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There should be things you cannot sing about, post about and promote on the media.

That Tiktok of an app should be regulated or completely banned.

The nose dive sanity has taken in the 3 years is crazy.
While I do not condone Lesbianism, gayism, and transgender, I'm not anti- any of these things either. You can practice your stuff without advertising it.

However, what I'm anti is you trying to shove what, in any other age of human, would have been regarded as a sexual disorder right down our throats.

The rate at which lesbian and other homosexual threads are created in the romance section is alarming. It looks like some LGBTq+ group decided to infiltrate this space with tens and hundred of monikers with one sole purpose - Spreading Lesbianism.

Some of you will be like "Leave 'em, live and let live"

Well, in the space of 2 years, expect the push for incest, bestiality and paedophiles.

Thread likes "I just broke up with my dog, I found love with my cat"

Live and let live

"I am getting married to my sister"

Live and let live

"My 3 years old daughter is in love with me, and I just deflowered her"

Live and let live.

There will always be perversion, but let it remain under the carpet.

As the rules of Nairaland hasn't been changed, I wonder what the likes of Seun, Lalasticlala, Dominique and Mynd are doing.

She should use the police on the guys that humiliated her.

How does strippin' someone naked correlates or serve as a good punishment for theft.

EkelediliBuhari:
In Nigeria, the average women will rather sleep in the grave and conceive the child of satan then to adopt the child of another woman.
We do not value lives on the normal and i believe its just our religious "self righteousness" that is leading us on insisting that an unwanted pregnancy must be kept.

You can't just say you want to kill a life because it is dependent on someone's body for a while.

Your hypocrisy was evident when you tried saying abortion within the first trimester should be allowed.

Why not the second? Why not third?

A sperm is wasted when ejaculated into a condom. Eggs are menstruated monthly. When they meat and form a foetus that's not a baby until a brain is fully formed after the first trimester. We must learn to look beyond our noses and see the true picture of thing

The foetus ticks every criteria that makes a living, a living.

But erm... If the woman is not feeling like, if the man does not want to, we can just kill the baby. He has no feelings yet, we haven't been emotionally attached to the youngling yet, so it's fine.

This nose dive of sanity is really crazy.

You don't want a baby? Don't Bleep around! All sex is for making babies. Pleasure yourself with a Love Machine, a vibrator, a bleep machine, they do better job than a man.

But no, harder... harder.... harder... c*m inside me. Give it to me, pour inside me.

Then a baby forms from the marathon and you say you're not ready, so the govt. should just allow you kill him/her.

If you love that much, use a condom.
Y'all talk as though a baby falls straight from the sky and someone who ain't ready just happen to be right on the spot the baby fell on.

Your action created life, be responsible.

EkelediliBuhari:
If i was aborted maybe i would have been happier than being born into this shithole.

If this shithole is not worth it, make yourself happier by leaving the world.
Of course, you won't take that option, because the shithole is better.

Imagine the many almhajiris on the streets of every junction. what do you expect them to grow into?? pastors??

10 years from now is really going to be interesting.

No need sugar-coating, abortion is murder.
A measure like murder should only be allowed in rare instances, say;

- Rape turn pregnancy of an underage due to the risk involved

- Where it is medically proven that the woman will lose her life.

Other complicated issues should given a chance for adoption by orphanage homes.

But for those who think they should be allowed to bleep and abort if it ever becomes a baby, nahhh... Lie on the bed you laid.

bigpriik:
The universe is very complex and no man can fully explain how it works only the creator can, even the greatest scientists failed in trying to understand it the universe will forever be a mystery ,one of the greatest questions that is yet to be answered is how the minds of women work .although some pick up artiste have really helped but they are still far from the answer .

Iam a good example of a guy who has read many books on pickup artistry because oc my curious nature as a result i totally diasgree with " the of no greenlight no approach" for three obvious reasons.

1)women are very mysterious ,a girl might show you all the greenlight in the world and sometimes even go as far as making sexual advances on you and yet she will still reject you when you make your own move on her,if you are a guy that has made sexual advances on women you will notice this behaviour what does ubunja has to say about this?

I don't know why i cringe a lot at hearing this "women are very mysterious creature" thingy, I have more headache with trying to understand man.

To your first point, there are usually 2 reasons this happen. (1) She's a player. Yea, women can be players too, but while a man is a player because he plays with women's bodies, a woman is a player because she plays with a man's feelings. (2). That shit is a test. When shit testing happens, you know what she wants, right?

2)If you practise the bang rule by charles nneji you will notice that a most women you approach will fall in love with you ,they will respect you,adore and be obssesed with you am talking from experience though i stopped practising the rules because i now have a girl i want to marry ,so i want to be real as possible.

If i can make any woman feel happy and turn her on, there's no limit to the numbers of girls I can get to bed even without money.
Hot approach is, you doing nothing, because your simple existence turns her on and makes are feel happy already.
For guys who just want to get laid to a clean and decent girls, for guys who aren't cut for sleepin' with different women, what do you think? Hot approach or the long walk of learning how to charm?
If i just want a girlfriend or want a wife, learning pickup styles and reading bang rule would amount a waste of time.

3)Women are very secretive in nature the ones who love you might hide it away from you and the only way to increase you chances of meeting the real ones is to approach regularly at least sometimes i see it as cowardice when you see a lady you love and you are afraid to approach her .

Ubunja should expansiate more on that topic

Cheers bigpriik.

Hot approach is you being relieved of the unnecessary stress you shouldn't have to face in the first place. If she loves me but can't show it, she should nurse her love till it wanes. Many guys had girls they loved but didn't show it, it didn't remove a strand of hair from her nostrils.

When there are others showing it despite how vulnerable it makes them, why should i give special attention to the coward of love?

Finally, living is as worthwhile as much as it is as worthless if there is no afterlife.
While worthwhile, life should be lived to the highest intensity of how you want to live it (Though, even this is vanity)

Also, evil is as worth much as good. Dare I say, it is worth much more than good.
Evil and good are twin you cannot separate, for we cannot say for certain what evil is and what good is.

infini771:
When you ask Jesus, sincerely, to be your Lord and savior, then you have given the holy spirit permission to come and live inside of you . That's how to be born and that's the best way to live

If you were born 300AD in Mongolia, would you have died a Christian?

What is good?

What is evil?

What is right?

What is wrong?

If an entity like God does not exist, then there is nothing like morals. There is nothing like laws and certainly nothing like karma.

If there is no law, if there is no divide, then nothing is right, and nothing is wrong.

No difference between killing a baby or feeding a baby. No difference between the one who spares life and the one who gives life.

No difference between the corrupt politician and a pure politician.

For what is wrong to you is right to me, and what is right to me is wrong to you.

Without a deity like God and without an after life, existence is chaos and living is only worth living while living.

immortalcrown:
I am yet to see the part you claim might cause madness.

It's a long post of philosophical rants by someone who finally realized Solomon's woes as he penned down Ecclesiastes.

For those who over thinks it, it messes up one's mind just as it messed Solomon himself up.

From how far humans have come, people realized that the best life to live (since nothing is worth it) will be living only for yourself. If you want your neighbor's dress, beat him and get it. If you want his ass, bend him over and have it. Why? Well, you wouldn't lose anything if you didn't do it, so why not just get on with satisfying all that your being and existence desires?
But this is chaos and chaos is vanity.

People resorted to forming similar culture that warps a man to live his life within the confines, and this has helped humanity grow.

This is orderliness, but even orderliness is vanity.

For a man lose nothing if he causes chaos and satisfies himself, neither does he gain anything if he supresses his satisfaction for orderliness.

So, there's no difference after all, from ancient times, whether by chaos or by orderliness, humans should have lived their lives how they wanted.

For there is no right way to live.

Follow the govt and you won't live with the intensity you want till death takes you.
Follow your desires and you may not live long, but what difference is it? If you live 33 years satisfying yourself or if you live 69 years satisfying the society?

Life is worthless, and all is vanity.

Caveat: The critical-thinking that might erupt from reading this post may run you mad. Thread carefully.

Over the years, I've gone more philosophical and attended to matters without emotions.

I have gotten upset with the rise of immature teenagers getting ill-gotten wealth because of how much it was affecting the society I live in .

I have gotten upset over how girls have gone crazily materialistic, attention-seekers, sexually pervert and crazily immoral as a result of funds from the immature teens above.

I cringe a lot at gayism, lesbianism and all the sexual craze raging widely in the west. I tackle anyone and argue vehemently that were sick and abnormal.

But then, I asked my self - why so much annoyance? Why am I vexed at all this? Is it because of my Christian affiliation? Am I sticking to morals?

That made me pondered and wonder - how should a man live? What ought a man to do with the little time he has in this passing world?

My first answer was: A man ought to live by the principles of God so he can gain eternal life.

But then I asked, if there was no eternal life to be gained, if there was no life after death, if all we become are stories and archives in history after our last breath, is living by some principles really worth it?

Now, my answer changed: If there was no eternal life, I think I would have lived for myself, not for God, not for the society but myself.

For in that scope, all we are and all we do is vanity, vanity upon vanity (Just as Solomon realized later in life).

If you do good, it's all vanity because your goodness will have no benefit for you when you leave the world.

If you do evil, it's still all vanity because your evil has no benefit or disservice after you leave the world.

What gives me joy is having sex with multiple women everyday, then in the reality of no after life, I think will get an harem and satisfy my sexual lust all I want.

If what gives me happy is making people scream for mercy while I cut through the flesh on their neck with my sharp knife, then I think I will be a serial killer.

If what gives me joy is sleeping with animals and same gender, I would have doggy-styled an ape, spooned a fellow gee and cow girl-ed a goat.

Because it won't matter in the end, you will die and I will die. But in the last moment of my death, i will relish living a fulfilled life of enjoy people's scream while I slaughtered them mercilessly.

Being Evil has no reward. All its reward is vanity.

Being good has no reward. All its reward is vanity.

So, if there really is no afterlife, regardless of if the society likes how I roll or not, the right way to live will be to "live life how I want to" , not how the society or how God wants.


This, is the real bliss to everyone (from an individual point of view) but a CHAOS to the world (from a general view point).

Prettygirl200:
Am very scared of doggy its always paining just once I tried it I almost died. Honestly doggy is not for me.

The dick is not supposed to go into the ass in a typical doggy style.

Throwin' morality outta the window, I'll say Yahoo helped curb robbery and savage cultist clashes. Now, all 'em "rugged" are busy making money through cybercrime and flexin' on Tiktok, no one is interested in robbin' with gun or fighting for some cult.

On the dark side of the note, fetish acts are being normalized. Back then, if anyone heard you were into anything fetish, everyone would distance themselves from you. Now, visiting Baba's houses to get potent charm soap is like buying Dettol cool from aboki - it's been normalized.

In 2030, this will be the norm

Chase: I been wan use my mama before but I dey pity the woman.

OG wire: Mtcheeeew... Use your gf then. Then the next one, mama go don enjoy enough, you fit use her renew.

Chase: True boss, e be like say na my gf I go use.

[30 days later...]
Chase's gf: (Thin as a broom due to ritual effect will post on Tiktok) "Gave my boyfriend my glory, and he's making the mulla for us. Love you boo, till death do us apart.

Some sane ones will kick against her post, but other girls will back her saying "It's her choice, stop shaming her. Live and let live".

HARDDON:
Glass up.

How do we get out of these?

Now, I try as much as possible to avoid social apps

The rod was spared, so the children became spoilt beyond recognition.

A solution, you ask?

Salvation has been preached for donkey years, but atheism, like the new handsome school kid, is the people's choice - it is synonymous to freedom.

Thus, talking about it will do nothing, people are moved by results, not hidden wisdom.

Kim K did it and till this this hour, she's a wealthy woman with some big influence.
If revealing their body will help 'em live the luxurious life they want to live, then it's worth the price.

Only an iron hand can change the trajectory of morality. Perhaps, we should cry for God of the old testament, but we might not be able to bear the scorching heat that will definitely burn our dirty linen.

Sizing down to a country like Nigeria, only a morally obsessed dictator can bring us back to those days you speak.

If there is something I'm much interested in, it is how much the islam religion and influence can withstand this move in 30 years to come.

Will they later bend to the force of the immoral wind?

Why ain't this on front page yet?

Ladymissile:
it is obvious toe that you are so myopic, ignorant, uncurrent, backward, archaic and sick in the brain

Carry your useless sexual orientation to a lesbian then you will experience hellfire they wouldn't mind roasting you alive and feasting on your already burnt body

Haaaa, shit, I've bleeped up.
Thought I was talkin' to someone that could hold her own in a convo.

You will never be replied again.

Ladymissile:
A long time ago africans were bush afarensis
Africans were ape roaming and jumping like monkeys from one tree to another harvesting leaves to cover their unclothedness some even roam like gibbons without clothes worshipping idols, killing twins and practicing homosexuality and cannibalism

The above is enough reason to believe you escaped a rehab home.

Ladymissile:
you are Mentally unstable
it seems you are not in nigeria

You are not current at all
Go to clubs in the east and south come and see lesbians frolicking and kissing each other passionately

Like I say you are too backward

Do you have comprehension problem?
"As long as you don't advertise your sexual disorder, many of 'em are cool".

Ladymissile:
you are a Compound fool
we have lesbians moving around in nigeria doing their sexual escapades with their fellow lesbians

U are fabricating rubbish tell me when you have seen a lesbian Lynched as a result of her sexuality

U are just so ignorant and myopic

Rest. I said they keepin' a low profile.
We are cool here, as long as you don't advertise the sexual disorder.

Ladymissile:
Go and harass lesbian??!
You will regret ever being born, nobody go tell you say that one mans meat is another man's poison

She can be harassed and killed and the only recompense will be one trending hashtag on Twitter and one frontpage topic on NL.

By the time they roughhandle you, you will be cautious of your lane and boundary
You will scrutinize thoroughly b4 u toast

Most of them wouldn't mind sending you to hell

Rest. All these are vain talks in most part of Africa.

By the way africans have no culture, your culture has been taken away by the white man and burnt to ashes
B4 the invasion of the white, africans have been practicing homosexualism you fool

Rest. Even a long long time before colonization, homosexuality is alien to most of Africa. Stop with the lies.

Ladymissile:
you are mentally unstable

You are typing this trash because you have not seen a toxic and ferocious lesbian

Carry your stupid sexual orientation near them you no go see road go your house

"Toxic" "ferocious", well not one "toxic and ferocious" lesbian exist in Nigeria. if she does, she's keepin' a low profile.

In many states in Nigeria, being a lesbian is enough reason to be burnt alive.

Datboredberri:
It's offensive... The op has every right to be mad...

Respect other people's sexuality...

The only sexual orientation we recognize and understand is Man to woman.
With any other sexuality, there's nothing to respect.
She could be harassed and no one would blink. You don't demand respect from a culture that has no tolerance for sexual abnormalities.

slitty:
Schoolboy who plays with schoolgirl during wrong period get caught red-handed

Virginity like bubble; One prick - all gone!

It is good for boy to meet girl in park, but better for boy to park meat in girl

Baseball is wrong. Man with four balls cannot walk

War does not determine who's right. War determine who's left.

Not many will understand.

deukpai:
Campaign hasn't start yet or you want them party to be penalize?

I get. It's a call to action from the look of things, not an instruction.

PoliteActivist:
They didn't crown Atiku by 1 to 20 margin. This is different

I repeat, those who win elections are not on the media.
The force is not "forcing" enough as of now, if things remain as they are, Peter Obi will lose woefully.
In the kitchen, I look at all the ingredients and savor (in my hungry mind) the tasty jollof rice that could be made from it, but i went back to my living room with just a bottle of water.

aribisala0:
There is nothing like THE NORTH
Kwara Kogi Benue Plateau, Taraba and Nassarawa are very different from Bauchi or Zamfara

Are these all the states?
There sure is something like THE NORTH.

God knows if these OBAs and Emirs don't metamorphose to being a useful force, i will retire every OBAs during my tenure.

PoliteActivist:
@bolded, I doubt this ubiquitous quote applies in Obi's case because the margins are so huge. I sense a real movement. See below, someone said he's delusional to think he'd win. I posted the below, Obi vs. the other two combined. See the result. Thus is consistently the type of result you get with Obi

Nigerians are actually very lucky to actually have this type of person survive to the level of running for president! Normally such a person will never go into politics (as he has said himself) or they would have been run out of politics long ago by the devious godfathers. The type who swore to destroy him for not letting them loot Anambra's money

Those who win elections are not on the media.
If you want to win, take those in the media to preach the Obi's gospel to the streets. Twitter poll crowned Atiku the president in 2019, Buhari is the one leaving office by 2023.

For either of Tinubu or Obi to win, the northern votes has to be weakened in the form of two VPs from APC and LP and 1 (maybe two) other presidential candidate from the north.
As it stands now, south west is for Tinubu, south east is for Peter Obi, and the north in all its number is for Atiku.

Indifferent12:
So u think the market women and commoner will vote for Atiku and tinubu over obi.

Everyone has the language they speak. You cannot inspire the youths the same way you will inspire the market women or the blue collar class.
In the absence of sensitization, market women will vote for who they know, not who the best for the job is.

I knew we were doomed when the so-called "lifeless" Buhari had to help the Apc presidential flagbearer raise up the flag. In other words, Buhari had to help "incoming president" Tinubu raise up a light weight flag.

These LP lack experience of presidential election campaign. The only hope you have is the unison of the southern youths, and you still haven't rounded the most of your hopes. Instead of back to back youth movements and demonstration on the streets so the youths can convince the market women and the commoners, they sit behind their keypads makin' tweets.

Last i checked, there are no pollin' units on twitter.