₦airaland Forum

Zzor:
I don't do relationship, its either you are coming for a serious business or you clear away,its not me somebody's son will be using to do erection practicals all in the name of relationship

Freestainworld:
Must every organization from the north be a terror group? is like they teach them terrorism in their schhols

fati2001:
Everybody loves love and most people have had some firsthand experience.. They'd like to talk about. it's another one of the universal topic that gets the conversation going. Even if it's not about romantic love and heartbreak, people can talk about families love with parents and children...

so here are some questions.

1. What is love?

2. Who/what do you love?

3. What good /bad experience have you had with love?

4. How do you feel about love?
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2oby:
U mean u r a waste of time?

Thanks, 4 d advice, will channel to something more useful. Gracias

stacyadams:



Shebi na for this nairaland, I read story of one man wey go burn him wife shop as she no d contribute anything for house.


I support OP from now till Jesus come

Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks

ayodele17893:
:I have never seen peaceful female roomates lolI'm glad you left sentiments aside and said the truth.

2oby:
It is on Nairaland. Or u need me to slowly explain to u wat that means?

2oby:
Madam, na ur market she steal? Y so much hatred 4 wat doesn't concern u?

Sugargul:
Eeya! Truth is bitter. Don’t be mad�

9jaRealist:
PRIMITIVE MISOGYNY...SMH
As I always say on NL, the difference between many Nigerians and SARS is the badge and uniform.
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Salmoneus:
You are heartless.

Arealiable:
Abeg leave am jor

BaddieFreak:
Myself, my son and my mom