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Inked_Nerd:

Should be allowed? Gee, I was unaware of the fact that we weren't "allowed" to chase men. When did this happen?

Stop picking on my poor english.

Lemme try again.

So are you going to try to reply to my previous post and try to convince me why you feel women should 'chase' men they may have feelings for?

maedan:
Hell to the no ! Was trying to help a brother/sister out, but I guess y'all know it all already. So I'll leave you to it . I'm officially washing my hands off your matter, Pontius style !!!

eeeya. lol

we don't need much help anyways. our love will sustain us.

From your post, you say you don't want her back, and she was also trying to collect your money, and yet you're still sad she's gone?

Woman full ground for 9ja jor. It'll hurt for a while. Then you'll find someone else to occupy your time.

Inked_Nerd:

Sorry, I misread what you wrote in the lest comment. I thought you were saying you could change my mind. No, I'm not sensitive I just misread it that's it that's all .

So are you going to try to reply to my previous post and try to convince me why females should be allowed to 'chase'?

eldee:
Punchlines: 'You want drama?? I'm an actor' . . . Multies: 'Your father, okada'

You know, unless you're '94 Nas, you're GOING to have filler in your songs. You can't spit 50 bars and every one would be sick.

Even Biggie said 'Got more dough than a bakery'
'High as a motherfu-cking helicopter'.

Come on. It helps the rhyme scheme, and it fits into the flow perfectly, why not use it?

You won't be done by the end of this week if you're going to write 30 perfect bars AND make them flow. Unless you're some sort of lyrical genius.

Even J. Cole said 'When they were thinking of summertime, I was thinking of winter'.

If Rhymestein spat that one, he for hear am o. Free the guy jor.

I'm not trying to change your mind. That's why I bothered to argue in the first place. I don't know what goes on in the female mind, I just wanted a little insight on the matter by playing the devil's advocate, looks like you're sensitive about this kinda stuff.

I'm sorry for whatever I said.

Come on, be nice. I read your posts here and there, and I usually agree with you, I just never bother to post.

Let's be friends. 

So what do you think is rubbish about it? That's why we're here naw. I could change my opinion. You never know. And seriously, you can't disagree with the WHOLE post? I think it's not right for a woman to 'chase' not because I wouldn't like being chased by a woman, but because she's putting herself in a position where she could be used, or taken advantage of. Surely you don't disagree with that?

eldee:
I asked for two weeks, Ofoka decided his own countdown was four days, I'm still bound my own deadline.
I'm trying not to post here till I drop sumn, I owe y'all that at least.

yes boss. take your time jor. no pressure.

we're expecting something wonderful o. or else you go hear am from 04ka and co o. lol

chiogo:
so sexy!! 

Double hmph.

SMH! I gotta spell out everything.
Comfortable zone = away from prying eyes. Like T-pain said, if you don't get it by now, you just ain't getting it. 

Yes you do. You still love me right?

Alright. YOU pick the comfortable zone while I go and shack Alomo. 

maedan:
Lover's tiff already? Geez, you guys can't even get the e-love right, what're your chances with the real thing ??

We was cool, until YOU showed up! It's all your fault!

Lol, I could teach you, but I'll have to charge (humming Kelis' "My milkshake brings all the. . ." OK, kidding!!!!!!!

*is interested* 

You know I would only consider the training so I would be a better lover, baby boo. . .

Lol. Like I said before, get a freaking room!!!

Jealous?

Ibime:
Bamsyle was a dead man the moment I heard his first two bars.

This is fun.

I don't encourage this much bragging, but after listening to your Exhibit D, I'll give you a pass.

Damn, I'm beginning to sound like a di-ckrider. *will stop*

Bamsyle.:
Thanks Hax . . . you represent realness here too . . . ^{gosh, I forgot to holler at so many peops}!

No wahala naw. Thanks. You're good.

This is the best thing to come out of that useless Eldee v Rhymestein battle. lol

Good music!

nice one, Bamsyle. VERY impressive.

Ibime, abeg, I need to hear some sick multis! NOW!

After peeping your plunder link . . .

Respect+
Respect+
Respect+
Respect+
Respect+

Do something like 50 bars and Bamsyle is a dead man. I believe in you.

Inked_Nerd:

Ok, so how is that any different when multiple girls show interest in a good looking guy? Then what?!?!  What you just pointed out was that it is ok for men to go around chattin' up chicks but if a girl does it then its makes her look easy? Care to explain the difference to me since your so convinced that there is a difference?

Multiple girls don't just 'show interest in good looking guys'. That's just not the way society works. A fine boy can chill in a club and sit down alone from 12:00 to 5:00 and no woman will go and meet him. But a fine girl? Alone in the club? Why do you think they move in flocks?
Multiple chicks don't just go and 'show interest in' good looking guys. Guys naturally do most of the chasing. You rarely see fine girls chasing boys about. A girl chasing a man she likes is risky. If the guy doesn't like her, and he senses that she likes him, rather than say 'I think she should just be friends', he is most likely going to try to get into her skirt. And how else do you do that but to tell a woman who likes you that you love her too?

I say don't show interest, be yourself, try to befriend him, and if he likes you, he'll go for you. Or if you're very close and you think he likes you THEN you can try 'chasing' him.

There are different ways to go about it. You can signal your interest in more subtle ways.

You don't tell a guy you like him so he'll then start liking you back. You tell him you like him because you hope he feels the same way about you. If he did, chances are, he'd have spoken to you about it. Telling a guy that you like him puts him in a position to take advantage of you.

All this is MY OPINION. If a nice girl 'chased' me, I would probably wouldn't have time to argue on NL.

chiogo:
Aww, he's mad. I likey!!

Hmph.

Actually, I am. But then you wouldn't know since you never created the comfortable zone to find out. I'm a private person, y'know.

How do you know I don't need a 'comfortable zone' too? And define 'comfortable zone'. lol

how dare you??!!

you aren't even all that yourself.

Wait!

I'm horrible at what, and you're giving up on what?

Inked_Nerd:
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Must you say such a thing? No one is to blame. She didn't "turn" him gay. That's a very rude thing to say

I guess I just don't believe the story. I'm usually nice.

But imo, it's so obvious. If he's making out with his 'best friend', with whom he would have been 'friends' with for a while, then it's time to walk out. If it was a random stranger, it would make more sense, at least, not his 'best friend'. Who knows how long they've been at it? It's too late to go straight. If he was trying to tackle it, she'd have heard of it by now, and not found out by catching him doing it with some other man. That's just what I think though.

chiogo:
No, you are.

How dare you abandon me?

So YOU'RE gay too?

I didn't abandon you naw? Don't mind my internet jor.

I'm chillin. . . like Wale. lol

Were you that bad that he ran to the other side?

chiogo:
Mhmm. 

*takes you to maedan's room*
*makes sure she's not inside*
*gives you some lovin'*

So much for trusting you.

SERIOUSLY?
She was trying to help us, and we were rude to her. I wasn't going to do anything fishy with her, b. Honestly!

Inked_Nerd:

Well if that is the case then does the same not apply to men? How is it any different?

You're right. If I like a girl and she 'pursues' me, of course I'm not going to say no. The thing is, if I see a girl as too easy to toast, I'm not likely to 'pursue' any further. Because boys are not smiling now, they have red eyes, especially if she's fine, someone else will definitely try toasting her. What if she responds?

chiogo:
LMAO! Yea right, like you wouldn't bag her if I wasn't here. Ugh. Dunno what to do with you.

No, I wouldn't have. You need to start trusting me.
I'm always a good boy, even when you're not around.

Don't flatter yourself. Never got any loving 

Soooo, do you want some lovin'?

maedan:
Hmmpff!! And to think I was only trying to help . This is the thanks I get!

My lady was vexing naw. I'll find a way to show you my gratitude and make it up to you later.

yeah, listen to mah boo. see your mouth like join. mchew.

now now now, stop saying that. you know you missed my lovin'.

chiogo:
Give us one. 

And join us there.

As long as they don't pursue me with weapon or jazz, no wahala naw. lol

But I get this little niggly feeling. That they're 'easy'. If she can 'chase' me, she can 'chase' someone else. imo, a girl like that would be easier for another guy to come and toast and carry from your hand, or she might just wake up and 'chase' someone else. lol

I might be wrong, I'm not against it, but I would definitely have my reservations.

as in. boogie down!

you're adults. iron your sh-it out. is she waiting for marriage? bad experience with an ex?

there has to be a reason a non-virgin is denying you sex.

maybe she isn't sure she likes you enough? born again virgin?

you should be asking her, not the merry folks on NL.

now why is a guy proposing to a woman he isn't COMPLETELY sure would want to marry him?

i can't propose until she pesters me and i know exactly what she wants o.

Mobinga:
still better than eminem's relapse

i have a love-hate relationship with eminem's music.

i'm feeling peaceful today, so i'll just say 'no comment' to that.

[size=5pt]and recovery too! lol[/size]

yup. he would definitely melt. lol

for a while i was sure jagz was better, after hearing blaze and overkillin', but i'm not so sure after listening to that his disaster album.

happy b'day o, 04ka.

many happy returns o. i know you have plenty money to spend on yourself after scamming those girls to join your 'rap school' and teaching them nonsense. lol

oya eldee, drop the track with some confirm yabs for rhymestein and 04ka as baiday gift jor.