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if ur out of love maybe u rushed into it in the first place and u werent really in touch wih ur feelings, dont keep him and urself from finding the true love u both deserve, its not enough to love someone it has to go both ways to work out and he deserves to be loved

i saw this opera show where she brought in some one to give advise to girls on how to make a guy fall for them, and one of the things was to show the guy that u like him cause they r soo pulled back by the fear of rejection , as to me i think that its wise to show that u would not reject him but i think that u should leave the asking for the guys, well if he was dump enough so as not to recognise ur signals and u already know that he likes u, what the heck!!!go for it, we r not getting any younger here

u r so right about body language, ive been into that for sometime and it has kept me out of trouble (and into it sometimes ), people get so impressed with u when u understand them but the most important is that when u know how to use it in the right way u go through life with more confidance,

you really should let go of the past so u could get the future, u will never find the same spark but u can creat a new one, when the time and person ur with r right u will know and u will have ur fire, ur heart was used to beating to one rythem for 6 years, u just need to find a new song not a remix for the old one, and once ur there u'll find that it was worthing looking for

good luck

its so sad that people are first judged by thier appearances, so when u get dressed remember that that is how u present ur self to people and first impressions r hard to erase from ones mind, and what u put out is what u offer, go easy on ur self its not worth it

elphem:
Havanah!!! no be you need girl or guy now,
But MustiZ is a real dulling guy wetin he mean sef

hey there elphem, i'm not quit sure i got what u mean

cute-ass:
Why is there something so familiar about you?

Havanah, do we know each other?

i dont think that we know each other but maybe we will from now on

wow they r so amazing

well things r quit complicated in my family although i'm a middle child i'm still treated as an older one and to tell the truth its no fun at all a lot of responsibility fall on ones shoulders, just yesterday i was telling my younger sister that i wish i was a younger sister forgetting that i alredy am, but still its nice when people come to u for advice even the older ones,

what a nerve recking situation ur in, u need to talk to ur wife, uve been with each other long enough to be able to talk and undertasnd each other, i think uve always admired ur wifes way of thinking since this incedent had put u in loss and caused u a lot of confusion!! talk to here and try understand her point of view, u have been good to her children and taken care of them which was a fine thing of u to do and shows what ur made of but they r and will remain the children of thier natural father it is natural that they come closer to him and know him better maybe that is what ur wife had in mind she is seeking her children best interest and if thats what she wants try and keep an open mind and open eye so every thing will go around u instead of behind u, give her the benifit of doupt before u jump into conclusions,

its not easy where u r, trying to hold on to the thing u know best and got so used to , but if u stay this way thats all u'll get, u should really start thinking about ur self and whats good for u and what u deserve and how u deserve to be treated, u cant throw away ur life, all u do is sink in the jelousy and the suspicion and forget about ur self, u need to sit down with ur self and think about (u) for a while , think about how this thing is keeping u from moving forward and how u should take the failure in one relation ship and convert it into a success in another one, we have but one life and we should (not) waiste it on people who dont deserve to be with, forget about him cause he has moved forward and he is trying hard to push u away, its time for u to move on, let go of the past and use the experience of what u got out of it, dont call him and dont contact him and try as hard as u can not to think of him, and look for something to do , a job a study anything that will get u envolved in and instead of calling him at 6 in the morning(and i'm sure u havent slept the night before it)or instead of thinking deep about ur problem and writting ur message so late in the night(which i know is the hardest part of the day)u should occupy ur self with things to do and u'll find that u have a change of heart after sometime, u dont need him to feel wanted and complete and many thing that u see as a trace of his past love its all his way of toying with u

believe in ur ability and ur strength and keep in mind that u want and deserve the best for u and u will ge it, please forgive me if i was too harsh but the truth is always hard and i wont be doing u any good if i told u that things will be ok, may GOD bless u and bring peace to ur heart and mind

first of all as the others has told u , u should get checked if u really have doupts , being with a girl several times doest mean that u r unable to have children .its a multi factorial thing it could be from u or from her or it might just not be the right time to concieve, i talk from experience cause i am a doctor getting checked is the number one thing for u to do cause if there is a problem u might as well tackel it from the begining with no delay but it might be a psychological thing thats affecting u since u have been thinking about it for sometime,

as for the girl ur with now it is her right to know the trueth after ur sure , relationships are hard enough and hiding things only make things worse, it is her choice to make whether she loves u deeply to want to continue with u no matter what the problem is or if she wants children so badly she is willing to give her love up, putting all things in the light and being open and honest gives hope to ur realtion but hiding it and leting it to the future then no hope will come out of that

i am so sorry for ur loss , it not easy to bear the loss of a beloved one but we r humans and the only thing that starts big and then decrease is sadness , it will decrease with time and be replaced with the joy of seeing ur kid grow and develop under ur love and guidance, may GOD give u hope and strength to carry on,

we all feel when we r in love that thats the only person ment for us but as we go on we develop in our feelings and character and there is not only one soul mate for each one of us but many and u will find another match and live ur life with another loved one and u will carry the love u held for that girl forever, dont let this experience pull u back cause all life is about is taking what wev been through and making use of it for the future, let the loss uve experienced be the trigor for more kindness and compassion and u will get the best out of what u give

GOD bless u and ur child

what happened has aleady happened but u will soon have a child that needs u to think the best for him or her, u have chosen ur way and made ur mistake but u cant have a child pay for it, think whats best for ur coming baby cause he/she is part of u and it might mean that u give up ur dream girl, we all have the freedom to choose our actions but we must take responsibility for the results i am sorry for u cause its hard task but a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do, go see ur childs granddad think how best u can do

go easyon the kid atleast he's got a cute phone number