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You would need to file for divorce. Call me let's talk

royalamour:
Met in 2014 November.
Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.

She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.

She would apologize at any slight opportunity.

It was all rosy.

The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.

They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".

We got married almost a year later.

The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.

She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.

That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.

I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.

I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.

She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.

2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.

I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.

She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.

I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf.
I let it slide.

Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.

Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.

She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.

Time past and my life became almost miserable.

I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.

Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.

It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.

My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys.
I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.

This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office.
I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.

I can't take it anymore.

I don't wanna die before my time.

I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.

What's the express way to divorce without complications?

NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP.

Sha let them not scream for a snack bar and scuba dive into buildings and people

You just agreed with me. Read your reply again

xtivin2:
What are you saying?..Then why is a woman still travailing in birth?, all the consequences of Adams sin we still bear even after Christ has set us free. This earth has its own law, break any of it and face the consequence. As a man, if you sleep around you can contact HIV, even if you are forgiven you will face the consequence afterwards on earth. Only God's grace can wipe away any consequence, and it differs per individual.

Not true. Whosoever is forgiven is free and whosoever has been set free is free indeed.John 8:34-36 New King James Version (NKJV)

34 Jesus answered them, “Most assuredly, I say to you, whoever commits sin is a slave of sin. 35 And a slave does not abide in the house forever, but a son abides forever. 36 Therefore if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed.

xtivin2:
God can forgive and forget sins, however man has to face the consequences thereof, that's why obedience is better than sacrifice. All the laws of God are for our benefit

Ask daddy freeze since he seems to know it all. We the "sheeples" are queuing to pay our first fruits, tithes, offerings, welfare and other material, spiritual and physical acts of gratitude to God and our pastors are too occupied with our demands. But Freezer, cooler or whatever his name is has all of your time. Shalom

Hebrews 8:12 - "For I will be merciful toward their iniquities, and I will remember their sins no more.”

Colossians 3:13 - "Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive"

Isaiah 43:25 - “I, I am he who blots out your transgressions for my own sake, and I will not remember your sins"

Hebrews 10:17 - "Then he adds, “I will remember their sins and their lawless deeds no more.”

Jeremiah 31:34 - "And no longer shall each one teach his neighbor and each his brother, saying, ‘Know the Lord,’ for they shall all know me, from the least of them to the greatest, declares the Lord. For I will forgive their iniquity, and I will remember their sin no more.”

Psalms 32:1-2 -"Blessed is the one whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. Blessed is the man against whom the Lord counts no iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit"

Romans 8:1 - "There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus"

We serve a complete God. JEHOVAH is HIS name

Who took this one's snackbar?


Headslamming is a scam, yo. It resets the brain anyhow

O boy for dis tear rubber, new year you don finish 5 wraps of kwale igbo? Wonderful

I lived in KT. Please, where in KT is fine? Is it Koffa Durbi or Ajiwa or Jibiya or Funtua or Bayan Gabi or Nagogo? Nigga chill. This isn't up for a debate.quote author=yrex01 post=74335729] there z no igbo land, city or settlement that is more beautiful than katsina I swear down. Just SDF already[/quote]

Immediately.

Fakeme:
I know that they will give me, but what I am not sure is the time frame

Find a law firm. They'll get you a Notary Public

Fakeme:
Plz friends I, how do I get a letter notarized before 8.30pm on Wednesday.
I am currently in Abuja and any help or suggestions is highly welcomed.

Baba come home...Buhari is a joke and a clown. He has turned Nigeria to a circus

Cross River, not Rivers, you móron!

olayinks007:
Nt surprise, even b4 reading d content of the news i knew is 4rm the Headquarter of Cultism. (RIVERS)

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Favy93:
please am in need of a job in Portharcourt.I am a graduate of geophysics and also have two certification in scaffolding and industrial rigging..will appreciate any help.thanks

Is it still available?

greggng:
Chai I wish na baby boy..,where is yiur location?

I get house for Iyana Oworo. Call me

Seun031:
Oga We Dey d same cacus oo. Na dah kin amount Dey mind hand too, and I Dey find house, mi I no just mind any area wey sha close to CMS small. Abeg if you don see. U fit halla me on 08029536022

Send photos to 08034753554

Katsina is a desert...a desolate place....a waste land where hypocrisy and filth go hand-in-hand. They produce few agro products and seldom have any tangible industries. Matter of fact, Katsina is at the ends of Nigeria's world. Yet, 3 times have we been ruled by them...pity

Why are APC members obsessed with coffins? From coffins of PDP & GEJ to Amnesty? Backward morôns

Call me

TheRealestGuy:
Any dealer on here who has a Tokunbo of the subject ride should quote me with pictures and price of their car.

Car must be custom duty paid and mileage acceptable.

Preferred colours are black or grey...

Serious buyer here.


Thanks in advance.

Call me

Control7:
Compliment of the season.

I am in need of a clean Naija used 2009/2010 Toyota Camry Sport preferably V6

My Budget is between 1.5m - 1.7m.


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I wouldn't mind any recommendation from you guys. I am not here to buy a lemon (though Naija used).

Thanks

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The East, which was one of a tripartite structure, was made up of all the present day south Eastern states and the South Southern states excluding parts of Delta and Edo. It was a region in a federation. The Igbos must abide by "unity laws" and so to show representation, like Federal Character, every other non-Igbo tribe must have representatives in government...when Adaka Boro began the first agitation for secession it was seriously refuted by Igbos because it was against them largely. Having portfolio appointment is different from being elected the head of a regional government and not merely a second fiddle. If only history was taught in schools, OP won't write this. His/her opinion though

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With every step that I take
You are before and behind me
In every fear that I face
I'm constantly finding





You're my covering
I'm safe, I'm safe
Whatever comes at me
I'm safe, I'm safe

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Under Your wings
I'm under, I'm under Your wings
You got me
You cover me, You cover me
I'm under, I'm under Your wings
You got me under Your wings
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I'm safe, I'm safe
Whatever comes at me
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2 Corinthians 6:14 King James Version (KJV) - Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?


Look at what the company she kept has caused her. Her fugitive boyfriend would migrate elsewhere and perhaps has many other women like her in different places in the country and may someday repent and be born again. But she? It is too late. May her soul rest in peace

Let's talk on whatsapp

Ejadike:
pictures of both please

High maintenance but the parts are easily got since it is a luxury alternative made by Toyota still. It is durable and the fuel consumption is low. Has nice cruise control and is regarded as "a chairman" of cars for second tier luxury.

awele186:
what about the maintenance, parts and durability

Bros, car dealerships are part of my side hustle but whatever you say, you're right

Dovehorizon:
No second value, really? I would advice u check again.

It's a nice luxury car but has no second hand value

awele186:
How reliable and durable is a Lexus ES 350 2009 for a first car?

Kindly drop your number

singledude:
Hello People.

I have a 2001 Toyota Sienna which I would like to use for transportation from Lekki to Sangotedo/Awoyaya.Driver would be required to deliver no less than 40k weekly as it's a busy road and as I would be taking care of any future repairs.If you are a careful and experienced driver who like this opportunity then send a reply to this post with your phone number.I would prefer someone who lives within the Lekki,Ajah,Sangotedo area.

It's up to him now

gregpee:
pls, you could as well paste that here so it could also be beneficial to others viewing the topic

Call me or whatsapp me. I will copy and paste what I told someone on twitter

gregpee:
my fellow nairalander's I need your advice on this please.
I work with an organization which gives me enough time for side hustle. I currently have a laundry shop which I managed to support my work. but in this coming year, I wish to double my hustle as the laundry is not really enough. I have managed to secure a loan of 300k from our cooperative.
I initially have the intention of opening a bet shop but leant from a friend that 300k won't be enough for me.
please I need your advice on what business can one do that would be bringing little more income in this coming year.
thanks as I await your response.
more money to us all in 2019