Why not submit applications to as many banks as possible rather than place emphasis on just your previous employer.

I work as a freelancer and have been on this for some years now and I can emphatically says it's not for the faint hearted

In the meantime, try exploring many freelancing platforms like Guru Fiverrr Up work etc

MissGodOwn:
From ur write-up up there, it seems u want a faithful woman that u can cheat on (what an inconsiderate man u are) because u pay the bills, well sorry to announce to u that u can't eat ur cake n have it, n Incase u don't know most ladies now work n support their husbands in paying bills.
I keep on saying this, u are who u attract, since u are a cheat, get ready to marry a cheat even worse than urself (unless u are planning not to get married), even the Bible said that u reap what you sow n treat others the way u want to be treated.
Healthserve, blu03, Funmynasticqueen ,and co what do u think about this matter?

You've said it all. People expect treatment they can't give to others

Mrkellz:


I sourced from the open market. I've done that twice and they did good. I think feeding is what matters most. I once saw a friends plamt producing up to 15 at once with about 5 ripe fruits but that waw a virgin land. I'll upload pics tomorrow. I thought i snapped it but it was the cayenne i snapped.

Really. I'm going to learn from you cause I think local pepper and tomato cultivation has always been a fantasy of mine

Mrkellz:
So far I've not been able to get an accurate test cuz of being stretched too far. But i did a few and transplanted at 2months, didnt care much for the seedlings but after transplanting im seeing production at 5 weeks, flowering was less than 2 weeks ago.
Pics to follow

Nice. Sorry how did you source your pepper seeds?

Blu03:
i'm great dear. You?

Cool. Imagining you dancing on hills to " Eminem "

Blu03:
i was just shaking that sacred table. Mgtow is alright, if practiced moderately. I dislike fanatics...
Your opinion is cool.

Shawty what's up. Where have you been at? How's your heart now

Peeress:


You are like rainbow, a man with seven colours. One minute you are with the MGTOW members, the next minute you act like you are not with them. Are you a MGTOW member or not?

Tongue stuck out with eyes closed. Try figuring it out I thumbed up the writing skills, you're speaking jibberish. You humans can't be pleased sha

Issorite. The unholy private romance between Iran and China is rearing its ugly head up

franchasng:
Abeg, I don separate, I de shop for second wife (below 22yrs, must have a protruding buttocks + averagely firm boobs + flat tummy + full straight legs, her face no matter, her complexion no matter, she doesn't need to have any brains because her brains is useless, in case you have qualified candidates )


nna I just de, work load wanted to off me, but we pass them lol....but I am partially back...oya tell me my lies oh abeg

That lies ekwa. Make i no do am publicly.Glad to see you back on here. Dey type wetin your wife go fit stomach the dey she discovers your online identity o. I dey remind you again

urchcoded:
u are 40 or a bit less than 40 man u should get married, age is no longer on her side too hence it's normal for her to put pressure on u to marry her, if u don't want to marry her why not break up with her, she's asking u to break up cos u have to be the one dat will do it. I'm just 23 but u seem rather irresponsible. Now I don't care if she slept with ur friend, u have the choice of ending the relationship. For u to be 40 or a bit less and not feeling an urgent urge to get married even tho u are financially comfortable shows that u really are a womanizer sir.

You don't have the details. Quit being judgemental. He's been thru enough already. Let it slide

What a brilliant article. I love the wya you developed the synopsis from the beginning till somewhere in the middle. Nice work. Beautiful writing skill

franchasng:
wow! Just wow! I keep saying it that Nairaland is not as anonymous as one thinks oh, okokobioko.....bia snake man lalasticlala, don't move any of my thread to front page oh.....na play I de play oh





My brother I can feel your pain oh.

The way she painted you evil eh, I was also shocked that a man of 40yrs is still playing around, but my brother listen, if all is well with you financially, the best thing to do is to get your desired lady and stop seeing this lady completely.....there is no time again left for you.....you need to settle down and start your own family.


Now I can see that I shouldn't be taking Nairaland ladies serious again with their outcry of how men use and dumped them, na wa o

Kikiki Nnwanne. Where have you been.? How my sister there. Cum to think of it o Franchas e get one lie wey you lie o

FranchasNg cum and see

Nice one.

ProfDview1:
LilMissFavvy mjbolt placeofallure chinchonglee
sexylassie2 ineedtoheal hopeforcharles

Why wud she beg me to end it with her, can't she End it herself...

She has her own mind, I av never forced her to love me... Never and I wud never do that

GraGra247 sisisioge elitedude pocohantas crackkhaus @healthserve I am not a bad person as she painted me.

I saw your mention. What's up .


If any of my comments contradicts your reality i take responsibility for it and own my actions.


I hope you've automatically terminated your tango and you both won't reconcile. As much as i depicted you as a bad person and absolved her of any wrong doing, i still have a few ish about you bro that ticks me off. This is it, why are you with a woman of marriageable amd you don't have a defined context for your involvement together. What's worse, it stretches into years


Don't go for ineedtoheal. She's melodramatic but use the opportunity to work on your downsides. I'm 50% sire that while she's dramatic you have issues that needs to be addressed an its better to work on what edifies than what's unprofitable

By allowing a lady of marriate age be with you without clear terms on what you're doing you opened the door for this. Why would you tolerate a lady chatting men up with you?



One of the advantages of getting older is that, we all become smarter knowing what we want from the get go. In this case your involvement with her hibgers around the same word i ised in dissing you on her thread which i like to hupothesize as a big problek for you. Indecision



Allow me make you a tick list of what you should watch about yourself and fix


1. Indecision


2. Being involved in drama that has no profit


3. Procastination


4. Bad company ( friends and associates )


5. Lack of time/purpose consciousness




Where indecision is found, the above issues flocks alongside with it. So forget the issue about being a victim here and start fizong yoursepf up bro. You need it.

Clown. Looks like a perfect photo misfit

It isn't today bat became renowned for transmitting lal sorta plagues to humans yet people won't stop eating bats. Smh vigorously

Youngzedd:
When two of una dey enter Keke, she no send you. Now you don buy car, she gave out her number.

First of all, you broke the rule.

No Green Lights, No Approach >> https://www.nairaland.com/5520169/ubunjas-miseducation-no-green-lights

Even if you broke the rule, she should be the one into you, you should be the one not taking her calls not otherwise.



Keep simping.

. that's my fear . She controls the vertical nd horizontals of this arrangement( i choose not to say relationship ) The first rule of the game is never accept anyone who doesn't subscribe to one when one is down. His acceptance along sends her signals. His being the one making the calls and she declining sends signals


I'm sorry I'm somewhat skeptical about this arrangement. Its a 50-50. If the Op were my brother, I'd counsel him to let her go. It doesn't seem to be a balanced arrangement. And rhe Chick will use girl power to control him down the line.


I also recommend he eeds ubunjas miseducations. His posts screams lack of tact amd a " player with no game ". Op should focus on developing homself for relationships not being in one. He needs to read harddon and ubunja teachings. And start from the basics.

ubunja:
lmfao.

But it's the truth. It goes back to being chosen. If a girl chose you, she'll tolerate the worst from you and still justify your behaviour. Emotions can really cloud judgement.

Preach

In the Fashion Sector...

CokeBar:
healthserve, lol! you're following my other moniker

Tell me.

Damn it.

GhostGhost:
Feel like maybe she thinks I'm on some revenge fvck or something which is ridiculous, I can't afford to bear grudges over pussyy or initial declination.

Your mind. Control your thoughts. All this you're pouring out here. Can you test the reqsons behind your own imaginations to validate or invalidate them? Has she given you attitude that warrants such imaginations?


I think you should log out and go have what we call a nakee conversation with her. You seem like you both need to have a one on one face to face talk so you can both be on the same pgae about what you both have. This alone will deal with insecurities and plenty assumptions you have at the moment. Until you've both have this talk, don't trust all these imaginations polluting your mind

GhostGhost:
she's a lot more excited whenever we meet in person bro. Before we went on a date she was a little bit like this and when we saw I was surprised how excited she was...

Then go ahead. Stop seeing problems where they are none. Be careful in relationships lots of imaginations come to break it. Be disciplined to wait to hear from her before you reach conclusions. And when you hear from her, don't be in a hurry to mistrust her.

GhostGhost:
Bro not like I was waiting...I had girls around and stuff and still got girls around but want to lay off the game. Who the Bleep sits around waiting on a girl and shitt. Matter of fact I was in a serious relationship with my main chick then bro. Thanks for the advice tho.

You're too excited and its scarry. Does she reciprocate your excitement equally? Is she as excited as you are about her?

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