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yemisolar:
Eleyi gidi gaan ( this one strong o)

Let's try to take it fact by fact:

Fact#1 is she HIV positive now? YES

Fcat #2 she told you she was pregnant. Did you conduct any test on your own before paying the bride price despite the fact that it must have taken some months before gathering your people and money to do traditional marriage? NO

Fact #3 pregnancy mysteriously disappeared. Did you ask any questions or do any test? NO

Fact#4 she told you that she was to have a C-section because the baby was so small. Did you see or study any of the scan results or at least ask for opinion? NO

But you did research to know that Nevirapine is to stop mother to child transmission of HIV.

Not that I don't believe you, but you need to she'd more light on some aspects of the story.

if she breastfeed the your first son at all and she was positive at the time she would most likely have infected your son.

Also, if she was already infected at that time, it's somewhat inprobable that the tests would have been non reactive after two years during the pregnancy of your second son.

If it is true that's he has been taking antirotroviral drugs for FIVE YEARS. How come you did not notice inspite of your suspicion? It's either she is a great pretender or you are greatly careless and non observant.

I have not said she is right. I am saying you could have handled things in a better way.

Suggestions

Make sure you get 2 or 3 opinions on your (and your sons') HIV status and be sure you are safe.

Secondly,you need to have a heart to heart discussion with her devoid if anger and emotion on the way forward. You will need medical advice if you decide to stay with her.

If you establish that she she actually decided you into the marriage, it is a ground for divorce mainly because you life and that of your son's are at stake here. That changes the equation of things entirely because of the children involved.

Lastly, there is the option of loving forgiving and loving her through it. As wierd as it might sound,she might have not been open because she was afraid of loosing you.
It doesn't make it right but it's a reason. besides, being HIV positive is not a death sentence.

It's a tough one the Lord can lead you through it if you allow Him

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I liked your summary but,you failed to advice the victim., I suggest he retest his blood once he is HIV negative with his kids. Then he should use protection before sex, if not divorce won't be a bad idea for a manipulative wife. This is a lesson for us all, may the lord grant us the strength to fight our evil desire.

A305:
Some states will go into debt paying that eventually. Northern states takes the highest in allocation, what about states who don't take as much as the northern states?
See my sig

Illiterates every where, why do you love misguiding the public ?. How on earth do Northern state get the highest allocation. Kindly google the facts that Southern States get the highest allocation not North.

Latifat1:
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a quickest way to see the wrath of Buhari

touch any cow

Igbo herdsmen at work, slow down.

dominique:
Kidnapped by the same bandits the Zamfara state governor was taking selfies with. A whole governor going to negotiate with cold bloods criminals! Even if they concede, wouldn't that inspire other people to take to crime since they will eventually negotiate and get government handshake? Northern governors are the worst.

What ?. Google GEJ the clueless president, visit to a militant called Tompolo Government in the creeks, as VP.

MelesZenawi:
Leave Trump.

Where are the ones buhari has been making, ordering People to be detained, arrested and prosecuted on trumped up charges with no base.


POTUS till 2024.


You have a terrorist at home as president, you more concerned with highly diplomatic and advanced nation



Hypocrites everywhere.

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Its cool that Potus "gives no dam" about Nigerian C.A.N of worms and its sheeple. He sees the whole African continent a shithole, spits.
We all know the people that will kill for green card and Potus has stopped giving green card to Sithole citizens including the Christians & ipobians. Keep loving your hater, mumus.

Daviddson:
Shehu Sani should rest already. He's beginning to sound like a broken record! I should be the one to tell you to check Google. He's over criticizing Elrufai, and the criticism is beginning not to make sense anymore.

Had he sponsored a Bill that will compel public office holders to use only public institutions for their wards, Nigeria would had been the Tech valley of the world, however we all have a roll to play individually to make ourselves better and Nigeria a great Nation.
God bless Nigeria.
Its just like Ipobians shouting the hardest during PMB dispensation, will they kept mute during GEJ clueless regime. I believed GEJ would have given them Biafra on a bottle dry gin, instead of these propagation of hatred, lies and nuclearization of the polity. If we could rewind time, I believe the cold blooded murder of Sir Ahmadu& Abubakar would not have happened.

Inter state drugs smuggling is allowed not international, that will give Nigeria a very bad name.

uuzba:
It is this social media that is causing it.
People want others to see them doing nonsense.
Ok if there was no WhatsApp/internet, where would this boy have written all this?
Shey he will look for somebody to tell, and the person would have been there to physically stop him from suiciding himself

You made a point, the love for wealth has clogged our critical thinking mode. Imagine those Millions used to buy private jets by the church would have saved this poor fellow. The true message of Jesus son of Mary, was Love for one another not love of materialism , today churches preachers of materialism.

We truly live in a jungle of a world, where Lions devours Buffalo's for meal.The world denied him, his government denied him, the church that was supposed to give him spiritual guide also denied him.






Let any suicide Contemplator know that, there is no solution, in suicide but grive.

Barryseal:
I hate cyber fraudsters but I have a feeling this guy is doing a legit buisness. He's an Amazon Kindle publisher and Amazon is a very protected site. No way he can set up a phishing site with a backlink to Amazon. He may have been tortured into admitting he set up "payoneer".
The guy will be walking home free if he gets a good lawyer. The illiteracy in our law enforcement rank and file is staggering. Most of them got into police with forged certificates.

Crime will never leave Igbos head, imagine such a solidarity from his tribes men just because you hate Nigeria ?. Well there is no solidarity on judgement day, for the victims will never forgive.

Na dem,

Na dem. These people won't change, not in 2000 years. Hacking na theft.

Imagine Biafra republic will not last 2years of civil wars, with all these nonsense we are seeing.

Threats vs Threats gives you litigation. From the facts above, saint osibanjo is in soup.

hisexcellency34:
There will be trouble if he dies

Like ken saro wiwa, troubles when he was for treasonable felony ?. What a big storm inside a tea cup. We dey laugh oooooooo.
Or do you mean troubles like when Igbo officers killed the Prime minister Sir A.T .Balewa & Sir Ahmadu Bello, who happened to be Hausa/Fulani ?.

saaron:
IPOB is really making International waves this year. It looks like something is about to cook up.
The good thing about buhari's illegitimate regime is that it will lead to the desolution of the fraud Nigeria.
Nigeria was never, is never and will never be a nation with fulani terrorist holding sway.

Imagine people that still practice OSU caste system, want to form a country, I dey laugh oooo.

we pray that ipobian pigs get their Fraud Republic on the conditions that.
1. No ipobian pigs would be allowed residency in Nigeria for the next 100 years.
So that their evils will be washed away from the land. The likes of fake drugs, cocaine pushing, ritualism, prostitution, human trafficking etc , will be a thing of the past, in Nigeria. God bless Nigeria. We know the geese that lays the golden egg is against your domination of their land too, for Asari Dokubo will be rather die a Nigerian than be called an ipobian pig.

solmusdesigns:
Let me guess you mean the greek gift that the last time Ibo tasted it was 36 years ago through Fulani Sheu Shagari, or the greek gift China Obi beged to get from Fulani Atiku

Abeg produce a VP first and we can talk had rather have this talk with an ijaw man atleast they have a former VP and a Former President

Guy you wickets, you wan kill am more than 2 times ?.

The Torjan Horse is very necessary in African politics, you must be very important to receive one, if not na leferendum you will be shouting.

MelesZenawi:
So you want us to support this criminality by Pastor Osibanjo.

May God redeem you.

Osibanjo is undertaking in unfruitful works of darkness.

You mean osibobo sold PMB legacy for 90 Billion Naira, more than the silvers Judas Iscariot took to sell Jesus to the Romans. Christianity is really about buying and selling.

PaChukwudi44:
Ojukwu was not actually senior to Gowon.The next in line to Ironsi was Brigadier Ogundipe.Gowon was third in the hierachy anhd senior to Ojukwu

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Illiteracy & Nepotism will kill ipobians sense of reasoning. Igbos killed Sir Abubakar & Sir Ahmadu Bello, the prime minister & premiere due to greed and you want Hausa military to give Ojukwu mantel of power just because he is an igbo man ?. What type of mumuism is that. History is supposed to be forced on Nigerian students.

MetaPhysical:
This is what our government officials should use to take oath of office. I guarantee you in ten years unemployment and poverty will fade out.

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There is more to it than a lighting strike, the plants must have been poisoned by the 8ters. Lastly why do you need Sango god of lighting to fix Nigeria ?. Where were the gods when the European Christians came with Christ to enslaved the Africans to Sugar plantations in USA ?. Was Sango god of lightning sleeping or was on vacation ?.
God bless Nigeria

decatalyst:
No one is safe from being victim of crime except the ones Jesus saves and keep.


Nigerian security system needs total overhaul!

They can't even protect themselves.

What's the difference between Jesus that the Romans killed and the Navy Commandant ?. For they both could not save themselves in the hour of need talkless of saving others.
God bless Nigeria.

Na dem.

Na dem. What a barbaric set of people, they practice an animalistic culture of male children inheriting their step mother's and every wealth left by the deceased husband is for the male child only. I don't blame her, she trying to save her ass against a drunkard child that will rape her in the name of culture. Spits

OlujobaSamuel:
So there won't have been GSM or internet in Nigeria today if we never had OBJ despite our +/-200m population?

Tell them Scientific growth happens with or without politicians but theft & looting growths happen only with politics.

Richdad50:


Everyone knows the the Police is a very corrupt entity especially in recruitment exercise. There is no level of illiteracy you won't find in constables. A gworo (kolanut) seller who knows nothing about nigeria will fill up vancant spaces all over the country.

The North have long maintained areas of strategic interest in the affairs of governance which helps in projecting their strength and sphere of influence. These areas include Oil&Gas, Security, CBN, Civil Service and Government.

Richdad

Guy man, whats your gain in spreading falsehood ?. What of the ogogoro ( hot gin) drinking southern illiterates, who use fake CV to secure employment at the detriments of other hardworking Nigerians ?
God bless Nigeria.

Aonkuuse:
For 16 years you guys went to UN what can you people present?

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These animals think we don't keep records of their animals leadership then in the country.
They destroyed the foundation for 16 years.

Why ?, the pure hatred in such a small heart ?. If your heart is filled with hate there is no room for love. The above comments shows you a typical ipobians mind, however they forget that the evil that consumed these little kids will be the ones that will consume them too. Nigerian Army is filled with all Nigerian tribes and currently Igbos are the ones in control of NORTH EAST while Hausa control South East. Its the military rotation policy for Maximum security. If today you think na only Muslims kids dey killed 2moro it could be una little kids 2, Oooooooooooooooo.

FamousMonk:
Is she a PDP member?
Thats the only reason she's being arraigned.

What a fool , you are. 9Billion dollars is no childs play, grow up.

noblealuu:
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Shut up there! Are you not aware of ElruFia's presidential ambitions. Do you think our politicians care, he sure has something up his sleeves. Elrufia is anti-christian if you don't know.

While you are anti Muslims !!!. Your mumu never do ?. Still practicing the religion of those aliens that enslaved your ancestors and took your land by guns.

mascot87:
Why is everyone reacting? Have they all turn to chemical reaction? Are they sincere with there reactivity? What action did all these chemical agents reacting now taken ever since this guy was arrested. Abeg, we are not deceived by all this attempt to remain relevant

Hypocrites every where, if truly they believed in his ideas of revolution, they would have been arrested together during the protests for birds of same feathers flocks together. Not after flocking with the government, you are here reacting like water for inside hot oil.

35824L:
I am only interested in the cost that the Supreme Court will award against Atiku. At least 100 million naira will not be a bad start for someone willing to spend his stolen loot. PMB must collect his own share too.

The cost should be 250,000,000.00 above in other to deter future frivolous suits from the likes of Atiku the Cameroonian, in near future. He who has ears let him hear. That Nigeria should be ruled by Nigerians. I expected Atiku to bring the libel suit against Obj if truly he believes in Nigerian justice system, as he claims or na PMB be the beginning of his problems not Obj again as he wants us to believe ?.