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It made sense or we won't have what to reply to. She may have exaggerated but I am sure some people are passing through similar situations; not extreme as in missing out NYSC.

You will get married and be happy too if you find/marry the suitable woman. Some women can take care of the home all alone and don't need the man to be around 24/7, if you are married to such a woman it will be fun but if you marry the type that needs her man around her all the time, can't take decisions on her own then wahala dey.
Just find a woman who understands and is able to cope.

Of course you will get married if you want to. Its not only the most beautiful girls that get married sometimes you see really ugly ladies with wicked body type get married to rich handsome guys. Marriage is definitely more than physical beauty.

Too Sexy has give you great tips and in addition I will say show off or draw attention to your personal body assets. If you have great boobs wear clothes that emphasize them, if you have a great bum then flaunt it, likewise beautiful eyes, graceful neck, lovely nose etc. Look at your features individually and pick out the best. Those should be flaunted while the not so great ones should be 'hidden'; like your legs with marks/spots is not for mini skirts or short gowns until you have done something to improve your skin.
Always dress well, be neat, have a fresh breath, work on getting your teeth white and sparkling; work on your carriage, your voice, cooking skills, manners, friendliness etc. So many things make up a woman, work on getting at least 60% right.
The most important is build your self confidence and be friendly and approachable. No one is too ugly to get a partner. Get self confidence, be friendly, be aware of your sexuality, love the woman you are, be neat etc and the right guy for you will come.
Let me know if you need more tips; one on one counselling can also be arranged online.
Be good and go get them. Ciao!

Nothing wrong with dating a fish seller if you have feelings for you, you can always polish her up as has been suggested.
And if you are not keen on starting a relationship with her simply tell her so. I also suggest you detach yourself from her and start buying your items yourself or change market. Once she gets to know your house, we will be discussing something else.
So if your eye no dey dia better let her be. We don't have to date every one who has been helpful and nice to us, we date people we are interested in. Don't enter a relationship because of gratitude.