₦airaland Forum

Mom007:
What will you do for work?

Anyway, go to osun state. Its a very nice place to live, I'm sure you'd love it.

I plan to set up a business.
Osun isn’t a happening place.

Bmaster:
any state where your skull will be intact with the rest of your body before and after your journey here on earth comes to a fulfilling end,now use your head and think cos if you fail to,they will use your head for you

lol

Carcholce:
Why do you want to relocate from Lagos?

500,000 can no longer rent an apartment in Lagos

I have 500,000 naira for rent, which state can I rent a good flat for with N500,000.

You guys should advice me.

Modified
Which of these states can I get a comfortable flat with 500k and is also good for business.
1. Delta (Asaba)
2. Oyo (Ibadan)
3. Kaduna
4. Abia (Aba)

Moyewa00:
I am unable to disvirgin my wife. We just got married this Saturday. She's tight Anytime I want to penetrate her she will feel pain Her vigina looks as if it blocked. On our wedding night I made sure she was in the mood, she was wet I tried to penetrate her it seems her vigina was blocked.

I tried to penetrate my d*ck didn't enter, It was as if there's a wall there.

After trying for 2 or 3 minutes I lost my erection. I tried it from Saturday night, till This Morning the same thing. My wife told me anytime I want to penetrate her she felt as if a big stick want to enter a small hole.

I can't tell my family members so they won't laugh at me. We're In hotel IN IB doing our honeymoon.

Please help I'm getting depressed and feeling less of a man. I don't know what to do.

I just disvirgined a girl I used lubricant, it was tiring and I wouldn’t want to do that again except a girl that I’m ready to marry.

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

I recently kicked out a girl like that in my life, whenever she comes to my house she watch me do the house chores without assisting and she’s selfish.

I just dropped her in her house and I’m never bringing her to my house again.

yarimo:
if you are suffering doesn't mean everyone is suffering, each and everyone has constitutional rights of choice.

Are you serious

I see some people supporting and arguing for Tinubu on this platform everyday even tho we all know that Tinubu is yet to deliver, so I want to know what you guys are benefiting from Tinubu that's making you support his government?

CandidAdmin:
So us wey our papa no get money and power, yet our mama stay, wetin con make us stay?

This generation sef!

Always blaming the other gender.

Social media no dey sat time

As a man bear in mind that your wife / girlfriend are not loyal to you but to your money and power, the day you can no longer protect or provide is the day her true colors begin to show.
You will understand that love for women is conditional, most women only love their children genuinely not husband or boyfriend.
That your wife or girlfriend is with you majorly because of what she can benefit from you and if you lose your status, money or power, you've lost her.

My advice to men is always have bread, make money no finish for your hand.

tonygalaxy:
It also happened to me personally.. my wife was admitted on emergency ward.. A and E ward for an Emergency C-S . We got admitted. I was asked to 1st go to blood bank to donate 2 pints of blood.. it was hectic 😳 getting a donor.. I cried for help and one guy promised to help me get a donor. At 20k per pint.. After donating and getting an acknowledgement receipt.. when the time reached for me get the blood I donated from LUTH. LASUTH BLOOD BANK. IT WAS SERIES OF ONE FIGHT TO ANOTHER..
Lastly thank to God Almighty my wife came out from LUTH alive.. it was a very bad experience and we lost the twins.. to cut everything short...... [color=#990000][/color]
I have even some videos of the recorded arguments I have with them ..

Get a good lawyer, you can talk to higestpromoton.

DARLINGTON869:
Below is the 250 litres tokumbo freezer I was told cost 360k at Odolowu warehouse. The thing shock me no be small. How much go come be new one?

Tinubu's administration is the worst.

Jeon:
Struggling men like him right?.
😂 😂 😂. Which women does that?.

You need to have some sense, for real.

Jeon:
Wii, so this is the reason why you have hates towards women?

He doesn't hate women, he's just looking out for men, so they don't get used.

pansophist:
The country you come from have a far more influence whether your effort will retain and compound over time, or leak off like water in a basket. It also determines if you're starting life with surplus or deficit.

Almost all Nigerians came to life with a deficit account balance. So you'll have to save yourself without systemic support, then save your parents because who else will save them if not you?

Then make sure your own child won't have the burden of saving themselves, you, and finally be able to thrive above all inherited difficulties just by the mere accident of birth, which is to be born in an underdeveloped poor country.

So before you think you are not working hard enough, just know that your effort are meaningless is a failed system. Like a caged Tiger fighting to get out, but all an exercise in futility.

Will God save you at the last moment? I hope so. But a better question is, why did God allow it to happen in the first place?

I understand what you are saying, I just pray God rewards my hardwork, I should reap what I sow.

Since I was young I've been good at one thing and I've worked really hard towards achieving it, i've made a lot of sacrifices, spent a lot of money on it but no breakthrough, I feel bad that at this stage in my life, I'm still struggling and not fulfilled.

I just hope God has a master plan for my life cus I'm tired.

Emmanuel30a2:
Na u be dat, no be me and you...

Radarada oshi