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2017 I am always angry when anyone talk about bet or betting, but then I lost my business capital 5 million plus, a friend was like try this 3 odds, i staked 10k and voila it came as predicted. And that's the beginning of my addiction and final free fall between June 2018 and now I have spent nothing less than 2 million of other people's money and small funds I get at times on bet but I haven't won a dime.
I almost committed suicide last year. I am trying to get over this huge debt and get back to living now. Bet is evil it will only ruin and destroy ones life

Bloggers and fake news... This is https://www.instagram.com/simeonskye/ a Instagram comedian just doing his thing. He's been hoofing around Lagos making skit video in father Xmas costume

Naijmobile:
A funny video is currently making the rounds on social media.

According to the eyewitness who shot the video, children trooped out to welcome Santa Claus to their neighborhood but were disappointed when he had no gifts for them.

The angry  children subsequently pounced on the Santa and he had to fight back at some point.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abhyIY177pQ

Y'all not getting this, remember Peller and Hon. Akin Alabi spoke out against the re-arrest of #Sowore and the bill clamping down on social media and all. So they're prolly tryna get back at him. And soon there will be some other trump up charges to nail him. Abi na today clubbers start dey park for road side there ni?

Looks like a rat snake tho, a non venomous constrictor or a Caspian whipsnake. I may be wrong tho cause almost every snake in Africa is venomous just us her inhabitants lol

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Go rest with your maker, you're a great man of God.

To all saying it's a lie to trend, if I wanted to trend I would have use my real account and not set up a new one, plus what do I stand to gain if I trend for the wrong reason. I'm here pouring out my heart and bitterness so mature minds can help me heal and give meaningful suggestions on how to get past this

thorpido:
Try to get it off your mind.Think about how you also goofed and how it could have hurt her more if she contracted a disease from you or another woman came with a baby.

Married men listen,WORDS are the most powerful things to a woman(ok maybe after money).Be careful how you say things that may start to affect self-esteem or security.Get wisdom!.Be careful how you say things about her body especially post baby bodies.You can see the length they go and the money a lot of women are spending on cosmetics and body augmentation nowadays.
It may not be the main reason your wife cheated but it played a big role.She needed that self-assurance.

You both have confessed to each other and forgiven.Start to revive your marriage again.Go on dates...spend quality time together.You say your wife is a good woman.Make your marriage work.

Thanks and God bless you

Breaststroke:
I like that you are trying, just keep doing that and remind yourself, you messed up too.

Don't let this break your marriage, it can actually make it stronger and better if you're both sincere and committed to a fresh start.

I wish you both quick healing, recovery and a better union.

Thanks sis, I will keep working to make things work

Breaststroke:
I don't understand it either. I have been on this earth long enough to know that - a man will hardly ever forgive your infidelity as a woman.

I am concerned for OP's wife and the continuity of their marriage. I don't want their marriage to end because they both came clean, but you can clearly see the OP is already struggling with her confession from his subsequent comments.

@ OP, whenever you start to feel funny please move forward with the knowledge that you were guilty of the same thing and even worse. Let that knowledge trump the mental images in your head.

I really am trying and this days we both try to make a joke out of our mistakes and then heal. God willing I will make it work because my woman remains the best even tho we both goofed

Ganjafama:
I get your point bro but somethings are better left unsaid. As it is now, it will take more than commitment for that marriage to remain the same. The dude is obviously pained that's why he's here. And he is going to feel pained anytime he his making love to is wife , inspite of the fact that he also cheated. It's the way men are wired.

Like seriously I can't think straight again, anytime we are together all I think of is, how the man was striping my wife and she must have been reacting and if the Bleep was more explosive than we use to have

olabrinks:
Never shame a woman (joke or not) about her age, beauty or body. I don’t know why that is so hard to understand? She will hold those words in her heart forever and do the unimaginable.

I sure know better now

I agreed I goofed guys, yes I did confess to her that I did worse and I do pray I find the strength never to cheat on her again. I was only worried because I never believed she could do that shit. Like I stated in the post I can swear anywhere and with anything that she can't cheat? I have forgiven and I do she has forgiven me as well, but my fear is that, there could be more and she's not comfortable telling, because she accidentally let it slipped that if she had done it with her ex our marriage would have crashed long ago as he would prolly blackmail her.
I am just here to seek advice from mature minds on how we can make herself better and how to prove to her that she's still my world. Thanks

So my wife of 4 years and I decided to confess to each after things went a little sour in our marriage. She told me my friendly taunts that 'babe you're getting old oh, I am sure you aren't getting toasters again' led her to commit adultery. That she actually slept with her old crush who happens to be a lecturer in her former school last year. She told me she was going for a make-up job over the weekend last October, I even gave her money for transport and all. She still used my money to lodge herself and her married lecturer man friend in the hotel and got dicked. She said that was the first time and she regretted it. And that she stopped talking to the man right after the Bleep.

I also told her I had a side chick for about 6 months and had a couple of flings with other girls but quit all after my side chick said she got pregnant and wanted to start blackmailing me. And I later discovered the pregnancy was 'audio' she only just wanted money.

We both felt sorry and forgave each other, but my big question now is, if she dated someone right under my nose and I didn't notice, and she perfectly did it. plus she's this church kinda wifey.

Should I be worried? When she told me I almost fainted as I had always trusted her and could bet my life on it at any shrine she wouldn't do it.

I swear na Zenith wey no play cut ticket na NG i carry Barca

Starboyyy:
nawa ooo.... any day Suarez no play like this... Barcelona go get goal scarcity.... Zenit don cut my ticket too.... No

Black rat snakes dey Africa? Thought the snakes are endemic to America..

LordAzubuike:
Poor reptile.. always confirm the identity of a snake before you kill them. What you have there is harmless, in fact it's useful as it helps control rodents and pest. For it to be there shows you live in a very horrible and dirty environment. It's called a black rat snake.