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Merry100:
Even though I had to follow certain doctrines when I was younger, I have come to question some of them as they cannot be proven through the Bible. I am particularly curious about where the Bible specifically forbids wearing earrings. My parents are devout Christians, and they did not even pierce my ears, let alone allow me to wear earrings. However, one day I felt like wearing an earring, so I put on a magnetic earring and went out. Later in that day, I attended a Church program a friend invited me but when I got to the Church, I was asked to remove my earring or leave.

I am not trying to shade Christianity, not all Churches treat visitors that way, I was even surprised at the way I was treated that day. I am just specifically curious about where God condemned earring in the Bible? I accept that all Churches have their own doctrines but some of these Churches still use there doctrines to rate Christians from other Churches. Is wearing earring a sin or just some Church doctrines? I can't find any verse in the Bible that condemns earring. If you know any please indicate.

You don't come to the house of God to show off earrings or dressing. You come to church to seek God's face.
It doesn't have to be biblical, if you knew why you came to church taking it off wouldn't have been a problem.

Although it's not right to turn away worshipers from God's house, but taking off the earnings would have cost you nothing. Don't take it to heart you came to serve God not man

Kobojunkie:
1. What you just said makes no sense. Jesus Christ instead said you have to directly grieve the Holy Spirit, not one led by the Holy Spirit.
2. Teachings of Paul cursed? Are you hearing yourself at all? I said that cursed is any man who puts his trust in another man - Jeremiah 17 vs 5. Are you insinuating God was wrong or what?

Grieving means to deny the existence in this case. Not to worship google

Ismael97:
Received. Thanks a lot sir

You are blessed brother

Kobojunkie:
2. According to Jesus Christ, it is only those who are already become holy — those who are no longer of the world — that can partake of the Holy Spirit - John 14 vs 15 - 26 & John 15 vs 26 - 27 & John 16 vs 4 - 16. The "another" Helper's duty is to those who are Holy and on their way to being righteous or already approved Righteous by God, this after reaching the first milestone on the path to seeking first the Kingdom of God (Holiness) and then God's righteousness. And as such, He — the Spirit of Truth— is beyond the scope of this here discussion so best to leave Him out of it.

3. You refuse to accept that God sent His Son Jesus Christ only to the Lost sheep of Israel - Matthew 15 vs 22 - 24 - just as jesus Christ Himself said He was.

You are going in circles without no clear point or backing by the scriptures.

Then again I have never denied Jesus Christ so don't put words in my mouth, my quotes have never done that.

If you have decide to understand the gospel by your own means and not by the guide of the spirit you would have your reward. I see no need in continuing this conversation. Have a good day

Kobojunkie:
2. Because those who put their trust in men like even Paul are cursed by God.

3. No, I believe only the Word of God, not the words of Moses, of which there were some recorded in the book of Exodus by the way. God is True and His Word — not the opinions and views of the men used by Him — is Truth, and as Jesus Christ Himself informed you, He is that Truth of God, the very Word out of God's own mouth. So, He is the measure by which you are meant to validate any and every claim made by men of and about God.

Grieving one led by the spirit of God is grieving the holy spirit. Saying the teachings of Paul are cursed is same as saying that the spirit of God leading him is cursed. Don't do that if the spirit of God leaves you you are lost

Kobojunkie:
■ God cursed and scattered His people to all the winds as a result of their sins - Deuteronomy 30 vs 1 - 6 - and a result there are those of Israel roots to be found in pretty much every tribe, every tongue and every nation of this earth, living and breeding with gentiles hence themselves Gentiles.
■ God sent Jesus Christ to gather back to His mountain at His time all those of Israel who He had scattered to the winds as He said He would- Isaiah 66 vs 18 - 25 - and Jesus Christ made this known when He declared that He came only for the lost sheep of israel(not just the Jewish tribes of Israel).
■ At that time, Peter, a Jew, harbored the idea that God cared only for the Jewish nation and not for the non-Jewish aspects of Israel that God had previously cursed and scattered among the Gentiles.
■ Cornelius was regarded as a just man — the only standard of righteousness at the time he could have been justified by was God's Old Law of Moses which, again, binds only those who are of the blood of Jacob.
■ Cornelius's charity to the poor was said to have been, by the angel, recognized by God — again the standard that his giving would have been accorded such recognization was the standard set by God in His Old Law, which, again, is binding to only those who are of the blood of Jacob - Ezekiel 18 vs 1 - 32 & Ezekiel 33 vs 9 - 20.
■ Recall, from the Gospels, that the Holy Spirit aka the Spirit of Truth is subject only to Jesus Christ. What this means is that the Spirit of Truth only reveals to the followers of Jesus Christ that which pertains to Jesus Christ and the Kingdom of God — John 14 vs 25 - 27 & John 15 vs 26 - 27 & John 16 vs 4 - 15. As such since He, the Spirit of Truth was the guide who sent Peter to Cornelius, this means that Cornelius was definitely not a dog — a non-Israelite — but instead of Israelite roots since Peter gave that which is Holy to him, Cornelius. Jesus Christ, in Matthew 7 vs 6, instructed His followers not to give that which are Holy to the dogs, dogs being a reference for those who are not of the House of Israel - Matthew 15 vs 20 - 26.
■ Lastly, Cornelius became born-again after he was baptized by Peter— given that Jesus Christ was sent by the Father only to those who are of the blood of Jacob, Cornelius had to have been an Israelite for him to have been granted entry into the Kingdom of God.

1)All this write up and you still failed to prove corlineous was not a gentile.
In fact the only thin mentioned about corlineous was that he was an Italian and a gentile.

Apart from corlineous we also have gentiles like the Ethiopian enuch who received baptism.

2) And what you write about gentiles being Jews in different places not being Israel holds no water. Because when Paul went as far as Rome, Athens and even close to Persia and all Jews there were referred to as Jews not gentiles

Y0urUncle:
This is a very tricky question if you ask me, but inasmuch as christians generally would likely dodge answering it, it could be a huge reality someday.

How would you cope if you managed to miss out on the rapture?

Are you prepared to face the antichrist and pay with your blood?

Will you forge ahead like nothing happened?

Will you still stick to your faith or abandon it wholely?

Let's hear your thoughts.

I would not miss it because I have been saved through Jesus Christ

spy24:
First question again, where exactly in scripture did Jesus say all being are equal

Secondly the apostles were specially chosen by Christ and they are on a different standing to the other 72 you mentioned, if you read the life account of Jesus very well, you'll discover that they( the 12 apostles ) were always distinctively mentioned in all that Jesus did. e.g luke. 6:13 -15
Matt. 26: 18 - 23 .matt.19: 28... and many other instances in the synoptic gospel. Also read revelations. 21:14.

And thirdly how did you arrive at the conclusion that the apostles abandoned all that Jesus Christ had thought them

In all their writings they acknowledged the authority of Christ. First corinthians.1: 10-15. First peter.1:1-2
And many others I know, but cannot quote now

And your third assertion that they ignored the new covenant is also questionable

The primary reasons why the the apostles in the suffered persecution was because of their unwillingness to drop the message of Jesus... They died like their master Christ, a faith Jesus told them that they'll suffer acts.4:13- 20. Acts 5: 25 - 41. Paul said same thing in second corinthians. 11: 23-30

These men were killed cause of Christ I tell you they'd have stopped preaching if they were motivated by earthly gains..

The Bible shows us facts that God loves his children which are both men and women end of story

Ismael97:
I didn't say u contradicted your God Sir. U asked for my details so I can purchase my medicine for my baby and I have since sent it . Check your mentions sir. Thanks

Sorry I have seen it. Let me send, it's a little but pls manage it

Sharp

Ismael97:
I've sent my details Sir. I mentioned you where u requested for it. Check ur mentions sir. Thanks

Pls re quote it one last time, for I have not seen anywhere where I contradicted my God. I have replied the other mentions you sent

Kobojunkie:
1. Italians are not Israelites,however, Cornelius, the Italian, was also an Israelite.

2. Leave the Holy-Spirit-red-herring to the side and focus.

There are indeed no loopholes in scripture however your refusal to accept thar decreed by God Himself only to assert your wisdom over His suggests that there are. Basically, God lied and your words are proof of this --- that is pretty much your argument.

3. You say it with every claim you make AGAINST that which God Himself decreed.

1) corlineous was a gentile it was said so in the scriptures. If he wasn't show me so I can correct my understanding

2) Leave the holy spirit how can you believe in Jesus and ask me to leave the spirit of God aside. When Jesus stated that the spirit of God he will leave with us to teach us and show us all things

3[b]). I have asked you again and again highlight and quote where I have refused to accept what God has decreed[/b] If I have done it so I can ask my father for mercy. I would dare not God said heavens and earthy pass away but his words shall never

Kobojunkie:
1. Jesus Christ never made reference to Peter.

2. Jesus Christ, the Truth of God, also pre-warned you that the Comforter, the Spirit of Truth who happens to be subject to Him would you only give you that which is of Him, Jesus Christ and His Kingdom meaning the Spirit can never contradict the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ as revealed in His Law and Gospel.

3. I don't know about that as I was called by Jesus Christ to be a follower of Jesus Christ-- not of Peter and Paul. I don't vouch for any man as I am instead called to teach the Truth of God.

1)He did. Matthew 16:18 Now I say to you that you are Peter (which means ‘rock’), and upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it.

2) Perfect Perfect The spirit of God never contradicts himself, I even explained this when you asked me before. So then why have you refused to believe those led by the spirit like our brother paul

3) Were you called by Moses? No but you believe his words, were you called by John the Baptist? No but you believe their words. Where has Peter and Paul ever said believe in us and you will be saved. Their every work and words makes reference and testimony to the words and works of jesus. For they Peter and paul also like Isaac, Moses, David, Isaiah, e.t.c were led by the spirit of God.




Go over the new testament one more time and ask the holy spirit to guide you. Ask him to reveal to you if they are for him or against him.

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Kobojunkie:
1. So you do agree with Jesus Christ then that a mere confession does not get you saved but rather you have to be born-again in order to be saved --- the only way--- from the condemnation of sin aka Death?

2. According to Jesus Christ, the Passover lamb Himself, His blood is meant to render True Life to those who drink it - John 6 vs 35 - 57. Jesus Christ didn't however state that you cannot be born-again without first drinking His blood though. Redemption from sin itself is separate from salvation from the curse of sin aka Death.

3. So you believe that when Jesus Christ said, "Be ye Holy even as my Father in Heaven is Holy," you believe Jesus Christ meant to see the Kingdom in Word and spirit and presence? Jesus Christ's expectation of obedience is moot?

Do you have proof that you are born-again by the way? Jesus said all those who are born-again receive proof of this haven taken place. What proof were you given?

1 & 2) Being born again covers everything we have been talking about. Baptism by water which is the imersion and baptism by the spirit through our faith in Jesus. Our faith in Jesus is believing we are saved by his sacrifice on the cross. Read the book of acts everyone whom converted believed they were saved by Jesus Christ and got baptised

Hebrews 9:22, informs, “almost everything is purified with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness of sins


3) The lord said be ye holy as the heavenly father is holy
Where are we going to get that holiness or perfection, it is impossible with man? We don’t have it now, yet we can’t get to heaven if we don’t have it. That is why Christ died on the cross; He shed His blood and rose again to provide righteousness for us.

Another word is iniquity, which means to turn aside from the straight path. Isaiah said, “All we like sheep have gone astray; We have turned, every one, to his own way; And the Lord has laid on Him the iniquity of us all” Isaiah 53:6

not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit” Titus 3:5

But Isaiah even said that in the sight of God “all our righteousnesses are like filthy rags” Isaiah 64:6

We can't ourselves be holy it is impossible with man, but with God it is possible that's why Jesus died on the cross to wash our sins so we can be holy like our father in heaven.

Kobojunkie:
1. But Cornelius though an Italian was clearly an Israelite as well. This as made clear right there in the same passages you quoted from?

2. I am not the one here who tags God as liar here. Rather it is you who do so by assuming a loophole exits besides that which God had in fact decreed throughout His prophets and proclaimed even by Jesus Christ.

If you really believe God does not contradict Himself them why do you quote verses out of context to insist that He indeed did contradict Himself? Again, you are the one who keeps presenting God as liar by your attempts against His Truth.

1) so Italians are Israelites? How is that possible, Italians were romans. Read the book of acts all over again

2) there is no loop hole in the Bible, God's words are marvelous, every aspect of his words is a testimony of the next one. When you read the Bible ask the holy spirit to guide you. Jesus left him with us for this reason.
Can you quote anywhere I have said anything other than what the lord has revealed through his scriptures?, If there is I want to know so I can make amends

3) where did I say the lord contradict himself, pls quote is so I can see my errors

Kobojunkie:
Just so you know, I don't believe in Paul as rather I believe in Jesus Christ and His Truth exists above all claims made by men. Just letting you know that even though I have found no fault yet does not mean there is none to be found in Paul's letters as his letters do indeed contain some contradictory ideas to that decreed by Jesus Christ .

You believe in Jesus means you believe in whatever he says. Jesus him self made reference to the prophets and to Peter.
Have you even actually read Paul's letters? Jesus said he would leave the comforter with us, the holy spirit.

If you look at the lives of Peter and Paul, he testified to the life of jesus

Kobojunkie:
1. Let me get this straight then. Are you actually saying that even though the same Jesus Christ during the course of that very same conversation made clear that it was impossible to be saved without being born-again -- born of water AND born of Spirit--- you believe He, Jesus Christ on fact lied?.

2. You seem to think that lifting verses out of context, you are able to declare yourself above God Himself...is that it?

3. that is what you think righteousness is? Are you again here insinuating that Jesus Christ was wrong in urging you to seek the Kingdom of God(holiness) and then God's righteousness before you can have access to the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God?

1)Where have I said that you can be saved without baptism? Bring the specific quote where I said so?
Jesus said you have to be baptised by water and of the spirit to be saved. I said our sins are forgiven and we are cleansed through the blood of the lamb.

I accept every single portion of the scriptures as life, I won't cherry pick. Why did you then ignore what I said about the blood and insinuate that I called the lord a liar?
Is it that you deny the fact that our sins cannot be saved by the blood of Jesus?

3) Seek the kingdom of God and his righteousness, the kingdom of God we seek is his words, his spirit and his presence. How can you seek a kingdom if you don't know yourself if you are worthy to be there?


Drop all these void carnal form of arguements and let us devulge ourselves in the scriptures. We are not arguing to win we are arguing to enlighten ourselves so our fathers name may be glorified

Kobojunkie:
1. If God is who you serve then you will not only accept what He says as True but you will Trust that He does not lie. God told you in

□ Exodus 19 vs 6 that His special Nation of Priests will be comprised of the children of israel
□ In Jeremiah 31 vs 31 - 34 God proclaimed that His New agreement, He made only with the Nation's of Israel and Judah
□ In Ezekiel 36 vs 21 - 28, God explains His plan to restore those whom He has scattered of His Israel
.... throughout the prophets we see that God's plan for an agreement
□ Then Jesus Christ came and declared He was sent ONLY to the Lost sheep of Israel-- cursed and scattered by God to every tribe, every tongue and every Nation of this world --- Matthew 15 vs 22 - 24. Jesus Christ equally warned His followers not to extend the agreement-- that which is Holy--- to the no Israelites, urging them to proclaim the good news only to those who are of Israel - Matthew 7 vs 6 & Matthew 10 vs 5 - 6.

Do we disbelieve God and Jesus Christ because we want to force our way into His Kingdom without His consent?

Peters trance in the book of acts, what so ever the lord has sanctified is clean thus even the gentiles can become children of God If they believe. This corlineous who was an Italian and his house hold were worthy of being called children of God and he poured his spirit upon them.

Then Peter began to speak: “I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritism but accepts from every nation the one who fears him and does what is right.
Acts 10:34‭-‬35 NIV

Never dare call the lord a liar, for every word of God proves true. Heavens and earth shall pass away but his words shall never pass, the same God spoke through the prophets of old testament and spoke through Jesus Peter and Paul. He does not contradict himself. In the old testament God made a covenant with Israel and Judah. In the new testament the same God revealed to the apostles that whomever the lord has made clean is clean. And we are saved by the blood of jesus

Kobojunkie:
1. My one and only Teacher is Jesus Christ and He alone is also Master over me - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10 .

2. Jesus Christ never said that when you confess alone you are saved. Rather He said that every sinner must be born-again in order to be saved from the condemnation of sin - John 3 vs 1 - 21.

3. Jesus Christ never said that you are made righteous when you are saved. Rather, what Jesus Christ said is you have to seek first the Kingdom of God(Holiness) , and then God's righteousness in order that all these things -- the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God --- shall be added. If righteousness was bequeathed you by Him so easily, why would He asked you to seek it after accepted Him??

You said a pastor isn't God and cannot save, yet all you wrote are taken from scripts fed you by your pastors and mogs and not from the Truth of God, Jesus Christ. Don't you think this means you need to make a decision for yourself first as to who it is you really serve?

1)That's where you miss-understand the scriptures,

John 3:16 one of the most popular verse in the new testament, for God so loved the world......... That whomever believe in him would not perish but have evalasting life.

Hebrews chapter 9 : Neither by the blood of goats or calves but by his own blood he entered once into the holy place having obtained eternal redemption for us.

3) what do you think righteousness is, it's the believe that you are saved by the blood and are now spotless.
No one can on his own decide to be righteousness, but by the spirit of God that dwells in us quickens our mortal bodies and leads us.

Kobojunkie:
1. What aspect of what I typed leads you to believe I have not done what you claim?

2. You speak of the Holy Spirit but what proof do you have that you are even born-again, to begin with? What evidence was deposited inside of you according to the Word of God , Jesus Christ, when you first became born-again - John 3 vs 1 - 21 & Matthew 10 vs 37 - 38?

You think knowing God is same as regurgitating the vomit fed to you by your pastors and mogs, lies that hold no bearing as far as the Truth of God?

The part of disagreement I had with you was when you said that, God only came to save Israel and Judah and that the gentiles are from Israel and Judah whom he scattered. You should explain further, because gentiles referred to the Greeks, Romans e.t.c and all others whom weren't Jews, and everyone is sanctified by the blood of Jesus when they believe

Kobojunkie:
How can I grieve the Spirit of God by speaking the Truth of Jesus Christ above all else, the very same mission that God has sent all out to doing? Why do you confuse playing religion with following God?

You didn't, I didn't read your message right, I have read it again and you speak the truth

Kobojunkie:
1. What aspect of what I typed leads you to believe I have not done what you claim?

2. You speak of the Holy Spirit but what proof do you have that you are even born-again, to begin with? What evidence was deposited inside of you according to the Word of God , Jesus Christ, when you first became born-again - John 3 vs 1 - 21 & Matthew 10 vs 37 - 38?

You think knowing God is same as regurgitating the vomit fed to you by your pastors and mogs, lies that hold no bearing as far as the Truth of God?

Your pastor is not your God and he cannot save you.

The only thing that can save you is the blood of Jesus which was set aside as a Ransome for our sins, when you confess you are saved by the blood all your sins, your yesterday are no more you are now righteous and can seek the face of your father in prayer. Thus I know I am saved

Kobojunkie:
1. I am afraid Aribasala is guilty of dumping his ignorance on Paul, yet again! For some odd reason, Aribasala does not respect contextual integrity when reading through Paul's letter, the very same mistake those who worship the man Paul equally make.

In Romans 3 vs 10 - 18 Paul quotes from various parts of scripture in his attempt to explain to his brethren that they were in fact the wicked and evil generation to the destroyed by God. Yes, at that point in time, God's plan was to destroy the rest of Israel — the Nation of Judah aka the Jews— and that plan was heralded by the coming of Jesus Christ. Below, we see that what Paul wrote in that passage was of the evil people who were against God.

■ Romans 3 vs 10 - 12 quotes Psalm 53 where David writes about the evil people who do terrible things.
The above passage clearly says that this prophecy was said of the evil people aka the fools who convinced themselves that God does not exist. You know this from reading verse 4 where God highlights the way evil people treat His people.
■ Romans 3 vs 13 a Paul references David's prayer against his enemies found in Psalm 5

■ Romans 3 vs 13 b quotes from Psalm 140 where David prays to God regarding the evil people

■ Romans 3 vs 15 quotes from Proverbs 1 which is a warning against evil people

■ Romans 3 vs 16 - 17 references Isaiah's writing on the state of the evil people, whose sins separate them from God

■ Romans 3 vs 18 references Psalm 18 where David writes of the evil people and the workings of their minds.

As you can see, every single passage of Scripture that was quoted by Paul in that context was written in reference to people who do evil — the unrighteous. And of course, there are none righteous among the evil people for they have all sinned. After establishing his focus in the earlier verses, the evil people i.e. the unrighteous, in verses 19-20 Paul reiterates that the curse on the unrighteous cannot be removed right by the Law(of Moses) — they cannot be made righteous by following the Old Law.

In verse 21, Paul then posits that God has provided for the unrighteous(evil people) a path to redemption by which they can be made righteous and that path is the New Law(The Good News). Paul insists that God makes the unrighteous people righteous through their faith in Jesus Christ and He does so for all those who believe in Jesus Christ, verse 22. Again, Paul insists in verse 23 that all(the evil people aka unrighteous) have sinned and come short of the glory of God and can only be made righteous by following, not the old Law, but the new Law which offers the free gift of grace(Eternal Life). Paul also insists that the unrighteous are able to become righteous in God by becoming free from their sins through Jesus Christ. In verses 25-26, Paul then recapped by saying that God gave Jesus Christ a way to forgive the sins of people — the unrighteous aka sinners whom He came to call to repentance — by way of what Paul refers to as the blood sacrifice of Jesus Christ.

In all, the primary audience or focus of Paul's writing in Roman 3 were the unrighteous sinners in the land, ignoring the righteous people who equally existed at the time. As a matter of fact, at the time of Paul's writing of this epistle, the other disciples of Jesus Christ were probably righteous given they already obtained the Spirit of Truth for a companion long before this. Paul in no way meant this to say that there were absolutely no righteous individuals in the land. Rather, he focused his message on those who were listed as unrighteous and remained under God's curse from the Old Law, and yet to be set free from slavery to sin by Jesus Christ.

2. To reveal that Aribasal's bias against Paul is truly what is at work here since the same Paul, in Romans 2 vs 1 - 16 revealed that righteousness was only obtainable through the doing of that which is the law — the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ—, and not simply the hearing of the law. So far, it seems this man's case is of witch hunt and not real understanding.

Good

Kobojunkie:
1. No sin was committed by his person in that.

2. The term "apostle" refers to followers of Jesus Christ, and it was in no way a unique identifier for merely the first 12 apostles of Jesus Christ.

3. That's probably because Paul's letters are featured most in it. If the collection letters ever written by the other apostles and writers were not lost to us, I am certain Paul's would have been just a handful among the other writings.

4. God's Israel is made up of the people of two Nations, formerly one — the Nation of Israel and the Nation of Judah. The original Nation of Israel was divided into these two nations after the time of Solomon. And during the time of Nebuchadnezzar, God had cursed and scattered the resulting people of the Nation of Israel to the ends of the world, rendering them Gentiles as a result. So, when Paul stated that he was an apostle to the Gentiles, what he meant was that he was sent, not just to his Jewish brothers in the Nation of Judah, but also to the people of Israel chased off by God to all the other nations of the earth.

5.

It's obvious you have not read the Bible thoroughly.

I now understand when the lord said they would see but would not understand because I have hardened their hearts.
Ask the holy spirit to guide you when you read the Bible so you can stop reading it carnally

Ismael97:
Five thousands and three hundred sir

Ok send your account number let me send what I have with me

Ismael97:
My baby of 7months is sick and malnourished. We can't even afford drugs for him

How much is the drugs

Ismael97:
I said same thing just a few hours ago. I can no longer cope with the economic realities. Everything is hard. I feel like sleeping and never wake up. Tired of Nigeria issues. Tired of my life, tired of my wife and my sick malnourished baby

I am in your situation too Nigeria is becoming unlovable, but try as much to put your mind and heart on God, this our suffering is only temporary. God's words always and must come to pass.

David since I was born and now I am getting old I have never seen the lord faileth or the righteous begging for bread.

His words would prevail even if it means getting rid of tinubu

cutecommend:
As a Christian who fears God, is their any need to confess Adultery to your partner? Or should someone just pray to God for forgiveness and move on? Assuming a secret child is involved, should the Adultery still be confessed or should it be sealed after prayers of forgiveness have been offered to God?
Confession to ones partner should be done after guidance from a good and mature Christian counselor.

Please contribute and advise.

A man shall leave his mother and father and together with the woman they shall become one.

Yes he/she must tell the partner because they have defiled God's promises, so they both can ask God for his mercy.

Maybaby4eva:
What i would give to be able to pray very well, to quote scripture passages like OP and pray for at least an hour straight minus P&W. i admire people that pray well (not for show or donation) Just in their moment with God.

Just surrender to the holy spirit he would lead you in prayers. If you try to pray by your own strength you would feel tired and bored.

Just say holy spirit lead me, help me pray, for the spirit helps us pray with groanings that cannot be uttered.

Hausa and Fulani started this evil thing. At least we would be having so so northern Muslims heading positions