₦airaland Forum

lol
Grammar problem.

Nice pictures.
Perhaps the African Frist Ladies are having a rest after their exercise.

Nice jokes.

Nice insight!
More food for thought than joke but nice all the same.

Ideally married people should spend less time on Nairaland as they have things to occupy their time after work - domestic and marital matters. Except they are addicted to Nairaland, live in different locations from their partners or find eachother's company boring.
I think married people get so busy and the luxury of having a companion most times when at home but at work everyone gets bored or needs to unwind and Nairaland helps.

@Cultured
Having a child just to have a feel of accomplishment is totally wrong. You should also consider the child's needs, financial support isn't all that a child needs to have a good upbringing. H
aving a child involves a lot of sacrifice and I don't think you are ready to make such sacrifices now.
I would advise you to wait till you are ready, having/raising a child is a demanding venture; a child is not an acquisition to be purchased and dumped somewhere on the shelf but its another life that depends on BOTH parents for some basic needs.
Kindly have a rethink.

Stick to your option B.
BTW why do you want a child so badly? Why can't you wait till your have the time which is in 4 years? Why the rush?