't help issue as I get bored and lonely every night.

So I decided to give it a try after been encouraged by my peers. Afterall I wasn't look bad. In my third year, second semester to be precised I once meet this beautiful girl back then in Uni. She was in her 100lv. To cut the story how we met short, I started following up by doing the chatting, calling even if I never call my mum for a week, I will make sure I call her least once in two days. Not only this I even text her SMS (I feel sorry for my self) As months passes I realised she started acting like "I don't care attitude, or why calling me". Even to hang out is like booking appointment before seeing the first lady. At a point she won't even pick my call. Even when she picks she form one excuse or another like she's in fellowship (meeting) or she's reading I should call back or she is in a church party whatsoever etc. This went on until she started raising her voice at me on phone. I started having the feeling like I am the one disturbing her. Well my friends even encouraged me more not to give up.

Every night when matter arises in the room they will chip me into conservation about my new girl, well to avoid long things I behave like I have it all under control to extends of impressing then with imaginary things that never happened between the girl and I.

Although our path usually cross and I did see her walking with her friend of course. I try not giving up to the extent of going to her fellowship just to see her and probably talk. That was how I started to the reality falling upon me. I realised she was getting the attention very much from the so called guys pastor. Going to the fellowship open my eyes to many things. Even after weekly fellowship services I try Waiting behind just to be with her, I realised she's already cornered by a particular guy pst. if not will be another random so called pst. all over her all in the name of meeting or whatsoever event. Even after meeting she received hugs while smiling everywhere and before I know she is off with another guy (pastor as she call them) leaving me behind or telling me it's late that she can not even talk to me. Even if I told her let's meet all she would says is "she don't have time".All in all she is catching attention every where both online and offline. At a time I muted her Wasap status because felt jealous and weak seeing pic of her with random guys. She's not seeing any need to even be with a lonely guy like me Afterall she has many of them flocking beside her any day any time.

The quicker I realised she isn't meant for me the better for me. I was left with no option but to move on. It was my first experience anyway having the feeling of letting go someone you loved but they don't seem ready to love back because of the attention they get as a girl has clouded their reasoning. What most younger girls don't know is that the attention fades away as they get older. Most of these girls are immature so they thinks if gonna be like that forever and carried away by the fame and attention of the youth. Only few ones quickly realize this and make hails while the sun shines.

For those guys with similar occurrence life is too short to be running after one girls who sees you as a pinch on salt. I diverted all my energy back to my academic, project and using my free time learning new things and flex. Man needs to be successful. Almost through with my University. And I hope I don't even come across lady who still want to be playing X & O (if u know you know) with her life until she later realise she is missing it.

Shout out to the real guys with good intentions and also to the other guys with the other intentions smiley

Lol, u were just unfortunate to meet someone someone that did not reciprocate ur feelings back..

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Politics / Re: Ragnar, Aiden And Liam Fani-Kayode Triplets In New Photos by harriet412(f): 5:57pm On Jul 30, 2018
They are so beautiful, Oh Lord! please bless me with beautiful children
Health / Re: Man Blames His Village People For His Brother's Injury. Graphic Photos by harriet412(f): 3:43pm On Jul 30, 2018
same thing happened to my aunt that was staying with us. My dad took her to different hospitals, wasted a lot of money on her.. Nothubg happened... Peoplw advised him yo go traditional but my dad doesn't believe in fetish things... He just took her back to the village..

10 years and counting, my aunt's leg is still like that
Religion / Re: Story Behind The Hymn, "When I Survey The Wondrous Cross" by harriet412(f): 4:09pm On Jul 29, 2018
Imperare:

Lol i did not judge you... Lets talk about judging. firstly I can't stop judging cos God said I should judge 1cor6: 2. Secondly, you judged my man of God. As a righteous man, God said that I should judge john7: 24. Shalom

Can u stop placing so much emphasis on your so called man of God.. It irks me.
Are u serving him or ur serving Godundecided
Celebrities / Re: Queenzhair: "Nina Stole My Hair Pictures!" (Photos) by harriet412(f): 12:13pm On Jul 29, 2018
Imagine! Stupid dumb girl now she's a fraudster... If someone call her dumb now, she'll type long stories that touches the heart.. Such a shame undecided
Education / Re: 5 Foods Undergraduates Eat When They Are Broke by harriet412(f): 10:09pm On Jul 28, 2018
lol, Indomie and palm oil rice was bae
Education / Re: Francis Mmadubuobi, Unizik Student Slumps, Dies While Playing Basketball by harriet412(f): 11:11pm On Jul 23, 2018
Martinez19:
Cc. ameri9ja, sKeetz, GodIsBiafran, Ijaya123, Rutley, msughdoo, thunderbabs, mechanics, tiwasiaife.

You guys are ignorant and aren't taking a lot of factors into consideration. Who says you must be puffed up twice the size of Ambode before you get a heart attack? You can be as slim as Obama and still have atherosclerosis. As long as you eat and leave a relatively sedentary life, you can build up atheromatous plaque in the lining of your artery. So looking fit is not a good indication.

Other footballers and athletes slumped? Yes if they were not watching their diet. If your sport involves great physical activities and you eat oily and fatty foods, you could slump. That's why top athletes, like Ronaldo, have chefs that regulate their diet.

He was playing basketball? And so what? Is it implied that he was a frequent basketball player? Is it implied that he visited the gym regular? Perhaps his friends might have said "join us this once and play basketball" and he went not knowing basket ball involves some intense activity. Haven't you seen governors play ball even though they are at risk of heart attack with their pot bellies? Does playing ball that once mean they were fit? Of course not.

We need a fitness culture in Nigeria. People focus too much on money and when you are growing fat people say that you are enjoying.

In a bid to sound smart, u think typing grammar will do the magic... Oga u are very very dumb.
Next time listen to correction when someone corrects you

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Travel / Re: Lady Set To Wed In August, Dies In A Fatal Accident In Warri by harriet412(f): 10:35pm On Jul 23, 2018
michael142:


Na my area for Ajamimogha for Okere for warri here she dey stay. The mother sef dey hospital like this. The girl younger brother and he girlfriend dey the car too. The boy lose one leg the girl lose one hand them both still dey unconscious till now

Are u serious undecided this is so sad embarassed
Health / Re: Imperforate Hymen: For Your Daughter To Menstruate She Must Be Deflowered-Doctor by harriet412(f): 9:03pm On Jul 21, 2018
Deltatoto:
thar u lost it’s at primary 5 does not mean it’s no longer a treasure


All of you disturbing my mention, did i tell you I'm not a virgin undecided
Sports / Re: Chelsea's Yellow Away Kit For 2018/2019 Premier League Season by harriet412(f): 8:59pm On Jul 21, 2018
Agbero:
why mentioning me though? undecided

Kikikikikikikiki grin grin agbero
Sports / Re: Chelsea's Yellow Away Kit For 2018/2019 Premier League Season by harriet412(f): 10:56pm On Jul 20, 2018
why is chelsea associated with agbero... I'm a chelsea fan and i'm definitely not an agbero angry angry
Health / Re: Imperforate Hymen: For Your Daughter To Menstruate She Must Be Deflowered-Doctor by harriet412(f): 10:36pm On Jul 20, 2018
When in this part of the world, there's a special prize attached to being a virgin undecided

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Travel / Re: Man Who Lost His Leg And Arm In An Accident Reveals Why He Is Happy. Photos by harriet412(f): 9:07am On Jul 20, 2018
Who knows how much a prosthetic leg cost? is it expensive
Culture / Re: 7 Things Westerners Think When They Hear Africa by harriet412(f): 10:17am On Jul 19, 2018
edeXede:

I will rather be knowledgeable than be an ignorant fool. No wonder African and Asian immigrants are the ones doing most of the developmental work and now the westerner are crying fowl. Now you should know why they say Ignorance is a disease.


No one is saying u shouldn't be educated.. With all the degree we have in the country, how have we helped ourselves? Why do we have to travel out to develop their country.. And u say the westerners are crying fowl, rather they are looking for a way to send immigrants from their country
Culture / Re: 7 Things Westerners Think When They Hear Africa by harriet412(f): 8:13am On Jul 19, 2018
edeXede:
embarassed
Not surprised. Tell them to go to school, they wont. Most of them are illiterates fortunate to be born in a developed country. Africans are more learned that them.

Let ur being learned put food on the table na gringrin

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Romance / Re: Lesbian Couple Looking For Sperm Donor On Twitter (Photos) by harriet412(f): 9:27pm On Jul 18, 2018
Austindark:

Are you African American and std free grin grin

Same thing i was about to ask him grin
Crime / Re: Abducted Zainab Bulus Bawa Freed After Forceful Convertion To Islam. Photo by harriet412(f): 9:08pm On Jul 18, 2018
I want to ask a question... The religion the muslims practice in the west , is it different from the one practiced in the north??
cos these guys are just extremist and barbaric

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Family / Re: As Parents, What Are The Most Common Words Use With Children? by harriet412(f): 1:44pm On Jul 18, 2018
Horlarwahleh:
Don't go near that swimming pool like D'banj son...

u just had to be stupid undecided
Politics / Re: Reno Omokri - “Leah Sharibu: The Girl Boko Haram Left Behind" by harriet412(f): 11:35pm On Jul 17, 2018
Days have gone, weeks have passed, months too... but leah still remains in BH den cry
such a shame she has been forgotten undecided
Crime / Re: SCAM ALERT: Top 5 Ways Nigerians Get Scammed On Social Media. by harriet412(f): 2:39pm On Jul 16, 2018
Funnily enough, my friend just got scammed of 50k ..Identity theft

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Slams Misi Of Hot FM by harriet412(f): 6:30pm On Jul 12, 2018
Truths22:
Tiwa not been professional here

celebrities are humans , they have feelings.. u don't expect her to keep quiet while someone says stupid things

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Celebrities / Re: Tobi Bakre Chilling With Davido At His Home by harriet412(f): 8:58am On Jul 11, 2018
OBO is a naturalist, that clothes look good on him
Celebrities / Re: Nathan And Nadia Okoye's 1st Birthday: Jim Iyke, Tobi, Miracle, Timaya, Phyno by harriet412(f): 11:20am On Jul 09, 2018
So nobody noticed anything in the last pic.
Happy birthday to the twins
Crime / Re: Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis, Throws It Out Of Window For Cheating In Thailand by harriet412(f): 12:04pm On Jul 06, 2018
Hedonisst:
Who's the frustrated, useless jezebel that liked the post?

This only happens when you give women the privilege of commitment. They should be used for sexual gratification and for trivial dalliances... Blessing them with seriousness (commitment) always gives them wings to do nonsense. Take it or leave it.

Even a dirty ashawo in a brothel who sleeps with 100 men daily, if you're unfortunate enough to love up , or you meet her at a neutral place (church, supermarket, bus stop, street corner etc) without knowing her real nature - and then you toast her as a normal girl, and start dating her or marry her, she will form jealous and angry with you if she suspects you of cheating, and can possibly do this same thing. Can you imagine the sheer demonic hypocrisy and audacity?

It's just about not giving them the luxury of commitment. They are worthless, and they like being treated as such.

If you take them seriously and commit to them, then they will probably feel entitled to slice off your dick if they think you have another woman outside (even though their useless selves have been penetrated by hundreds or even thousands of all sizes of dicks and all sorts of useless men throughout their promiscuous lives).

Well sha, bad boys rule. Only mumu 'committed' men suffer this kind of fate. Imagine this mumu running a yeye shop with his wife (working together daily), and then going back home to cope with her bullshit again, with all the 24/7 see finish. Why wouldn't she feel you're not worthy of fear and respect. Tueh.

can you just shut up and stop spilling trash
Sports / Re: Russia 2018 Quarter Final: Amazing Facts You Should See by harriet412(f): 11:26am On Jul 06, 2018
Such coincidence
Crime / Re: Man Who Raped 13-year-old Girl And Infected Her With HIV, Bribes With #200, 000 by harriet412(f): 11:24am On Jul 06, 2018
I don't blame this police officers, Its cos they've never raped any of their daughters that's why they collect bribe from rapist undecided
Celebrities / Re: Williams Uchemba Puts Joseph, Plantain Hawker On Flight To Akwa Ibom (photos) by harriet412(f): 7:53pm On Jul 05, 2018
God bless this guy real good , his pocket shall not run dry
Romance / Re: Pre-Wedding Photos Of A Nigerian Teenage Couple by harriet412(f): 3:33pm On Jul 05, 2018
yeyerolling:
Beta dan fuking around like we do in d south

personalise it,.. like you doundecided
Family / Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by harriet412(f): 7:04am On Jul 05, 2018
Biglittlelois:
Imagine if your dad never met and married your mum, you wont exist, everyone has a destined partner yeah!!! if you go ahead with this, she may be wondering why she is not married!! i pray you meet her soon so that you'll become lovestruck tongue


Kikikiki, no be only destined. .happily ever after gringrin
Crime / Re: Man Rapes, Forces Daughter Into Marriage In Lagos (photo) by harriet412(f): 10:15pm On Jul 03, 2018
if you're no ready to cater for the child, why bring her into the world sad sad

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