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Emmanuel30a2:
From all your senses or with all your senses..., na you dey talk nonsense? Wetin you dey use all your senses to do? Now, you called yourself havesomesense... Na you wey get sense, dey talk nonsense? No be common sense be dat? You no get sense, na common sense you get...

Oloriburuku leleyi o

MikeMicheal:
Funnily enough, I eat and live better in the so-called hard economy than when things were assumed good.

Honestly, the hardship is favouring me.
Anyone planning to end it will not succeed.

AMEN

You no get sense

I don't know how you all are surviving but I'm tired, everything is so expensive.

Tinubu no try with em policies at all.

edimina:
I would have loved to make an intro of this post based on what people have had to say severally about bringing your wife to abroad, most especially the ones you knew must have been messing up in ways that one cant curb in Nigeria talkless of being abroad. This is a summary of whats going on with me now. So I arranged for us to move with student visa, shes the main applicant and myself and the 3 children are dependent. Its been a year and the half here now, and just 6 months into entering this country, my eye dun see shege from this woman. One thing I can actually hail and praise her for though is her delegence in taking care of the house, cook and all that. But I do my own bit too cos when shes out for work, I cook for the kids, I clean once in a while too and do what I can.

So after graduation, we got a sponsorship work VISA via the care home shes working for, though while she was a student, she was working in a daycare which was filled with white people, she always complained about how she could not cope with the white people’s culture and how she cant contribute their gist, so she was really happy that she had moved to this new place where she had met some Nigerians.

Now this is where the wahala is, she has 3 prominent friends there, 2 males and a female. So I noticed she picks up these dudes at home to work, pick the girl and do the same, then to make it worse, she will go ahead and still go drop them at home, when me dun dey house after work after taking care of the kids make I comot with car, she go come late and all that. Overtime this ish continued, so I told her one day, bae I don’t think it’s a good idea going to pick and drop this people all the time, because for the lady, her husband normally come around to pick her up and drop her off, but since them don see mugu, the guy totally stopped, so it became my madams task to run everytime they are on shift together. When I had this discussion with her, she complained that they are just friends that she may get the same help from later on, I was like am not saying you should not help, but don’t take it upon urself to be doing this all the time. All said and done she never listended to me and the deed continued to an extent that the husband of the lady had only given her money once, and maybe once from one of those guys and na me and am dey combine money to buy fuel. So it got a level where she begin dey carry food from house go give those guys, not all the time but sometimes. So yesterday jollof wey she cook, I was going to microwave in the morning to eat, I found out it was gone, I called to ask where the food was, she boldy told me that she had taken to her two male friends who told her they were hungry, I was now like why would u priortorize outsiders over your family, she sha change am sey sebi they too bring food that she eats blab la bla. And to even say that one of these dude is the one I created this thread about: the level of disrespect is unimaginable. Funny this is, after creating that above thread, a week after serious confrontation she had a feud with the guy and they stopped talking to each other, in which the guy stopped working at the place, but few days ago I got in from work and I saw that she was on call (speaker on) with this same guy, talking freely and giving me a no Give a F attitude, because I thought the only way she could have at least show me that she was remorseful was to cut permanent ties with that guy, but hell no. After her convo with the guy, she came to meet me that she hope that am not angry about her calling and talking to the guy, I was like its none of my biz, that I had important things to think about, in which it was indirect statement that I thought she would understand, omo from that day like this them dun start their friendship again,, to an extent I felt disrespected, disregarded and I started feeling theres more to what I have been thinking before. That aside, the other guy too, I noticed that one talks to her anyhow, though in a playful way. One day she came back from work and started complaining that the people that shes helping that they aren’t appreciating her, the started with the lady, that her husband does not even care again, only sent her money for fuel once, but the one that is hurting her most if the fact that this other dude that talks to her anyhow tried to implicate her at work, saying that he started yelling at her at the dinning where the old people are, that why haven’t u fed this woman, don’t u have grandma in the house, that he went as far as reporting her to one of the oldies that didn’t gave dementia that could have easily reported her to her manager which can out her work in jeopardy. I was like so have u served his sanction of not dropping and picking him again? She was like no oo, this happened last week, that shes still dropping him, I was like wow! She was like the reason is because the guy had come to prostrate to beg her, I was like how old is this dude, she said 26, and shes 36, omo I was in awe. Before any starts saying am not man enough, am a simp or weak, omo this country na were oo, he dey change SOME women. On a final note I have given her a mandate that she should stop picking or dropping anybody off at their respective homes, infact she should tell them that its my husband that said so. Story continues on the other new thread

If you think they are knacking your wife, you are right.

Herbiodun09:
Says one faceless idiot on nairaland

Are you not faceless too? Oloriburuku

olawonder:
I still support Tinubu… life’s going really great for me!

You go think say you Dey enjoy till Nigeria happens to you. No worry e go still touch you.

Alexis11:
Same with anyone still supporting Obi and wishing a fraud like him on Nigeria.

Olodo, Obi already lost, it’s time to hold your president accountable. Unless you will be unfortunate.

thesicilian:
Your mother may be one of them

No wahala

Herbiodun09:
We go dey here till u commit suicide

Lol, I’m living better than your parents, don’t play.

motif8:
Do we really need to get to this level? U can't force people to support ur view. Must everything be violent? Mind u I don't support Tinubu and I will never support him, but not cursing those supporting him

Anybody supporting tinubu till now don’t mean well for us, and they deserve to die miserably.

smokinloud:
Na Tinubu be the curse of your family?!.
Na him talk say make you no plan your life well?!.
Forget politicians and face your life. The energy you use on cursing politicians if used to seek God and plan your life you'll never be bitter.
God bless Tinubu
God bless Nigeria
May Nigeria prosper

You will die miserably, continue defending Tinubu.
Truth be told things are hard for average Nigerians.

Meanwhile, keep hiding your master plan on this platform so that your foolis.h Ebin pawa o! co-supporters will continue to starve.

As for me, I can manage my resources . I just Dey pity people wey no get.

Alexis11:
Same with anyone still supporting Obi and wishing a fraud like him on Nigeria.

I don’t give a Fvck if Obi is president but I give a fvck that the economy is going down drastically and it’s because tinubu is doing a terrible job.

Anybody wey still dey support Tinubu government, will die a miserable death

Enemyofpeace:
yes now

You don’t have common sens.e, did they beg you to give birth to them? You should be ashamed of yourself, you are a dis.grace to motherhood.

Had it been that I know you, I would have given you a dirty s.lap

Biglittlelois:
Still waiting for the list of benefits you want to get from women you help since sèx is not part of it.

1. Connection
2. Money
3. Professional service

Afrobasic:
100 percent agree with you.

I stopped helping women a long time ago. I just give them "eyahh" or "Pele dear" and move on with my life.

Helping women is really a waste of time and resources.

I don start to Dey reply dem with “eyahh” or “pele dear”

EreluRoz:
You will get tired and na you go go help for wetin no concern you

You are right

Men should start emulating women, women don’t help men at all if it is not beneficial to them,
So this year I’m not going to help any girl if it’s not beneficial to me.
I’m not counting sex as benefit, men be wise in 2024.

tiswell:
your tears are salty and sweet🧁.


This is only the beginning

Dey play

tiswell:
Complaints like this are not necessary from a soja.


U knew fro day 1 what you were getting into.




So rest fa!

You are very very stupiid and brainlesss.
When he entered the military, he’s salary could take him to and fro before subsidy removal.

Aleem26:
In heaven right?

May be in Ghana

matify83:
670/L in Makurdi, Benue state.

Quite costly

Omihanifa:
Here in mallam fatori (borno state) we are buying a liter for 880 while diesel sells for 1200

Is it black market or filling station?

I saw a thread where someone said fuel is 650 naira and 660 per liter.

In Lagos fueling stations sell for 599 naira per liter.

Everybody na Ashawo

Marry a woman that you can forgive if she cheats on you but don’t marry a poor woman.

funkmrflexx:
My marriage is 2 years old now , me and my wife didn’t date very long before we got married (like 3 months) this was because I’m a man who believes in having my family early and there’s nothing more important to me than my family.

My wife is heavily pregnant and almost ready to put to bed anytime soon. The issue now is that my wife has become very controlling, I saw these signs early in our marriage but Ignored them because I want our marriage to work, The biggest turn off for me is a controlling woman .

My wife comes from a broken home , the father left she was was little , I don’t really know why the dad left her mom and till date the reason why her dad left is a very flimsy excuse ( said the mom was buying properties without his consent ) , so right now the children hate the father. I have advised my wife severally to reach out to the father and ask what really happened that made him leave his family because I feel there’s something else to it , but she refused because the mom has taken the children to her side .

Now in our own marriage she wants to be in control, she doesn’t want me to go out , even when I tell her where I’m going she isn’t satisfied.

So recently I started going out on Sundays because throughout the week I’m usually at home and these days I’m usually stressed out , so I like to go out and relax on my own .
there's a spot I usually go to watch football matches every Sunday, I told her I was going yesterday to watch match and she told me I’ve turned it into an habit to be going out everyday , I asked her can’t I go out ? And her reply was “ What’s the wrong with you ? Why would you answer me like that” I became angry and told her that anytime I want to leave the house she always has a problem with it even before she became pregnant. Most times she always wants to go with me. We have quarreled severally about it , she don’t want me to go out , she wants me to be home on time , she always call me to know where I am or what I’m doing even when I’m in a business meeting. She recently told me she regrets marrying me and I still try to wonder what I did for her to say that. She said I come home reeking of alcohol every time I go out , calling me a drunkard . When I go out I only drink pepper soup and 1 black bullet. People outside who hear her will think I usually come home staggering drunk


And another attitude of hers is that she’s ready to leave the marriage at anytime, she doesn’t care
Any little things she will say “ I will just leave this marriage “. When me as a man I don’t even see leaving the marriage as an option.

She want to control my every move , when I want to do something and I tell her about it , she wants me to do it her own way and I’ve told her severally that it won’t be possible for me to do everything she says .
She also believes we are both equal and anything I do she also can do. Mind you I haven’t had sex with another woman in 2 years so it’s not a case of cheating.

I don’t know if it’s the family she grew up in where a woman is the head and now she wants to bring it into our marriage and also treat me like her elder brother who they even dictate the kind of girl he follows .


So I’m just trying to make things work out for the sake of our marriage and our baby but if she doesn’t change then I’m done.

I don’t know if I should speak to her mom about it or just lock up

Weak man

iLegendd:
Become an author or a content creator and you'll love being around them. You'll use some of their speeches to enrich yourself. These people have great stories to tell — they just want a good listening ear.

It's better to be a talkative who can mount any stage and give a flawless speech with ease than an introvert who is scared to speak in front of a crowd.

Silence is golden, but in this digital age, it's not totally true. Being a talkative is now a skill that will enrich you for life, but don't expose secrets that'll consume you or get involved in some dangerous topics. If you must, speak with wisdom.

So, become an author or a content creator to benefit from the talkative around you.

Alright 👍

How do you handle talkatives?