I don't know how long you have been married but this is truly a phase. When a man is not contributing 100% to the upkeep of the family, he feels less a man and that is why any statement you make, you hear things like; you are insulting me because to have money.

Please, try to save some of your salary. At the end of the month, bring out the one you will contribute and sometimes tell him you don't have money so that he can bring out his own for house expenses. If you calculate what you spend in a year, you will notice that it is higher than the rent and school fees he is paying.

When a man notice that you are capable, he will relax and leave all expenses for you. Be wise.

Finally, pray that God should bless your husband financially so that you can enjoy your marriage.

Maybe the ones on top is the real cake while this one is just to boost the number of cakes on the table.

dairykidd:

Nice plan... Then stop paying him too much attention. Focus on something else like making urself more beautiful on the inside and preparing urself for this cold world.. Stop checking his texts or call logs or bothering urself with who he's been with or what he's been up to. Make new friends, male and female, go out make it ur number one priority to be happy by all means then PM me

Seriously, Focus ur energy on ur personal happiness. After sometime u go dey ask urself wetin be the thing when make u think say u been love the guy b4 sef

The one that will love u will definitely find u and all this now will be ancient history

I love this advise and coming from a guy oh. Well if she go hear oh

geefasee:
dont mind her she is only booking herself for another post. Gej did not give her any appointment that is why she is vomiting jagons. Yeye

true talk

Raxxye:
A hero, according to Wikipedia, is

"a character or person, who, in the face of danger and
adversity or from a position of weakness, displays
courage or self-sacrifice"

Another source defines it thus:

"a person who, in the opinion of others, has heroic
qualities or has performed a heroic act and is
regarded as a model or ideal"

Unless Ezekwesili has a different definition of a hero different from the above, then I beg to disagree with her.

For promising to conduct a free and fair election without interfering in the process, and keeping his words: that makes him a hero

Think for a second what would have become of last Saturday's election had the president lost his calm after the card reader failed to capture him and kept him waiting in the sun for over thirty minutes, moreso when his party had advised against the use of the card reader. Had he stormed out of that polling booth, that would have been the end of election that day, and the consequences could only have been imagined. For maintaining his cool in the face of that, he is a hero

For calling GMB and congratulating him(something GMB never did in 2011 and can never do), and thereby averting "goons and baboons" being soaked in blood, he is a hero

For telling his party not to bother contesting the outcome of the election in court to avoid distracting the incoming president, he is a hero

Hate him as much as you choose to do, Mrs Ezekwesili, you cannot take this glorious moment from him. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan has set a standard for democracy, not only in Nigeria, but also in Africa. The man is a true democrat and, indeed, our national hero!

well said

nnamdiduruji:
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your name is not there

Gideon360t:
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Must you make money out of everything?

kollybay4u:
At the Education history i can see in the Type: select one, primary, secondary, university and professional. I'm using my OND certificate. Pls what can i choose since poly is not among?

Under which cadre are u applying. Though I have not applied but I believe if u apply under the right cadre, u will get answer to ur question. ASI 11 is for university graduates, Inspector is for Polytechnics while Immigration Assistant is for O'level

To confess may not be that easy but bear in it mind that she may use it to blackmail you into fornicating more with her since you are a worker in the church. So the earlier you set yourself free the better but bear it in mind that if you are a worker in RCCG, it will earn you one year suspension from the workforce.

kelzabel:
Pls does new NSCDC replacement officers pay for their uniforms b4 employment?I'd gladly apprc8 a quick response.thnx

Desperation for a job is very bad especially dis paramilitary jobs. I hardly come to dis forum dat is why am replying dis late cos am a very busy person. I have gone dis process before including paying for uniform and all I can say is dat its a big scam unless u know the person u are dealing with one on one and u trust and know that the person works in NSCDC or can help u with the job. If not my advice to u is to run as fast as ur leg can carry u.

My advice to every other person here is to be careful and neva to be desperate about this job of a thing so that u dont fall victim. I am talking out of experience. Thank God today am doing very well in my business. Had it been that I have started this business then, I wont have fallen victim but I fell victim to dis deadly scam because I was desperate for a job.

Ebola

Lawal4green where are u come and give us the latest info from ministry of interior. We are missing ur comments oh or have u gone for training.

Also emmaclue whats the latest

I pray its true oh cos Ebola no be joke. It doesnt know rich or poor

[b][/b]quote author=lydayam]Don't know whether it is was a 1hr or 30 min program but I stumbled on the last 15 mins of it.
On recruitment, the CG repeated several times "NIS is not recruiting". He went further to say that the Presidential committee that was set up in the aftermath of the ill fated exercise is working & will come out public when they are through with their assignment.
The interviewer complained abt not having enof time to trash out many of the questions he had for the CGI so the CG accepted to honour an invite nx time which could be nx week as said by interviewer.
[/quote]

For how long do we have to wait before the committee will come out public

oidyllic: just submitted my credentials for documentation yesterday in Abuja. i totally mean what i say. i pray that all d plans materialize in JESUS NAME AMEN

Is this the first time you are sending your credentials to him and did he tell you when d documentation will be done. I thot you are supposed to do documentation urself

franksunny: I always drop my own when it is hot and run away. The the truth is that there is list but higher powers are fighting against it. I mean Oga@dtop. The list might or might not come out because the same thing that happened to NIS in 2012 is about repeating again, and no Oga want his head to roll. Agents are just telling their customers sweet words of appeasement. It is 1/2

Which Agency are u refering to: NSCDC, NIS or both

Born same month of different year. Had our wedding dat same month of the year and we are on the same career path

Gtb is my bank. Any time any day. I dont know d criteria they used but Gtb services is the best.

How wicked and insensitive can people be. They never pause to think of the outcome of their action

It was boring cos Nairaland is what keeps me busy when am bored

[quote author=SporaD8] A well orchestrated alibi to justified another attack!
Bombs are always discovered or refuse to detonate in mosques but never missed target in churches, Malls, Motor parks etc.
Good news though, at least we now know where the bombs are coming from![/quote



Exactly my thought

ait on sunday